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Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by iamtardey: 3:53pm On Nov 15, 2021
count yourself lucky
Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by KillamanJoe: 3:54pm On Nov 15, 2021
OP. Sorry for your predicament, the heart wants what the heart wants. My advice is for you to remind yourself that you cannot give her what she wants at the moment. She is 26 years and will probably turn 27 soon, what a lady at that stage is looking for is a potential husband. On why she keeps calling you? she probably likes your company and but you have to accept that you simply cannot give what you dont have. At the moment, i would also suggest that you focus on your job and try to make more money. You have many years of dating ahead of you.
Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by zedegit: 3:54pm On Nov 15, 2021
Solofresh2:
Hello fellow Nairalanders, there is this lady I really love.She has a skin care spa and I do go there in the evening when coming back from work.
Her house is not very far from mine so I know her well.I have also asked her out, but she turned me down saying she has a boyfriend, which I later found out is false.I decided to distance myself from her but it seems not working.
She always call me to come keep her company her at the spa at weekends so,if I have no where to go,I do join her there.The more we see, the more I keep falling for her.

So yesterday,I told her how I feel about her,then she told me her parents won't be happy dating someone younger and moreover,I can't marry her.

There is no way I can stop seeing her because,we can see each other coincidentally

Please what should I do?
Can you marry her? She's ripe for marriage, are you?
Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by iamtardey: 3:54pm On Nov 15, 2021
count yourself lucky...

.this hustle gaz pay. Allah.

Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by Nobody: 3:55pm On Nov 15, 2021
At 21, na love dey your head.

Are you through with schooling?

So you think she'll leave the eligible bachelors and come and date you. Na true!

Face your studies.
Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by Lazypoke(m): 3:56pm On Nov 15, 2021
Same problem am facing right now. There is this lady in my place of work, she is five years older than me whenever I see her always smile and give her that romantic look. She will always tell me to say wats on my mind instead of hiding it, the day I finally summoned courage to tell her she told me that she can't date me that she is in a serious relationship,I was heartbroken sha but now we are really good friends.




I cannot stop loving you OLAMIPO.
Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by Truvelisback(m):
Solofresh2:
Hello fellow Nairalanders, there is this lady I really love.She has a skin care spa and I do go there in the evening when coming back from work.
Her house is not very far from mine so I know her well.I have also asked her out, but she turned me down saying she has a boyfriend, which I later found out is false.I decided to distance myself from her but it seems not working.
She always call me to come keep her company her at the spa at weekends so,if I have no where to go,I do join her there.The more we see, the more I keep falling for her.

So yesterday,I told her how I feel about her,then she told me her parents won't be happy dating someone younger and moreover,I can't marry her.

There is no way I can stop seeing her because,we can see each other coincidentally

Please what should I do?
She is right in her own words. She likes u too but ur age seems to be a barrier to her. The only way she can accept u, is by u proving urself to her that u aren't a coward. If u are an Alpha male, it will be easier for her to accept u and she could even convince her parents to accept u. The issue now is that, can u prove that? I mean that man or mental and emotinal maturity?
Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by WHITELIGHTER: 3:58pm On Nov 15, 2021
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Lets call a spade a spade, I'm very sure the op is about to dig his own grave with a shovel lipsrsealed.

For the sake of your sanity, please steer clear from that banny....She ain't your mate,she knows that,and that's why she's been manipulating your feelings..... Whenever she calls you to roll over,tell her you're busy.. Keep on giving her such excuses.....

What the eyes doesn't see,the heart doesn't cherish..

You av said it all.....and nice quote
Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by Bamzyriches451: 3:58pm On Nov 15, 2021
It brother's me to see guys falling in love with Nigerian girls.
Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by Nobody: 3:58pm On Nov 15, 2021
Lol bro I'm up your age too. But she's way older moreover women like older guys .. but tbh the gap isnt cool

Just be friends
Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by Hassanmaye(m): 3:59pm On Nov 15, 2021
womenareapess:
another falling brother undecided

Stay away from naija women you people won't hear now.

