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Re: One Hand Is Working To Bring Money, The Other Hand Is Taking The Money (Pix) by Hayee(f): 10:39am On Nov 11, 2021
kkonyeji:


As if ur hardworking
toor I am but that does not stop the fact that men are addicted to gold diggers cheesy cheesy cheesy
Na mumu dey fall in love now tongue tongue tongue
Re: One Hand Is Working To Bring Money, The Other Hand Is Taking The Money (Pix) by Candidlady: 10:39am On Nov 11, 2021
Ahmback:
Nigerian girls are liabilities, all of them

K
Re: One Hand Is Working To Bring Money, The Other Hand Is Taking The Money (Pix) by pansophist(m): 10:40am On Nov 11, 2021
I don't have such experiences. I've never dated a leech. And if a leech successfully cornered me into a relationship, she won't last long before I fumigate her off. How men with sense fall for leech still baffles me. How do you even feel psychologically to know deep down that a lady is with you for cash? You have to be daft not to know, because when you're scared to tell her no, then there is a problem.

I mean, you know how to make money, fight off competition, probably have your own business and skilled in what you do, but somehow, just somehow for reason I can't explain, all your senses turned off because a woman is light skin, is pretty and have a big yansh? Lol. I mean you will probably refuse to care for your sibling over 18 because he/she is an adult, but suddenly becomes a parent to a girl that is an adult?

Or is hustling not unisex again? I'm not saying you shouldn't give as an expression of love, I'm referring to the willful act of submitting oneself as a sacrificial lamb to be leeched, milked and dump when you outlived your usefulness? If this is what love is, I'm not doing. Enjoy your love in advance.

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Re: One Hand Is Working To Bring Money, The Other Hand Is Taking The Money (Pix) by siraj1402(m): 10:41am On Nov 11, 2021
Xenry:
Share the experience that you had with a girlfriend who's a liability.
Are you still in the relationship? Did you two later broke up? Tell us how it went or how it is going. We are all ears!

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Re: One Hand Is Working To Bring Money, The Other Hand Is Taking The Money (Pix) by iamtardey: 10:41am On Nov 11, 2021
i don't understand
Ritzybeauty:
No lady can make you a liability unless you decide to become one, blaming a lady for your failures is just a flimsy excuse for a lazy man who wouldn't let his ego admit that he needs to man up, I really don't understand how men think these days..
Re: One Hand Is Working To Bring Money, The Other Hand Is Taking The Money (Pix) by Solatium(m): 10:42am On Nov 11, 2021
Hayee:
Wail from today to the next ten years cheesy cheesy
Men will still run after gold diggers cheesy cheesy cheesy
Even the so called alpha males grin grin grin
85 percent of Nigerian men have no value for good and hard-working women cheesy cheesy cheesy


Meaning the same 85% of Nigerian women had no value to add to any hardworking men grin
Re: One Hand Is Working To Bring Money, The Other Hand Is Taking The Money (Pix) by seyz91(m): 10:43am On Nov 11, 2021
you sure say you read the thread at all? undecided
Ritzybeauty:
No lady can make you a liability unless you decide to become one, blaming a lady for your failures is just a flimsy excuse for a lazy man who wouldn't let his ego admit that he needs to man up, I really don't understand how men think these days..
Re: One Hand Is Working To Bring Money, The Other Hand Is Taking The Money (Pix) by Solatium(m): 10:44am On Nov 11, 2021
Gkemz:
This is a true representation of us (my gf and I)

I hustle tirelessly while she spends extravagantly. Now she wants me to be paying her school fees because I'm her father who of course father gives her that. I've made several attempts to convince her to acquire skills that can make her self reliant just like my former gf who's so industrious and hardworking but she doesn't want to stress herself. There's nothing I've not done to get her equipped even promise to pay every bills she will incur in acquiring vocational skills but she has refused to learn instead she wants me to give her the money when she has not settled for any. I'm tired of her.


Junk her before she ground you

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Re: One Hand Is Working To Bring Money, The Other Hand Is Taking The Money (Pix) by qtguru(m): 10:44am On Nov 11, 2021
Xenry:
Share the experience that you had with a girlfriend who's a liability.
Are you still in the relationship? Did you two later broke up? Tell us how it went or how it is going. We are all ears!

