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Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped In Lagos By A Fat Elderly Man With A Pot Belly by Kobojunkie: 7:53pm On Nov 02, 2021
SportsHD:
Are you living in this country at all?

Really, police? Dna? Track him down?
Really? The police is the most useless organization in Nigeria. They'll even blame her for getting raped, collect money for statement and use the money to drink beer while laughing at her woes!
Yes. Track him down. Na because men never experience rape abi wetin? undecided

Citizens can rally around to create such a database and tracking system, open source it even, and them lobby to have installed and used in all 36 states of Nigeria. With population of 200 billion and growing, don't you think is over due? undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped In Lagos By A Fat Elderly Man With A Pot Belly by Kobojunkie: 8:12pm On Nov 02, 2021
MrMacinterchi1:
Dna? Nigerian police? in Nigeria? Lolgrin Guy you funny I swear.
You don de watch too much filmSha
What stops citizens from gathering around to create such a database and then rally to have it installed and used in all 36 states of Nigeria? undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped In Lagos By A Fat Elderly Man With A Pot Belly by Kobojunkie: 8:12pm On Nov 02, 2021
Jaqenhghar:
DNA for rapist in Niggeria?
You must be based abroad
There is the latest DNA kits to identify cheating spouses in Niggeria but none to find criminals
What stops citizens from gathering around to create such a database and then rally to have it installed and used in all 36 states of Nigeria?
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped In Lagos By A Fat Elderly Man With A Pot Belly by Kobojunkie: 8:13pm On Nov 02, 2021
stayclearofme:
Lol... DNA for Naija? I am sure you are living in Oyibo land.
What stops citizens from gathering around to create such a database and then rally to have it installed and used in all 36 states of Nigeria? undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped In Lagos By A Fat Elderly Man With A Pot Belly by Kobojunkie: 8:13pm On Nov 02, 2021
schoolboymatt:
Take DNA and match it from which database?

Abeg explain how this is done. grin
What stops citizens from gathering around to create such a database and then rally to have it installed and used in all 36 states of Nigeria? undecided

This could be an open-source project for Nigerian youths and needs even. undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped In Lagos By A Fat Elderly Man With A Pot Belly by Kobojunkie: 8:14pm On Nov 02, 2021
Mikeeytools:
DNA for Nigeria. Bros please which Nigeria you dey? This one or the other one?
What stops citizens from gathering around to create such a database and then rally to have it installed and used in all 36 states of Nigeria? undecided

This could be an open-source project for Nigerian youths and needs even. undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped In Lagos By A Fat Elderly Man With A Pot Belly by Kobojunkie: 8:16pm On Nov 02, 2021
budaatum:
I bet she did not go to report to police so they can take dna to track this rapist down!

Kobojunkie, I'm loving you more each day, please note.
What stops citizens from gathering around to create such a database and then rally to have it installed and used in all 36 states of Nigeria? undecided

This could be an open-source project for Nigerian youths and needs even. undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped In Lagos By A Fat Elderly Man With A Pot Belly by kkins25(m): 8:18pm On Nov 02, 2021
Kobojunkie:
What stops citizens from gathering around to create such a database and then rally to have it installed and used in all 36 states of Nigeria? undecided
The people already gathered, they formed governments. Those 'Governments' present a yearly budget for the afore mentioned.

I hope you remember, that jonathan, Saunisi lamido, ngozi ikweala were people of high social status who spoke out about some of the mishaps that took place in the country look what happened to them. what do you expect i, a commoner to do? i cant even hold a placard and march the streets safely.
comon!
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped In Lagos By A Fat Elderly Man With A Pot Belly by kkins25(m): 8:21pm On Nov 02, 2021
Kobojunkie:
What stops citizens from gathering around to create such a database and then rally to have it installed and used in all 36 states of Nigeria? undecided

