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Joygift3666:
Please what is BS?

Bullshiit!!!

HenryDion:
This is where dating is very important. You can't date someone for six months without knowing her true colours. Unfortunately, most of you overlook the red flags and forge ahead into marriage.

Lol.
You are apparently not married.
Nigerian girls hide even the number of children their father has till you marry them and they get belle for you,then you go reach the book of revelation

Jazzman01:
It will only get worse, she can never beg him. You have forgotten that she will be aging and her urge for sex will continue to decline.

If a man takes care of a woman and he asks nothing in return, she begins to feel guilty and offers sex freely to such dude. I am talking from experience.

Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping

You nor date your wife before you marry her?

Preshieben:
what's the color of your problem sir?

You mean the colour of your hypocrisy and ignorance, right?
Like you don't know what you did.
SMH... it's final, Nothing will ever make marry an Akwa Ibom lady. No matter who her father is.
I swerve them here like it's nothing.

dododawa1:
BLACK PEOPLE problems are MARRIAGE, FOOD, RELIGION and SEX.

The typical oyibo gets more sex than the typical African..
Just that they don't attach a price and sentiments to it.
Oyibo fit de fork him sworn enemy on d regular sef

femi4:
you have to discuss with her

2. Prepare her for the night during the day. Don't just jump on her for sex

3. Assist her in doing some house chores, little things like that impress them and make them less tired
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You go just use work kill yourself, many married men are complaining about the same thing they is something the married women are not saying this is just total wickedness. You just can't be doing this all the time just to get kpekus na waooo.
After staying celibate during bachelor life hoping when you get married all cookies will belong to you, you now need to worshipping the Gods again.
Unfair unfair unfair.

yuping:
You go just use work kill yourself, many married men are complaining about the same thing they is something the married women are not saying this is just total wickedness. You just can't be doing this all the tine just to get kpekus na waooo.
After staying celibate during bachelor life hoping when you get married all cookies will belong to you, you now need to worshing the Gods again.
Unfair unfair unfair.

They are rigid and not ready to learn. The problem with them is that they are not ready to learn and understand their women sexually after few years of living together

craigkoel1989:
I tell you it is not easy, madam will tell me she needs to rest for 30 minutes I should wake her and we will end up the next day with no show right from time wasn't really interested in it, anytime it happens I just watch xxvideo and relieve myself

sorry I laughed really hard reading the bolded

ona dey fear me with this revelations cos even in this my seemingly insignificant relationships,i can relate with most of you'll comments

stinflame:
You here encouraging divorce, what will then happen to the kids.

Shared custody.

luminouz:
Ewwwwwww....

You will earn a "give your life to Christ" look from her

Let them wallow in sexual boredom

Help2020:
I jealous una wen dey masturbate without side effect. Me I non fit try masturbate for a day again, except I wan suffer for days.

I used to have the same problem, at a point I begin reason suicide, because my metabolism was messed up and I was always sick after masturbating.

I noticed something, whenever I ate fruits, banana, yogurt and nutritious foods, I don't have that issue, so I started taking food supplements to meet up as my salary no fit afford chicken and yogurt everyday.

The name is VITADAY, just go to any pharmacy, it's sold for 600 naira, 30 tablets.
The downside is that if you want to stop taking it, you will have to switch to nutritious foods.
I take it everyday and for the past 5 months I have been fine.

Sometimes sef , I lash babe, four rounds and not worry about being sick

LLSAINT:
Na so you think
Na babe you fit try such wey go work but this one na Old layer. No sensation or maybe, menopause don dey near.
Truly, it is not easy to chop only one VG and taste only one daddie dickkie for life.
Autobabe, abi na lie?

But I see oyibos in their 40s and 50s doing crazy things still. Eating one good dickkie is good naw, e no hard.

craigkoel1989:
I tell you it is not easy, madam will tell me she needs to rest for 30 minutes I should wake her and we will end up the next day with no show, right from time wasn't really interested in it, anytime it happens I just watch xxvideo and relieve myself

Chai!! Una dey try ooo.

IJEYdiamond:
I must give it to you.... Creativity inbuilt.. Nice..
One.... Cases like this it goes both ways... Some men and women are so stiff and they are not ready to be adventurous in any form of way..

So married women even those who have given birth dont even know or have never experience Orgasm in their life.. they dont want it feels like... just because the dude or huszy in question no sabi the mumu buttons..

Some are not inlove in their marriages ofcourse marry for others reasons, Some their husbands r so ugly and rude with words to their wives... u dont expect a woman to give in when u say trash to her. She may just open her legs to satisfy u.. but inside her u r disgusting ..!!

So its both ways.. like u say have someone u r fiuld with.. U connect so so free and u can do anything i mean anything with person without feeling shy!!... and if u know he is big and small discuss it... so that it will not be had i known!!..

Firstly, thank you.

Next, it is true that some married women haven't ever known what the " big O " feels like. Some don't even care to know. They feel it's new-school nonsense and it's so vane. So, I understand.. Ignorance is bliss....
But then, you have those ones who know what it is and still don't get it. Sometimes, a little thing as her not being comfortable and feeling free of any inhibitions during lovemaking, is enough to prevent her from reaching orgasm..it's not just about the man's action. Orgasm most times has to do with the woman's state if mind too. That's why your hardly see a woman that is being raped by someone who is good in sex having an orgasm. Not to talk of multiple orgasms.
So it's also psychological.

