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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Shellsploit: 8:03pm On Nov 28, 2021
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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by visijo(m): 8:03pm On Nov 28, 2021
Nice
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by femi4: 8:03pm On Nov 28, 2021
mascot345:
Please I just clocked 35 years two days ago.
I have money to get married but I wan build small estate before marriage.

I wan marry at 40 .

Please I need good advice here. As our economy is too bad. I don't want to bring children that will come and suffer.
People are seriously advicing me to marry next year.
I already have land in a good location.

But some of my girlfriends are encouraging me to marry them before building anything.

My girlfriend said we can hustle together and build a better tomorrow.

I have like 3 girls who are willing to say yes next year.

Please good advise is welcomed.
Thanks everyone.
You want to be paying school fees at 60. God forbid

Invest in family now, and relax and enjoy your old age

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by vickydevoka(m): 8:04pm On Nov 28, 2021
Xenry:
Bro, don't listen to those girls that want you to marry them. Even if they get married tommorow, relax, women no dey finish.
Well, that's so wise of you- building an asset before getting married. That's good bro. And about everything being too late, bro, relax, you no be woman wey dey get menopause, how old was Ned Nwoko when he got married? You see? You no get any problem.
Marry when you're ready, not when you're pressured. And I like the part you wrote that you don't want to bring children that will come and suffer —That's how it should be!
Baba ladies way never marry way don reach 40 don die? Marriage no be for everybody. No listen to any woman. If Dem tell u say u go old b4 u born, tell Dem day at least u better pass ladies way hit menopause way no born, Dem go just keep quiet

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Olamilekxy(m): 8:04pm On Nov 28, 2021
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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by tradepunter: 8:04pm On Nov 28, 2021
That's very good
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by petsey(m): 8:04pm On Nov 28, 2021
Lol...
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Harrynight(m): 8:04pm On Nov 28, 2021
Being fully prepared financially and otherwise before getting married and inviting marital responsibilities is a good idea.
However I would advise you if you have a reasonably steady source of income right now just get married I know what I'm saying.

If you get married at the age of 40 and start having children at the age of 41 my brother sooner or later you will regret not starting earlier.

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Nobody: 8:04pm On Nov 28, 2021
mascot345:
Please I just clocked 35 years two days ago.
I have money to get married but I wan build small estate before marriage.

I wan marry at 40 .

Please I need good advice here. As our economy is too bad. I don't want to bring children that will come and suffer.
People are seriously advicing me to marry next year.
I already have land in a good location.

But some of my girlfriends are encouraging me to marry them before building anything.

My girlfriend said we can hustle together and build a better tomorrow.

I have like 3 girls who are willing to say yes next year.

Please good advise is welcomed.
Thanks everyone.

LOL, you are dating three ladies at the same time and you have proposed marriage to three of them. Now, if it's a lady that did this, na olosho we go dey hear up and down grin

Iyaebe, come and see your people oo

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Olamilekxy(m): 8:05pm On Nov 28, 2021
Better get married now

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Mvena(f): 8:05pm On Nov 28, 2021
God help you

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Useku(m): 8:06pm On Nov 28, 2021
Never join resources with any woman to build a house or business, it always ends in regrets!

Never consider a lady while taking marriage decision,be 100% selfish,cuz they won't consider you in the marriage when chips are down.

Spend 85% percent of the money building a mini flat first even if not completed yet.

The remaining 15% can be used for the marriage(do am anyhow,e nor dey always pay off)

Born\marry if you like,latest at 37. 40 is late.

No go marry for court o

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by ednut1(m): 8:07pm On Nov 28, 2021
Get married now. At 60 your first born go dey 100 level. Which to me na nonsense lol. The estate can even make you a target of gold diggers who will secretly kill you. Be wise

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Bmuhd4smile: 8:08pm On Nov 28, 2021
chatinent:
Five years remaining to reach one beautiful adage.

You deserve Comment of the year award

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Shalommy(f): 8:08pm On Nov 28, 2021
That's your personal problem so deal with it... Chaiii..
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by SportsHD: 8:09pm On Nov 28, 2021
chatinent:
Five years remaining to reach one beautiful adage.
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by WIZGUY69(m): 8:09pm On Nov 28, 2021
Moderators should ban this fool
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Nobody: 8:09pm On Nov 28, 2021
Build a family and build an estate.

Firstly, look for a mature girl who can tolerate you and she must know your plan of building a house(a good woman will help you carry out your plan of owning an estate).

Life is not guaranteed.

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Sirchiboy: 8:09pm On Nov 28, 2021
mascot345:
Please I just clocked 35 years two days ago.
I have money to get married but I wan build small estate before marriage.

I wan marry at 40 .

Please I need good advice here. As our economy is too bad. I don't want to bring children that will come and suffer.
People are seriously advicing me to marry next year.
I already have land in a good location.

But some of my girlfriends are encouraging me to marry them before building anything.

My girlfriend said we can hustle together and build a better tomorrow.

