i926:

And emotional assault on the husband is totally right?

Don't mind thr idiots everywhere on the internet!

OSDD:

How did she emotionally assaulted him? He apparently is a mummy's boy, he has not gotten over his mother's breast
So you want to justify his reason for slapping his wife?

You are a bastard and obviously, do not have a mother!!!
A man's mother is not just anyone!!!! She is the mother of a man you think is responsible and dependable enough to get married to, she deserves all the respect in the world!!!!!!!

You a bad and at the same time greedy and wicked boy.
Try that rubbish with my sister you will see anyhow
That's when we will use that koboko money you gave us during her pride Price to whip your body very well
How can you be beating your wife and tomorrow you still want to Bleep her.
Na Poison your food one day and I hope you never think of that abi ? Congratulations boy continue.

MiddleDimension:


You are a bastard and obviously, do not have a mother!!!
A man's mother is not just anyone!!!! She is the mother of a man you think is responsible and dependable enough to get married to, she deserves all the respect in the world!!!!!!!

I am not sorry for your emotional outburst, you are just one of those good for nothing, down trodden fools, parading themselves on nairaland.

I know you grew up in an abusive home where your father uses belt and slap to communicate with your mother, it is quite evident in your conversation. I'll suggest you go back to your father and learn one or two from him



Oops, sorry, I have forgotten that he is also a wife beater, I pity your sons and daughters, most especially your wife, you are just another mad man in clothes pretending to be sane....

I am not sorry if I feel the stupid op should not abuse his wife because of his mother, there is a way to handle such situations amongst both sex, but that thinking is far from you because of your upbringing...


Have a nice day, and if you don't? I don't give a flying fork

TOMMYS:


So his wife is the main family. His mum can now be regarded As others .

Where nairaland dey see all this people

nothing to say to you blockhead
For an read my comment again, this time slowly like a child that you are. Maybe you would get it right this time.

TOMMYS:


Beating a woman is bad.
But, do we drum it into the ears of women too that.
Insulting a man.
Disrespecting him.
Trying to manipulate him with words.

Is also bad and can be categorized as beating a man

You are the only one thinking with your brain in this thread filled with stupid posts from the most idiotic people on this planet! Imagine one creting saying if it were in 'saner' climes as it just because they have big technology, that in itself makes them saner!
A so-called saner clime where if a woman slaps a man, it is immediately thought that the man probably deserves it while a man does the same, he is immediately a monster! How we got ti decive the world to this extent is what I cannot understand! And because the man is not willing to stoop too low to drink every drop of cum from the lady's pussy, he is immature and not fit for marriage!!!

Omo, people dey marry o...Like what the actual f**k?I really pity that woman.Let me go and appreciate my husband well,seeing things like this makes me feel like I struck gold.

Kobojunkie:
I have never heard a such ridiculous complaint in my entire life.... giving someone food from fridge is bad?

e shock me...In my house i freeze everything i cook, nothing like cooking fresh foods daily.

OSDD:

I am not sorry for your emotional outburst, you are just one of those good for nothing, down trodden fools, parading themselves on nairaland.

I know you grew up in an abusive home where your father uses belt and slap to communicate with your mother, it is quite evident in your conversation. I'll suggest you go back to your father and learn one or two from him



Oops, sorry, I have forgotten that he is also a wife beater, I pity your sons and daughters, most especially your wife, you are just another mad man in clothes pretending to be sane....

I am not sorry if I feel the stupid op should not abuse his wife because of his mother, there is a way to handle such situations amongst both sex, but that thinking is far from you because of your upbringing...


Have a nice day, and if you don't? I don't give a flying fork

Hahaha!!!!
I grew up in one of the finest homes that because of your corrupt mind, you cannot even conscieve even in your dream!!!

The point remains that when a woman slaps a man, you immediately think the man probably deserves it! And when it is proven beyond reasonable doubt that the man indeed is in the wrong, YOU AND EVERY OTHER IDIOT LIKE YOU (of course they have to idiots in your league to be able to have the same terrible opinion as yours. If they were an idiot to a lesser degree, they will be abke to know that actions and reactions are natural and while you may caution against reactions, you are not going to refer to the reaction as invalid therefore disregarding the emotional experience of the other person!): you and your type will think the man deserves it! Can you please tell me how that is not stupid even by the lowest standard of stupidity?
A woman can slap a man and go scot free and the man even be laughed at and the woman can go on bragging about it to somebody else that she slapped a man because she knows that there are idiots like your stupid self who have got very poor sense of judgement to discern what is right from what is wrong. She knows the world is unfortunately infested with your likes. That gives her the confidence to attack a man and also brag about it.

