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| Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Hassanmaye(m): 10:07am On Dec 07, 2021 |
God1000:Problematic creatures, daughters of Jezebel, Many men will learn the hardest way about that gender! They only know themselves |
| Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Nicklaus619(m): 10:09am On Dec 07, 2021 |
FiverrTutor:Baba, I cannot come and kill my self nah, person need to apply common sense in this kind of situation  |
| Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by larryking540: 10:09am On Dec 07, 2021 |
this is why most men mostly nigeria guys stopped helping ladies and guess what the ladies now do ,many are in street life and few are working legitimately,,, nigeria female's brought this upon themselves ,at my work place when I see the way they work like jakky,,I just feel pity for them but most times I don't at all 3 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Traplord09: 10:12am On Dec 07, 2021 |
Bigredmachine:God done send Lucifer to earth .... Men never no difference between lift and Right |
| Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Brushstrokes20: 10:12am On Dec 07, 2021*. Modified: 7:15am On Dec 08, 2021 |
Bullocks  ...# even marriage / procreation ain't enough! An elderly friend of mine sent his wife who bore him 4 kids to the University, and guess what?......... She still left the man for a sugar boy! ONLY give / invest in a woman what you can afford to LET GO or LOSE ELSE, it may end in eternal REGRETS ! 6 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by 8stargeneral: 10:12am On Dec 07, 2021 |
Na weak men does that in d name of yeye love |
| Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by jimtemi1: 10:13am On Dec 07, 2021 |
If u plan on gaining any thing by doing that, it foolishness.. If u doing it for Goodwill, it blessings |
| Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by juniorstar(m): 10:13am On Dec 07, 2021 |
Sonnobax15:Hope he collect interest join..na compound interest i go collect and na based on exchange rate when i drop the money..i no fit give u 50k in 2010 you con dey give me 50k in 2021 omo u go covert am to dollars as at 2010 con make am 50percent interest per annum..if you fit pay no lele...i go send my aza. |
| Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Jacksparrow7(m): 10:13am On Dec 07, 2021 |
Real food for thought...God please deliver me from any SIMPishness and animal thought |
| Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by blackgold2018(m): 10:15am On Dec 07, 2021 |
God1000:shut tha hell up. She’s your niece and your responsibility. I have a niece too. I’m not after her appreciating but I’m after her happiness. Evil man 1 Like |
| Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Solofresh2: 10:16am On Dec 07, 2021 |
larryking540:Sending a lady to school so that you can marry her is foolishness bro. If you want to help someone,help with no strings attached Like I said earlier I can never send a lady to School so that I can marry her. I don't help females for free because I know I will be sexually attached to them. If a lady wants anything from me,she must work for it 1 Like |
| Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Akano55: 10:22am On Dec 07, 2021 |
for me to sponsor girl in school I will rather use my money play 2odd if he cut, he cut... Guys if you are a student in Nigeria you will understand Nigeria girl... some that are married self dey run school package not to talk of single one.... ole te obinrin Lorun, won ma do some of these ladies collect money from these guys to pay our bills in school.... ,Hmmm may God forgive us our University days.... 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by larryking540: 10:23am On Dec 07, 2021 |
Solofresh2:bro we lack transperacy in our society let me be frank with u ,it's not the mattero f been smart ,,let me shock you ,even after wedding a ladyshe can still leave you even after birthing kids for you ,we mostly in Africa don't have truth in our lips ,,why let a man spend money on you when you both know u have agreed to get married after you graduate abi the guy no fit go school.... why go on a date with a man when u know he will find you sexually attractive and sex will come next ,,we in Africa lack transperacy even to our various homes 2 Likes |
| Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Shaev7(m): 10:23am On Dec 07, 2021 |
Whether we like it or not, either we are medium to peoples success or someone else is a medium to our success, its vice versa, so, whatever it is, its a cross. He has paid the price. Let him move on. Me I stopped looking at those things years ago. Even though I don't have much, learn to understand life principles. 1 Like |
| Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by vickydevoka(m): 10:24am On Dec 07, 2021 |
Men are they most foolish gender in de world 1 Like |
| Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by vislabraye(m): 10:25am On Dec 07, 2021 |
God1000:Training a lady you're not married to most at times do not end well. Marry her first and train her later. 1 Like |
| Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Billygee2u: 10:25am On Dec 07, 2021 |
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| Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Billygee2u: 10:27am On Dec 07, 2021 |
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| Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Gracess: 10:27am On Dec 07, 2021 |
