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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by cliqtips: 11:07am On Dec 08, 2021
NovesaTillie:
Are you gay? undecided

You sound gay.
Waste of pinis.

Come let's spend some time together.
I give you 2 months you'll be talking about getting married.

I don't understand this way of reasoning though.

If any young blood decides not to date una go dey come ahm gay until una push ahm to go commit Abi.

I'm sure, you're not a female. Youre just disguising with female profile here.

Op prettydevil, you're doing your self a great favor for being single.

Are you a programmer?
Because I guess you're engaging yourself in things that won't give you that time for any distraction whatsoever.

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by Nobody: 11:09am On Dec 08, 2021
See them all sounding pained and foolish...

You are gay! Ahhhhh.... lol.

Destiny destroyers!
Emotional blackmailers!
Fish brains!

OP, you b real G jor, me I am still testing if I can be able to cope with them, else, count me out of relationship whala.

If you like call me gay as you wish, so far I know myself, if you aren't jobless and visionless, you won't notice me.

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by Nobody: 11:11am On Dec 08, 2021
Teripaul:



Oga u need woman to support u. . [in every succesful man, there is a woman behind it) flips in eye side ways grin

That's a lie though.

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by micxwell(m): 11:11am On Dec 08, 2021
2ndchildhood:

I use to be exactly like this op, thinking I could always survive without a woman, thinking women have nothing to add to my life apart from sex, always thinking like 'mosdii' that "women are out to add more salts to men's injury instead of softening it, always thinking being single is the best.


Until I met a beautiful damsel every nigga out there will kill to have, dated for like 7 months, then I discovered that I was right..
cheesy cheesy grin
Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by Nobody: 11:14am On Dec 08, 2021
Favfables1:
Some of wuna assumptions mad o...
Like Because OP doesn't see the need to have a girlfriend, it automatically means he's gay.... Wahala...

Tis well Sha...
OP...
The choice is yours...
Don't allow anyone blackmail you into something you don't feel up to...
If you see no need for a girlfriend, that's fine, buh in all you do...
Stay away from premarital sex...
E get why cheesy

How will he marry if he is not interested in relationship, there is nothing like pre marital sex if you aren't even thinking of marriage.

I like the op, just like me, but I never still conclude, trying to see if I can find a real woman, not fish brains.
Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by Nobody: 11:18am On Dec 08, 2021
arthurwillia:

Keep living in your world of fantasy
You are a gay baba, you get satisfied sexually? But what do you need Amaka for? Please the person that satisfied you sexually na man bAa? MTxhew

If you are in for the sex, then go for professionals.

I hate disguise.

Olosho disguising as girlfriends, emotional manipulators.

At least, professional sex workers are professionals in their fields, nothing lost.

Relationship is meant to be for support not to encourage foolishness and mediocrity, I hate the mediocre life.

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by Nobody: 11:22am On Dec 08, 2021
2ndchildhood:

I use to be exactly like this op, thinking I could always survive without a woman, thinking women have nothing to add to my life apart from sex, always thinking like 'mosdii' that "women are out to add more salts to men's injury instead of softening it, always thinking being single is the best.


Until I met a beautiful damsel every nigga out there will kill to have, dated for like 7 months, then I discovered that I was right..

You are able to meet that damsel because you didn't jump on every available train, leave the op, once he meet someone valuable, he will know.

Some people don't just like wasting their time on irrelevances, most women are irrelevants.

If I ever notice a woman, it is only because I see that she may have some intellects, I don't notice women that shows no sign of intellect, even if you be agbeni darego.

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by Virus20: 11:25am On Dec 08, 2021
If I was the guy ,I will run away ,any woman that I meet that put marriage as a first criteria,I flee from immediately.Anything done under rush doesn't last . Some women are so desperate that they are ready to pay for bride price .

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by 1MILLIONLiGHTS(m): 11:25am On Dec 08, 2021
You dey mind them? Tomorrow na them go jubilate say the relationship don SCATTER.
Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by Farfalla(f): 11:27am On Dec 08, 2021
Prettydevil:
I’m not dating because I haven’t found anyone I like in years.
Don't date if you haven't met a girl you like. A relationship only makes sense if you're with someone you desire.
I hope your situation further highlights to people that one can actually be single without necessarily being "picky". The only reason you haven't been tagged "picky" or "choosy" is because you're male.

Prettydevil:
I don’t know what use a girl will even have in my life,......Why do I need a woman?
Replace the emboldened words with man and you'll see people shouting feminist up and down.
grin grin

Having said that, I sense that you're shallow as a person and could be attracting shallow girls. Which man gives himself a moniker such as "Prettydevil", and insisting on how much of a pretty face he has? Even Anthony Joshua with all his good looks probably doesn't even obsess about it.

Get out of that I-am-a-pretty-boy world and you'll start attracting high value females.