This could be an open-source project for Nigerian youths and needs even. undecided
First we need to know the average income of a commoner and weigh it against the cost of managing Such data.
bio informatics is no child's play.
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped In Lagos By A Fat Elderly Man With A Pot Belly by Kobojunkie: 8:25pm On Nov 02, 2021
kkins25:
First we need to know the average income of a commoner and weigh it against the cost of managing Such data.
bio informatics is no child's play.
So in essence you are trying to suggest it may not be worth implementing in Nigeria at all? undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped In Lagos By A Fat Elderly Man With A Pot Belly by Kobojunkie: 8:25pm On Nov 02, 2021
kkins25:
The people already gathered, they formed governments. Those 'Governments' present a yearly budget for the afore mentioned.

I hope you remember, that jonathan, Saunisi lamido, ngozi ikweala were people of high social status who spoke out about some of the mishaps that took place in the country look what happened to them. what do you expect i, a commoner to do? i cant even hold a placard and march the streets safely.
comon!
What in the world are you talking about? undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped In Lagos By A Fat Elderly Man With A Pot Belly by kkins25(m): 8:32pm On Nov 02, 2021
Kobojunkie:
So in essence you are trying to suggest it may not be worth implementing in Nigeria at all? undecided
myself, i am fascinated with the idea.. i am a biology graduate for fvcks sake.
i Intended to venture into bio informatics because anything genomes tickles my mind almost as much as pornography grin.

But without funds, millions- considering the size of the populace then Billions of funds and in dollars is needed for this particular venture.

but like i said, the demographics and state of the economy make it almost impossible.
The west has the most literate folks, i guess it should start from there.

Would a criminal volunteer to submit his/her DNA?
even the FBI and CIA dont have data on all citizens(and non citizens). Our foundation was built on sand, unfortunately.
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped In Lagos By A Fat Elderly Man With A Pot Belly by Jaqenhghar: 8:35pm On Nov 02, 2021
Kobojunkie:
What stops citizens from gathering around to create such a database and then rally to have it installed and used in all 36 states of Nigeria?
Good question. Maybe the citizens dont consider rape to be serious enough to advocate for such.
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped In Lagos By A Fat Elderly Man With A Pot Belly by kkins25(m): 8:37pm On Nov 02, 2021
Kobojunkie:
What in the world are you talking about? undecided
i first have to demand for account from the gov., but i also fair my bank account may be frozen or worse- my home boggled and i, and family murdered.
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped In Lagos By A Fat Elderly Man With A Pot Belly by Kobojunkie: 8:37pm On Nov 02, 2021
kkins25:
myself, i am fascinated with the idea.. i am a biology graduate for fvcks sake.
i Intended to venture into bio informatics because anything genomes tickles my mind almost as much as pornography grin.

But without funds, millions- considering the size of the populace then Billions of funds and in dollars is needed for this particular venture.

but like i said, the demographics and state of the economy make it almost impossible.
The west has the most literate folks, i guess it should start from there.

Would a criminal volunteer to submit his/her DNA?
even the FBI and CIA dont have data on all citizens(and non citizens). Our foundation was built on sand, unfortunately.
There are already some available open source databases freely available for use.
https://blog.genomelink.io/posts/open-source-dna-databases

Reread my suggestion again to understand how you are still not on the same page as I am. undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped In Lagos By A Fat Elderly Man With A Pot Belly by Kobojunkie: 8:39pm On Nov 02, 2021
Jaqenhghar:
Good question. Maybe the citizens dont consider rape to be serious enough to advocate for such.
Another excuse ... what stops you from gathering people to work on such a project ? undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped In Lagos By A Fat Elderly Man With A Pot Belly by Kobojunkie: 8:39pm On Nov 02, 2021
kkins25:
i first have to demand for account from the gov., but i also fair my bank account may be frozen or worse- my home boggled and i, and family murdered.
Huh? What are you talking about? undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped In Lagos By A Fat Elderly Man With A Pot Belly by Mikeeytools: 8:40pm On Nov 02, 2021
Kobojunkie:
What stops citizens from gathering around to create such a database and then rally to have it installed and used in all 36 states of Nigeria? undecided

