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I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Nobody: 5:42pm On Nov 17, 2021

I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.

Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.

Ps

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy

I want to be the giver always

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by AllKnowing: 5:47pm On Nov 17, 2021*

You just need to die nothing else.

MODIFIED:

People like OP grow up to be:
1. Wicked politicians that impoverish their constituents so only their families live in abundance.

2. Lecturers who demand blocking or sex for grades.

3. That your uncle who goes diabolical to kill your father because he was able to train you to the university.

4. That policeman who opens fire on a group of boys in a sleek Mercedes S-class only because he didn’t enjoy such privileges when he was a youngster.

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Nobody: 5:48pm On Nov 17, 2021*

AllKnowing:
You just need to die nothing else.

Don't hate me.

am Just a realist

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by falcon01: 5:52pm On Nov 17, 2021

Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.

Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.

Lalasticlala

dang! That's something else. Try focusing on making people happy instead of yours, go out of your way for people just to see them happy.

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Nobody: 5:57pm On Nov 17, 2021

falcon01:
dang! That's something else. Try focusing on making people happy instead of yours, go out of your way for people just to see them happy.

Thanks for understanding.

I will try

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Naijanascam: 6:00pm On Nov 17, 2021

Then you must be a witch just in a layman's language

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by zeuss: 6:00pm On Nov 17, 2021

Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.

Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.

Lalasticlala

This condition is called wickedness.....Pray to God to give you a change of heart....Be aware that anything, I repeat anything or action that is done from the feeling of wicked will sure attract the consequences of wickedness to the doer...be guided.

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Nobody: 6:04pm On Nov 17, 2021

zeuss:
This condition is called wickedness.....Pray to God to give you a change of heart....Be aware that anything, I repeat anything or action that is done from the feeling of wicked will sure attract the consequences of wickedness to the doer...be guided.

Lies.

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy.

I want to be the giver always

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Ahmed0336(m): 6:05pm On Nov 17, 2021

Bro you be wizard.

I no pray to have your type close or around me.

Pray to God to heal you from this evil heart of yours

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Nobody: 6:09pm On Nov 17, 2021

Naijanascam:
Then you must be a witch just in a layman's language

Africa reasoning noi pass so.

Oyibo has a better and sexy name for this

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Nobody: 6:16pm On Nov 17, 2021*

Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Foodqueen(f): 6:21pm On Nov 17, 2021

It's not a biggy.

Just keep yourself busy

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Nobody: 6:22pm On Nov 17, 2021

Foodqueen:
It's not a biggy.

Just keep yourself busy

Thanks for been matured with your response!

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by zeuss: 6:24pm On Nov 17, 2021

Icouldhave:
Lies.

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy.

I want to be the giver always

On the strength of the way feel e.g getting angry when you should be thankful and a heart of jealousy are evil seeds that will eventually yield like fruits when the threshold is reached.
No if this feeling depicts love or Godliness which is good, the opposite of good is evil

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Nobody: 6:26pm On Nov 17, 2021

zeuss:
On the strength of the way feel e.g getting angry when you should be thankful and a heart of jealousy are evil seeds that will eventually yield like fruits when the threshold is reached.
No if this feeling depicts love or Godliness which is good, the opposite of good is evil

I don't get angry that way.

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by daddytime(m): 6:27pm On Nov 17, 2021*

Ah ah.....there are more people than you with this kind of condition.

I can't find the name for the condition but I hope someone else can.

Everybody get one strange condition or the order which they exhibit from time to time without even realising it.

Patronise my signature.

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by SugarCake: 6:41pm On Nov 17, 2021

Try to be happy for people,cos that kind of heart can stop ur own blessings secondly work hard and believe ur own turn will come, cos it will surely come and once again be happy for ppl life naa turn by turn.

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Nobody: 6:49pm On Nov 17, 2021*

Stories for Nairaland these days cheesy

Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Nobody: 6:52pm On Nov 17, 2021

Ahmed0336:
Bro you be wizard.

I no pray to have your type close or around me.

Pray to God to heal you from this evil heart of yours

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Kobojunkie: 7:01pm On Nov 17, 2021*

Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.
I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.
I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.
Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.
Ps
I don't do bad. Neither do I do evil. I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself. I want to be the number one guy
I want to be the giver always

Make an appointment with a professional psychiatrist or therapist so you can start on your journey towards unraveling that issue you are struggling with there. undecided

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Nobody: 7:16pm On Nov 17, 2021

Kobojunkie:
Make an appointment with a professional psychiatrist or therapist so you can start on your journey to unraveling that issue you are struggling with there.

Okay junkie
Thanks

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by michlins(m): 7:18pm On Nov 17, 2021

Your feelings are natural. You just need to tame it and channel that emotions into hustling to get what you want

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Nobody: 7:20pm On Nov 17, 2021

michlins:
Your feelings are natural. You just need to tame it and channel that emotions into hustling to get what you want

I have.

Infact the number of people have helped I can't count them.

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Kobojunkie: 7:53pm On Nov 17, 2021*

Icouldhave:
I have.
Infact the number of people have helped I can't count them.

Work with a therapist or talk it out with yourself go you can find and nip the problem as it's root. undecided

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Nobody: 7:54pm On Nov 17, 2021

Kobojunkie:
Work with a therapist or talk it out with yourself go find and nip it as it's root.

Thanks very much junkie.

I appreciate

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Opeyemiextra(f): 8:01pm On Nov 17, 2021

It happen a times and it's okay but don't feed it or let it grow into an action. Channel that energy into making yourself more productive.

It's okay if some people have more than you because you also have more than some others. It's okay for others to get things before you, it doesn't mean yours won't come.

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by michlins(m): 8:04pm On Nov 17, 2021

Icouldhave:
I have.

Infact the number of people have helped I can't count them.

for you to seek solution is evidence of being on a path to redemption. The fact you acknowledge it's not a good emotion is what makes you a better human being.

Forget all these people castigating you, they do much worse thing. If all people have been seeking solutions when their worst instincts come calling, there will be less evil in this world.

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Clinghton: 8:22pm On Nov 17, 2021

I just avoid people like you.

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Truvelisback(m): 8:28pm On Nov 17, 2021*

Omo! see Korokoro witchcraft. Op, u need spiritual help. What u just said isn't funny or normal at all. There is a spirit in control of those strange feelings in u. U might be possessed and have some kind of strange powers in which u might be aware of. Those thoughts u have are not ordinary.

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by soundOsonic: 8:47pm On Nov 17, 2021

Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.

Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.

Ps

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy

I want to be the giver always

Lalasticlala
Ishilove
Mynd44

The First step to solving a problem is that you know you have a problem. That's a good step already. You are making progress.
You are jealous because of how you were brought up. Your parents or guardians or teachers would have been comparing you to other kids.
It only takes a hit at your self esteem. Rather than celebrating others what you think is "this could have been me." It is not an emotion that propel you out of mediocrity but that which makes you wallow in bitterness. Most Nigerians suffer from this syndrome.
You don't hate others for being successful, No, what you hate is yourself for not been successful.
First understand your yourself, your strength and weakness, make goals that are achievable to make small wins to build up positive mindset. Know your limit and work towards self development.
The journey of success is not a race. It is a climb to the top of a mountain. The people who are celebrated are not those who come first or second but those who finally made it and manage to reach the top

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