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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by HoneyWholesaler: 12:17pm On Dec 10, 2021
True story

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Ikea81: 12:17pm On Dec 10, 2021
Did you see the masters certificate. Cod I am pretty sure she went to Ukraine for oloshoism.
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Kinzo0917(m): 12:18pm On Dec 10, 2021
THEY SAY THE VOICE OF PEOPLE IS THE VOICE OF GOD.GOD WILL NOT COME DOWN FROM HEAVEN TO YOU PHYSICALLY BUT HE USES HIS CHILDREN. I 100% BELIEVED GOD BROUGHT YOU HOME PURPOSELY TO SEE THE USED CONDOM. IF YOU LIKE FORGIVE HER, IT IS YOUR CROSS TO CARRY. BUT DONT CRY TOMORROW OR BLAME GOD NOR ANYONE BECAUSE GOD HAS PLAYED HIS PARTS BY REVEALING HER TO YOU. THE BALL IS IN YOUR COURT. I WILL JOIN OTHERS BY ADVICING YOU TO RUN FAR AWAY FROM HER. DITCH HER NOW THAT GOD HAS REVEALED IT TO YOU. I WISH YOU THE BEST IN LIFE
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by SweetDipBenny(m): 12:18pm On Dec 10, 2021
WillyWonda1:
Right now I don’t even know what to think anymore.

My girlfriend of 2 years just got back from Ukraine after her master’s degree program and since then, she’s been frequently coming to stay with me since I’ve been on land and working from my office.

Last week, I was billed to go to our Portharcourt office because our vessel berthed there. So immediately I got the mail, I decided to quickly dash home, pick a few things I’d be needing and then move. So it happened that the electric current in the neighborhood was relatively low and couldn’t pump water and my generator isn’t in good shape. So she made arrangements for a generating set to pump water( she told me over the phone).

When I got home, I decided to park outside the gate since I was moving almost immediately. On entering the gate, I saw her and a certain boy carrying the generator to return cos the tank was already filled (she said she called the guy to help with the gen. They know each other before she traveled out).

So I just greeted them casually and they put the gem in my car and went to return it. So I decided to have a quick bath before embarking on my journey. To my greatest surprise, I saw a used condom wrapper in the bathroom. At that point, my whole body system changed and I couldn’t even bathe again. I just wore my clothes, and waited for her to return with my car so I could move. Not long after, she came back and I just told her to call me and explain what’s in the bathroom then I zoomed off.
She claims she doesn’t know anything about the condom, then later told me it was the guy that came with his girlfriend.

I’ve not picked her calls since then cos I don’t even know what to think anymore.
Please I need advice guys. I’ve not been home since last week cos I’m so disappointed in her.
A part of me wants to forgive her, but I’m being skeptical.

Guys please advise me cos I can’t trust her anymore. I’m devastated right now. I can’t even work well.
My brother what's der to advice again She's a whòre.
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Ndidi2: 12:19pm On Dec 10, 2021
WillyWonda1:


Bro this isn’t a SIMP or redpill issue. Things happen for real. I don’t even believe it’s happening to me too. But it’s life and shit happens.
Tha smileynk God u even c it.
Don't marry a harlot.
Don't forgive her since ua not married bc u will be suspecting her moves now.l hate cheaters
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by HonestFriend: 12:20pm On Dec 10, 2021
Don't stress urself... Just buy small CCTv camera hide for ur house.. Thank me later..
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Michaelbjune(m): 12:20pm On Dec 10, 2021
Differentiate:

Bros go back to your house chase the bitch away.!!!
no nah you can't say that
not as if I'm supporting herooooo but this bro need to move on there are so many girls I mean good lady out there, what you have to do is tell her that you don't want to continue with the relationship between her again
go and find a better girl you know has she just came back from Ukraine bro find your wayoooooo
because this one eye don tear......
do it in a maturity way don't embarrassed your self and her in public places, please my brother

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by sgogungbe: 12:21pm On Dec 10, 2021
Bro if u are a seaman, please run from that lady before u start Training other man child, that is my advice for u as a seafare

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Ndidi2: 12:23pm On Dec 10, 2021
Kriss216:

These girls hoe every Thyme.
l use to think women have dignity.
Until l saw one girl living with my in-laws brought a married man inside their one room when d man went to church.

And so many of them like that.