Still in, it's going well, out of all my exes, this is the only driven one I've seen. She takes multiple courses while working and does side jobs. I always support her and she also helps me look at opportunities but we fight alot, cuz we both temperamental. I be stubborn person. But she is good though I won't lie. Emotionally and spiritually she is very supportive. I have my own issues too, so no one is perfect.

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Re: One Hand Is Working To Bring Money, The Other Hand Is Taking The Money (Pix) by dapolaw(m): 10:45am On Nov 11, 2021
Omo Naija babes no get joy.

On your birthday, they expect you to take them out and do giveaway.

On their own birthday, they expect you to give them gifts and take them out.


To them, relationship is means of livelihood and a source of income.



Na so the babe I just met 2 months ago told me that yesterday was her Dad's birthday that what are we getting him? I just ignored the message and looked away

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Re: One Hand Is Working To Bring Money, The Other Hand Is Taking The Money (Pix) by stanisbaratheon: 10:45am On Nov 11, 2021
Candidlady:
Here to read lies



seems like 98.9% of men on this forum are all toxic!


BOYS
Re: One Hand Is Working To Bring Money, The Other Hand Is Taking The Money (Pix) by Hayee(f): 10:45am On Nov 11, 2021
Solatium:



Meaning the same 85% of Nigerian women had no value to add to any hardworking men grin
good student you got the point right cheesy cheesy tongue
What is the point of being a good girl when the man will seriously lavish his resources on a greedy you cheesy cheesy tongue grin grin
Re: One Hand Is Working To Bring Money, The Other Hand Is Taking The Money (Pix) by IamNumeroUno: 10:46am On Nov 11, 2021
Candidlady:
Here to read lies



seems like 98.9% of men on this forum are all toxic!


Can explain how you came by outrageous statistics? sad sad sad
Re: One Hand Is Working To Bring Money, The Other Hand Is Taking The Money (Pix) by Candidlady: 10:47am On Nov 11, 2021
stanisbaratheon:

BOYS
whatever MEN oh BOYS oh. Na thesame gender M boat carry al of una
Re: One Hand Is Working To Bring Money, The Other Hand Is Taking The Money (Pix) by Solatium(m): 10:47am On Nov 11, 2021
Hayee:
good student you got the point right cheesy cheesy tongue
What is the point of being a good girl when the man will seriously lavish his resources on a greedy you cheesy cheesy tongue grin grin


it's a balance equation,we are all in trading places grin
Re: One Hand Is Working To Bring Money, The Other Hand Is Taking The Money (Pix) by Hayee(f): 10:49am On Nov 11, 2021
Solatium:



it's a balance equation,we are all in trading places grin
good boy grin grin grin
Re: One Hand Is Working To Bring Money, The Other Hand Is Taking The Money (Pix) by XshegzzyeeiX: 10:50am On Nov 11, 2021
pansophist:
I don't have such experiences. I've never dated a leech. And if a leech successfully cornered me into a relationship, she won't last long before I fumigate her off. How men will sense fall for leech still baffles me. How do you even feel psychologically to know deep down that a lady is with you for cash? You have to be daft not to know, because when you're scared to tell her no, then there is a problem.

I mean, you know how to make money, fight off competition, probably have your own business and skilled in what you do, but somehow, just somehow for reason I can't explain, all your senses turned off because a woman is light skin, is pretty and have a big yansh? Lol. I mean you will probably refuse to care for your sibling over 18 because he/she is an adult, but suddenly becomes a parent to a girl that is an adult?

Or is hustling not unisex again? I'm not saying you shouldn't give as an expression of love, I'm referring to the willful act of submitting oneself as a sacrificial lamb to be leeched, milked and dump when you outlived your usefulness? If this is what love is, I'm not doing. Enjoy your love in advance.



Great response.
Impressive stuff
Re: One Hand Is Working To Bring Money, The Other Hand Is Taking The Money (Pix) by Macktaob(m): 10:51am On Nov 11, 2021
Simdyofficial:
Almajiri shoe maker hand grin Northerners too dirty ehn. Pigs
Read the words on marble on your profile pic again and come back to reflect it with this comment of yours.
Re: One Hand Is Working To Bring Money, The Other Hand Is Taking The Money (Pix) by FullBlastLight: 10:51am On Nov 11, 2021
Candidlady:
Here to read lies



seems like 98.9% of men on this forum are all toxic!


Cld u pls define toxicity?