Hard luck it turned out this way for your guy. But sponsoring the education of a girl is no guarantee that she would or should marry him especially when there was no prior amorous relationship between both of them. Kindness is not always reciprocated. We should know and keep this fact at the back of our minds in order to lessen the hurt that comes with unreciprocated kindness. Not that I'm in support of her change of attitude towards him, but remember this story is one-sided for now. A lot of things may have accounted for the girl's new attitude; age, maturity, meeting someone that is open with his feelings towards her, new aspirations etc. Also the guy may not have told all there is to his story. Most of us love to tell our stories the way it suits us best rather than being objective and appreciating our errors, making corrections and then move forward. If eventually she doesn't want him for a husband he just should take it that he has settled her for helping out in taking care of his child when he actually needed help himself. Life's not that bad and shit happens! |
| Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by vislabraye(m): 10:30am On Dec 07, 2021 |
Brushstrokes20:That's a rare case but the guy wouldn't be that pained if he had trained her before marrying. |
| Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Boss13: 10:31am On Dec 07, 2021 |
This thread is part of the numerous mistakes men make in selecting their wives. I have written a thread on how to pick a wife. For those still confused, go and read it. Picking a wife is one of the most important decision a man can ever make. Be guarded. 1 Like |
| Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by vislabraye(m): 10:31am On Dec 07, 2021 |
God1000:That's life. |
| Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by periphetes: 10:31am On Dec 07, 2021 |
If a guy feels so generous in sponsoring his girlfriend through school . There's no obligation that states the lady must marry the sponsor unless base on agreement terms. Otherwise such investment should be placed on legal binding, incase the relationship no longer suits the lady . She must be ready to payback every cent therefore no one feels cheated. Common guys , why do you think the rich white signs prenup agreement its because of such liabilities . Also ladies that offer only sex to a guy as a compensation to your care & love to them. This should be an indication to the guy he is on the bidding table . So if a highest bidder comes around she is free to switch . Smart guys don't date liabilities unless you are ready for whatever outcome. Relationship should be a balance investment to both party . If she has got nothing to bring to the future table except sex just appreciate her short services without complain. Whenever she decides to finally move bid her good luck without you ever regretting. Sponsor your internal family member rather than a lady that could leave you anytime she feels like it. Ps. For those saying make her pregnant or marry her and then sponsor her. I am laughing hard �. you really don't know women at all . [b]You can't tame a wild cat to become a domesticated kitten . [/b]Kolework!!! 1 Like |
| Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Solofresh2: 10:33am On Dec 07, 2021 |
larryking540:And that is the reason why I said earlier on that these women are not straight forward.They are like snakes. So as a man you need to use your head very well when dealing with a woman because no matter how beautiful or innocent she might look, She will manipulate you to the core if you are not wise enough 1 Like |
| Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Akrilla: 10:34am On Dec 07, 2021 |
These kind of stories are no longer news. It's time to be wise. The man should marry the lady before sponsorship, and if he wants to play a good Samaritan then he should sponsor her out of a pure mind without expecting anything in return, to avoid heart break. Meanwhile here's a way to shed weight and transform your body In 1 month with Nigerian diet. https:///yckfsdua |
| Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by larryking540: 10:36am On Dec 07, 2021 |
Solofresh2:man these ladies are ready to milk out a man last money just to satisfy their temporary pleasure,and the funny thing is most people don't even use their degree go study again ,, even over sea 1 Like |
| Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by ashawopikin(m): 10:36am On Dec 07, 2021 |
Why not marry d girl first, like pay small thing for her head or do trad, then u know say ma your wife u dey sponsor |
| Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by ashawopikin(m): 10:39am On Dec 07, 2021 |
brightisodje:for her mind she has paid the guy back with sex |
| Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Olam09(m): 10:39am On Dec 07, 2021 |
Sonnobax15:E happen to one of my guy man too, em dey sponsor one fine girl like that for close to 3 years.. you no go believe me say the guy don spend more than a million naira ontop this ungrateful girl.. they guy pay em waec money, neco money, jamb fee and many other stuff em dey always give her feeding money i think 700 or 1k a day.. Meanwhile the girl don turn olosho now dey give my guy man attitude. That my guy man self just dump we com dey tell am say make em drop the motherfucker e talk say e just wan dey yansh am omo.. some guys are just very foolish. Her parent knows about their relationship and how the guy has been helping her since all this years dem no even fit talk sense to her daughter.  |
| Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by tollyboy5(m): 10:41am On Dec 07, 2021 |
Sonnobax15:That type no be kindness, na foolishness |
| Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by ashawopikin(m): 10:43am On Dec 07, 2021 |
OloshoMan:as we are typing this, thousands of simps are still sponsoring girls and they'll never learn 2 Likes |
| Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by tollyboy5(m): 10:45am On Dec 07, 2021 |
OLDESTWARRIBOY:You dey mind am Him dey talk am like the real victim lol |
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