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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Qpid5(m): 10:25pm On Nov 08, 2021
Kobojunkie:
You ignored her complaints , and eventually took it upon yourself to rape her in order to satisfy yourself, and you are here to what again? undecided

Seun, moderators, does Nairaland have IP tracker so we can track this RAPIST'S address/location make them catch am abeg... undecided
look, i dnt knw u but u just spit trash! You think you know enough that's why you are quick to say this meaningless trash.. When someone genuinely open up abt his private life, he/she deserve to given a respected advice and a good insite.. This is a relationshp whom they had sex 3-4 times a week then the moment she started working, everything changed and no single sex upto 3weeks.. Like how long is this gonna continue? because she's nt gonna stop the work anytime soon, i dnt encourage forcing her but u shud understand how confused the dude is
Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by ugwumichael(m): 10:25pm On Nov 08, 2021
Kevv420:


Where did you see the rape part in my post. Have tried to but I didn't succeed because she scratches me it was very painful so I slapped her very hard out of anger and I left the house for a few hours. I have apologised to her she forgave me because it has not happened before it was the devil and I regret my actions. I need is advice not insult

"I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. "

Well I don't think she has forgiven you, she may only have told you that because she probably has nowhere to go. I pray she finds all the help she deserves and then come after you because you are just a beast in human form.

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Fiscus105(m): 10:26pm On Nov 08, 2021
Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.


Pay her dowry

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by angelfallz(m): 10:26pm On Nov 08, 2021
[[s]quote author=Emperor2020 post=107448200]So if this gal rise up and go on a bad move on you or kill u out of wat u did,who we go blame,or u tink poison no fit work fr ur body...come to tink of it,can't u help someone without manipulation[/quote][/s]
Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by angelfallz(m): 10:27pm On Nov 08, 2021
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tunize:
You raped her because you want to fulfil what? When she gets you arrested now we will start hearing another. You raped your girlfriend and you are here foolishly asking for advice I pity the girl when nor fit even burst your head.
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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by itubaba001: 10:27pm On Nov 08, 2021
This is just the summary of a fool .

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Banter1(m): 10:27pm On Nov 08, 2021
Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.
Someone has taken over your position as her boyfriend. Move on bro. In R, kelly's voice, when a women fed up there's nothing you can do about it.
Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by angelfallz(m): 10:28pm On Nov 08, 2021
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Kobojunkie:
You ignored her complaints , and eventually took it upon yourself to rape her in order to satisfy yourself, and you are here to what again? undecided

Seun, moderators, does Nairaland have IP tracker so we can track this RAPIST'S address/location make them catch am abeg... undecided
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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Nobody: 10:30pm On Nov 08, 2021
angelfallz:
Story for the gods.


Story for sane people. Totally not for the insane.

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Nobody: 10:30pm On Nov 08, 2021
May any body supporting op,may una sister go through this de gal go through,so u go see how de feeling go be for una body...do you think all is well or the family of that gal is well to do,she will com nd Liv wit dis mumu or do u tink op will try such..gals can b manipulated..if op Sabi game he fit wash de gal brain de gal go de giv am unto wit her mind nd won't tink of deny him,but e seems dis mumu de claim do u know who I am,cos u de spend on her, everything no b gra gra or by force

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by dRefiner: 10:30pm On Nov 08, 2021
Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by NickD(m): 10:31pm On Nov 08, 2021
Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.
Ask yourself if it was your sister going through this how it would make you feel, she is not your wife. If you want steady sex go and marry. You almost raped the girl because of Horniness. Shame on you.

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by jerrytee48(m): 10:31pm On Nov 08, 2021
Someone track this dude..
Life imprisonment awaiting him
Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by emmanuelpopson(m): 10:31pm On Nov 08, 2021
so nobody can track the op.. with his email , the phone number attached to the email.. but we all agree that he is an animal and a bad male specie..its okay.. until he kills someone and we all send condolences to the lady family...

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by DAvidVictoriA: 10:31pm On Nov 08, 2021
Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

You need Jesus. What you are engaging in is fornication. You don't have any right to demand for sex from her, she's not legally married to you. What a generation. Hell awaits all fornicators... REPENT

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Junnior: 10:32pm On Nov 08, 2021
Emperor2020:
pls how do u reason oga,do u tink if all was well wit dat gal she will HV time to stay wit dis idiot,ppl are going through a lot,mayb she just de manage mk she com up wit somtin nd better her life,who knows de gal plans...do u tink as de gal dey if ask her y she de wit dis mumu,she go tell u say na her clear eye or tin good fr am she com stay wit am
Oga, is the guy her father? Or is he running a charity organisation?
Why should she move in with a guy she is not married to in the first place?

We all know how these things work. The guy foots all her bills (or most) while she offers sex in return. The guy acted the way he did because she stopped holding up to her own end of the deal. Simple.
They're both stvpid anyway. Chances are that the girl has started fvcking some other n1gga outside.
Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by iamme1234(m): 10:32pm On Nov 08, 2021
Amanee:
The kind of men some females date sha


You women wont know untill una enter..
Then u know say na one chance una entet
Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Sarhm: 10:32pm On Nov 08, 2021
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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by wallrichy: 10:32pm On Nov 08, 2021
I would want to believe that this ain't your usual behaviour towards her. If it's, then you are distateful. Anyway, you have created a bad picture of yourself as a monster in her towards you and that's terrible. That 2 weeks she gave you is to allow her to sort out a place she would stay for the time been. She may fall into wrong hands, may even agree to squat with a total stranger so that she can avoid you. I beg you to go and beg her not to take such action. Say whatever you can say and do whatever to make her be peaceful towards you again. Try and reconcile with her now or else you will regret this action you took for the rest of your life. It's been my philosophy of life that you should never allow a crying or vengeful woman go away from you without making peace with her. Especially if you make her go that way of vengeful and anger. Make peace with all men at all cost if it's possible. Good luck....



Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Qpid5(m): 10:32pm On Nov 08, 2021
Saintmary:


He deserves worse than insults. He should be in jail.
abeg qetatu jare!.. Numerous abortions were una d do, dem don jail una for murder finish??
Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Kobojunkiee: 10:33pm On Nov 08, 2021
Junnior:

Stop ranting. They are both to blame. No one forced her into the relationship. Neither was she forced to move in with the guy. Many girls move in with guys in order to leech off of the guys as much as possible while offering only sex in return. The girl here stopped holding up to her own end of the deal, so what were you expecting?
A woman leeching off of a man is no license for that man to then rape her. undecided

If you don't like her leeching off of you, send her packing out of your space. It's that simple. If you want to pay a woman for sex, I am sure there are business women out there who can arrange that for you. But for you to figure that since you allow her leech off of you means her body is yours... you are nothing but a rapist then. undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Bullhari: 10:33pm On Nov 08, 2021
Kevv420:


I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Oga, you raped a lady, battered her on top and jumped into sexually abusing her.
Guy you deserve death. God just saved the young lady from untimely death walking with dick

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by OBA117(m): 10:34pm On Nov 08, 2021
Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

You raped her because she refused....Someone that is not your legitimate wife. You should be reported to Police honestly.

Above all, you've committed a sin. Go and ask for God's forgiveness and her forgiveness too.
The solution to your problem is to give your heart to Jesus Christ.
Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by princewarri1985: 10:34pm On Nov 08, 2021
Am not here to take side with anybody, she knew what she was signing in for before she decide to cohabit, at least she supposed know say the guy na human being and lets say sex once a week no matter how tired she was wouldn't have been a bad idea, my best bet she is giving it to someone else outside, and lastly trying to force your way inside her pant is wrong it's called rape, COHABITATION IS A NO NO FOR ME, I CANT TRY IT BECAUSE HE DEY CAUSE SEE FINISH

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by NickD(m): 10:34pm On Nov 08, 2021
Qpid5:
look, i dnt knw u but u just spit trash! You think you know enough that's why you are quick to say this meaningless trash.. When someone genuinely open up abt his private life, he/she deserve to given a respected advice and a good insite.. This is a relationshp whom they had sex 3-4 times a week then the moment she started working, everything changed and no single sex upto 3weeks.. Like how long is this gonna continue? because she's nt gonna stop the work anytime soon, i dnt encourage forcing her but u shud understand how confused the dude is
Is the girl his wife? Stop defending nonsense. If na your sister na werin u go talk be this?

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by geechy: 10:35pm On Nov 08, 2021
Kevv420:


Noted thanks for the advice. Unfortunately she doesn't have parents her mother is late , her father is still alive but absent. I am not keeping her in my house because I want but she had no family , it is a very sad situation for her.

Huncle, see you see express

So because of her sad situation you're giving her a very dirty slap. Do you even imagine where she'll be going to in the 2weeks she proposes to leave ?? I deduce She has nowhere.
Don't make ursef into a demigod over her. Treat her as you would your sista.
Love her for the sake of her personality and what she's been, and not cos of her sad situation
Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Chochovini: 10:35pm On Nov 08, 2021
Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.
. How the hell did this trash even get to FP in the first place?

So your GF refused you sex and you had the impetus to bring it to a public fora to be discussed? After displaying gross sense of stupidity by forcing her against her wish.

Honestly, if it were my sister you did this to, I would have made you regret the day you were born. Ewu gambia.

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Nobody: 10:35pm On Nov 08, 2021
The Devil walks amongst us
Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by angelfallz(m): 10:35pm On Nov 08, 2021
@Kevv420 you don't need to do anything for her to be happy.
Just like I said before break up with her and get another girlfriend. NEVER BEEN A WOMAN FOE SEX!! is you do it you would always be begging her for sex.
Majority of the people who replying beg women for sex. That is why they are encouraging you to make her happy.
Ask yourself what you did to make her before, when she was giving you sex freely? I'm sure you're answer would be nothing. So why must you now make her happy before you get sex?
As for those who claim you raped her please ignore those ones.
A good number of Nigerians are looking for entertainment to distract them from poverty.

Please go through this thread or better yet download, the rationale male positive masculinity by Rollo Tomassi. It explains a lot about female manipulation
https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know/917#107445787


I repeat never beg a woman for sex. You don't need to do anything to make her happy.

Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Nobody: 10:36pm On Nov 08, 2021
Junnior:

Oga, is the guy her father? Or is he running a charity organisation?
Why should she move in with a guy she is not married to in the first place?

We all know how these things work. The guy foots all her bills (or most) while she offers sex in return. The guy acted the way he did because she stopped holding up to her own end of the deal. Simple.
They're both stvpid anyway. Chances are that the girl has started fvcking some other n1gga outside.
Oga do u know dat if op knw as Dem de connect game,dat gal go drop fr her,bullshit other guys u tink she might HV been meeting recently, Everything no b by muscle...if na ur sis,wat will you do,if such info got to you? answer me

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by angelfallz(m): 10:36pm On Nov 08, 2021
Insane or sane. Still story for the gods.
Mmadu2:


Story for sane people. Totally not for the insane.
Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by DAvidVictoriA: 10:36pm On Nov 08, 2021
You don't have any right to demand for sex from a woman you are not legally married to. Forcing yourself on her is RAPE.... You are a fornicator, hell awaits all fornicators. REPENT...... Look at what you are posting and seeking for advice. Tufiakwa what a generation.

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