MiddleDimension:


Hahaha!!!!
I grew up in one of the finest homes that because of your corrupt mind, you cannot even conscieve even in your dream!!!

The point remains that when a woman slaps a man, you immediately think the man probably deserves it! And when it is proven beyond reasonable doubt that the man indeed is in the wrong, YOU AND EVERY OTHER IDIOT LIKE YOU (of course they have to idiots in your league to be able to have the same terrible opinion as yours. If they were an idiot to a lesser degree, they will be abke to know that actions and reactions are natural and while you may caution against reactions, you are not going to refer to the reaction as invalid therefore disregarding the emotional experience of the other person!): you and your type will think the man deserves it! Can you please tell me how that is not stupid even by the lowest standard of stupidity?
A woman can slap a man and go scot free and the man even be laughed at and the woman can go on bragging about it to somebody else that she slapped a man because she knows that there are idiots like your stupid self who have got very poor sense of judgement to discern what is right from what is wrong. She knows the world is unfortunately infested with your likes. That gives her the confidence to attack a man and also brag about it.

Go through your conversation on this thread, it reeks of stupidity and nothing but sheer ignorance, I know you will want to claim to come from a very good home but if it true then you are the bastard of that so called good home..

The op apparently isn't man enough to get married, like I stated earlier on, I know your father is a wife beater and he enjoyed every second of torment he was giving your mother, the abuse certainly robbed off on you..


You have been calling people names because you feel It is okay for the op to beat his wife, I hope and pray that someone does the same to your daughter, sister and every female around you. And the only reason the beater will give is his mother.
Now, take your pathetic, useless and unproductive life off my mention, it is too early to engage someone who is obviously mentally impaired like you..


The op was beating his wife because he felt she disrespected his mom, and the only way you feel it is good is because it was his mother, there are other ways on handling issues but like I said earlier on, that thinking is far from you..

Also don't forget this, it is wrong for any sex(both male and female) to abuse each other, but that is another topic for another day, hopefully by then, you will have learn a lot. But right now, you are just a big slowpoke

Mummy's boy grow up and man up! You are too childish and spoilt to be a husband. Imagine the way you are bragging about being a mummy's boy and beating up your wife? As though its an achievement. You nauseate me, I wonder what the fragile woman will going through in your hand. But just note it the next time you will raise your filthy hand on her you wont believe what will be coming at you! Grow up baby husband. Your mum thinks she is doing you a good but she's rather destroying your home! Her rteward awaits her too!

Nyanabo:


nothing to say to you blockhead
For an read my comment again, this time slowly like a child that you are. Maybe you would get it right this time.

I did not insult you.
It's evident in you words that your parents were suppose to abort you earlier.
It's just too late now.
Dumb simping illiterate

jaksmillioniar:
hello room.

I have a problem and it is paining me. I am a matured guy who know what it feels like to be single and maried .

Most People mock me, but I got married.

We had a baby last year, a corona baby.

I am not ashamed to say that at my age, I am still a mummy's boy and she is my number one but I respect my wife.

When I wanted to marry, my wife Never agreed to having a house close to my mum's place.

I felt very bad but I want to make her happy so we moved far. My mom was angry as she knew my wife forced me.

When my wife delivered, her mum came for omugo instead of my mum, and that made her so sad, that she cried and ask if i am a bastard to let them steal her right.

I begged her. She came for naming and left the same day I noticed way my wife was acting rude too because her mum was pushing her.

I told my wife that mum is angry, let us visit her buy her a gift because her place is now far.

She kept saying that her body is not strong for 5 months after delivery and I thought she took me and my family as fools.

I got angry and slapped her twice. When she saw that I was really angry she begged me.

So we went and saw her we are all happy and settled all.

As my child reached 10 month, I told her to tell her mum to go because she's now strong almost to walk.

Her mum left but my mum wanted to come and spend the holiday as she had never done that since she delivered .

When I told my wife, her facial expression changed. When my mum came i travelled but she didnt cook for her but heat soup that was in the freezer to give her.

My mum hated that and she called me crying that what she did to her she won't do to her own mum .

I pretended nothing happened as I got back I bought things from a eatry for family so my mum left after 2 weeks.

