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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by idanone(m): 10:07am On Dec 08, 2021
NovesaTillie:
Are you gay? undecided

You sound gay.
Waste of pinis.

Come let's spend some time together.
I give you 2 months you'll be talking about getting married.
majician
Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by Prime1(m): 10:08am On Dec 08, 2021
liya11:


Some of you nairaland guys just like degrading women here,

You don't want to date fine, but allowing yourself to be blackmail into it and talking down on nigeria women, just show how weak you are.

lol...he is not degrading any woman or female..........He is just expressing his feeling. After all, we have some woman with similar feelings as him saying they don't need a man.

You are only feeling degraded by his words because you got hit by a stray stone.

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by emmanuelbrown26: 10:10am On Dec 08, 2021
NovesaTillie:
Are you gay? undecided

You sound gay.
Waste of pinis.

Come let's spend some time together.
I give you 2 months you'll be talking about getting married.
Same shit op wrote about u bitches

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by od501: 10:10am On Dec 08, 2021
NovesaTillie:


So you get the satisfaction for free?
Or FWB?

Baba didn't say he no dey Bleep, just that he didn't have a girlfriend.

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by idanone(m): 10:10am On Dec 08, 2021
Prettydevil:
So today I realized everyone in my area is talking about how I have no girl in my life for a while. One of them slipped and mistakenly admitted I’m their topic and they feel I cannot approach women.

Now the thing is I’m way beyond approaching women, it’s not an issue of talking to them really more like an issue of me not even replying them. Now my neighbors think I don’t know how to talk to girls but in reality I don’t even reply girls that talk to me. I have a pretty face and I cannot count how many green lights I get from girls every single day, it’s unbelievable..only today a girl told me not to pay for the water I bought from her all cuz I flirted a little with her for fun. It’s that extremely easy for me but the problem is I’m not dating because I haven’t found anyone I like in years.

I don’t know what use a girl will even have in my life, all they offer these days is their body. I don’t see why I should be spending my money on someone just so people can see me strolling with a woman. Why do I need a woman? Why are they emotionally blackmailing me to be strolling with a female by force? Women I have created so many threads about how I think y’all are trying to ruin my life.

Keep gossiping me, I won’t date till I’m probably out of this dead country and then I can meet people who are not seeing me as an “update” to cash out. Rubbish, na by force to date girl?
Nigeria ladies are too demanding, wait until u find the right love.

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by od501: 10:11am On Dec 08, 2021
Prettydevil:


I pay for it , and not just regular sexx I mean next level kinky fantasy shit

Ma guy grin

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by HowDareU: 10:12am On Dec 08, 2021
E pain dem. Odogwu, no mind dem. Gay my foot. All they know is how to hang their legs across the table acrobatically and bend the man pe*is with wild s*x . . .

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by novia22(f): 10:12am On Dec 08, 2021
No one is blackmailing you. You are the one doing the worrying. Is any of them paying your rent or paying you at the end of the month or feeding you?
They are the ones talking now, when you start dating and it doesn't work out, they will still talk. Kuku allow them to continue talking. They will get tired or if they are too concerned, they should date the girl for you now...
One of the problem we have in this country is people don't just like minding their business..

I remember one relation of mine coming to pressure me into having another baby. She had spoken to everyone around me and they all started chipping it in. I just laughed. I traced it back to her and asked her how many times she has bought diapers or milk or even sweet for my first baby that is giving her the guts to tell me to go and collect for a second baby...she said me and hubby like doing like oyibo people that by now, we should have like 4 kids. I told her no problem, that she should give me 10m cash for the baby's upbringing so that I can start serious work in za oda room. Till today, Hanty hasn't called me...So I will now because people are talking, go and bring a child into this world to suffer when I'm not ready...
Them never born the person wey go make me do am!

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by Emu4u2c: 10:13am On Dec 08, 2021
Why is everyone concluding O.P is gay


Y'all are Myopic

I was in this situation few months back..... some even suggested I'm Gay and Dem gossip me tire...Peer pressure made me ask one out only to be asked where I got the courage to come meet her... she blatantly rejected me....Most painful thing my so called friend join follow embarrass me too...


See O.P don't fall to societal or peer pressure.Be yourself... It's your F.uck and Not a community event
..Let who ever think whatever!!!

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by od501: 10:13am On Dec 08, 2021
illicit:
Fvck one of their sisters

I did that shii once menh. The feeling was outta the world.

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by doublecross(m): 10:13am On Dec 08, 2021
How does this affect the price of garri in the market?
Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by gassbee: 10:14am On Dec 08, 2021
Are u sure ur ak47 is stil in order
Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by SeriouslySense(m): 10:14am On Dec 08, 2021
If you do not want to date a girl, it is not by force. It shouldn't be forced on you.

But, there are intelligent, smart, and interesting women, if you are looking for a woman that can add value to your Life, just do the same to yourself, make sure that you will also add value to that type of woman.
Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by Elsueno: 10:14am On Dec 08, 2021
Prettydevil:
So today I realized everyone in my area is talking about how I have no girl in my life for a while. One of them slipped and mistakenly admitted I’m their topic and they feel I cannot approach women.