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by HonestFriend: 12:24pm On Dec 10, 2021
SweetDipBenny:
My brother what's der to advice again She's a whòre.

Not ordinary LovePeddler... Na big holoshow
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by toujurs: 12:25pm On Dec 10, 2021
Toluwanise247:

Bro is a lie if you like suck her everyday if woman go cheat she go cheat. Na blood
With which strength, only if she starts starving you of sex, so she can satisfy another person.
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by YoungDaNaval(m): 12:26pm On Dec 10, 2021
At least she used condom
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by GOSPELTRUTH31: 12:26pm On Dec 10, 2021
The bitter truth is that she's not your wife yet!
Don't av anything to advice you yet until you marry her..
If you can't eat cuz of these issue pls send the money for your feeding to the needy
Thanks
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by zakkxx: 12:26pm On Dec 10, 2021
Oga if u like. I run stay and be looking for advice!! E b like Na the Ukraine wey de girl go de wash your head!! God done show u proof if u like stay they think like mumude!! U never marry her self!! Next time when u meet the girl u like marry her and stop fornicating!!
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by gonkin(m): 12:27pm On Dec 10, 2021
Red flag. The thought of someone else banging someone i love and she images of her moaning. Its enough to end it. I don't give 2nd chances cuz cheating is a choice. Cuz of that fear i have philophobia
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by TOPCRUISE(m): 12:27pm On Dec 10, 2021
Icumsa45:
Why would the condom be put in an obvious place? Think through brother
And what are your thoughts undecided
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by alizma: 12:29pm On Dec 10, 2021
WillyWonda1:


Bro this isn’t a SIMP or redpill issue. Things happen for real. I don’t even believe it’s happening to me too. But it’s life and shit happens.
Sorry bro, thank God you are out of town now, use the period to align yourself with the reality of life. If you are still in PH, come to Randolph Hotel on Sunday, some friends will be catching fun by the pool side, come and enjoy yourself, when you get back to base you know what to do about the girl. Sorry bro
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Onyiiobi7735(m): 12:31pm On Dec 10, 2021
WillyWonda1:


Bro this isn’t a SIMP or redpill issue. Things happen for real. I don’t even believe it’s happening to me too. But it’s life and shit happens.
This is a serious red flag you can't afford to ignore.
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by kokomilala(m): 12:33pm On Dec 10, 2021
Her flimsy excuse that it was the guy that brought some girl-whether h8s gf or some easy girl- doesn't fly. Did she think you're a kid. She's a LovePeddler! - pure and simple.No need for much of imagination. She's probably bringing other guys there too.Only time will unearth her schemings.
I always posit that women,like animals ,follow their instincts ,and can get down with anyone.
For me,you can dump her like a discarded proposal.If u go on to marry her,I'm afraid,adultery will be a rule rather than an exception in her case.
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by pansophist(m): 12:34pm On Dec 10, 2021
omoelesa:
Where is mosdii to give us his anthem?

Nigerian girls are useful, all of them grin

Cc: mosdii
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by sofiscatedmoron: 12:34pm On Dec 10, 2021
The uselessness of Nigerian girls is beyond compression

God please have Mercy and save us from oloshp wives

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Nobody: 12:36pm On Dec 10, 2021
U re just a friend to her just like others. Were u living with her in abroad?
She is close to u doesn't make her ur woman. Open ur mind and take her as ordinary friend but if u want to go intimate, call her attention and talk sense into her skull.
...don't use ur reggae to spoil her blues

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by babsbolad: 12:39pm On Dec 10, 2021
Carot:
i've lost count of number of people's wives i've slept with.
Karma is real...

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by hardon1(m): 12:43pm On Dec 10, 2021
She doesn't even know how to lie sef.

If you don't catch them red handed , they would never admit that are cheating. The choice is urs, if I were you though , I would leave her

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by millionboi(m): 12:44pm On Dec 10, 2021
DroppingLiquid:
calling someone a mumu is now a compliment.
hahahaha

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by fitinwell: 12:51pm On Dec 10, 2021
yuping:
After what you saw, if you don gerrit forget about it.

Best Advice so far

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by treatise: 12:52pm On Dec 10, 2021
PUSSYHOE:
Mtcheeeeech na normal thing now all girls of this generation are prostitutes. This one is small marry her and see the full whore_.

One would say she even tried by using condom

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by femi4: 12:53pm On Dec 10, 2021
WillyWonda1:
Right now I don’t even know what to think anymore.

