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I will make this really short

a friend of mine just got off the phone with me and she feels a friend of ours is having an affair with her mum.

How she got to know? She said she saw some crazy chats on her mums phone with the guy.

her dad is late, she's the third kid and only girl outta four. To add salt to injury she's into this our friend

what can she do?

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Very simple,move on!!
Her mum beat her to the punch.
cougars don't waste time by being selective.
prolly your friend was giving the guy headache,he simply went for what was available.

Smartb0y:
Very simple,move on!!

how ironic your nick is smartboy!! Now crawl back to your cave

Candidlady:
how ironic your nick is smartboy!! Now crawl back to your cave

you're not candid either,guess we both got something in common afterall

She should question her mum about it... If it's true, she should just simply look away .

That he goat friend of yours doesn't have respect for the friendship you all shared and dude doesn't respect himself.


I will advise you and your friend to talk to him, but if he continues to misbahve, then avoid him like Covid-19.

What can she do about it??
She can't do anything about it na.
But this one choke ooo

Smartb0y:
you're not candid either,guess we both got something in common afterall

i have met smart kids matter of fact i have got smart tv and a smart phone, and they are nat even living things, but you nah. Please replace that prefix(smart) from that your "boy"

While I will discourage any irresponsible behavior, her mum’s emotional satisfaction or well being should interest the children as well. Widowhood is a lonely and sober path that many people would never understand.

Let her have a heart to heart talk with the mum and liberate her pls.

PlayMaker14:
That he goat friend of yours doesn't have respect for the friendship you all shared and dude doesn't respect himself.


I will advise you and your friend to talk to him, but if he continues to misbahve, then avoid him like Covid-19.

told her same thing! Bout having a convo with him!

the guy is just crazy.

brodalikeme:
While I will discourage any irresponsible behavior, her mum’s emotional satisfaction or well being should interest the children as well. Widowhood is a lonely and sober path that many people would never understand.

Let her have a heart to heart talk with the mum and liberate her pls.

this dude is just a lil bit older than us! Dont forget she has elder brothers and na naija we dey o! Mother of 4!

Candidlady:
i have met smart kids matter of fact i have got smart tv and a smart phone, and they are nat even living thing, but you nah. Please replace that prefix(smart) from that your "boy"

i can only wonder whats your "definition" of smart since you women only think outta emotion never logic hehehe.

Candidlady:
I will make this really short

a friend of mine just got off the phone with me and she feels a friend of ours is having an affair with her mum.

How she got to know? She said she saw some crazy chats on her mums phone with the guy.

her dad is late, she's the third kid and only girl outta four. To add salt to injury she's into this our friend

what can she do?

If the mum is ok with the relationship fine..they might have feelings for each other..

Candidlady:
this dude is just a lil bit older than us! Dont forget she has elder brothers and na naija we dey o! Mother of 4!

why are you slut shaming the mum.
let her enjoy her time on earth abeg,she has a right to be happy too you know

She should confront her mum to leave him, so she can have him or she should let her mom have him it simple.

Smartb0y:
why are slut shaming the mum.
let her enjoy her time on earth abeg,she has a right to be happy too you know

slut what?

ido want my friend and her mum to be happy! But igues you missed the part iwrote "shes into the guy"

Beebah2000:
What can she do about it?? She can't do anything about it na. But this one choke ooo

big choking! Sote idey find am hard to swallow siliva

Candidlady:
How she got to know? She said she saw some crazy chats on her mums phone with the guy.
her dad is late, she's the third kid and only girl outta four. To add salt to injury she's into this our friend
what can she do?

She is into a guy who she suspects may be having an affair with her mum?

She can easily confront the guy and then her mum. Then make a decision about the friendship and her mum afterwards.

Candidlady:
slut what?

ido want my friend and her mum to be happy! But igues you missed the part iwrote "shes into the guy"

She has a better chance of getting another guy since she's younger.

Tell her to leave the guy for her mum

Chai, this matter tie gele

Candidlady:
slut what?

ido want my friend and her mum to be happy! But igues you missed the part iwrote "shes into the guy"

she's into him could mean anything ,either she dating him or have feelings(silent attraction).
Well if its dating him then that's gross

Hmmm! You should kindly kick that your boyfriend out. If possible, return his ring and confront your mum. Simple

The hen is stronger than the chicken

Kobojunkie:
She is into a guy who she suspects maybe having an affair with her mum?

yeah

She can easily confront the guy and then her mum. Then make a decision about the friendship and her mum afterwards.

Without letting her brothers know right?

Mama dey feel the urge to freshen up

Well,I've seen a similar case before..... But in This case,this our guy even had to impregnate the mum of this friend of ours . Just imagine am na........Las las,till this very minute,the guy don run from Warri .

Some mothers no just get shame cha.....I believe say if the guy na Cassanova,he go successfully lash both the mama and the daughters well,even to the extent say he go dey ration dem on a stead .

simple250:
The hen is stronger than the chicken

he wanted and succeeded in thirsting the source of the sweet punan! he's been getting.

Candidlady:
yeah
Without letting her brothers know right?

She first ought to confirm her suspicions before acting in any way or form.

If her mum affirms it, the maybe her mum will let her brothers know of it. It all depends oj their family relationship.

Candidlady:
this dude is just a lil bit older than us! Dont forget she has elder brothers and na naija we dey o! Mother of 4!

Isn't the mom allowed to love who she wants to love? Aren't y'all even considering her happiness? Should she mourn forever? Marriage is til' death do us part...

Sonnobax15:

Mama dey feel the urge to freshen up

Well,I've seen a similar case before..... But in This case,this our guy even had to impregnate the mum of this friend of ours . Just imagine am na........Las las,till this very minute,the guy don run from Warri .

Some mothers no just get shame cha.....I believe say if the guy na Cassanova,he go successfully lash both the mama and the daughters well,even to the extent say he go dey ration dem on a stead .

lol

the dude is a cass! He a model and plays bbal for one of naija club(delta force)!

the thing is if her brothers find out, e don be for the guy b that!

Candidlady:
this dude is just a lil bit older than us! Dont forget she has elder brothers and na naija we dey o! Mother of 4!

I understand. Treat your mum’s behavior as a cry for attention and intimacy. Have a frank talk with her on how to move on respectfully from her present situation