Now the thing is I’m way beyond approaching women, it’s not an issue of talking to them really more like an issue of me not even replying them. Now my neighbors think I don’t know how to talk to girls but in reality I don’t even reply girls that talk to me. I have a pretty face and I cannot count how many green lights I get from girls every single day, it’s unbelievable..only today a girl told me not to pay for the water I bought from her all cuz I flirted a little with her for fun. It’s that extremely easy for me but the problem is I’m not dating because I haven’t found anyone I like in years.

I don’t know what use a girl will even have in my life, all they offer these days is their body. I don’t see why I should be spending my money on someone just so people can see me strolling with a woman. Why do I need a woman? Why are they emotionally blackmailing me to be strolling with a female by force? Women I have created so many threads about how I think y’all are trying to ruin my life.


With that explanation... my conclusion is that you are gay! & U don't know it yet....it's cool, am not judging...just remember it's a crime in Nigeria grin

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by YungTemy(m): 10:17am On Dec 08, 2021
Prettydevil:
So today I realized everyone in my area is talking about how I have no girl in my life for a while. One of them slipped and mistakenly admitted I’m their topic and they feel I cannot approach women.

Now the thing is I’m way beyond approaching women, it’s not an issue of talking to them really more like an issue of me not even replying them. Now my neighbors think I don’t know how to talk to girls but in reality I don’t even reply girls that talk to me. I have a pretty face and I cannot count how many green lights I get from girls every single day, it’s unbelievable..only today a girl told me not to pay for the water I bought from her all cuz I flirted a little with her for fun. It’s that extremely easy for me but the problem is I’m not dating because I haven’t found anyone I like in years.

I don’t know what use a girl will even have in my life, all they offer these days is their body. I don’t see why I should be spending my money on someone just so people can see me strolling with a woman. Why do I need a woman? Why are they emotionally blackmailing me to be strolling with a female by force? Women I have created so many threads about how I think y’all are trying to ruin my life.

Keep gossiping me, I won’t date till I’m probably out of this dead country and then I can meet people who are not seeing me as an “update” to cash out. Rubbish, na by force to date girl?
Story of my life

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by loveth91(m): 10:17am On Dec 08, 2021
I'm also in this trauma, help out

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by loveth91(m): 10:20am On Dec 08, 2021
Prettydevil:
So today I realized everyone in my area is talking about how I have no girl in my life for a while. One of them slipped and mistakenly admitted I’m their topic and they feel I cannot approach women.

Now the thing is I’m way beyond approaching women, it’s not an issue of talking to them really more like an issue of me not even replying them. Now my neighbors think I don’t know how to talk to girls but in reality I don’t even reply girls that talk to me. I have a pretty face and I cannot count how many green lights I get from girls every single day, it’s unbelievable..only today a girl told me not to pay for the water I bought from her all cuz I flirted a little with her for fun. It’s that extremely easy for me but the problem is I’m not dating because I haven’t found anyone I like in years.

I don’t know what use a girl will even have in my life, all they offer these days is their body. I don’t see why I should be spending my money on someone just so people can see me strolling with a woman. Why do I need a woman? Why are they emotionally blackmailing me to be strolling with a female by force? Women I have created so many threads about how I think y’all are trying to ruin my life.

Keep gossiping me, I won’t date till I’m probably out of this dead country and then I can meet people who are not seeing me as an “update” to cash out. Rubbish, na by force to date girl?

I have same issues with voices trolling me every single time, someone should help me out of this trauma

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by GorillaApp(m): 10:24am On Dec 08, 2021
NovesaTillie:
Are you gay? undecided

You sound gay.
Waste of pinis.

Come let's spend some time together.
I give you 2 months you'll be talking about getting married.
Search no further. I'm here.
Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by AmazingELixir: 10:32am On Dec 08, 2021
arthurwillia:

Keep living in your world of fantasy
You are a gay baba, you get satisfied sexually? But what do you need Amaka for? Please the person that satisfied you sexually na man bAa? MTxhew


And if he is gay so bloody what...everyone's sexual preference is their choice.

Once had a gf that is bisexual..an ebony black beauty, I did not find out myself she opened up to me and I wasn't judgemental about it...she even invited me for a party....couldn't bring myself to honour it because it doesn't agree with me.

Most Nigerians are hypocrites...you antagonize people for their sexual orientation yet engage in pornography, violate minors, involve in internet fraud, sleep with other people's spouses etc all that is ok but your problems are men and women that get satisfaction from their own kinds without hurting anyone.

The western world where most of you dream of relocating to that are liberal to this practices or more daring sexual expressions are still light years ahead from the primitivity of Africa.

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by Omniman(m): 10:38am On Dec 08, 2021
Cover your yansh guys.... It's what it is

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by Bouncin(m): 10:42am On Dec 08, 2021
I thought this one was making sense untill I read his responses to comments. undecided
Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by Comr(m): 10:42am On Dec 08, 2021
I use to be the same as u have just pen down. Left to me I will use the word introvert. Minding ur own business could be disastrous to others were they will theme u dfif names. Focus and ignore them. Till date I am still single and I hv never been on any date. That does not mean one is pompous , I am a loner.

