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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Cognitivereason: 11:56am On Nov 07, 2021
I wish I could knock ur head through the internet undecided
Iyaebe:
Then stop going to Catholic church, its that simple

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by studentofTruth: 11:56am On Nov 07, 2021
KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.

Well, if you're a pussy, you do what she wants. But if you are the man, you lead.

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Bluntemperor: 11:57am On Nov 07, 2021
chiommy123:
I understand her sha. Some of us do not feel very comfortable in some churches

God bless you Sis!
Don't mind those above speewing anything because they are in their shops or bedroom,just demeaning the Church,which is to me an act of irresponsibility!
Faith is a serious matter in Christian homes and you are either a believer or not!
OP,you told us where her faith and believed is but you just refused to tell us where yours belong and that is a deliberate omission,please tell us,so we can add or leave you!
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by irumanle(m): 11:58am On Nov 07, 2021
I hate this kind mumu post. Someone is trying to lord over you and you are here asking for opinion. Get the Bleep out of here.

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Prevailing: 11:58am On Nov 07, 2021
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
So the jesus wey dey your catholic church dey different from the jesus wey dey her own church?

Leave her alone.....Make she dey over selective on her choice of husband materials because of their different churches.By the time when meno-stop go don dey knock on her door stylishly,dem no go tell her....By then,she no go even say No to any mallam Kabiru wey come from Kebbi state undecided

The lady is right as pa the of her spirituality.

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Slavishbenin: 11:59am On Nov 07, 2021
KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.
Don't marry her she will demand more, let her leave her own church

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by wunmi590(m): 11:59am On Nov 07, 2021
KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.

So woman wants to move you out from the faith you grew up with ba....

You better leave that woman and find somebody reasonable to marry, at the end of the day if anything happen to you, she would leave you for another person...

I'm a catholic and I married a catholic for peace of mind

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Nobody: 12:00pm On Nov 07, 2021
2ndchildhood:
So as husband scarce reach, women still the give conditions?
imagine o!
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by femi4: 12:00pm On Nov 07, 2021
KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.
She is right, Catholic is not a Bible believing Church.

2. As a family, you should be attending same church to promote common purpose of unity

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by freshalien: 12:00pm On Nov 07, 2021
KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.

Be a man and stand your ground my friend. Don’t give into that senseless demand. Because if you give in to this one, get ready for more ultimatums. Tomorrow she would tell you to stop sending money to your parents or siblings else she would abandon you and the marriage.

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Pardubice: 12:00pm On Nov 07, 2021
KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.
Don't marry her. She is a manipulator and a church fanatic!!!

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Charx122: 12:01pm On Nov 07, 2021
KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.

Bro, she never ready, forgetting guyz scars when won settle down these days....Brother Move!! to the next available better pinkin.... make she go marry Israelite....Face Lagos my friend..

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 12:01pm On Nov 07, 2021
You have two options..marry and join her church or leave her and look for a Catholic girl to marry. If you are matured enough to me married, you won't be here asking for advice. What do you want to hear? You alrt told her she's free to attend her church after marriage and she said no. So you need the communication to gather and tell you what to do about it?

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by BananaPeel(m): 12:01pm On Nov 07, 2021
KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.
If you are a Catholic, marry a Catholic...
If you are a Baptist, marry a Baptist.... etc..
Two people can only walk together if they agree.
The reason for marrying someone of the same faith as yours is because you have the same beliefs.

You can love someone else of the same faith with you if she doesn't want to follow you to Catholic. It's hard for a Pentecostal reborn to go back to orthodox church (Catholic)

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by nokspos: 12:01pm On Nov 07, 2021
another angle !! grin
RoyalBoutique:
Religion; the bane of progress in Nigeria.

My wife goes to mountain of fire.

I'm a traditional worshipper.

I can never set foot in church.

She knows that.

That's why we only did court marriage and traditional marriage.

No church.

I can't let religion dictate my life.
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by CUMIN: 12:01pm On Nov 07, 2021
Righteousness2:
It is a simple thing.
Good all these are happening before the marriage. She is Bold Enough to tell you her stand. I Believe she has her reasons.
It is a Yes or No thing!
If there are no agreements, there is no need for Marriage.

So under the same Christianity canopy there's division of who's more godly.

Nigerian christian are a bit psychopath.

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by lomprico(m): 12:02pm On Nov 07, 2021
KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.

this is how religion is a problem to mankind.

we are humans first before any religion, tribe, race, denomination etc.

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Prettychild(f): 12:02pm On Nov 07, 2021
mrdharkchild:
It is written, that a women would leave her family, her God and all that shit and accept her husbands shit and all. Abi Bible Don become irrelevant?
It's not the other way round, simp.
Stop quoting the Bible wrongly. The Bible said a man shall leave his father and mother and cling to his wife. The two shall become one flesh.

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by eguarojeona: 12:02pm On Nov 07, 2021
Will she pay for the wedding and be financially responsible?
If not let her go.She is not good ènough

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Solsix(m): 12:02pm On Nov 07, 2021
KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.
A lady with this kind of mentality will scatter not only your immediate family but your extended family. Don't lose your identity because of a girl. Even if u want to change let her behavior I mean her knowledge of God change you. It shouldn't be a condition for marriage.

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Jungleluv5: 12:02pm On Nov 07, 2021
Let her follow her pastor or her church abegiii before she go start to dictate your life for you

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by egoldman(m): 12:03pm On Nov 07, 2021
RoyalBoutique:
Religion; the bane of progress in Nigeria.

My wife goes to mountain of fire.

I'm a traditional worshipper.

I can never set foot in church.

She knows that.

That's why we only did court marriage and traditional marriage.

No church.

I can't let religion dictate my life.

Na so bro, live and let live, do your own and I do my own.

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by okezuoemmanue(m): 12:03pm On Nov 07, 2021
So even for Catholic church, u no see Mary League marry abi.
cry

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by emaopel: 12:04pm On Nov 07, 2021
Are you convinced with your faith in Catholic or just going there because it family church? If you believe your church can't save you, both of you should leave your various churches and start nautral denomination... No church in heaven

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by egoldman(m): 12:05pm On Nov 07, 2021
Iyaebe:
Then stop going to Catholic church, its that simple

If I tiaaa you slap ehh.

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Janosky: 12:05pm On Nov 07, 2021
KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.
You are Trinity devotees.
Why is your holy ghost giving both you conflicting revelations?
Just asking grin

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by cdieli(m): 12:05pm On Nov 07, 2021
My friend after 5 years of marriage love vanishes what remains is friendship. Love has no brain, If you start listening to her dictate it won't stop. Tomorrow she will tell you why your family is bad. If she can't submit to you leave her. You can still get better funk from another girl.

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Hdhdhd(m): 12:06pm On Nov 07, 2021
Make she go Bleep herself then
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Olammipresh(f): 12:06pm On Nov 07, 2021
Come and marry me smiley smiley smiley and happy Sunday
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Slavishbenin: 12:06pm On Nov 07, 2021
Myer:


Which denomination does she attend.

Usually non-Catholics believe Catholic Church is into idolatry. So I guess that's her fear.
Those non Catholics still emerged from the Catholics, an irony abi

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