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Re: My Husband Thinks I'm A Liar. by Anuoluwa12345(f): 10:37am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Is this how you run your home??, Wow... If you are a married woman, or about to marry..for instance, and this is coming from you, then I fear for the man. Born2Breed: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Thinks I'm A Liar. by vickydevoka(m): 10:40am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Saintmary:What does de husband do first. I stayed with my sis den. De husband wasn't rich de don't even spend upto 4k a week then as at 2016. Bcus de have other bills to pay wic is important. Now I stay with my brother, he spends more than 50k a week bcus he is rich. Now my sister have to start working as 9ja don hard. Now she's very comfortable. The woman should try to make her money, if she's doesn't have hand work na problem sha 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Thinks I'm A Liar. by sharone21(f): 10:41am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Nanavati:. God BLESSyou richly for this for having a merciful heart. I'm indeed short of words. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Thinks I'm A Liar. by Anuoluwa12345(f): 10:41am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Haa, that amount is too small provided the information you gave, just talk to him... Golferty: |
Re: My Husband Thinks I'm A Liar. by vickydevoka(m): 10:42am On Nov 03, 2021 |
zeuss:Exactly. Some people no just wise |
Re: My Husband Thinks I'm A Liar. by Klass99(f): 10:42am On Nov 03, 2021 |
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Re: My Husband Thinks I'm A Liar. by Saintmary(f): 10:42am On Nov 03, 2021 |
vickydevoka: She said she lost her job. |
Re: My Husband Thinks I'm A Liar. by vyke2008: 10:44am On Nov 03, 2021 |
The gist from her is incomplete. Did she tell us how much he earns? Is he jobless? Let's get the facts complete b4 apportioning blames! Yes, 4k/week is small but not too small... Woman, you know your husband more than all of us here on n'land... If u feel he has more than he's giving, then find a better way to reason with him! It's your home! You can do better! I come in peace!!! Jeon: |
Re: My Husband Thinks I'm A Liar. by vickydevoka(m): 10:44am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Mariangeles:What if de husband choose to be a househusband. Who go feed de children. N please don't quote bible for me, na person rite am. I av see in America a lady pay a man for taking care of their kids while she go to work n de are separated. Court ordered her to pay him. In Nigeria is not possible 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Thinks I'm A Liar. by awa(m): 10:46am On Nov 03, 2021 |
@OP, Honestly I can understand how you feel about the 4k. Things are not getting any better... Please talk with your husband to increase the 4k a bit so that you can support with the little you may have. God will perfect everything concerning you people. It's not easy |
Re: My Husband Thinks I'm A Liar. by Nobody: 10:46am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: That is it o. she is the one who knows the situation on the ground. |
Re: My Husband Thinks I'm A Liar. by bayonekind(m): 10:48am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Golferty: U can help him add up to it ... that is marriage all about .. joint responsibility .... 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Thinks I'm A Liar. by chrisxxx(m): 10:48am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Artworld1577:Did you read the serious topic being discussed? We are talking about necessity and you are talking about luxury. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Thinks I'm A Liar. by Anuoluwa12345(f): 10:48am On Nov 03, 2021 |
True menix: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Thinks I'm A Liar. by Nobody: 10:48am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Saintmary:Best suggestion on this case.. |
Re: My Husband Thinks I'm A Liar. by vickydevoka(m): 10:49am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Golferty:What if your husband had lost his job. What will happen ? Imagine u having ur own job , would u have giving him a Kobo? Na wen husband n wife no de work na dat time u go know say 10k de do 1 month. Lol. That's y I de use Igbo man pattern. Make money well well, go village go marry, give ur wife one of ur shop to manage simple. Dats y u see Igbo men with shops hardly divorce. Fine boy n big English no de keep marriage na money n tolerance 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Thinks I'm A Liar. by Nobody: 10:51am On Nov 03, 2021 |
bigdot1759:Just like that, he has become Useless. Chaaaiiiiiiii I may leave Nairaland soon. |
Re: My Husband Thinks I'm A Liar. by Sukkyy2010: 10:52am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Golferty:Madam the truth is bitter go find work and do, you're rearing 3kids and you don't have any income avenue to support your helpless husband. Obviously 4k will not suffices for you and the kids for such designated duration but if you're also contributing in bringing something to the table the matter wouldn't have become a matter you'll come here to seek advise on. Get up on your fit and start doing something The energy you use to sit the whole day watching African magic I beesech you channel the energy towards a job or small scale buz I'm very sure your children will thank you. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Thinks I'm A Liar. by vickydevoka(m): 10:54am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Saintmary:O.k. I will advise her that if she gets another one she should try n be obedient. Most married women hardly stay in a job for a long time due to insubordination. Most women have This character issue especially wen dere boss is a stubborn one |