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by killerdragon(m): 10:45am On Dec 08, 2021
Prettydevil:
So today I realized everyone in my area is talking about how I have no girl in my life for a while. One of them slipped and mistakenly admitted I’m their topic and they feel I cannot approach women.

Now the thing is I’m way beyond approaching women, it’s not an issue of talking to them really more like an issue of me not even replying them. Now my neighbors think I don’t know how to talk to girls but in reality I don’t even reply girls that talk to me. I have a pretty face and I cannot count how many green lights I get from girls every single day, it’s unbelievable..only today a girl told me not to pay for the water I bought from her all cuz I flirted a little with her for fun. It’s that extremely easy for me but the problem is I’m not dating because I haven’t found anyone I like in years.

I don’t know what use a girl will even have in my life, all they offer these days is their body. I don’t see why I should be spending my money on someone just so people can see me strolling with a woman. Why do I need a woman? Why are they emotionally blackmailing me to be strolling with a female by force? Women I have created so many threads about how I think y’all are trying to ruin my life.

Keep gossiping me, I won’t date till I’m probably out of this dead country and then I can meet people who are not seeing me as an “update” to cash out. Rubbish, na by force to date girl?
Bros it's not by force o

I'm telling you don't allow anyone to tell you what to do

Their biological clock is running out after the hoeing so they want to use you as spare husband grin grin

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by shantti(m): 10:47am On Dec 08, 2021
2ndchildhood:

I use to be exactly like this op, thinking I could always survive without a woman, thinking women have nothing to add to my life apart from sex, always thinking like 'mosdii' that "women are out to add more salts to men's injury instead of softening it, always thinking being single is the best.


Until I met a beautiful damsel every nigga out there will kill to have, dated for like 7 months, then I discovered that I was right..

grin grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by Depressed101: 10:49am On Dec 08, 2021
Prettydevil:
So today I realized everyone in my area is talking about how I have no girl in my life for a while. One of them slipped and mistakenly admitted I’m their topic and they feel I cannot approach women.

Now the thing is I’m way beyond approaching women, it’s not an issue of talking to them really more like an issue of me not even replying them. Now my neighbors think I don’t know how to talk to girls but in reality I don’t even reply girls that talk to me. I have a pretty face and I cannot count how many green lights I get from girls every single day, it’s unbelievable..only today a girl told me not to pay for the water I bought from her all cuz I flirted a little with her for fun. It’s that extremely easy for me but the problem is I’m not dating because I haven’t found anyone I like in years.

I don’t know what use a girl will even have in my life, all they offer these days is their body. I don’t see why I should be spending my money on someone just so people can see me strolling with a woman. Why do I need a woman? Why are they emotionally blackmailing me to be strolling with a female by force? Women I have created so many threads about how I think y’all are trying to ruin my life.

Keep gossiping me, I won’t date till I’m probably out of this dead country and then I can meet people who are not seeing me as an “update” to cash out. Rubbish, na by force to date girl?
bro don't mind them, or maybe you should move away from that area, those people are not right for your mental well-being,

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by micxwell(m): 10:53am On Dec 08, 2021
MISSCONGENIALITY:
Where is the emotional blackmail in your post Oga. Gossiping about you not dating is a normal thing. People have even told me I'm too bright and that men are probably scared tos approach me cos I ask alot of questions. You can imagine someone saying I dress too good and independent for a guy. And I was like, any guy that feel I'm too much for him is not for me and can never be my type. You can't be a man and be scared of a woman cos you think she looks too good, too experienced or too much for you. Those kind of men will break you down, kill your dreams, and turn you to a liability even to your own self. Now I've reached a conclusion that any man who wants me to become a beggar, or a dummy for him to approach me can go to hell.
What I'm saying is that people will always say stupid things that whether you do the. Ok r not won't affect their lives in anyway. Date when you feel you want to and who you want to. They will call you gay but let them know it's your dating not yours.
Good submission.

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by stacyadams: 10:53am On Dec 08, 2021
Prettydevil:


I’m very true to myself. I cannot stand the thought that I’m being used as a maga. Plus I get serious sexual satisfaction regularly so what else do I need a woman for?

Don't mind them...mosdii come and encourage my guy

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by stacyadams: 11:01am On Dec 08, 2021
2ndchildhood:

I use to be exactly like this op, thinking I could always survive without a woman, thinking women have nothing to add to my life apart from sex, always thinking like 'mosdii' that "women are out to add more salts to men's injury instead of softening it, always thinking being single is the best.


Until I met a beautiful damsel every nigga out there will kill to have, dated for like 7 months, then I discovered that I was right..

Mosdii has always been right,it's a matter of time before all niggaz will accept the truth grin

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by Nobody: 11:04am On Dec 08, 2021
NovesaTillie:
Are you gay? undecided

You sound gay.
Waste of pinis.

Come let's spend some time together.
I give you 2 months you'll be talking about getting married.

sad angry undecided lipsrsealed embarassed cry
Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by Michaelcas(m): 11:07am On Dec 08, 2021
illicit:
Fvck one of their sisters
undecided grin grin grin everybody's mad in this country

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