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Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by kizyalex10(m): 11:12pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
God help us bro |
Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by Olayinka92: 11:58pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Oga, just continue to brace up, that's how higher percentage of we women are and not forgetting that our mouths seems to be faster than our reasoning sometimes. I even adore your wife for the fact that she even took up a teaching job unlike some that are not ready to assist in any way. Keep fighting and all the best. 1 Like |
Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by efficiencie(m): 12:14am On Nov 20, 2021 |
Denvacandy: Dude you erred in two areas. One, you married a fool. No offense bruv. I am sorry I am going hard on you but it is true. While you were jumping flights and blowing the cash your wife did not deem it fit to ensure that you invest and create wealth that would form the basis of the commonwealth of your home. Two, you are also equally foolish sir. No offense. What were you thinking? You were making money all this while but you did not think to invest? Do you think your children will inherit your job? Dude your family is hanging on the balance. Your enemy will start making suggestions to your wife. Your wife is obviously spiritually compromised. You need to polish your CV, get your ass out there, meet with friends, bust into firms in your area and ask for a job and most importantly fast and pray that GOD rewards your hustle with success. And when you get back on your feet, make a conscious decision to never be a fool. Fools see everything as consumables but the wise see everything as investments. When GOD said be fruitful and multiply HE didn't just mean that you should breed like rabbits...HE intended you to become powerful enough to subdue the earth. So be wise. Get out there. Be aggressive with your desire to succeed. Work honestly. Grow wealth and watch your (sorry to say this again) foolish wife sing a new song! 3 Likes |
Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by zanshi: 12:40am On Nov 20, 2021 |
KarinaLove: This is a daft comment Even if you help people dosen't gurantee they would help you back, people only retun the gesture if they have moved to help you. And he could be mid level staff who is just paid to do his job and may not have that lobbying power. I wish you luck in your job hunt by the way. 2 Likes |
Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by emmaodet: 1:11am On Nov 20, 2021 |
habsydiamond: Na wa oooo. Some things I read on nairaland sha. A man lost is job and the only advice you can give to him is to get a good income better than his wife own so as to regain respect. Bro, you self check am. Just check am. Are we men not fooling ourselves in this thing called Love and Marriage? Of what usefulness is Love and Marriage if the people we claim to love, we can’t be there for them in their time of struggle or Low? Is it not better not to marry? Or fall in stupid Love? Must we really Love or marry in a man/woman relationship? Is it really worth all the time, sacrifices, efforts, resources etc? Why are we hell bent on deceiving the average man? Why? 4 Likes |
Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by emmaodet: 1:19am On Nov 20, 2021 |
abobote: Oga abeg leave “head of family “ position Una dey drag for marriage. Who head of family help? Head of family, head of family and you dey die dey go. I want to be a real man, head of family etc are the reasons most men are stretched to the limit. If a woman won’t be your financial backup plan in life without her demeaning or insulting you, brother she has no business doing in your life. Know this and know peace. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by emmaodet: 1:19am On Nov 20, 2021 |
Stomoney: Hmmmmmmmmmmm Your story is similar to mine. Thank God your eyes are open now. I will recommend this thread to you - https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know. Go through it to cement your transition brother. 1 Like |
Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by Nobody: 1:21am On Nov 20, 2021 |
womenareapess: Emphasis on female! Glad you know you're their male counterpart! A baboon with a diseased gbola...and the mentality of a slave... |
Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by jimcaddy(m): 1:25am On Nov 20, 2021 |
Exactly. women by nature are not wired to carry responsibilities. It's the man's burden. Not to even now talk of a Nigerian woman. She will nag and make your life a living head until you get back on your feet and perform your duties as a man. Women are built to be supportive not to be the bearer of responsibility. Every man should know this and know peace. |
Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by ema2020: 2:29am On Nov 20, 2021 |
Denvacandy:many men don hustle and die in the name of slavery thing call marriage 1 Like |
Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by TrueNigerian300: 2:54am On Nov 20, 2021 |
abobote: At the bolded....only the wise ones will understand that. Humans are naturally selfish and greedy we are always after our interests. Like you said there is no such things as unconditional love...Love itself is all about interest...You love someone because of your interest in them E.g for a man it could a beautiful looking woman, or big breasts or whatever. For the woman it could be the man's wallet, intelligence etc. Even your parents love you for a reason and fundamentally it is because you are their blood. I can't justify what your wife has done but that is the reality of life and you have to face it.I wish you all the best. 1 Like |
Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by alexola20(m): 4:58am On Nov 20, 2021 |
@denvacandy,listen good all women are the same. They will treat you like sh!t when you are down in any way at all. Some of them will even believe that you will never get up or get well again. I don’t know if it’s a good thing to have a woman around you when you are not very financially comfortable. They are parasites. Sorry guys it is what it is. 1 Like |
Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by alexola20(m): 5:08am On Nov 20, 2021 |
All women are the same bros. I have seen in Nigerian women and European women same that don’t want their husbands to be successful so that they can trample on them anyhow. I am really scared of a woman. If I start writing wetin my mum take my eyes see because I no drop money when I was in 9ja no be small thing(story for another time). Thisis2raw: 2 Likes |
Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by IdJack(m): 6:26am On Nov 20, 2021 |
OP I understand your plight. Go and look for another job or get a skills. God will help you. Kindly check my signature. |
Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by Munzy14(m): 6:27am On Nov 20, 2021 |
Mariangeles: Sometimes you don't need to pick offense when you see comments like that, Women have done some guys ihe Obi m gbawa a lot. |
Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by Raalsalghul: 6:44am On Nov 20, 2021 |
emmaodet: Head of Family them: "Awon ndi providers". 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by pocohantas(f): 6:50am On Nov 20, 2021 |