Re: My Husband Thinks I'm A Liar. by brave20: 10:55am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Please admin don't block my account. This account is an account I created just to air my utmost truth on this topic. I only have one nl acct before now You see in this present day economy that money won't do anything but can be managed if there is foodstuff at home. In my own situation. My hubby gives me 90000 in a month. N we are five that makes it 3000 per day n it covers for both foodstuff, gas/kero, detergent, diaper, local to n so on I try to manage this money n makes sure that we eat what this money can afford. My hubby will keep complaining about especially d meat. I try to eat without most times so that I can satisfy his likeness for animal still complain will not end. He says he has given me more than enough n so I need to prepare quality meals n that I am not grateful when I complain God knows I don't use that 90k for myself. What do u men want us women to do? I told him let us change d pattern to me giving him the list everyday after we have got foodstuff, he would not reason with me. I am suffocating n depressed because of this. I am working n earning 70k+. But I am one of the few women that decided to join hands with her hubby to manage our earnings. Did I do anything wrong to be faced with this kind of torture He gives me 10k for my upkeep monthly. At d end of d day I use d 10k for homekeep n not upkeep. My hubby earns same amount with me n also has a business that fetches him approximately 1m monthly. What I am trying to say is this. You men shld be trying Biko to make ur wives not think n start having bp. Look at this woman now 4k a week. In this country. How much is a cup of rice? This is so unfair 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Thinks I'm A Liar. by vickydevoka(m): 10:58am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:U get sense. Na wen de husband die na sh go know say 4k na plenty money. |
Re: My Husband Thinks I'm A Liar. by advanceDNA: 10:58am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Golferty: While 4K is not enough for 1 week, ho much does your husband earn?? If his salary is very small, giving you more might be challenging for him.... |
Re: My Husband Thinks I'm A Liar. by authority2006(m): 11:03am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Golferty: This is nothing but wickedness! Even with the exclusion of foodstuff cost, I spend more than half of 7k on kids and wife daily. advanceDNA: Then, we have to consider the issue from this angle too. Thanks |
Re: My Husband Thinks I'm A Liar. by Pataricatering(f): 11:09am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:the way you phrased the question was offensive . 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Thinks I'm A Liar. by nahzyla: 11:17am On Nov 03, 2021 |
OP the only solution is to sit your husband down and draw time table of what you guys need at home and then let him go by himself to the market to buy one week worth of food with just 4000 naira. He will never understand that times are hard since you are the one doing the shopping. Let him go to market himself so that he will understand 4k for family of four in one week? What kind of irrational thinking is that? Me that is spending 10k weekly for my own family of four na serious management I take day do am. I stopped eating meat and plantain with the others at home, I eat twice a day now, I make my hair by myself and I am even considering barbing it sef. |
Re: My Husband Thinks I'm A Liar. by 007lss: 11:21am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Golferty:try always to be adding 2k to it by yourself every week 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Thinks I'm A Liar. by iluvdonjazzy: 11:24am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Saintmary:first of all, how much is the salary of the man? |
Re: My Husband Thinks I'm A Liar. by bonnyhope: 11:30am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Golferty: My woman need to hear this I give 5k for a week but still complain All foodstuff in the house Only 2 of us Just buy tomato/ fish or meat |
Re: My Husband Thinks I'm A Liar. by Nobody: 11:31am On Nov 03, 2021 |
I have never seen how your issues can be addressed morally and sensibly on social media. If you get a thousand point of views my statistics says (as a result of moral decadence as we have it) that 850 are victims of one abuse or the other. My point is: sort yourself out. Don't sell yourself and your family cheap to the public. Find a way round your situation sis 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Thinks I'm A Liar. by chronique(m): 11:31am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Golferty: Do you want to eat air? |
Re: My Husband Thinks I'm A Liar. by vickydevoka(m): 11:32am On Nov 03, 2021 |
MALIGNANTGuest:Buhari no get multiplication for en agenda |
Re: My Husband Thinks I'm A Liar. by vickydevoka(m): 11:37am On Nov 03, 2021 |
FuckAllTheMODs:When I say person way no get money no suppose marry Dem go say I be winch. Na woman go ginger u make u marry na same woman go tell de world say u useless n lazy. Chai. Marry beg me tire say make i marry her I no gree despite she's too beautiful. When money finish now I go hear am. I need woman way get money too irrespective on her looks. If pikin too worwor we go use our money do am Plastic surgery if na boy we born him go manage en look like dat go make money |
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