This could be an open-source project for Nigerian youths and needs even. undecided
try it and wacth the police shooting of youths.
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped In Lagos By A Fat Elderly Man With A Pot Belly by Kobojunkie: 8:42pm On Nov 02, 2021
Mikeeytools:
try it and wacth the police shooting of youths.
This response of yours does not make sense of any kind to this. undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped In Lagos By A Fat Elderly Man With A Pot Belly by Mikeeytools: 8:44pm On Nov 02, 2021
Kobojunkie:
This response of yours does not make sense of any kind to this. undecided
lol . This is Nigeriankistan. Things like that don't work.bhkw far NIN guy be realistic and stop dreaming. Have they successfully carried out free and fair elections?
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped In Lagos By A Fat Elderly Man With A Pot Belly by Kobojunkie: 8:45pm On Nov 02, 2021
Mikeeytools:
lol . This is Nigeriankistan. Things like that don't work.bhkw far NIN guy be realistic and stop dreaming. Have they successfully carried out free and fair elections?
So you won't try it at all, and you will quickly condemn those who attempt it because to you, Nigeria is better off the way it is today? undecided

So because Nigeria has yet to, this in your mind , successfully carry out free and fair elections, Nigerians shouldn't try anything else? undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped In Lagos By A Fat Elderly Man With A Pot Belly by Mikeeytools: 8:47pm On Nov 02, 2021
Kobojunkie:
So you won't try it at all, and you will quickly condemn those who attempt it because to you, Nigeria is better off the way it is today? undecided

So because Nigeria has yet to, this in your mind , successfully carry out free and fair elections, Nigerians shouldn't try anything else? undecided
lol bro there is a reason why we use this phrase so help me God.
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped In Lagos By A Fat Elderly Man With A Pot Belly by Kobojunkie: 8:49pm On Nov 02, 2021
Mikeeytools:
lol bro there is a reason why we use this phrase so help me God.
I don't use that phrase at all because I don't need to. So back to this.... undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped In Lagos By A Fat Elderly Man With A Pot Belly by Mikeeytools: 8:50pm On Nov 02, 2021
Kobojunkie:
I don't use that phrase at all because I don't need to. So back to this.... undecided
you should oh bro it's your national pledge.
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped In Lagos By A Fat Elderly Man With A Pot Belly by Kobojunkie: 8:51pm On Nov 02, 2021
Mikeeytools:
you should oh bro it's your national pledge.
Stop deviating from the issue here.. undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped In Lagos By A Fat Elderly Man With A Pot Belly by budaatum: 8:52pm On Nov 02, 2021
Kobojunkie:
What stops citizens from gathering around to create such a database and then rally to have it installed and used in all 36 states of Nigeria? undecided

This could be an open-source project for Nigerian youths and needs even. undecided
Or demand that the police do their job. But see as so many take rape as some sort of norm they have to live with.
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped In Lagos By A Fat Elderly Man With A Pot Belly by Jaqenhghar: 8:54pm On Nov 02, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Another excuse ... what stops you from gathering people to work on such a project ? undecided
Excuse you say? I am telling you that the people dont care about such. What do you wabt me to do? Put a gun to their head?
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped In Lagos By A Fat Elderly Man With A Pot Belly by Kobojunkie: 8:56pm On Nov 02, 2021
Jaqenhghar:
Excuse you say? I am telling you that the people dont care about such. What do you wabt me to do? Put a gun to their head?
The people is made of individuals such as yourself. You are quick to condemn others but what about you . undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped In Lagos By A Fat Elderly Man With A Pot Belly by Mikeeytools: 8:56pm On Nov 02, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Stop deviating from the issue here.. undecided
men no issues. You should start thinking of how to stop all this old polithifcians circulating thierself. And leave DNA. They have not finished registration SIM cards even BVN is still not visible. Bro relax leave naija matter.
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped In Lagos By A Fat Elderly Man With A Pot Belly by iamme1234(m): 9:33pm On Nov 02, 2021
Mystoree:
So I had some issues with my girlfriend and we were kind of not talking for 2 weeks, during that time, a lot happened in her life.