emmaodet: Yes, he should go get a good job. That is the same advice you guys give women being disrespected- MADAM GET A JOB, DON’T BE A LIABILITY, NO MAN LOVES A LIABILITY. Last week there was a woman with this same issue of job loss and you all told her to get her ass off the couch and go work. Despite the fact that she was taking care of 3 toddlers. Did it suddenly become a bad advice or deception because a man is involved? He should not be LIABILITY. 4 Likes |
Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by coretechng1(m): 7:39am On Nov 20, 2021 |
NOETHNICITY:if u include rent and school fees your monthly bill may hitting like 400k according to you and with a monthly expense of 400k u don't have a house. Hmmmmmm. My advice for u is cut your bills to cut your bills to 150k and start pumping the 250k saving to building a house for your self u better wise up. 1 Like |
Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by Mariangeles(f): 7:45am On Nov 20, 2021 |
Munzy14: O nwere ihe mmadu na agahu agutafu na forum a? Ike gwuru o! Ndidi ka e ji a no nga o. |
Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by Mavor: 7:46am On Nov 20, 2021 |
Newboss:Gay fire!!! |
Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by aldonem(m): 8:14am On Nov 20, 2021 |
if you are already married now with a working spouse, cut your current family expenses, force your wife to pick bills while you hurriedly get a small house for the family. |
Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by Beze992(f): 8:33am On Nov 20, 2021 |
TheRedpillguy: Or in Hosea |
Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by space9880: 8:36am On Nov 20, 2021 |
Denvacandy:that's how women are weird. Ingrates |
Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by nienam(f): 8:39am On Nov 20, 2021 |
Women respect hustle. At least the real women do. Pick a hustle, even if its uber or keke, just be going out in the morning and coming home in the evening with small change and leave the rest for her. |
Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by Beze992(f): 9:09am On Nov 20, 2021 |
pocohantas: Honestly, I'm appalled at the double standard. No man loves a liability yen yen yen, but when it concerns a man, the woman should be understanding. I'm not exonerating the OP's wife, but I don't know the full story, so there's a need to be objective here. I think some of these men bring these stories here, because they know there are men here ever ready to do the usual women bashing for them. |
Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by vikgreen01(m): 9:22am On Nov 20, 2021 |
That’s why they use to say on your leave period go home and tell your wife you’ve been sack and see how things unfold. May God see u through sir!!! |
Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by pocohantas(f): 9:58am On Nov 20, 2021 |
Beze992: It is their way. I bet you if the OP was a female, I can stake my full month salary that they will tell her to go get a job because her husband is stressed. They no even born her well to mention she paid bills. They will say that is bow women are, if they give you N1, the whole world would know. He should go get another job please. I said it with my full chest. |
Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by otis3(m): 11:05am On Nov 20, 2021 |
Bro the truth is your wife is really trying, is not for a woman to have a non working husband and if she doesn't give you those attitude, you will feel relax and push little.you need to buckle up and try harder to regain your position back secondly don't ever see her as a bad woman, even your mother can give you an harder attitude if it happens that she's in her shoe. Lastly thank your God she picked up a teaching job unlike other promiscious ladies out there. Your wife is not selfish, she's hard working and contented.... |
Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by emmaodet: 1:15pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Raalsalghul: Hahahaha Don’t mind them. Head of family, head of family and you dey die dey go. Abegii |
Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by emmaodet: 1:19pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
pocohantas: Don’t get me wrong Poco. It is not a bad advice but you have to look at the trend, it is staggering. 90% of the time a mama loses his job, he is likely going to lose his wife too and that is very very bad. What happens to the vows on altar? What happens to Love? Or can we safely say Love is never enough? In that case, why deceiving each other with it? |
Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by pocohantas(f): 1:31pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
emmaodet: Love is never enough. For a logical gender, I wonder why you guys haven’t made peace with this. Women have what they expect of their men, just as you have yours. Please enough of these wailings, you know what your partners want, do it. Provide, knack them, make their meals, keep in shape. If your partner decides to induce high bp and depression, run. This thing no hard. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by Greenerie(f): 1:36pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
[ The simple truth is she is a bad woman and wife.if she was smart she will appreciate him,support him,encourage him,use sweet words,to motivate him to try harder and get a job. She would have praise him by saying my man,you have done it before and you will still do it again.you have been taking care of me and my babies,this is just a little challenge,u will bounce back. Watch how this man will move mountains, to impress her. But since she got no sense,the reverse is the case. quote author=pansophist post=107773668]Lots of folks are telling him to go get a job and get himself back on track, which is not a bad advice in itself, but the angle I'm looking at it from is that, how can he be able to trust his wife again? Isn't marriage based on trust, support and love anymore? If she treated him like this when he is down, then why is the obligation on him to level up and keep up with a woman that he shouldn't be married to in the first place? Men marry with the impression that the wife is virtuous, supportive and a ride or die ally, but Situation the op experience is so painful, bordering traumatic. Personally for me, I can't look at such woman again as my wife, and that will end the marriage. What's the point carrying a dead weight on me? If a woman can't support you when things are hard, then of what usefulness is her presence in my life? This is why I'm a proponent of testing the virtue of any woman you want to be with it. I mean, even a sheep is virtuous and supportive when things are going on smoothly, but the true test of character is when things are rough. Just a little challenge and she messed up big time. It should be up to her to regain his trust, not for him to appease her by getting back on his feet and pretend like nothing happened. Putting the burden of leveling up financially on the man, without pointing to the despicable behaviour of the wife is wrong, and quite unfair o him. Even children are disciplined to be moral, good and observe ordained protocols, what more of an adult woman that knows what marriage is all about when she said "I do"?. This is so Sad [/quote] 1 Like |
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