And how did u come abt d stat u gave?
Re: One Hand Is Working To Bring Money, The Other Hand Is Taking The Money (Pix) by Holluwhakemmy(f): 10:52am On Nov 11, 2021
Those who have not counted 5000 in their life will also comment and start vomiting rubbish. broke ass
Re: One Hand Is Working To Bring Money, The Other Hand Is Taking The Money (Pix) by Solatium(m): 10:52am On Nov 11, 2021
Hayee:
good boy grin grin grin


Naughty gel grin
Re: One Hand Is Working To Bring Money, The Other Hand Is Taking The Money (Pix) by IamNumeroUno: 10:52am On Nov 11, 2021
Hayee:
Wail from today to the next ten years cheesy cheesy
Men will still run after gold diggers cheesy cheesy cheesy
Even the so called alpha males grin grin grin
85 percent of Nigerian men have no value for good and hard-working women cheesy cheesy cheesy

85%
I wonder how you ladies come by the data you brandish about here.
Re: One Hand Is Working To Bring Money, The Other Hand Is Taking The Money (Pix) by tradepunter: 10:53am On Nov 11, 2021
Candidlady:
Here to read lies



seems like 98.9% of men on this forum are all toxic!


At least na for here e end but 99.9% of women are toxic to men in real life...

Toxic to men's health, mental state of mind, pockets you just name it...
Re: One Hand Is Working To Bring Money, The Other Hand Is Taking The Money (Pix) by kweensheba: 10:54am On Nov 11, 2021
Such is life.
Re: One Hand Is Working To Bring Money, The Other Hand Is Taking The Money (Pix) by Wealthoptulent(m): 10:55am On Nov 11, 2021
Candidlady:
Here to read lies



seems like 98.9% of men on this forum are all toxic!


Let hear from your man 1st, candid can be to sweet!
Re: One Hand Is Working To Bring Money, The Other Hand Is Taking The Money (Pix) by Wealthoptulent(m): 10:56am On Nov 11, 2021
tradepunter:


At least na for here e end but 99.9% of women are toxic to men in real life...

Toxic to men's health, mental state of mind, pockets you just name it...

Until we hear from her man... she is to sugary
Re: One Hand Is Working To Bring Money, The Other Hand Is Taking The Money (Pix) by Hayee(f): 10:56am On Nov 11, 2021
IamNumeroUno:


85%
I wonder how you ladies come by the data you brandish about here.
take it or leave cheesy cheesy cheesy
You can form your own statistics if you want to tongue tongue tongue
I have already formed my own periodt cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: One Hand Is Working To Bring Money, The Other Hand Is Taking The Money (Pix) by africonn: 10:58am On Nov 11, 2021
Gkemz:
This is a true representation of us (my gf and I)

I hustle tirelessly while she spends extravagantly. Now she wants me to be paying her school fees because I'm her father who of course father gives her that. I've made several attempts to convince her to acquire skills that can make her self reliant just like my former gf who's so industrious and hardworking but she doesn't want to stress herself. There's nothing I've not done to get her equipped even promise to pay all the bills she will incur in acquiring vocational skills but she has refused to learn instead she wants me to give her the money when she has not settled for any. I'm tired of her.

Sorry man, you are been gamed, no be only you she get, na begging hustle. I know a lot of em, you have no value to her than the money. Seize giving her money and that's the end of d relationship. Why did let the other lady go? This one fine pass abi, no be you dey smash her. I know some girls with 5 paying boyfriends, that think they are only one, if you ask why? She will say she young. imagine, they are just looking for the best option, keep your money and watch her flee to the next guy.

Relationship without the two party hustling to keep balance is death on arrival, one party has nothing to lose and can easily pack, while the other loses every thing if one leaves. They know that and they use that as leverage. Let girls too invest heavily in relationships. If she no gree, then she is not for you and you shouldn't allow it, if she love you like you thought, she will bend to your will else she will threaten to leave. If so, cut your lose, let her do so.

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Re: One Hand Is Working To Bring Money, The Other Hand Is Taking The Money (Pix) by Lambaman: 10:59am On Nov 11, 2021
I don't do liabilities so I can't relate undecided



Girl wey no get money, I nor fit date.
Re: One Hand Is Working To Bring Money, The Other Hand Is Taking The Money (Pix) by stanisbaratheon: 10:59am On Nov 11, 2021
Candidlady:


whatever MEN oh BOYS oh. Na thesame gender M boat carry al of una

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