I have like 3 girls who are willing to say yes next year.

Please good advise is welcomed.
Thanks everyone.
.
Baba as God do bless you.
Abeg bless your boy.
Hunger na bad thing.

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Elnathan454(m): 8:10pm On Nov 28, 2021
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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by bluefilm: 8:10pm On Nov 28, 2021
Whether you marry now or you marry in five years time, one thing is sure: you go still experience marriage wahala.

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by udemzyudex(m): 8:10pm On Nov 28, 2021
Hahaha.. You go reach 45 before you marry be that m
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Mexyz(m): 8:11pm On Nov 28, 2021
mascot345:
.

Thanks my Guy.
grin grin... Wetin you dey thank that guy for?

Abi you no know the adage wey him dey refer to?

A fool at 40 is a fool forever

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by DozieSixtus: 8:11pm On Nov 28, 2021
Your lack of effort in trying to find the right partner is the only thing preventing you from marrying and building the estate. If you marry a good lady, she will support you to build a house. If you marry a bad one, the profit from that your estate still be wasted.

Sha na your money. Do with it what you want.

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Nobody: 8:12pm On Nov 28, 2021
mascot345:
Please I just clocked 35 years two days ago.
I have money to get married but I wan build small estate before marriage.

I wan marry at 40 .

Please I need good advice here. As our economy is too bad. I don't want to bring children that will come and suffer.
People are seriously advicing me to marry next year.
I already have land in a good location.

But some of my girlfriends are encouraging me to marry them before building anything.

My girlfriend said we can hustle together and build a better tomorrow.

I have like 3 girls who are willing to say yes next year.

Please good advise is welcomed.
Thanks everyone.


Take heart

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by realray(m): 8:12pm On Nov 28, 2021
mascot345:
Please I just clocked 35 years two days ago.
I have money to get married but I wan build small estate before marriage.

I wan marry at 40 .

Please I need good advice here. As our economy is too bad. I don't want to bring children that will come and suffer.
People are seriously advicing me to marry next year.
I already have land in a good location.

But some of my girlfriends are encouraging me to marry them before building anything.

My girlfriend said we can hustle together and build a better tomorrow.

I have like 3 girls who are willing to say yes next year.

Please good advise is welcomed.
Thanks everyone.


Oga build ur life first leave woman because at the end we men are meant to take care of them so forget those ur three galfndz encouraging you to marry them and focus on ur future and urself especially now that everything is on the high side in Nigeria which will kept on increasing so my brother what ever you want to build be it business or estate do it fast, establish yourself first and av a sustaining business then you can settle down but for now don't listen to any woman telling you to marry them.....a word is enough for the wise..

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Horlardorjah(m): 8:12pm On Nov 28, 2021
mascot345:
Please I just clocked 35 years two days ago.
I have money to get married but I wan build small estate before marriage.

I wan marry at 40 .

Please I need good advice here. As our economy is too bad. I don't want to bring children that will come and suffer.
People are seriously advicing me to marry next year.
I already have land in a good location.

But some of my girlfriends are encouraging me to marry them before building anything.

My girlfriend said we can hustle together and build a better tomorrow.

I have like 3 girls who are willing to say yes next year.

Please good advise is welcomed.
Thanks everyone.

Biko, let me design the architectural plan for your mini estate like now now my brother. Even the ladies will hail and rate you higher in the next five years than now.
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by ENIGMATIC2023(m): 8:13pm On Nov 28, 2021
Before build whatever you want to build before marriage. Marriage is not an easy venture, don't mind those jobless girlfriends of yours.
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by olamoses75(m): 8:14pm On Nov 28, 2021
mascot345:
Please I just clocked 35 years two days ago.
I have money to get married but I wan build small estate before marriage.

I wan marry at 40 .

Please I need good advice here. As our economy is too bad. I don't want to bring children that will come and suffer.
People are seriously advicing me to marry next year.
I already have land in a good location.

But some of my girlfriends are encouraging me to marry them before building anything.

My girlfriend said we can hustle together and build a better tomorrow.

I have like 3 girls who are willing to say yes next year.

Please good advise is welcomed.
Thanks everyone.
nawa o. Already have like 3 ladies that are ready to say yes, while I’m still looking for just one. Poverty na bastard!
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Hezmatosky: 8:14pm On Nov 28, 2021
You just wan make noise sha kiss estate ko escape ni sad
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by AfroKnight: 8:15pm On Nov 28, 2021
Marry then build the estate.

If after looking at your earnings, you actually feel marriage will prevent you from building that estate, then you are not buoyant enough to build it.

Getting married and raising a family within a year costs far less than building a mini estate.
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Nobody: 8:16pm On Nov 28, 2021
op spend all your present savings on the house project. Then you pick ur choice from your many girlfriends, tell her indoor traditional marriage with only close family members plus either blessing of marriage or court marriage. maximum cost 200k. If any of them no agree, just divert the money back to your house project

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