Lastly, that last point you highlited cannot be overemphasized. Be free with your significant other half ooh!! It's saved you both from plenty nonsense!
Take showers together.. laugh while at it. Take turns scrubbing one another's bodies. Let him shave your pubic hairs, and also shave his while in the bathroom (pray to have money so that you can have a big, spacious cozy bathroom) it makes for a better experience.
She can be pooing, while you are under the shower getting cleaned up, all at the same time and in the same bathroom. Tease her on how her poo smells horrible. Let her laugh. Break down those walls of inhibitions and shyness. You wife, talk about his cock while he showers and you sit there staring at him as you take poop. Tell him what you feel like. Fart of you have to as you poo...let it turn him on to see you being so free with him by that singular act. Then join him (don't forget to flush..duhh) under the shower and let the water run down your body as he stands behind you (he's almost done, so he gives you a lil space) and scrubs your back gently. Savour every bit of the moments and continue with your bath.
After that, dry each other up. Or do like what I did in year two, share one big towel (it has to be big enough) as you both wrap yourselves in it and dry your bodies. With each of you on one side, wrap the towel around your bodies and make your way over to your bedroom together.
Now, is this something so difficult for some of you people to do?? I think not. So, start experimenting. Get creative and enjoy each other's love before this brief pointless life of yours comes to an end.

All these being said, I still see myself getting married to my dream lady in nothing less than none years. Sad...and I know so much already.
Gosh, the wait, though!
If wishes were horses, beggers will ride...

PerkyJay:
This problem na everywhere. Get a god fearing sidechick, your problem will be over. You will never bother your wife again. Your conference attendance will increase. She no go dey see you for house again.

unah no go kill person for this nairaland.....which one is God fearing sidechick

UyaiIncomparabl:
Why won't she be tired when you stress the life out of her?

Children supervision - na she.

Cleaning and chores - na she.

Cooking - na she.

And she still has to go out there to make money else you tag her a liability. Now, tell me, why won't she complain of exhaustion?

Men, please, learn to alleviate stress off your wives. Stress kills. Kills health, libido and in the long term, puts a strain on your sexual/intimate lives.

Don't know why you folks keep using these stale lines.

She's soo tired. Really? Even if it means laying let him do the work?

What about the man's feelings too, doesn't it matter? Why must it be all about her?

Her less virtuous colleagues out there have no qualms servicing tens daily, yet wify is too tired for just once or twice a week with her betrothed.

She being manipulative, end of

Preshieben:
you shouldn't be searching for me

Glad I did anyway, not easy to find a straight talking boss babe, you could do stuff with

Seniorman

CaptainAyub:
Headed d same route myself.
Lots of Nigerian women de carry their ashawo mentality enta marriage.
Na them know

culf:
una no do marriage class?

Let her know the consequences of her actions, seat her down and talk sense into her.

some women no dey try at all, only if she knows what her actions could lead to.

A beg she no go gree

Preshieben:
let me be ya side chick.. I make my own money,so keep yours I just like it with people's husband

You don minit?

OgwuEgo:
Seniorman

Nnaa,since Odumeje became my GO,I stopped being a man of pleaching of Peace

Na so my brother when money come na to get mistress.

CaptainAyub:
Nnaa,since Odumeje became my GO,I stopped being a man of pleaching of Peace

Yinkakolawole:
How my wife go starve me with sex, that cant possible.

May be you are not married. For marriage you go se wen.

delzbaba:
Its because u are always trying to do it at night, try her early in the morning around 4 am

Na the same. She no go gree . Me too dey suffer am like the op .

duro4chang:
Na the same. She no go gree . Me too dey suffer am like the op .

everything na sense, call her one day and tell her you want to take a drug that will kill your manhood forever because its not useful again to anybody, that you have already bought the drug and you just want to inform her, just dey use style they swallow vit c, na she go test that prick one day,, women are very mischievous.

delzbaba:
everything na sense, call her one day and tell her you want to take a drug that will kill your manhood forever because its not useful again to anybody, that you have already bought the drug and you just want to inform her, just dey use style they swallow vit c, na she go test that prick one day,, women are very mischievous.

That sense go work 4 small time . She go soon change again. Many times I dey suffer for blue ball self

Preshieben:


I won't destroy his house nah...
The poor man needs help
I am my brother's keeper

i see

Where's Pocochants . Maybe your wife over works herself

duro4chang:
That sense go work 4 small time . She go soon change again. Many times I dey suffer for blue ball self

wetin i dey always tell my guys be say if na four times a month u dey get manage am, because if she give you four days back to back consecutively, na you go still run or can u withstand daily sex?

GrantIkenna:
I used to have the same problem, at a point I begin reason suicide, because my metabolism was messed up and I was always sick after masturbating.

I noticed something, whenever I ate fruits, banana, yogurt and nutritious foods, I don't have that issue, so I started taking food supplements to meet up as my salary no fit afford chicken and yogurt everyday.

The name is VITADAY, just go to any pharmacy, it's sold for 600 naira, 30 tablets.
The downside is that if you want to stop taking it, you will have to switch to nutritious foods.
I take it everyday and for the past 5 months I have been fine.

Sometimes sef , I lash babe, four rounds and not worry about being sick

Thank you.

If you've been satisfying her then she won't always be telling you she's tired....