I brought up the issue and she said nothing wrong in giving her food kept in the freezer that she gave same to her mum too .

I got angry and beat her up. I didnt injure her. all and some other thing . I love my wife I cant be beating her all the time she promise to change yet nothing. Because of bad character I refuse to take her to eatry.

she denied me sex until I slap sense into her.

marriage has challenges it is s not easy.

I hope this is not true. If it is, you are a very stupid idiot. Very very stupid and you have me to tell you. Ezi ofia. Better take that girl back to her parents and go back to your mum and marry your mum. Ode.

Wife Beater Spotted, you are even happy the way you are saying it. You are beating yourself if you dont know sorry is your case, I pity your wife. It is good to correct her if she's wrong but not with beating.

interesting , so beating/ slapping is what this marriage is all about now.

There is no wise human who would compare the physical strength of a man with that of a woman. Yes men in saner climes know this fact, that is why they do everything possible to protect married women from domestic violence, because majority of women are generally weaker than men in physical strength. I am not supporting verbal abuse, no, but this your comment definitely is a joke. For you to compare physical abuse and verbal words doesn't make sense.

MiddleDimension:


These idiots who think it is wrong for a man to hit a woman thinking it is immaturity on the part of the man would immediately think a man deserves it when he gets hit by a woman for whatever reason!!!! Can she also 'walk' away when she feels disrespected or harrassed by the man?
And they call the parts of the world where all these nonsense come from as saner than ours.

Omo! See something oooo. You are not mature to marry. I believe this marriage was consummated as a result of pregnancy. It is very absurd to beat your wife. Don't beat your wife again! Try to draw a boundary'between your wife and mum. I'm not saying that you should separate from your mum. Let her know that another family has begun. Try and mediate on issues between the two of them.

The slap has been made , so why telling the public

Oga, you are just acting like a baby and immature, you kukuma marry your mother make we rest abeg, i just dey vex for all these your rubbish talk self. Slap your wife as if she was a slave. Na mumu man u be and God go punish you.

People that beat their wives and still expect sweet sex are funny o. Your wife cooks your meal and you still beat her.

One day your monkey go go market without coming back.

TOMMYS:


I did not insult you.
It's evident in you words that your parents were suppose to abort you earlier.
It's just too late now.
Dumb simping illiterate

I guess "Where nairaland dey see all this people" is not an insult to you right ?

When I pay you back in your own coin you come to my mention to wail your @$$ off. Just how stupid can you get ?

BTW, I'm more educated can your father or even any member of your family can ever be. I'm done with you.

jaksmillioniar:
hello room.
I am not ashamed to say that at my age, I am still a mummy's boy and she is my number one but I respect my wife.

I got angry and slapped her twice. When she saw that I was really angry she begged me.

she denied me sex until I slap sense into her.

marriage has challenges it is s not easy.

Mad man

Slap no Dey tire you haha

TOMMYS:

Good advice for the OP.


No be all this simps above. Some of them wey dey post.
Useless man.
Woman beater
Irresponsible man.

Dey beat thier wife o

When Dem come here na to dey type rubbish

Everybody wan form woke!.

jaksmillioniar:
hello room.

I have a problem and it is paining me. I am a matured guy who know what it feels like to be single and maried .

Most People mock me, but I got married.

We had a baby last year, a corona baby.

I am not ashamed to say that at my age, I am still a mummy's boy and she is my number one but I respect my wife.

When I wanted to marry, my wife Never agreed to having a house close to my mum's place.

I felt very bad but I want to make her happy so we moved far. My mom was angry as she knew my wife forced me.

When my wife delivered, her mum came for omugo instead of my mum, and that made her so sad, that she cried and ask if i am a bastard to let them steal her right.

I begged her. She came for naming and left the same day I noticed way my wife was acting rude too because her mum was pushing her.

I told my wife that mum is angry, let us visit her buy her a gift because her place is now far.

She kept saying that her body is not strong for 5 months after delivery and I thought she took me and my family as fools.

I got angry and slapped her twice. When she saw that I was really angry she begged me.

So we went and saw her we are all happy and settled all.

As my child reached 10 month, I told her to tell her mum to go because she's now strong almost to walk.

Her mum left but my mum wanted to come and spend the holiday as she had never done that since she delivered .

When I told my wife, her facial expression changed. When my mum came i travelled but she didnt cook for her but heat soup that was in the freezer to give her.