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by benqo01(m): 11:35am On Dec 08, 2021
Am 25yrs of age nd i dont have a girlfriend,infact i have never dated before.Dont mind what people are saying

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by Nobody: 11:42am On Dec 08, 2021
AdeOri99:


How will he marry if he is not interested in relationship, there is nothing like pre marital sex if you aren't even thinking of marriage.

I like the op, just like me, but I never still conclude, trying to see if I can find a real woman, not fish brains.

cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Chief no too para na...
Na my own opinion I give cheesy...
I no thief person babe cheesy...
And besides, there's something called "arrangeee" Marriage...
Tor!
Anyhow you call am...
I Sha advice OP make him no chuuuck nor-nor for every hole...

I totally agree with you...
Some babes these days ehn, to call them fishbrain na even compliment...
I pray God helps us all to find a good spouse...

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by buJu234: 11:46am On Dec 08, 2021
don't b surprised the whole stuff might have been cooked up by either of the following persons especially if u re of age to get married as a man:-

(1) one lady that has been eyeing u but u're not looking at her side ever since
(2) the lady`s mother; that like a gud guy like u to b her daughter`s husband; yet u re not responding to all the links
(3) lastly; from female members of ur own family; who wants u to settle down and they are not seeing u with any regular sisi; that they can call ur potential wife.. (this is very common if u re from the SW)

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by Nobody: 11:49am On Dec 08, 2021
MISSCONGENIALITY:
Where is the emotional blackmail in your post Oga. Gossiping about you not dating is a normal thing. People have even told me I'm too bright and that men are probably scared tos approach me cos I ask alot of questions. You can imagine someone saying I dress too good and independent for a guy. And I was like, any guy that feel I'm too much for him is not for me and can never be my type. You can't be a man and be scared of a woman cos you think she looks too good, too experienced or too much for you. Those kind of men will break you down, kill your dreams, and turn you to a liability even to your own self. Now I've reached a conclusion that any man who wants me to become a begger, or a dummy for him to approach me can go to hell.
What I'm saying is that people will always say stupid things that whether you do them or not won't affect their lives in anyway. Date when you feel you want to and who you want to. They will call you gay but let them know it's your dating not theirs.

I don't know where you people got your theories from, that someone doesn't want to approach you doesn't determine whether they are a man or not. Approaching you is not the standard for men.

People approach whoever they feel is going to give them a positive response and if your vibe is off, It is not the man's fault.

Women are hypergamous and only respect those above them, It would take proper attraction for you to consider men in your own class, so why would they approach you. They are not stupid.
Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by efeski(m): 11:49am On Dec 08, 2021
Prettydevil:


I pay for it , and not just regular sexx I mean next level kinky fantasy shit

Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by bigcee(m): 11:52am On Dec 08, 2021
Is that even an issue. Just see the nonsense you're worrying yourself about. Ignore them and enjoy your life, abeg.

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by mosdii(m): 11:58am On Dec 08, 2021
stacyadams:


Don't mind them...mosdii come and encourage my guy


Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by codeigniter(m): 11:59am On Dec 08, 2021
2ndchildhood:

I use to be exactly like this op, thinking I could always survive without a woman, thinking women have nothing to add to my life apart from sex, always thinking like 'mosdii', that "women are out to add more salts to men's injury instead of softening it", always thinking being single is the best.


Until I met a beautiful damsel every nigga out there will kill to have, dated for like 7 months, then I discovered that I and 'mosdii' was right..
.
Since u wrote every night will kill to have, I already knew the rest grin

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by codeigniter(m): 12:01pm On Dec 08, 2021
qtguru:
Guy it's no deep, if you are really cute as you claim, spend more time with ladies who have something to offer, or in the upper class, you can charm your way around, I know a good friend of mine, Grade A Fvckboi this guy came from the hood but na fine boy. From the Hood to Dubai via chics liking him and recommending him for jobs.

tldr avoid broke women unless she sabi book well

tongue

The oracle has spoken, but the keyword here is charm
Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by arthurwillia(m): 12:02pm On Dec 08, 2021
AmazingELixir:



And if he is gay so bloody what...everyone's sexual preference is their choice.

Once had a gf that is bisexual..an ebony black beauty, I did not find out myself she opened up to me and I wasn't judgemental about it...she even invited me for a party....couldn't bring myself to honour it because it doesn't agree with me.

Most Nigerians are hypocrites...you antagonize people for their sexual orientation yet engage in pornography, violate minors, involve in internet fraud, sleep with other people's spouses etc all that is ok but your problems are men and women that get satisfaction from their own kinds without hurting anyone.

The western world where most of you dream of relocating to that are liberal to this practices or more daring sexual expressions are still light years ahead from the primitivity of Africa.

Mtchew just Dey talk nonsense for mouth
Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by AutoChick4U(f): 12:08pm On Dec 08, 2021
Prettydevil:
So today I realized everyone in my area is talking about how I have no girl in my life for a while. One of them slipped and mistakenly admitted I’m their topic and they feel I cannot approach women.