Stay away from those baboons especially those baboons who own a Salon and beauty care stuff!
Those female baboons in this field are the real undercover ashawo undecided

And what the hell will you be doing with a 26yrs old ape undecided
Are you mentally unstable?
Hahahhahahaha
Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by Yankee101: 3:59pm On Nov 15, 2021
It's infatuation most likely
Give it time
This too shall pass
Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by Buffalo2(m): 3:59pm On Nov 15, 2021
It's not love, it's lust believe me.
Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by Hassanmaye(m): 4:01pm On Nov 15, 2021
htdot:
As far as her vG still has lubricant, then you are good to test and lose interest
Haha
Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by Legendoo:
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Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by Nobody: 4:07pm On Nov 15, 2021
Romanoff:
You're still very young for what you're trying to put yourself through.

If you were 30 and she's 35, it's not a big deal, but at 21, you still have your life ahead of you.
Kikikikikiki grin
Buh will he still feel this way for her when he's 30?? Will she be able to wait till she's 35??

Make the OP work harder to stand on him own two feet first, before he think of woman...
Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by tellwisdom: 4:08pm On Nov 15, 2021
Uwa mmebi....See pikin wey never fit clean him yansh well, de find woman. #I weep
Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by Majesty33(m): 4:10pm On Nov 15, 2021
How are u even sure she is 26 as she claims, the lady knows that she way older than op and he can't match her game so he uses him to kill boredom. Op use your no 6.
Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by Nobody: 4:12pm On Nov 15, 2021
I'm into older ladies too...
I even need a relationship with one... Been single for too long..
Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by Pootle: 4:14pm On Nov 15, 2021
Boogyman557:
Holly Gram cool u gat eyes 4 big fish man. WTF MAN
bro the CAPITAL letter na ur signature pls dont change it grin
Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by Nobody: 4:15pm On Nov 15, 2021
She gonna waste your time.. A 26 year old who still scared of her parents judgements. If she likes you, her parents or other people judgement won't matter.. She only using that as an excuse... Just let her go and find someone who deserves you...

Otherwise she will use you emotionally...
Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by Youngthug69(m): 4:16pm On Nov 15, 2021
Solofresh2:
Hello fellow Nairalanders, there is this lady I really love.She has a skin care spa and I do go there in the evening when coming back from work.
Her house is not very far from mine so I know her well.I have also asked her out, but she turned me down saying she has a boyfriend, which I later found out is false.I decided to distance myself from her but it seems not working.
She always call me to come keep her company her at the spa at weekends so,if I have no where to go,I do join her there.The more we see, the more I keep falling for her.

So yesterday,I told her how I feel about her,then she told me her parents won't be happy dating someone younger and moreover,I can't marry her.

There is no way I can stop seeing her because,we can see each other coincidentally

Please what should I do?
Omo oba cool

Chaaaaaa see wertin buhari cause nw

Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by Nobody: 4:16pm On Nov 15, 2021
TheOnlyUyai:
Better go and read your books.

1. You want to date your Auntie? What rubbish. God knows I don't give audience to little minions in your age group. There's one 23 year old that's been currently on my neck until I gave him the red card. I have told him countless times that we can't date. Friendship sef na even manage. Wetin we wan dey discuss? Joeboy's dreads or the new girl he just smashed? All these mummy's bossom boys sef.

2. I billed him 500K. He japa.

3. I like my men in their 30s-50s with good credit balance, and not all these children still wearing diapers and don't even know what their future holds yet.
1. Age doesn't determine the extent of a person's communication skills madam... I know lots of guys who keep girls far older than them company and everyone is fine...

The fact that they ((OP and the 26year old girl)) can be this close just goes on to show what kind of guy the OP is... He seems like a great guy, that's why she enjoys his company enough to even call him over...