My mum hated that and she called me crying that what she did to her she won't do to her own mum .

I pretended nothing happened as I got back I bought things from a eatry for family so my mum left after 2 weeks.

I brought up the issue and she said nothing wrong in giving her food kept in the freezer that she gave same to her mum too .

I got angry and beat her up. I didnt injure her. all and some other thing . I love my wife I cant be beating her all the time she promise to change yet nothing. Because of bad character I refuse to take her to eatry.

she denied me sex until I slap sense into her.

marriage has challenges it is s not easy.

You are sick. How can you talk about beating your wife so proudly? And she's now a new mother

Mummy's boy? Where did you learn to treat women like that? How can you treat your mother so well but your wife so heartlessly?

I really don't understand. Does your mother even know that you beat your wife like that?

I think in your case, your mother sees you as her man which is not healthy. This is why women should stay away from mummy's boys

Such a disgrace to manhood

jaksmillioniar:
hello room.

I have a problem and it is paining me. I am a matured guy who know what it feels like to be single and maried .

Most People mock me, but I got married.

We had a baby last year, a corona baby.

I am not ashamed to say that at my age, I am still a mummy's boy and she is my number one but I respect my wife.

When I wanted to marry, my wife Never agreed to having a house close to my mum's place.

I felt very bad but I want to make her happy so we moved far. My mom was angry as she knew my wife forced me.

When my wife delivered, her mum came for omugo instead of my mum, and that made her so sad, that she cried and ask if i am a bastard to let them steal her right.

I begged her. She came for naming and left the same day I noticed way my wife was acting rude too because her mum was pushing her.

I told my wife that mum is angry, let us visit her buy her a gift because her place is now far.

She kept saying that her body is not strong for 5 months after delivery and I thought she took me and my family as fools.

I got angry and slapped her twice. When she saw that I was really angry she begged me.

So we went and saw her we are all happy and settled all.

As my child reached 10 month, I told her to tell her mum to go because she's now strong almost to walk.

Her mum left but my mum wanted to come and spend the holiday as she had never done that since she delivered .

When I told my wife, her facial expression changed. When my mum came i travelled but she didnt cook for her but heat soup that was in the freezer to give her.

My mum hated that and she called me crying that what she did to her she won't do to her own mum .

I pretended nothing happened as I got back I bought things from a eatry for family so my mum left after 2 weeks.

I brought up the issue and she said nothing wrong in giving her food kept in the freezer that she gave same to her mum too .

I got angry and beat her up. I didnt injure her. all and some other thing . I love my wife I cant be beating her all the time she promise to change yet nothing. Because of bad character I refuse to take her to eatry.

she denied me sex until I slap sense into her.

marriage has challenges it is s not easy.

Mehn at this rate, by the time your wife spend about 10 years in marriage to you she would have hearing issues. She misbehaves, you slap her. She talks out of turn you, slap her. She denies you sex, you slap her. Use your head bro. For how long will you keep slapping her? You go slap her one day she go use sniper do pepper soup for you. I understand you are pissed by her attitude but there are better ways to express your grievance. Dude I know you love your mom greatly but you must understand and accept that there is the place of mother and there is the place of a wife. No matter how close your mother is to you she cannot be closer to you than your wife. For goodness sake you bang her regularly. You know the dimensions of her singularity. You know her scent. You know your wife in ways you can never know your mother. Okay she cooked reheated food for your mom but is that not why you have a refrigerator? Do you not eat the same reheated food? Whatever you eat in your home should be the same thing anyone visiting should eat na. And even if you want your wife to prepare fresh food, you do not compel her to do so by wiping her hot slap. To make life easy for your wife she can store the ingredients and sharply put a dish together in minutes without having to prepare the ingredients. Think man. Think. That is why GOD gave you a brain. Work on solving problems and not slapping your way through problems...Dude go and beg your wife. Apologize for being a baby. Work with her to craft meaningful ways of addressing the crisis of in-laws...If na my sister you dey slap like that and I am as close to her as you are close to your mom, mehn my guys and I, go use your face do slapping competition oh.

Nyanabo:


I guess "Where nairaland dey see all this people" is not an insult to you right ?

When I pay you back in your own coin you come to my mention to wail your @$$ off. Just how stupid can you get ?

BTW, I'm more educated can your father or even any member of your family can ever be. I'm done with you.

