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Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Nicklaus619(m): 1:25pm On Dec 20, 2021
GboyegaD:


You said niece, not your child. It is easier most times to discipline other people's children by our culture.

My niece has been with me since age 1, and i dont see her any less my kid, since my elder brother traveled to Canada, I have been her parents and she's turning out just perfect cool
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by ImaIma1(f): 1:46pm On Dec 20, 2021
JackDaAlienz:
I went to my uncles home for christmas holiday and what i experienced there was dissapointing

How can a GROWN MAN not control and enforce home traning on his 4 little kids.
He always leave everything for the wife, who is overwhelmed and is not doing a good job either.

The worst part is that he will allow these kids to be awake watching tv till 12 am midnight while he will be playing video games.
If the kid misbehave, i correct them, they start crying loud and this man will always come out and defend them.
He cant command his kids to go to bed, he always beg them.
A grown man begging his kids to go to bed..
Wtfffff
And if you see how big this my incle is you will think he is ufc fighter but at home his children are the boss.

He always talks like he is smart but i feel PITY for him when these Children grow up to be mannerless cult boys, he will be scratching his head asking what did he do wrong.

Some men are not fit to be fathers
some of them are still Baby Adults that cant train their kids.


Awake till midnight shocked ? That is late. Those kids don't have a healthy routine. Even growing up, we were made to sleep by 8pm on school nights and 9pm on Thursdays. No stories.

You can only try in your own little way. But if their own parents are over-indulging them, there's not much you can do.
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by adebaba5: 1:46pm On Dec 20, 2021
JackDaAlienz:

Bro dont worry, i go Bleep the hell out of your wayward daughthers... Teen pregnancy go full your house. All ur daughters go dey collect prick from 14 years old grin grin grin

But why would a well brought up lad be looking to bleep wayward children?

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Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Pumpumking: 2:06pm On Dec 20, 2021
meobizy:
Boy, go and raise your own children. Stop judging another man’s household. The role of parents is to provide for their children while teaching them right from wrong. If the parents can’t do the second part then the government will in the form of prison terms. Every human being, even bad ones, have moral compasses. Those children will turn out okay.


Sweeery u takk like wifey material...describe yor sef again plus shape please wink
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by anu3: 2:10pm On Dec 20, 2021
Goodlyhrt:
You are not God for assuming his kids will turn out bad.. Gee allow the man to be a dad.. his way.

C'mon think positively most times. Nothing is wrong with people most times, you are just worked up.

Friend, I doubt if you'd like to hear this, but he's got a point. As the last born I hate the way I was brought up and I used to think it's cool in my younger days till I approached adulthood.

So, I had to start fighting the weaknesses, foolishness, tiredness and laziness I grew up with as a real battle: and with God's help, infact. The Op's story is even worse because all the children are getting built up like that.

Grace...
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by GboyegaD(m): 2:23pm On Dec 20, 2021
Nicklaus619:


My niece has been with me since age 1, and i dont see her any less my kid, since my elder brother traveled to Canada, I have been her parents and she's turning out just perfect cool

Oga, I am not contending your doing a good job, I am only reiterating she isn't your kid. What that means is because she is in your custody, you will do all to ensure she turns out properly by your definition not minding even if she is broken (which happens to many in our society). With your own kids, it's a different ball game entirely.
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Pumpumking: 2:45pm On Dec 20, 2021
Nicklaus619:


My niece has been with me since age 1, and i dont see her any less my kid, since my elder brother traveled to Canada, I have been her parents and she's turning out just perfect cool

why u loookin afta other people childrens when those things eat tooo gadddem much sir. I hate kids and cant stand those thing sir. Drive them away sir!!!(no ofense) angry
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Hassanmaye(m): 2:58pm On Dec 20, 2021
JackDaAlienz:

And when the next generation of kids start acting wild, having sex and doing drugs early.
You people will be the first to blame parents for poor parenting.
Bunch of confused animals
True leave the fools
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Hassanmaye(m): 2:59pm On Dec 20, 2021
motymop:
I belive you were trained well by your own parents

Take a look at all the topic you have created on nairaland, now how did you turn out after all the tough training cheesy

Almost half of your topic are about SEX.

You want to teach another man how to train his own children when you are a disaster.
Hahahhahahaha
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by jeff1607(m): 3:06pm On Dec 20, 2021
JackDaAlienz:
I went to my uncles home for christmas holiday and what i experienced there was dissapointing

How can a GROWN MAN not control and enforce home traning on his 4 little kids.
He always leave everything for the wife, who is overwhelmed and is not doing a good job either.

The worst part is that he will allow these kids to be awake watching tv till 12 am midnight while he will be playing video games.
If the kid misbehave, i correct them, they start crying loud and this man will always come out and defend them.
He cant command his kids to go to bed, he always beg them.
A grown man begging his kids to go to bed..
Wtfffff
And if you see how big this my incle is you will think he is ufc fighter but at home his children are the boss.

He always talks like he is smart but i feel PITY for him when these Children grow up to be mannerless cult boys, he will be scratching his head asking what did he do wrong.