2. Biko what goods or services did you offer to the guy??

3. "...with good credit balance" you sayhuh Kikikikikiki grin...now I know your kind of person
Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by Wetpuxy: 4:18pm On Nov 15, 2021
Man!! U de mint huh huh
JustStupidity:
Try and sort things out. At least a little apologies is ok. And please stop her from traveling so that you won't lose her. Thanks my own opinion passed
Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by Kajaard: 4:19pm On Nov 15, 2021
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Lets call a spade a spade, I'm very sure the op is about to dig his own grave with a shovel lipsrsealed.

For the sake of your sanity, please steer clear from that banny....She ain't your mate,she knows that,and that's why she's been manipulating your feelings..... Whenever she calls you to roll over,tell her you're busy.. Keep on giving her such excuses.....

What the eyes doesn't see,the heart doesn't cherish..
True
Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by Nobody: 4:20pm On Nov 15, 2021
where I dey try to make my life better, na him another G lyk me carry woman matter for head


Guys wey no get who to LOVE get peace of mind
Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by Olarsview: 4:23pm On Nov 15, 2021
If you say love....it's sacrifice all the way. But think twice cos love is ambiguous
Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by Nobody: 4:25pm On Nov 15, 2021
Uncle , Na love or fuck_ ? Just tell us the truth dont be shy.
Cos the only thing i gather from your story way i know say na to shift pant you wan do, after that , u go carry Usain Bolt discharge. But make i gist you, 26 years old girl, the thing way she know, pass you. Give yourself space and face your books. When she was 21, she don see wonderment for some boys hand, so the experience, aunty don get am.

Go for your age grade or someone younger with understanding. I doubt say na even relationship you want. Lust just day smell for everything you day talk...
Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by yetunsbay(m): 4:26pm On Nov 15, 2021
ursullalinda:
How adults come online to ask strangers on how to live there life's baffles me.....it's your life and the decision is yours .......take it!
in the same vein, a seeker no go lost for road.
Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by seyz91(m): 4:26pm On Nov 15, 2021
I don't know the kind of work you do or salary amount you collect But i'd advise you to work or upgrading yourself or work

be the better version of you

naija Vagina People ain't worth the headache you givin
i understand at your age you will wanna experience the life and give in to your sexual hormones BUT do it with sense!

Solofresh2:
Hello fellow Nairalanders, there is this lady I really love.She has a skin care spa and I do go there in the evening when coming back from work.
Her house is not very far from mine so I know her well.I have also asked her out, but she turned me down saying she has a boyfriend, which I later found out is false.I decided to distance myself from her but it seems not working.
She always call me to come keep her company her at the spa at weekends so,if I have no where to go,I do join her there.The more we see, the more I keep falling for her.

So yesterday,I told her how I feel about her,then she told me her parents won't be happy dating someone younger and moreover,I can't marry her.

There is no way I can stop seeing her because,we can see each other coincidentally

Please what should I do?
Re: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by jaxxy(m):
Solofresh2:
Hello fellow Nairalanders, there is this lady I really love.She has a skin care spa and I do go there in the evening when coming back from work.
Her house is not very far from mine so I know her well.I have also asked her out, but she turned me down saying she has a boyfriend, which I later found out is false.I decided to distance myself from her but it seems not working.
She always call me to come keep her company her at the spa at weekends so,if I have no where to go,I do join her there.The more we see, the more I keep falling for her.

So yesterday,I told her how I feel about her,then she told me her parents won't be happy dating someone younger and moreover,I can't marry her.

There is no way I can stop seeing her because,we can see each other coincidentally

Please what should I do?
Tell her u have a gf bt I can bet Ure just infatuated. We all went through the stages. U will get over it soon and ur eyes will clear

At 21 u don’t have any idea what love means or what it means to say u want to marry Sm1. Trust me.

At best be friends and go and do Smtn More positive with ur life young man.
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