Educated illiterate in the shithole.
I blame your father and mother for bringing a fool like you into this world.
I guess with all ur education, your entire family are masturbating In the shithole.

I know your mum beats your dad.
It's hereditary.
Don't complain when ur wife's start beating you.



Ewu

TOMMYS:


Educated illiterate in the shithole.
I blame your father and mother for bringing a fool like you into this world.
I guess with all ur education, your entire family are masturbating In the shithole.

I know your mum beats your dad.
It's hereditary.
Don't complain when ur wife's start beating you.



Ewu

Bitterness has held this one in chains lock and key for years. To be honest I wouldn't like to gloat about my family because family success is different from individual success. Research about my moniker and you would know who you are talking to.

jaksmillioniar:
hello room.

I have a problem and it is paining me. I am a matured guy who know what it feels like to be single and maried .

Most People mock me, but I got married.

We had a baby last year, a corona baby.

I am not ashamed to say that at my age, I am still a mummy's boy and she is my number one but I respect my wife.

When I wanted to marry, my wife Never agreed to having a house close to my mum's place.

I felt very bad but I want to make her happy so we moved far. My mom was angry as she knew my wife forced me.

When my wife delivered, her mum came for omugo instead of my mum, and that made her so sad, that she cried and ask if i am a bastard to let them steal her right.

I begged her. She came for naming and left the same day I noticed way my wife was acting rude too because her mum was pushing her.

I told my wife that mum is angry, let us visit her buy her a gift because her place is now far.

She kept saying that her body is not strong for 5 months after delivery and I thought she took me and my family as fools.

I got angry and slapped her twice. When she saw that I was really angry she begged me.

So we went and saw her we are all happy and settled all.

As my child reached 10 month, I told her to tell her mum to go because she's now strong almost to walk.

Her mum left but my mum wanted to come and spend the holiday as she had never done that since she delivered .

When I told my wife, her facial expression changed. When my mum came i travelled but she didnt cook for her but heat soup that was in the freezer to give her.

My mum hated that and she called me crying that what she did to her she won't do to her own mum .

I pretended nothing happened as I got back I bought things from a eatry for family so my mum left after 2 weeks.

I brought up the issue and she said nothing wrong in giving her food kept in the freezer that she gave same to her mum too .

I got angry and beat her up. I didnt injure her. all and some other thing . I love my wife I cant be beating her all the time she promise to change yet nothing. Because of bad character I refuse to take her to eatry.

she denied me sex until I slap sense into her.

marriage has challenges it is s not easy.

Made up story

I no get battery ooo but I support you my Nigger this women don't know their place.

I no get battery ooo but I support you my Nigger this women don't know their place. It been 10 months of no sex after wedding I had to branch outside to get a side chick who knows my worth relationship is over hyped.

Fake story.

jaksmillioniar:
I like ur point witout insult am at work will reply later u know is wrong for my mum not to do omugo . Is hard b4 I beat my wife but I get angry quick dat how am created d problem is my wife mum.de number one problem is dat woman and I try to let my woman know dat u cant let ur mum control wat happen in marraige. u too said it dat its wrong for her mum to do omugo. my mum cant come and be fighting to stay.forget I do gragra on internet am very loyal to my wife as a baby some think we are still boyfriend and galfriend.but she know if she knew I will Neva taka rubbish from her or her family. am a dicipline guy.

You disgust me! What an arrogant and toxic individual you are! Jeez, reading your response on this thread and it reeks of the narcissism. You are a ducking narcissist. Damn! Grow up! Or better still, stay put in your manipulative mother's house since you're a proud mummy's boy. Talking about slapping an adult as if he is talking about a toddler. I hope she realizes her worth and dumps your sorry ass. She is worth more than being the wife of an unrepentant ahole like you. And trust me, if you continue like this, your old age will be filled with regrets because you are setting yourself up for failure. Mumu say he is a disciplined man, Lmao, you are not disciplined instead you're a weak sadistic man. I wish I didn't bump into this thread again. Mtcheewwww!

PS: all this useless and toxic masculinity starts and end here on Nairaland. And it's easy to display all these BS posts because the forum allows it. You wouldn't dare post this on forums like Reddit, Quora etc and not be ripped a new one. I wonder what Nairaland as a forum would love to be remembered for. You know for a heavily moderated forum allowing a lot of gender based violent post and tribal insult comments to fly like its a normal thing beats my imagination. Is it for traffic? It is well.