We settled and while we were telling each other about what happened during our time apart, she began to cry and opened up to me that she was raped. I will ordinarily not believe that lie if she was a virgin but she wasn't, I met her as one and I was her first, so there will be no point in her even revealing it to me if she wasn't as it was a one time thing and I will hardly notice. At that point, i felt like my world just stopped for some seconds, o felt dizzy and found somewhere to sit trying to process what I just heard. Funny thing was that on the night of that incident, I was feeling weird about her and called her to find out how she was, it was around 9:30 pm and she was a student of a higher institution on the mainland while I stay on the island. After I called her, she picked up and told me she was going to call me back as she was trying to get a bike to take her to where she was going to, and immediately she ended the call, a man put a knife behind her and threatened to kill her if she doesn't give him what he wants, she offered her phone and all but this man was just after sex, according to her, the area was quiet and there was almost nobody on the streets, he pulled her to a shop corner and forced his way. I was devastated and confused, this is the only lady I have ever seen myself marrying amongst all the ladies I have met, she checks all the boxes, she said it didn't last up to 5 minutes and she cried all through but the man didn't care. He was a fat elderly man with a pot belly, wearing a nose mask in the night so she could not even see his face.

I was so angry at her because first of all, I warned her several times not to move in the night in that area as it is very dangerous, we were once robbed on the same street around 8pm, so I wonder what went into her mind moving by almost 10pm. She said she was on night shift where she works and then her friend called her to join them for a party, so she took permission and wanted leaving and that was when it happened. Now the thing is, those friends of hers are very bad influence on her and I told her a long time ago, she said she doesn't follow them but just hangs around with them in school, little did I know that she went to the bar alongside them and their boyfriends a number of time without my knowledge. She showed me pictures of their outings and a stab on the hand from the rapist. I'm so angry, she has been crying and begging, I asked her to stop the job and she agreed,i have thought of getting a girl and some guys to disguise and go to the same area late night to see if the devil will push the bastard to try his lick again cos I swear, I will make sure I put a stick through his anus through to his mouth,revenge is all that is on my mind cos I love this girl so much


I have read rape stories but I never thought it would come so close to me, I have been put in countless situations where a girl changes her mind on letting me into her and I respected that, I wonder why this would happen to me, I don't know what to do, any advice is welcome.

Modified - for those claiming she lied, she came along with the doctors report and tests receipt.
See you
You want to revenge on a girl that with honesty and certainty she can leave you tomorrow.
Guy even if you buy gwagon for this ladies
I tell you they will still cheat and teach you a lesson.
You better be wise in this buhari regime or end up been among those oyo Inmates
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped In Lagos By A Fat Elderly Man With A Pot Belly by MrMacinterchi1: 10:10pm On Nov 02, 2021
Kobojunkie:
What stops citizens from gathering around to create such a database and then rally to have it installed and used in all 36 states of Nigeria? undecided
all the numerous thumbprint database Nigeria government and her numerous agencies have been creating and using , what has the security agency used it for?

You are a citizen, right? maybe you should know why it has not been done.
Let's be realistic now.
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped In Lagos By A Fat Elderly Man With A Pot Belly by Kobojunkie: 10:12pm On Nov 02, 2021
MrMacinterchi1:
all the numerous thumbprint database Nigeria government and her numerous agencies have been creating and using , what has the security agency used it for?

You are a citizen, right? maybe you should know why it has not been done.
Let's be realistic now.
I am not a citizen but I know the fingerprint databases are still being used during elections or are they not? Fingerprints and DNA are two different form of identification through. So why are not against the adding of DNA tracking now? undecided
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