Benprass:



What you people won't allow to happen to your own children that is what you want others to experience in thier home!

Now I see why most children of this generation are nothing to write about.
Forget is how you raise your children up that will determine how far the next generation will look like.

Like i always say if you aint ready to take care of children dot bring them to this life.

motymop:
I belive you were trained well by your own parents

Take a look at all the topic you have created on nairaland, now how did you turn out after all the tough training

Almost half of your topic are about SEX.

You want to teach another man how to train his own children when you are a disaster.

Web2020:
The world has gone beyond sticks and rod on a child. The intimidation and bullying we subject our children to in Africa make them to grow up and become fearful, not bold in the public.

Pumpumking:


^^^^nigggggga u sound like a reject bro...Yor uncle dint ask for yor advise, i dint ask for yor advise , Nairaland dint ask for yor advice

my best advise.....go n watch blue film!(no ofeinse)

motymop:
I belive you were trained well by your own parents

Take a look at all the topic you have created on nairaland, now how did you turn out after all the tough training

Almost half of your topic are about SEX.

You want to teach another man how to train his own children when you are a disaster.

Pumpumking:


brother..if u waz hear in london, the will refer u to Mental psykatrick ward for stupidity & if u were in Nigeria, they wil nomaly say maybe yor head is not corrrect......the reason why everyone tink u dumb & stewwwpid is becuz how can u teach a grown man how to raise his own kid & how to behave?......u dont like wot u seee. ...u get that hell out...You aint payin his rent!!!!! ((WORDS OF WISDOM)))..no ofeinse!!

JackDaAlienz:
I went to my uncles home for christmas holiday and what i experienced there was dissapointing

How can a GROWN MAN not control and enforce home traning on his 4 little kids.
He always leave everything for the wife, who is overwhelmed and is not doing a good job either.

The worst part is that he will allow these kids to be awake watching tv till 12 am midnight while he will be playing video games.
If the kid misbehave, i correct them, they start crying loud and this man will always come out and defend them.
He cant command his kids to go to bed, he always beg them.
A grown man begging his kids to go to bed..
Wtfffff
And if you see how big this my incle is you will think he is ufc fighter but at home his children are the boss.

He always talks like he is smart but i feel PITY for him when these Children grow up to be mannerless cult boys, he will be scratching his head asking what did he do wrong.

Some men are not fit to be fathers
some of them are still Baby Adults that cant train their kids.

motymop:
I belive you were trained well by your own parents

Take a look at all the topic you have created on nairaland, now how did you turn out after all the tough training

Almost half of your topic are about SEX.

You want to teach another man how to train his own children when you are a disaster.

JackDaAlienz:

Im talking about a man as a head of the house who cant contol his little kids.
As the head of the house, his kids still disobey him and he will be begging them.
This is what you people are applauding.
Spits at the weak men of this generation
No wonder women are flogging their bf for cheating. Bunch of casterated men

Ladyhippolyta88:

Because they have the resources to take care of them and want to.

motymop:
I belive you were trained well by your own parents

Take a look at all the topic you have created on nairaland, now how did you turn out after all the tough training

Almost half of your topic are about SEX.

You want to teach another man how to train his own children when you are a disaster.

mmsen:


According to OP this man does not have the acumen to take care of them.

Money is not the only resource required to raise a child and I find it astounding that in a nation such as Nigeria with its myriad of pre-industrdial era problems that people still cannot make the connection between large families, rapid population growth and societal anarchy.

Truvelisback:
Abeg, leave am. Na him kids. Na him understand them.

JackDaAlienz:
I went to my uncles home for christmas holiday and what i experienced there was dissapointing

How can a GROWN MAN not control and enforce home traning on his 4 little kids.
He always leave everything for the wife, who is overwhelmed and is not doing a good job either.

The worst part is that he will allow these kids to be awake watching tv till 12 am midnight while he will be playing video games.
If the kid misbehave, i correct them, they start crying loud and this man will always come out and defend them.
He cant command his kids to go to bed, he always beg them.
A grown man begging his kids to go to bed..
Wtfffff
And if you see how big this my incle is you will think he is ufc fighter but at home his children are the boss.

He always talks like he is smart but i feel PITY for him when these Children grow up to be mannerless cult boys, he will be scratching his head asking what did he do wrong.

Some men are not fit to be fathers
some of them are still Baby Adults that cant train their kids.

Pumpumking:


brother..if u waz hear in london, the will refer u to Mental psykatrick ward for stupidity & if u were in Nigeria, they wil nomaly say maybe yor head is not corrrect......the reason why everyone tink u dumb & stewwwpid is becuz how can u teach a grown man how to raise his own kid & how to behave?......u dont like wot u seee. ...u get that hell out...You aint payin his rent!!!!! ((WORDS OF WISDOM)))..no ofeinse!!

