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God1000:
I just came across a story on Facebook today, a man was lamenting and seeking for advice on what to do, he's at his wit's end.
Here's the story, the man lost his wife at child's birth and after awhile he met another lady that assisted him in raising the child, he eventually had a soft spot for her and sent her to university with the hope of marrying the girl the moment she finishes from school.

The problem now is that the lady doesn't pick his calls like before, she hardly calls him and the man is nonplussed.

Why are ladies giving guys every justifiable reason not to help them
again?
Is this smartness or turpitude?

since the lady assited him with his child he should consider that a form of payment for her help.

He shouldn't see it as though he's doing her a favor.

SIMPle man

henryobinna:
since the lady assited him with his child he should consider that a form of payment for her help.

He shouldn't see it as though he's doing her a favor.

Are you serious?

Sonnobax15:

A similar thing once happened to my elder bro friend...Na once the guy arrange some of him fellow close nigha men to track her reach her mama house......The luck wey the guy get na be say he dey keep all the tellerd wey he dey use send her money all those while for school......Na once she knee down and begin shed tears,dey beg...But the guy no gree forgive her..

Wetin pain the guy na be say she even send the guy invitation via WhatsApp......Las las,her mum gats raise money to settle the guy...

If I dey kind to you,no think say I be fool....just that,I dey naturally nice..

No body be mugu

it's just a pity sha,,,the reply back most ladies give back is and so ,if u helped me ,what does that mean ,,and that statement is very very vet painful

henryobinna:
since the lady assited him with his child he should consider that a form of payment for her help.

He shouldn't see it as though he's doing her a favor.

she helped raise the child for what intention,,,see in a relationship we should have a purpose

imbecilty

God1000:
I just came across a story on Facebook today, a man was lamenting and seeking for advice on what to do, he's at his wit's end.
Here's the story, the man lost his wife at child's birth and after awhile he met another lady that assisted him in raising the child, he eventually had a soft spot for her and sent her to university with the hope of marrying the girl the moment she finishes from school.

The problem now is that the lady doesn't pick his calls like before, she hardly calls him and the man is nonplussed.

Why are ladies giving guys every justifiable reason not to help them
again?
Is this smartness or turpitude?

Very unwise

Don’t try it or give am belle as she dey study dey go

God1000:
We just have to learn from people's mistakes.
This nonsense has to stop

most people prefer to learn from their own mistake rather than other people mistake,since years ago ,of how one yahoo boy send one girl go uniben part time and the relationship ended the moment she graduated ,I have learnt that in a relationship have limit ,if possible tell her to bring half and u will give her half any thing given fully women don't appreciate let them contribute their own too ,

Sonnobax15:

A similar thing once happened to my elder bro friend...Na once the guy arrange some of him fellow close nigha men to track her reach her mama house......The luck wey the guy get na be say he dey keep all the tellerd wey he dey use send her money all those while for school......Na once she knee down and begin shed tears,dey beg...But the guy no gree forgive her..

Wetin pain the guy na be say she even send the guy invitation via WhatsApp......Las las,her mum gats raise money to settle the guy...

If I dey kind to you,no think say I be fool....just that,I dey naturally nice..

No body be mugu

Your brother friend is a capital f.o.ol.
His luck is that the girl gat nobody to hit him up. The girl forced him to bring out the money? What of all the time he was f.king her? Did he pay? If you can't bear the loss marry her before sending her to school. Stop spending stupidly and finding who to blame. Nonsense

Na wa for simps.

Offpoint1:
Any doing that or thinking about doing should stop.

I have a female friend which her boyfriend has been sponsoring her schools for years, she's serving now. She confided in me that should won't marry the guy... I was heartbroken cuz I know this guy through her, very quiet guy. I won't even state what he does for a living, this compounds the pain.

Only train a woman you've married.

Not just the bolded above. Also make sure she has atlesast 2 to 3 kids for you already. If not OYO is your case!

Mistakes that could easily be corrected,

if i was the man, i will first of all gets her pregnant, marry her , she gives birth then we discuss school, just when she's gain admission, boom I get her pregnant again, she will birth my kids before she graduate

Offpoint1:
Any doing that or thinking about doing should stop.

I have a female friend which her boyfriend has been sponsoring her schools for years, she's serving now. She confided in me that should won't marry the guy... I was heartbroken cuz I know this guy through her, very quiet guy. I won't even state what he does for a living, this compounds the pain.

Only train a woman you've married.

u better help that poor brother, before he goes back to square 1 ,at least make a proverb to him,

Na mumu dey do that one

Women be like lion wey trap catch for hand. If you save am, you will be the first to devour

FiverrTutor:
Not just the bolded above. Also make sure she has atlesast 2 to 3 kids for you already. If not OYO is your case!

sending a woman to school isn't my problem but make she use belle go the school , school is not for show off and nobody is rusticated for been pregnant in university ...but most guys will not learn

'Only a fool learns from his own mistake. The wise man learns from the mistake of others'. Otto Von Bismarck.