Some men are not fit to be fathers
some of them are still Baby Adults that cant train their kids.


This is one of the reasons I can’t permit relatives in my home for too long, they will carry your private affairs and take it elsewhere for discuss, wetin another guy fit to own his home doing in another guy’s home? Can’t you just visit and go back the same day and the uncle go still give you money for tfare .

How a man handles his home is no one’s business unless it’s affecting you directly was expecting things like the can’t do chores or greet , for crying out loud it’s holiday season they can f***king do what they f***kin want in their father’s house , just say you want to watch tv and they didn’t allow you.


Do you have any idea how the kids performed in school , then the mind to say the wife can’t do her job as a mother, try that in my home , the beating wey the person go collect eh , be it brother or sister , they must collect.

No quote me o

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Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by samwash(m): 3:19pm On Dec 20, 2021
angelfallz:
The Americans and Europeans that you called don't allow their kids to stay up late.

Are you talking abt the same kids that will call police on their parents?

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Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Jungpablo: 3:20pm On Dec 20, 2021
JackDaAlienz:

Bro dont worry, i go Bleep the hell out of your wayward daughthers... Teen pregnancy go full your house. All ur daughters go dey collect prick from 14 years old grin grin grin
you sound like someone with bad upbringing

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Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by iamme1234(m): 3:25pm On Dec 20, 2021
@op if you got nothing to do
Go to hell
Leave his home and go raise ur own home.
Na ur type dey kill your brother because of property.
Go and make your own life and leave him
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by meobizy(f): 3:37pm On Dec 20, 2021
Pumpumking:



Sweeery u takk like wifey material...describe yor sef again plus shape please wink
Lemme, jor.
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Jungpablo: 3:58pm On Dec 20, 2021
Nicklaus619:
Op ignore those ignoramus element saying sh!t up there, op really, u are very wise for your age, though I don't know how old u are, but u are sure more reasonable than your uncle.

Me personally I can't put up with mannerless attitude from little ones especially when they are relatives. My elder brothers kids love me so much because I discipline them like kilode and I give them mouth watering reward anytime they does things and they are in their best behaviour and do all their chores and every other things they are suppose. And that's how I will raise my kids, my family, my rules, step outa line and get smacked back to the line, with what's happening in our society these days, I will teach them good morals with love ad best as I could to become good ambassadors not dread lock wearing nuisance, with saggy trousers and dirty undies we have these days in the society
I agreed with you until you got to that dreadlock part.... Stop judging people, because someone is putting on dreadlock does not make him a bad person y'all should stop being judgemental, judgemental people are jealous and full of hate so stop hating so you can love your child in the future, with this your attitude you cannot show genuine love.

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Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by angelfallz(m): 4:01pm On Dec 20, 2021
Yes I am talking about the same kids. Also your idea that European and American kids just call the police on their parents probably came from watching Hollywood movies.
Reality is very different

samwash:


Are you talking abt the same kids that will call police on their parents?
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Nicklaus619(m): 4:02pm On Dec 20, 2021
GboyegaD:


Oga, I am not contending your doing a good job, I am only reiterating she isn't your kid. What that means is because she is in your custody, you will do all to ensure she turns out properly by your definition not minding even if she is broken (which happens to many in our society). With your own kids, it's a different ball game entirely.

I beg to disagree bro, same way she's turning out is same way my kids would, trust me I know what am saying
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Pumpumking: 4:03pm On Dec 20, 2021
meobizy:
Lemme, jor.

Nope..sweery kindly know that .u now owe me 3 weeek punnnny for all the streesss u put me tru on nairaland.this include kiss ,goodvkiss & plus extra hug!!((TRUE STORY)) angry
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Nicklaus619(m): 4:04pm On Dec 20, 2021
Jungpablo:
I agreed with you until you got to that dreadlock part.... Stop judging people, because someone is putting on dreadlock does not make him a bad person y'all should stop being judgemental, judgemental people are jealous and full of hate so stop hating so you can love your child in the future, with this your attitude you cannot show genuine love.

U don't even understand me, I don't care if my kid wears dreadlock but they must be responsible and I will make sure of that, If u notice most of the youth today wears dirty dread and smokes around, they are clearly not responsible
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Nicklaus619(m): 4:06pm On Dec 20, 2021
Pumpumking:


why u loookin afta other people childrens when those things eat tooo gadddem much sir. I hate kids and cant stand those thing sir. Drive them away sir!!!(no ofense) angry

shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked are u for real, no bro, try and change your orientation please. Kids are gift from.God and lovely too
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Pumpumking: 4:16pm On Dec 20, 2021
Nicklaus619:


shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked are u for real, no bro, try and change your orientation please. Kids are gift from.God and lovely too


Wot gadddem gift? Gadddem childrens cryin like hyena & running round the house like hungry rabbbit & suckin booooobsi like they own that $hit?...bro to hell witvthem sir.childrens are there to trap people!!(no oofenese) angry
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by capnies: 4:27pm On Dec 20, 2021
samwash:


If this man is an American or a European, will you complain?
Now that he is an African & a Nigerian, is not man enough to be a father figure to the family he loved,desire & cherish.
Oga!!! Take your time, let the man run his home the way he desire it & if you are not cool with it, then back out & leave the family alone.
Life nor really hard, na we dey make life hard for ourselves.

