joe4christ:


If she's good and you love her. Then don't waste time any further. Wife her. Then establish a business for her and since she's an ambitious lady. She will do well. With that business she can now foot the bills of her parents. Simple!

Wife who??
The girl is just deceiving him...
A girl the Op is doing that much for like he’s the father would have been known by her poor parents....because there’s no how the parents won’t ask who’s bankrolling all are fees in school...

The fact they don’t know the guy means two things..
1. she’s lying to her parents how she’s surviving in school and the guy is not worth anything to her....

2. Her parents pays her fees and she’s just lying to the OP to get extra money guy...which still means the guy means nothing but an ATM.

yinkaOdutuyo:


She is ambitious though, but her parent can't help.

True, I can see. She uses you to climb to certain level, and dump you for someone much better than you along the way. Mark my words. That's what ambitious girls do when dating a simp like you

yinkaOdutuyo:



It's not too late, at least trying to push her to press her parent to be at least a bit responsible

Mr man you keep mentioning her parents, her parents. Would they kill themselves because they gave birth to a girl? Her parents are legally responsible for her upkeep till the age 18 when she becomes an adult.

Is this girl in question not human enough to fend for her daily bread even as a student? Boys and other girls her age are doing one thing or the other legally to earn a living and you are here talking about her innocent parent as if she is crippled.

From my observation you spoilt the girl from the beginning.

yinkaOdutuyo:


Ok what do you think I can do?

Ask her to go get a job.

Ulunne777:
Keep doing it.You woke up late.

Somebody you already sponsored ND1 and paid rent for ,feeding money come be problem.

You will be there and someone else will colect her.

"Paul planted, Apollo watered but Ifeanyi took the increase" na so e go do my chairman when him see her with pregnancy for another man, the guy never realize say u no dey form CLO for Community Slut sorry, Slot.

Op na confirm simp
Watch her dump ur ass

Lastanza:


Mr man you keep mentioning her parents, her parents. Would they kill themselves because they gave birth to a girl? Her parents are legally responsible for her upkeep till the age 18 when she becomes an adult.

Is this girl in question not human enough to fend for her daily bread even as a student? Boys and other girls her age are doing one thing or the other legally to earn a living and you are here talking about her innocent parent as if she is crippled.

From my observation you spoilt the girl from the beginning.

Yinkaodutayo already knows that she spoilt her... what’s bugging the guy now is how will she still be asking for feeding money when she’s at are parent’s house...na internally displaced peoples camp them dey live..??

. it’s evident the girl is just using him... no pity whatsoever for the guy.... a girl wey truly love a guy no dey bill like that.. but guys will never listen..

Iyaebe:
Shebi you've been having sex with her so stop complaining and do your responsibilities in peace or didn't you know she has parents before you start parting her legs endlessly and asking her to come spend weeks, months with you?there's nothing like free sex,even the married one's are directly and Indirectly paying for the sex,let's all stop deceiving ourselves

Sure not a prob for v*Gina people
But probleeeeeeem for fellow nigga

yinkaOdutuyo
post=108218056:



Is not a problem, but I don't think is proper for me to be feeding her, even when she's in her parent house bro.

Iyaebe:
You expected me to shy away from the bitter truth? it is the reason I'm always the odd one out in most opinions on issues because i spit reality,you are enjoying marital bliss and other conjugal enjoyments but you don't want to spend,are you her creator? As long as you are sleeping with her please don't complain of any demands from her,nothing is free,not even the air we breath.

So she is not enjoying the sex too? Abi she no dey cum?

Na you money too much for your hand na...

yinkaOdutuyo:
Pls I need your advice on this.

Since have being dating my fiancee going to 3 years now, I have being doing almost all her parent responsibilities.

I was the one that sent her to school -ND1 and ND2, I paid all the semesters school fees.

I also paid her 2 years rent, when she was in the school. All her handouts and school bills were paid by me. Even till feeding.

Her parent are just to poor, that they can't even provide what they'll eat for themselves.

I did almost everything within my power to provide for her and help her parent atimes with some little I can afford.

Now she's done with her ND programme, am planing to enrol her for a professional Catering Job, which is amount to almost 250k.

At times she come to my place and spent like 2weeks, 3 weeks or even 1 week with me.

So of a recent her mom asked her to come home and spend some days with them.

She now called and ask me for feeding money, but I was angry and I asked her, Can't your parent provide basic needs? Like feeding, clothes etc. You'll be in my house I'll provide what you'll eat and when you're in your parent too, I'll still be the one to provide what you'll eat. Didn't your dad go out every morning to go and work?

I just told her, that if her parent can't provide basic needs, I don't think is proper.

And again she's the type that want to wear what other ladies are wearing and want to up to standard.

And I didn't send any money to her.

I just want to know if am wrong for asking her that. because her dad is alive and mom is healthy, but they're always broke and no money, that they hardly feed 3 square meals.

yinkaOdutuyo:



Is not a problem, but I don't think is proper for me to be feeding her, even when she's in her parent house bro.