Wetin concern anybody? If I were a family member, I would advise him go and train another.

E fit work for am this time.

Sonnobax15:

A similar thing once happened to my elder bro friend...Na once the guy arrange some of him fellow close nigha men to track her reach her mama house......The luck wey the guy get na be say he dey keep all the tellerd wey he dey use send her money all those while for school......Na once she knee down and begin shed tears,dey beg...But the guy no gree forgive her..

Wetin pain the guy na be say she even send the guy invitation via WhatsApp......Las las,her mum gats raise money to settle the guy...

If I dey kind to you,no think say I be fool....just that,I dey naturally nice..

No body be mugu

you must get one story to talk, we hate you and your fake stories.

passed!!

larryking540:
sending a woman to school isn't my problem but make she use belle go the school , school is not for show off and nobody is rusticated for been pregnant in university ...but most guys will not learn

Exactly. I totally agree

Some gals are naturally wicked.. God no go allow us see dem... amin

Nicklaus619:
Mistakes that could easily be corrected,

if i was the man, i will first of all gets her pregnant, marry her , she gives birth then we discuss school, just when she's gain admission, boom I get her pregnant again, she will birth my kids before she graduate

Over sense don finish this one

You're on your own o.
At your peril.
Check my bio for legit IG hokup

I can only train my wife.. anything else is a fat no

Yes I can.. that is if i av enough money and nothing like her being my future wife.. only doing it for God sake

hahahaha you men will never learn . As far as she’s getting what she wants from you without stress she will keep playing Along . Stop trying to use money to woo women in any form it only ends in tears Una no Dey hear something

A lot of you that are bragging here are doing more than sponsoring a girl to school, all these urgent 2ks that you dole out from time to time goes a long if you are keeping records and las las the girl will still fuckup

FiverrTutor:
Exactly. I totally agree

ladies wouldn't comment on threads like this because they know some how some where one guy day under their armpit ,,so they definitely feel guilty talking on threads like this ...make every guy wise up ,,

God1000:
I just came across a story on Facebook today, a man was lamenting and seeking for advice on what to do, he's at his wit's end.
Here's the story, the man lost his wife at child's birth and after awhile he met another lady that assisted him in raising the child, he eventually had a soft spot for her and sent her to university with the hope of marrying the girl the moment she finishes from school.

The problem now is that the lady doesn't pick his calls like before, she hardly calls him and the man is nonplussed.

Why are ladies giving guys every justifiable reason not to help them
again?
Is this smartness or turpitude?

One thing we should know in life is that, there is a reward for everything we do in this life.

Helping someone (either male or female) to achieve their desire should be something done from the heart without expecting a profit or gain in the future.

It is better you don't help at all than helping and expecting to gain from the person you helped, even without their consent.

I don't for once approve sending a lady to school so you can marry her later.What is the job of her parents if i may ask?
Even if she is an orphan,I still don't support it because women are like snakes.They are not straight forward.She might end up bleeping a guy there without your consent.

I would rather help a male like me than help a female because I know I might sexually be attracted to her.So what is the point of helping her in the first place.

I can't send a lady to school.The highest I can do for you as a lady is feed you and it can't be all the time.
Even if you are my wife,I can't still send you to school because I know women are fragile in nature.She can get there now and start bleeping one good for nothing dude and she will keep it a secret.I can open a business for you as my wife because you are now part of my life but school is a no no for me.

Akerele44:
Yes I can.. that is if i av enough money and nothing like her being my future wife.. only doing it for God sake

nothing goes for nothing bro ,there is no free money in free town ,even the death of Jesus Christ was not for free ,,,one day you will ask for the pay ,

Doing such is foolishness, especially when you do it,cause you want to marry her. If she is poor and you're giving her scholarship, maybe because she is very intelligent, I go understand.

Solofresh2:
One thing we should know in life is that, there is a reward for everything we do in this life.

Helping someone (either male or female) to achieve their desire should be something done from the heart without expecting a profit or gain in the future.

It is better you don't help at all than helping and expecting to gain from the person you helped, even without their consent.

I don't for once approve sending a lady to school so you can marry her later.What is the job of her parents if i may ask?
Even if she is an orphan,I still don't support it because women are like snakes.They are not straight forward.She might end up bleeping a guy there without your consent.

I would rather help a male like me than help a female because I know I might sexually be attracted to her.So what is the point of helping her in the first place.

I can't send a lady to school.The highest I can do for you as a lady is feed you and it can't be all the time.
Even if you are my wife,I can't still send you to school because I know women are fragile in nature.She can get there now and start bleeping one good for nothing dude and she will keep it a secret.I can open a business for you as my wife because you are now part of my life but school is a no no for me.

bro or miss ,no man who is eligible for marriage sends a lady to school for free ,there is already a mutual agreement already put in place ,most of these ladies know that already ,why prolong the issue ,then why can't the lady also ask ,the way ladies go to river with egg to swear for a guy because of marriage way no work ,are you aware a guy can also walk to a river and swear for her like that ,,,..date with purpose