Ladyhippolyta88:

I wasn't refering to this OP's uncle you asked an open question and I gave an open answer.
Money is not the only source but I find it to be an important requirement.
I have to disagree with you I am a big fan of large families and population is not a curse if the right leaders can tap from such human resources and yes whoever has the means and time to birth as much kids as they want should be allowed to do that so long as the children are not deprived of basic needs and adequately taken care of.

I don't agree with you on that

Pumpumking:


brother..if u waz hear in london, the will refer u to Mental psykatrick ward for stupidity & if u were in Nigeria, they wil nomaly say maybe yor head is not corrrect......the reason why everyone tink u dumb & stewwwpid is becuz how can u teach a grown man how to raise his own kid & how to behave?......u dont like wot u seee. ...u get that hell out...You aint payin his rent!!!!! ((WORDS OF WISDOM)))..no ofeinse!!

Ladyhippolyta88:


He is SIMPle and happy and maybe loved by his family.
You that was raised by both parents who loves you?

Na OP I blame wey carry this nonsense come nairaland dey make faceless person dey insult him uncle family.

mmsen:


No 'right leader' can do anything with a population that doubles every 25 or one in which half the population are children.

The reality is that in such a setting the children are deprived of the basics - many such families eventually fall into hardship, even those that do not there is often a lack of care, patience and affection shown towards those children.

There's a reason why Nigeria is in constant disarray and one of the foundational problems is the detrimental home life of most of its citizenry.

od501:


[s]Ribina generation spotted. Mentored by nollywood, motivated by social media. Oh..how I pity this generation: a generation of complete idiots. The next generation will even be worse, judging from what the OP said. Keep copying Western culture, even when you come face to face with the harm it causes.

Chai...the thing even pain me cos say na men. If it is women, I wouldn't take them seriously, but for men, it yaf finish![/s]!

arantess:

you write like a drug addict
words of wisdom ko..

CORRECTION:
i love pucccccy sir..not drug......edddddit boy!!(no oofeinse)

trutht828:


There is more to parenting than paying the rent.

If those kids grow up to become bad, they can pick up guns and murder your children in cold blood. They can even rape your daughter to death. Then we will know who is really stupid and dumb between you and the op

Dividus2savelif:



Obviously you are one of those spoiled kids living in UK and has lost every sense of manner/respect. I won't be surprise you beat your parents and shout on them

DannyWalker:
Why not just shut the hell up already

BigYash:
I hope when you give birth,you will raise them like thugs, because you're a dad.. This your believe is why parents now raise beast as children today.. Take a clue from Doven college.. Only if those kids were raised well.. Make una dey support rubbish,e go reach una turn someday..

my nigggga i aint givin no gadddem birth. I hate gadddem kids coz women use kid to trap person. childrens loook like hungry rabbbbit and no man want gaddem kids sir. those things looook alike anyways. f** them!!!(no ofeinse)

samwash:


If this man is an American or a European, will you complain?
Now that he is an African & a Nigerian, is not man enough to be a father figure to the family he loved,desire & cherish.
Oga!!! Take your time, let the man run his home the way he desire it & if you are not cool with it, then back out & leave the family alone.
Life nor really hard, na we dey make life hard for ourselves.

Coldplay007:


Lol.. More like (WORDS OF STUPIDITY)..
Exactly why Nigerians bring up the worst behaved children in the UK. You idiotic folks try to mimic the whites that dont beat their children and fail seriously..

You need to know that while Europeans dont beat their children, they have other methods of disciplining children. You folks dont beat your children and dont provide alternative means of disciplining hence your kids end up in gangs and cults.

Those children are headed for destruction and their father is the cause..

Ladyhippolyta88:

This is because majority of those who have much kids lack the resources to,if they did it wouldn't be a problem and it still doesn't change my stance nothing stops anybody from having up to 5 kids in the 21st century as long as they can cater for them.

Coldplay007:


Lol.. More like (WORDS OF STUPIDITY)..
Exactly why Nigerians bring up the worst behaved children in the UK. You idiotic folks try to mimic the whites that dont beat their children and fail seriously..

You need to know that while Europeans dont beat their children, they have other methods of disciplining children. You folks dont beat your children and dont provide alternative means of disciplining hence your kids end up in gangs and cults.

Those children are headed for destruction and their father is the cause..

mmsen:


They will always lack in a society in which the population doubles every 25 years. No economy is going to keep pace with such growth. One population boom might be advantageous but not 3 within 100 years. That is insanity.