Your eye is opening...
Does the parent know you??
Have they called once to appreciate you??

She’s just using you...
Her parents probably pay all her bills and she’s just using you for extra cash...

because if u really mattered to her, she would have told her parents about the person feeding, clothing and paying her school fees..

Nigga... u be ATM..

franchasng:

lol how are you doing

KiNg0G:
Oh lord , any sîmp in my bloodline like this op that will cause me future grievance, let it miscarriage.

Na me make 666 epic

dennis7179:
Sorry to burst your Bubble ,i am happily married with kids.I saw my wife through school which i stated earlier here and never had any reson to regret it.I knew her when she was in Jss 3 and i was the one that sent her through school but she was hardworking too.i did all i did because we both share the same mutual feelings and set of goals.She is in UK now for her Phd and i am happy to have spent my money on her.See,there is no big deal spending on a girl you know has a zeal and passion for greatness in life so long you both have mutual goals But people like you are not worthy of those privileges because you saw rich guys as a gold mine meanwhile you cant even make something good out of your life because you already embedded your brain to the idea of "i cant survive without a rich man"syndrome.Still i pity your life.

Boy BYE!!!

yinkaOdutuyo:


She want to enroll for catering professional now, which will be like 6months

You have tried, propose to her, give her belle and continue to feed her. life is not more than that.

No, u don't need advice bruv but deliverance! .. Chaii dz ppu sef, una no dey ever learn?

Iyaebe:
Shebi you've been having sex with her so stop complaining and do your responsibilities in peace or didn't you know she has parents before you start parting her legs endlessly and asking her to come spend weeks, months with you?there's nothing like free sex,even the married one's are directly and Indirectly paying for the sex,let's all stop deceiving ourselves

you can never be reasonable again since you have seen yourself as a sex tool..mugu

Meedon:

You don talk better thing today.

we still dey wait make your father talk Better thing

yinkaOdutuyo:



Is not a problem, but I don't think is proper for me to be feeding her, even when she's in her parent house bro.

.

She is Not a resourceful person, that spirit of poverty does not shake off easily. If you have nothing to teach her to grow her into someone that can be independent then i pity you.

You will remain the ATM forever

Sorry to say this, your gf is a lazy type, can't she not work and earn cash by herself, must she depend on you on everything, generally her family is very lazy cos if you both get married, na you go provide even her undies, pls you got to sit her down and talk to her

You done dey naked the girl so it's your responsibility to feed her.

This OP ...don f... up
Oga don start d spending ontop girl he never marry LMFAO

This guy don loose ...abeg make e move on with the losses ...hahahaha the girl na another man go marry her at last

So guys wey mugu like dis still de

yinkaOdutuyo:
Pls I need your advice on this.

Since have being dating my fiancee going to 3 years now, I have being doing almost all her parent responsibilities.

I was the one that sent her to school -ND1 and ND2, I paid all the semesters school fees.

I also paid her 2 years rent, when she was in the school. All her handouts and school bills were paid by me. Even till feeding.

Her parent are just to poor, that they can't even provide what they'll eat for themselves.

I did almost everything within my power to provide for her and help her parent atimes with some little I can afford.

Now she's done with her ND programme, am planing to enrol her for a professional Catering Job, which is amount to almost 250k.

At times she come to my place and spent like 2weeks, 3 weeks or even 1 week with me.

So of a recent her mom asked her to come home and spend some days with them.

She now called and ask me for feeding money, but I was angry and I asked her, Can't your parent provide basic needs? Like feeding, clothes etc. You'll be in my house I'll provide what you'll eat and when you're in your parent too, I'll still be the one to provide what you'll eat. Didn't your dad go out every morning to go and work?

I just told her, that if her parent can't provide basic needs, I don't think is proper.

And again she's the type that want to wear what other ladies are wearing and want to up to standard.

And I didn't send any money to her.

I just want to know if am wrong for asking her that. because her dad is alive and mom is healthy, but they're always broke and no money, that they hardly feed 3 square meals.

Your statement is very rude towards her Parent, is God that gives wealth not by power, coming to her demanding Woman is like a pot of oil you don't want any stain don't get near it

Favfables1:


Honestly chief...
You made her and her parents too comfortable to the point where she and her family have become very complacent...
You sponsored her through school and during that time, I'm sure you were also giving her money for upkeep and the likes...
You took upon yourself the role of her father, when youre clearly not, you're not even her husband sef...
And now that she has grown comfortable to seeing you as such, you want to suddenly spring up this?? And you think that there won't be problems??
I'm not saying what you did was bad o, buh I think your timing and the extent to which you did it was way overboard...

As to what you can do....
I can't say, I can only highlight what I would've done in your shoes...

I'd hold on a little on paying for the catering...
I'll tell her to get something to do with the qualifications she currently has, I'll advice her to save up money and pay for her catering schooling herself...
If it's important to her, she should start putting up the effort...
The best I'll do from now on is to support her once once liadat, but the bulk of her financial needs will be on her and her family alone...

