orlaglobal234:
I thank God for your life that you're not a woman, if you are omo wahala for dey oo.


Na your type they kill husband because unnecessary jealousy




And if you're a village head you make life unbearable for your people

lol nollywood movie

What you have might be Histrionic personality disorder (HPD). Find a qualified psychologist (preferably a behaviour therapist) in your community. May be some bits of psychotherapy will help, but definitely some form of DBT will help with emotion regulation.

Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.


Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.


Ps

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy


I want to be the giver always

LogicnReason:
What you have might be Histrionic personality disorder (HPD). Find a qualified psychologist (preferably a behaviour therapist) in your community. May be some bits of psychotherapy will help, but definitely some form of DBT will help with emotion regulation.

Okay

Don't twist it wrongly. Don't think you need to find wealth in other to get happiness. You find happiness first before wealth flows in.

What you pay attention to will always grow to become master over you. Take Jealousy, anger and wickedness off your mind and try to think well of people around you.

Think about your friends making it in life as you, don't think of them a little less than you, see your thought equally measured as you wish for yourself as well, then happiness will come into your life

There's nothing wrong with you bro, it happens to pastor and Alfa you see around you, it's in human nature to have this feeling, for the fact you come out openly means you're a good person.

soundOsonic:

The First step to solving a problem is that you know you have a problem. That's a good step already. You are making progress.
You are jealous because of how you were brought up. Your parents or guardians or teachers would have been comparing you to other kids.
It only takes a hit at your self esteem. Rather than celebrating others what you think is "this could have been me." It is not an emotion that propel you out of mediocrity but that which makes you wallow in bitterness. Most Nigerians suffer from this syndrome.
You don't hate others for being successful, No, what you hate is yourself for not been successful.
First understand your yourself, your strength and weakness, make goals that are achievable to make small wins to build up positive mindset. Know your limit and work towards self development.
The journey of success is not a race. It is a climb to the top of a mountain. The people who are celebrated are not those who come first or second but those who finally made it and manage to reach the top

Best advice! Gbam

Isn't that what psychologist called Narcissistic personality disorder ?

You are in the right path talking about it.

LogicnReason:
What you have might be Histrionic personality disorder (HPD). Find a qualified psychologist (preferably a behaviour therapist) in your community. May be some bits of psychotherapy will help, but definitely some form of DBT will help with emotion regulation.

Interesting!

Are you born in October?
Your problem is extreme jealousy and it can affect you negatively

Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.


Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.


Ps

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy


I want to be the giver always

Op, you've described Pride and in some ways an almost admirable type of pride. Unlike in the title of your submission, you've not indicated in what you elaborated on, any indication that you want others to fail, which would generally be accepted as a negative thing. You want to be the one helping others and not others helping you. You have the underpinnings of grate individual.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w3NqUeXoJ0o

Icouldhave:


Don't hate me.


am Just a realist

Oga nobody is hating you, but you must study ur bible and pray for the help of the HOLY SPIRIT and tell God to give u a good heart.......plz don't overlook what I told u cos na from there people take dey go babalawo house so my brother u need God's Help period!!!

Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.


Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.


Ps

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy


I want to be the giver always

u literally from HELL
go to where u came from
U SON OF A BITCh

Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.


Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.


Ps

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy


I want to be the giver always

"I don't do bad" doesn't make this sound right. This is witchcraft spirit.

As you get older now, you start looking for how to tie innocent people. Hian!

The DeVil HIMSELF
U NEED TO BE ASSISSNINATED

You are suffering from inferiority complex

Na ur type full nairaland here that why they always feel happy when something happen bad to the government securities and feel sad if the government securities have a victory.

You might need an overhaul change of mindset meanwhile you can win awesome prize in the golden morn heritage promo. Just take two pack of the golden morn heritage to any of their redemption centres.

Icouldhave:


Don't hate me.


am Just a realist

What is realist about hating other people's success?

Inasmuch as we sometimes feel a tinge of jealousy which should drive us to look inwards and become better but your own is taken a step farther by wanting to be the only light in your environment. Its witchcraft, nothing else.

It is sad to see how people are quick to judge and condemn. He came out here for solutions and not to be crucified for a fault he identified and decided to share. The truth is that a good percentage of humans are born this way but they refuse to reconcile with this truth and work on themselves.
I believe you are on the track for a change. The first step in solving a problem is in the identification of the problem. I pray to find a quick fix to it. This take a lot of conscious efforts and time to correct. You just eed to stay dedicated to the course of change(not APC kinda change though).

Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.


Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.


Ps

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy


I want to be the giver always

Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.


Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.


Ps

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy


I want to be the giver always

Simple!

Go out there, work very hard, chase after every opportunity, if you not making money on Nairaland, switch your data off…..after making the money, give it out to family members & others.

pride and arrogance is being groomed in you except u kill it u will one day start to kill others

Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.


Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.


Ps

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy


I want to be the giver always

No be juju be that !!
You cant rise by pulling others down or wishing ppl would be below you always..some ppl carry correct grace for head no try dem if not na your life you dey joke with..in any place you find yourself always know who is the boss and never try to bring down the boss at best try and be friends at worst if the boss doesn't like you leave that place and find some where else and if you are the boss in the group use it wisely cos it is a 2 edged sword it makes and mars.. I don yarn you as e dey go.

All selfish people are like you. You may want to fantasize about what you will do with money when you have some. But trust me, you will never help anybody. Your real nature is a covetous and selfish one. If you will give, you will have less than most. That goes against your nature.

The poorest people are the biggest givers. If your nature was sincere in giving, you won’t have any problem giving your time and knowledge right now. But you are waiting till you are the most successful before giving. You attribute money to philanthropy, success and power. So you want money desperately but your true need is power over others.

It’s definitely a behavioral issue that a psychiatrist can help you with. If you don’t get help, you will definitely kill people because, success and money is not easy to come by.

Quit hating on the chap he is just looking for advice, everybody has a secret at least he knows the kind of heart he has is not cool that why he opens up for help, do u guys think it's easy to say that kind of bad things about yourself .
Bro I think all you need to do is pray about it talk to God he listens and you too need to put effort by always trying to be selfless I believe God will see you through ijn

Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.


Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.


Ps

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy


I want to be the giver always

This is a heart from the pit of hell Jesus!!!

See oga with this kind of heart eh abeg make God deliver people from your hand because surely surely eh you will do wickedness knowingly or unknowingly you will frustrate and destroy.
Abeg show us your face and address so that we can kill you before you begin to manifest

Testimony1988:
Keep praying about it.

For how long?

How long do you think Nigerians have been praying for Nigeria to be a better country? Now Nigerians are killing themselves to migrate to other countries, most of which don't believe in prayers, but actions.

Nigerian Christians are praying to God of Israel to protect them, but Israel is buying and building weapons to protect themselves.

Nigerian muslims are praying to Mecca for saviour, but Mecca is buying weapons from America to save itself.

At some point you need to take positive and productive action.

...but I digress...

It means you focus more on others than you focus on yourself. And the moment you focus more on others than you do for you, you’ll continue to get jealous of others and turn stagnate your progress. You’ll continue to get frustrated too.

Simply focus more on yourself. Do what makes you happy, and believe me you’ll see the need to be happy for what makes others happy.

Other people’s success cannot stop yours. You just have to be contented and focus more on yourself.

My 2 cent

You are actually wicked and evil. You are only lucky because you understood and admitted it. Your only solution is SALVATION. If you are lucky Jesus finds you you see the difference.

You are just a wizard. Go to MFM deliverance this Thursday.

Village people representative.