My girlfriend of 2 years just got back from Ukraine after her master’s degree program and since then, she’s been frequently coming to stay with me since I’ve been on land and working from my office.

Last week, I was billed to go to our Portharcourt office because our vessel berthed there. So immediately I got the mail, I decided to quickly dash home, pick a few things I’d be needing and then move. So it happened that the electric current in the neighborhood was relatively low and couldn’t pump water and my generator isn’t in good shape. So she made arrangements for a generating set to pump water( she told me over the phone).

When I got home, I decided to park outside the gate since I was moving almost immediately. On entering the gate, I saw her and a certain boy carrying the generator to return cos the tank was already filled (she said she called the guy to help with the gen. They know each other before she traveled out).

So I just greeted them casually and they put the gem in my car and went to return it. So I decided to have a quick bath before embarking on my journey. To my greatest surprise, I saw a used condom wrapper in the bathroom. At that point, my whole body system changed and I couldn’t even bathe again. I just wore my clothes, and waited for her to return with my car so I could move. Not long after, she came back and I just told her to call me and explain what’s in the bathroom then I zoomed off.
She claims she doesn’t know anything about the condom, then later told me it was the guy that came with his girlfriend.

I’ve not picked her calls since then cos I don’t even know what to think anymore.
Please I need advice guys. I’ve not been home since last week cos I’m so disappointed in her.
A part of me wants to forgive her, but I’m being skeptical.

Guys please advise me cos I can’t trust her anymore. I’m devastated right now. I can’t even work well.
Good camera quality, what make is your phone?
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Malawian(m): 12:54pm On Dec 10, 2021
Girl no sharp, she for claim say na she use am with cucumber. cheesy

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by dingbang(m): 12:54pm On Dec 10, 2021
grin
omoelesa:
Where is mosdii to give us his anthem?
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by jaxxy(m): 12:55pm On Dec 10, 2021
WillyWonda1:
Right now I don’t even know what to think anymore.

My girlfriend of 2 years just got back from Ukraine after her master’s degree program and since then, she’s been frequently coming to stay with me since I’ve been on land and working from my office.

Last week, I was billed to go to our Portharcourt office because our vessel berthed there. So immediately I got the mail, I decided to quickly dash home, pick a few things I’d be needing and then move. So it happened that the electric current in the neighborhood was relatively low and couldn’t pump water and my generator isn’t in good shape. So she made arrangements for a generating set to pump water( she told me over the phone).

When I got home, I decided to park outside the gate since I was moving almost immediately. On entering the gate, I saw her and a certain boy carrying the generator to return cos the tank was already filled (she said she called the guy to help with the gen. They know each other before she traveled out).

So I just greeted them casually and they put the gem in my car and went to return it. So I decided to have a quick bath before embarking on my journey. To my greatest surprise, I saw a used condom wrapper in the bathroom. At that point, my whole body system changed and I couldn’t even bathe again. I just wore my clothes, and waited for her to return with my car so I could move. Not long after, she came back and I just told her to call me and explain what’s in the bathroom then I zoomed off.
She claims she doesn’t know anything about the condom, then later told me it was the guy that came with his girlfriend.

I’ve not picked her calls since then cos I don’t even know what to think anymore.
Please I need advice guys. I’ve not been home since last week cos I’m so disappointed in her.
A part of me wants to forgive her, but I’m being skeptical.

Guys please advise me cos I can’t trust her anymore. I’m devastated right now. I can’t even work well.

It’s one thing to cheat by it’s another thing to cheat in ur house. That’s like the height of the disrespect. What kind of pressure or sexual tension was she on to do that to u and on ur house??

Forgive her or not. The 1st thing u must do is break up with her. It’s not even debatable.

Give her space to fix her mindset and life. How does a gal cheat on u with a random guy in ur own house when she’s not crazy?? undecided

That gal can’t be normal asfar as I’m concerned. She needs help.

When ur offshore she will be doing sleepovers for guys or that guy in ur house. I feel sorry for u mate.

Ps. Ask how she knows the guy she slept with. I’m disgusted.

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by treatise: 12:55pm On Dec 10, 2021
For using condom means she has some love for you. Trust any woman at your peril ; you'd have been more devastated if she's from "a good Christian home". Pursue your dreams with vigour and don't be devastated. If I may ask, was she the only you are/were dating?

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