And lastly, I'll bear in mind that, she could leave me at any time and I'll be mentally prepared for it...

Thumb up

In such a poverty infested home, her focus should have been on creating income all this while, not trying to live to standard of other girls. She has not learnt anything from the poverty and very likely not a good fit for you.

When she is done with the catering school, she is going to be back asking for millions to set up. When you provide that, then her poor sense in managing what you are giving her will shine through.

Let her go.

Bro, if God is providing it for you, continue doing it. So far you love her .

yinkaOdutuyo:
Pls I need your advice on this.

Since have being dating my fiancee going to 3 years now, I have being doing almost all her parent responsibilities.

I was the one that sent her to school -ND1 and ND2, I paid all the semesters school fees.

I also paid her 2 years rent, when she was in the school. All her handouts and school bills were paid by me. Even till feeding.

Her parent are just to poor, that they can't even provide what they'll eat for themselves.

I did almost everything within my power to provide for her and help her parent atimes with some little I can afford.

Now she's done with her ND programme, am planing to enrol her for a professional Catering Job, which is amount to almost 250k.

At times she come to my place and spent like 2weeks, 3 weeks or even 1 week with me.

So of a recent her mom asked her to come home and spend some days with them.

She now called and ask me for feeding money, but I was angry and I asked her, Can't your parent provide basic needs? Like feeding, clothes etc. You'll be in my house I'll provide what you'll eat and when you're in your parent too, I'll still be the one to provide what you'll eat. Didn't your dad go out every morning to go and work?

I just told her, that if her parent can't provide basic needs, I don't think is proper.

And again she's the type that want to wear what other ladies are wearing and want to up to standard.

And I didn't send any money to her.

I just want to know if am wrong for asking her that. because her dad is alive and mom is healthy, but they're always broke and no money, that they hardly feed 3 square meals.

Keep the good job, you are doing very well. A very SIMPle with a good heart.

yinkaOdutuyo:
Pls I need your advice on this.

Since have being dating my fiancee going to 3 years now, I have being doing almost all her parent responsibilities.

I was the one that sent her to school -ND1 and ND2, I paid all the semesters school fees.

I also paid her 2 years rent, when she was in the school. All her handouts and school bills were paid by me. Even till feeding.

Her parent are just to poor, that they can't even provide what they'll eat for themselves.

I did almost everything within my power to provide for her and help her parent atimes with some little I can afford.

Now she's done with her ND programme, am planing to enrol her for a professional Catering Job, which is amount to almost 250k.

At times she come to my place and spent like 2weeks, 3 weeks or even 1 week with me.

So of a recent her mom asked her to come home and spend some days with them.

She now called and ask me for feeding money, but I was angry and I asked her, Can't your parent provide basic needs? Like feeding, clothes etc. You'll be in my house I'll provide what you'll eat and when you're in your parent too, I'll still be the one to provide what you'll eat. Didn't your dad go out every morning to go and work?

I just told her, that if her parent can't provide basic needs, I don't think is proper.

And again she's the type that want to wear what other ladies are wearing and want to up to standard.

And I didn't send any money to her.

I just want to know if am wrong for asking her that. because her dad is alive and mom is healthy, but they're always broke and no money, that they hardly feed 3 square meals.

Teach her how to fish, stop giving her fish. Let her have a side hustle, she might be the one to rescue her family from poverty

Just get married to her if you are ready 4marriage b4 she betray u... Cos that how most of this kind of story end #betrayal

yinkaOdutuyo:
Pls I need your advice on this.

Since have being dating my fiancee going to 3 years now, I have being doing almost all her parent responsibilities.

I was the one that sent her to school -ND1 and ND2, I paid all the semesters school fees.

I also paid her 2 years rent, when she was in the school. All her handouts and school bills were paid by me. Even till feeding.

Her parent are just to poor, that they can't even provide what they'll eat for themselves.

I did almost everything within my power to provide for her and help her parent atimes with some little I can afford.

Now she's done with her ND programme, am planing to enrol her for a professional Catering Job, which is amount to almost 250k.

At times she come to my place and spent like 2weeks, 3 weeks or even 1 week with me.

So of a recent her mom asked her to come home and spend some days with them.

She now called and ask me for feeding money, but I was angry and I asked her, Can't your parent provide basic needs? Like feeding, clothes etc. You'll be in my house I'll provide what you'll eat and when you're in your parent too, I'll still be the one to provide what you'll eat. Didn't your dad go out every morning to go and work?

I just told her, that if her parent can't provide basic needs, I don't think is proper.

And again she's the type that want to wear what other ladies are wearing and want to up to standard.

And I didn't send any money to her.

I just want to know if am wrong for asking her that. because her dad is alive and mom is healthy, but they're always broke and no money, that they hardly feed 3 square meals.

You just lost an angel.

Iyaebe:
lol how are you doing

Very well, hope u are good