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Slavishbenin:
You didn't read op well, if not he has already done number 3

If he successfully did number three, the thread would not exist.

meetme01:
So, respecting your spouse opinion(s) is manipulation? Chai..women don suffer for this world. This is only time (before marriage) when her opinion should be considered mostly because when she gets married, it will be very hard to voice her opinion to people like you. Respect her wish and if you can,find another @ least you all say, there are many fish in the water. Pick another nah..Oshisko

Op already compromised enough by asking her to worship in her church that's the truth

Bro here me well!

Do NOT marry this woman. It will not just be that you leave Catholic Church. She will insist that you eventually join her church. Her 'Pastor' will have more influence and say in your home than you do. If you want a peacefull life, drop her now. It'll hurt for a while, but you'll get over it

Am a Catholic, and am a guy, my sister has convince 2 guys to be a Catholican but eventually married to one. Even the other guy did not stop going to catholic church.

I promise you u won't regret been a Catholican but as a guy stand ur feet and tell her no but if u don't have a serious church u attend, pls go with her.

OP Red flag already Manifesting even before you both getting married.
You gave her a huge concession by suggesting she can attend any Church of her Choice but she is not shifting grounds, 'K-Leg' don dey already.
You saying you can't start all over again typifies a man with low self esteem.
Let her go otherwise she would end up making demands that will make you miserable in that marriage.
MAN UP AND STOP SOBBING(that practically what you are doing) LIKE A CHILD.

Imustnottalk:
I wonder why you will allow church to ruin your relationship must your family or wife attend the church you are going.i like this type of girl she been sincere to you from start not when you guys get marry thats when issue come in

Then she should gettat, its simple

chiommy123:
I understand her sha. Some of us do not feel very comfortable in some churches

I don't like my husband's church but I still married him, is catholic church that bad that someone will not feel comfortable with it? Let her manage and respect herself...

MrMacinterchi1:
What made her to be right? the church you quoted, do they use different holy book from the one your pastor reads for you in your church?

I agree with your no2 submission.

Using the same Bible and not following what's written there ain't the same

engrsyer:
It may be difficult to end it up now but I assure you that that is the best decision you will take right now before you would live a life of regrets and agony. If she can influence you into her bidding and she have it then the day you won't do her bidding again that would be the end of marriage or you would face turmoil in your marriage. True love is unconditional but she is conditioning you. We all practice same faith yet condemning other denomination, that's BS mehn. Guy move on with your life. You are the one holding both the yam and the knife so you can cut it the way you like.

the way women dictate terms of marriages these days is alarming.... its due to excess supply of men caused by the rise of social media.

Myer:
Which denomination does she attend.

Usually non-Catholics believe Catholic Church is into idolatry. So I guess that's her fear.

Exactly. That's the fear we non-Catholics have.

All of una dey mad sha

Emeka511:
Which one is "her children" ?

She no go born..one of the reasons I can’t marry someone from another religion is not becos I can’t tolerate a such a wife... but I won’t want my son or daughter part of a religion I don’t believe in, and I’m afraid their mother will influence them and I won’t be able to do anything about it..

lomprico:
I have a lady friend who's husband is a Catholic n attends his church while she attends hers! amongst all my married friends their marriage is the most united. why? because they are 2 human beings that love each other irrespective of any other thing. Church/religion has caused a lot of problems to humanity.

Don't say what you don't know, you don't live with them.

MrMacinterchi1:
There are many mixed demonization marriages in Christianity that are very progressive and successful. The only thing we need is to have a good reasoning to make good decisions not discriminating among the brotherhood of Christ. It's shameful.

Exaclty. if 2 people are true christians with a good understanding of the Bible and also really love each other,then they can make a mixed denomiation marrage work. The problem some demoninations in Christianity demonize other denomications, so their members find it imposable to marry someone from that demoniation. This mainly happeens in pentacostal churches and their attitude to Catholics. Quite sad really.

loswhite:
I never knew that Christians have different beliefs.

People interpreted bible differently....that’s what you have different denominations...

Jehovah witness are the most different among Christians... infact they don’t allow people call them Christians..

JayPeeOham:
The said lady is not your wife. EOD.

By the way, Is there no woman good enough for your love and marriage in Catholic church??

Time and opportunity might be a factor hindering him from dating a Catholic...

But l thought they said we can find love anywhere?

Don't make the same religious mistake. If you were born a Muslim you would have been practicing Islam.
Guy when a lady gives you a spiritual direction that is Godly, follow her.

KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.

No go respect ur self, Delilah dey learn work where this ur girl dey.

donestk:
I'm an unserious catholic.

I married my wife a serious non catholic

Now she's a very serious catholic while I don't even go to church.

This OP na weak man

Lol... Really? What did your wife saw that made her port to catholicism?

I laugh! Is like you dont know what you are about to do? You better start afresh

I will even prefer to marry a Muslim or an atheist. Who christianity epp?

lereinter:
Who set the rule?

A man must not be a simp!

KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.

then leave catholic naaah

KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.

My advice:
Marry a lady who attends the same church.

She knows she can control you, don't.

Among others, be patient, there is a daughter of God for you.

[quote author=Judybash93 post=107399896][/quote]But sir,

I think traditional religion is also a religion

I stand to be corrected

I'm no Catholic but that girl should go to hell!

KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.

Are you the man or she is the man

Men of this generation....

Mysticwebb:
I was once in this kind of situation. In my case we dated for 6 good years, then when it got to settling down, babe started talking about my church as if she didn't know all these while. I thought it was just a delay tactics but it was more than that. Long story cut short, I couldn't let go of everything we have shared so far. Since I know her cycle very well, I targeted her fertile days, spoil her with gifts and got her pregnant. After that I warned her against any attempt on abortion, then I reported myself to her father, it was hell initially then everything calmed down, marriage was the only thing on the table. Now we are good, surprisingly we are even attending my church together once in awhile as she has continued with her church. But I have not been to her church even once. We do joke about the past sometimes, on those times she always accuse me of using deceit to marry her. Few months after marriage, one particular morning, after our morning prayer, she thanked me for doing what I did, claiming she was just confused then. She thanked God I didn't leave her. Though I still pretended I didn't know what she was talking about that I did.

Lol, that's women for you, they will always come back to thank you for not allowing them make a foolish decision. Op never too sabi women psyche

Nnemuka:
Test her love for you. Dont talk or call her for 2weeks and see her reactions.
No woman will allow church come between her and someone she truly loves.

Best of luck

you have not met fanatic. Lol.

Prevailing:
[s] My is, do you think is a mere belief or a fact. The catholic way to worship God is not in the Bible. Jesus said He is the way, truth and life, no one comes except thro Him John 14:6. The catholics say you go to God thro mary. Is that not idolatry?. They see you as an outcast if you don't belong to the Mary league[/s] .

See this protestant dubious and fake Christian who worships his pastor, Catholic Church is the only church that christ himself established. Satan get lost