I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT EVERY SPOILT CHILD AFFECTS THE SOCIETY NOT JUST THE PARENTS ALONE. BECAUSE OUR SOCIETY IS A BIGGER UNIT OF THE FAMILY. SO WATCHING A CHILD BEING DESTROYED BY THE PARENTS AND TURNING A BLIND EYE IS WRONG BECAUSE YOU ARE INDIRECTLY DESTROYING YOUR OWN CHILDREN BECAUSE THEY ALL WILL LIVE IN THE SAME SOCIETY. WHAT AFFECTS THE EYE ALSO AFFECTS THE NOSE
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Jungpablo: 4:30pm On Dec 20, 2021
Nicklaus619:


U don't even understand me, I don't care if my kid wears dreadlock but they must be responsible and I will make sure of that, If u notice most of the youth today wears dirty dread and smokes around, they are clearly not responsible
I agree with you have a blessed day sir
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Volksguys1985: 5:08pm On Dec 20, 2021
Thank you op, you made me call my father, it's been a while.
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by McEphiks(m): 5:17pm On Dec 20, 2021
Pumpumking:




u people need gadeeem edukation in that nigeria place....was wrong in male childrens to chase female children when they are young....was wrong with children playin Police and theif where the male will be the Police chassin the female theif and then when he catch her, he can kiss her with peck...tha fok is wroong with that kinda move?.......but then u homebase people want to seperate them from playin and then when the males finaly become strong proud gay men...u will refuse there dowry...BUsh africa peole!!!!!(no ofoeinse) angry

In your attempt to be smart, you sounded cretinous and dippy. There's no atom of sense in all you said.
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by jameel6: 5:59pm On Dec 20, 2021
You are too authoritative, go and have your own family, leave your uncle alone. What is your business in how the children behave, are they in your house?
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by BluntCrazeMan: 6:22pm On Dec 20, 2021
JackDaAlienz:
I went to my uncles home for christmas holiday and what i experienced there was dissapointing

How can a GROWN MAN not control and enforce home traning on his 4 little kids.
He always leave everything for the wife, who is overwhelmed and is not doing a good job either.

The worst part is that he will allow these kids to be awake watching tv till 12 am midnight while he will be playing video games.
If the kid misbehave, i correct them, they start crying loud and this man will always come out and defend them.
He cant command his kids to go to bed, he always beg them.
A grown man begging his kids to go to bed..
Wtfffff
And if you see how big this my incle is you will think he is ufc fighter but at home his children are the boss.

He always talks like he is smart but i feel PITY for him when these Children grow up to be mannerless cult boys, he will be scratching his head asking what did he do wrong.

Some men are not fit to be fathers
some of them are still Baby Adults that cant train their kids.
Have you been with naive kids before??
Over-strict parents give rise to naive kids
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by BluntCrazeMan: 6:31pm On Dec 20, 2021
motymop:
I belive you were trained well by your own parents

Take a look at all the topic you have created on nairaland, now how did you turn out after all the tough training cheesy

Almost half of your topic are about SEX.

You want to teach another man how to train his own children when you are a disaster.
You just brutalised this guy with this comment of yours..
..
JackDaAlienz come and see oo

Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by jarx: 6:40pm On Dec 20, 2021
See them hypocritical set of mumu people. All these people condemning the post will still be the ones that blamed poor parenting on chidimma ojukwus case, angel of bbnaija, the cultist that beat Sylvester to death. Now someone is trying to avert such scenario in a near future in his little way and they are spitting nonsense against it.

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Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by IgweBUIKE1(m): 6:54pm On Dec 20, 2021
A lot of collateral damage on naira land...imagine the nonsense am reading here about the op minding his business..I have a bro in Belfast northern Ireland..while growing up my mom never spear the rod..infact one time he was locked up at the station for been in the wrong place at the wrong time ...my mom went to the station instead of bailing him she left him there ..this was happening on the 24 of December and mom went to bail him two days later..now the same guy is married with kids and he has learn to appreciate my mom so much that he worship her all the days of life ...my sis on the other hand is doing a poor job all in the name of staying awoke and she is already a sleepless night ..my bro gives his kids discipline despite staying in Ireland... this kids don't know anything yet ...is the pattern you lay for them ..that is what' they will follow ..exceot for pear pressure
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by Rickmann: 8:02pm On Dec 20, 2021
SultanOfPuna:

You said you cant teach a man how to raise his kids..
So why are you quoting bible teaching parents how to raise their kids? You people are so confused mentally and physically

So sorry Oga, I knew what I said pls and I stand on it. I think it's you who has a problem with comprehension.
Learn to read and understand properly before opening that hole on ur face you call a mouth. As far a parenting is concerned, the Bible only guides you ok it doesn't teach you..
Re: Some MEN Are Just Babies With Big Muscle by 2DADDEY: 8:04pm On Dec 20, 2021
Pokenoser you are angry

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