Now the thing is I’m way beyond approaching women, it’s not an issue of talking to them really more like an issue of me not even replying them. Now my neighbors think I don’t know how to talk to girls but in reality I don’t even reply girls that talk to me. I have a pretty face and I cannot count how many green lights I get from girls every single day, it’s unbelievable..only today a girl told me not to pay for the water I bought from her all cuz I flirted a little with her for fun. It’s that extremely easy for me but the problem is I’m not dating because I haven’t found anyone I like in years.

I don’t know what use a girl will even have in my life, all they offer these days is their body. I don’t see why I should be spending my money on someone just so people can see me strolling with a woman. Why do I need a woman? Why are they emotionally blackmailing me to be strolling with a female by force? Women I have created so many threads about how I think y’all are trying to ruin my life.

Keep gossiping me, I won’t date till I’m probably out of this dead country and then I can meet people who are not seeing me as an “update” to cash out. Rubbish, na by force to date girl?
You are so myopic if you feel all a lady can offer you is their body. Please stay on your own OK, u definitely not ready.
Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by damoceile: 12:08pm On Dec 08, 2021
Person wey no get girlfriend get peace of mind jare, carry on my guy

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by damoceile: 12:10pm On Dec 08, 2021
AutoChick4U:
You are so myopic if you feel all a lady can offer you is their body. Please stay on your own OK, u definitely not ready.

Aside from being a liability to a man, so tell me what a typical Nigerian girl can offer a guy if not her pussy..
Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by Nobody: 12:11pm On Dec 08, 2021
Prettydevil:
If I’m always satisfied sexually , I mean every single fetish In my head regularly then please what do I need an Amaka or a chidera for? What else will she be doing around me? Nagging? Abeg

Lool.. soap and Vaseline done suffer grin
Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by VOsimhen144(m): 12:12pm On Dec 08, 2021
Are you gay? You obviously sound like one.

Which one is I have a pretty face? You should have said I'm good looking or handsome.... So, which one is I have pretty face?

Werey! You're gay Dude!!
Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by stacyadams: 12:13pm On Dec 08, 2021
damoceile:


Aside from being a liability to a man, so tell me what a typical Nigerian girl can offer a guy if not her pussy..

Just watch she will tell u emotional support, shoulder to lean on and prayers..just wait grin

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by IbrahimSkiba(f): 12:14pm On Dec 08, 2021
Prettydevil:
So today I realized everyone in my area is talking about how I have no girl in my life for a while. One of them slipped and mistakenly admitted I’m their topic and they feel I cannot approach women.

Now the thing is I’m way beyond approaching women, it’s not an issue of talking to them really more like an issue of me not even replying them. Now my neighbors think I don’t know how to talk to girls but in reality I don’t even reply girls that talk to me. I have a pretty face and I cannot count how many green lights I get from girls every single day, it’s unbelievable..only today a girl told me not to pay for the water I bought from her all cuz I flirted a little with her for fun. It’s that extremely easy for me but the problem is I’m not dating because I haven’t found anyone I like in years.

I don’t know what use a girl will even have in my life, all they offer these days is their body. I don’t see why I should be spending my money on someone just so people can see me strolling with a woman. Why do I need a woman? Why are they emotionally blackmailing me to be strolling with a female by force? Women I have created so many threads about how I think y’all are trying to ruin my life.

Keep gossiping me, I won’t date till I’m probably out of this dead country and then I can meet people who are not seeing me as an “update” to cash out. Rubbish, na by force to date girl?



This brother na gay.
Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by LoveUdie: 12:15pm On Dec 08, 2021
The fact remains that is normal to have feeling for the opposite gender and when you don't have any romantic feelings for even a girl and not girls, then you have to check yourself to be sure that you are normal.
Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by IbrahimSkiba(f): 12:16pm On Dec 08, 2021
Prettydevil:


I’m very true to myself. I cannot stand the thought that I’m being used as a maga. Plus I get serious sexual satisfaction regularly so what else do I need a woman for?


Your hand dey work well ooo grin cheesy
Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by Teejaney88(m): 12:16pm On Dec 08, 2021
That was when you realised that you, mosdii and I are right...
2ndchildhood:

I use to be exactly like this op, thinking I could always survive without a woman, thinking women have nothing to add to my life apart from sex, always thinking like 'mosdii', that "women are out to add more salts to men's injury instead of softening it", always thinking being single is the best.


Until I met a beautiful damsel every nigga out there will kill to have, dated for like 7 months, then I discovered that I and 'mosdii' was right..
Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by AutoChick4U(f): 12:16pm On Dec 08, 2021
damoceile:


Aside from being a liability to a man, so tell me what a typical Nigerian girl can offer a guy if not her pussy..
I won't banter words with men who whine like sissies. Gosh.

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