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Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by Gkemz: 5:59am On Dec 23, 2021
Because Nigerian girls due to their uncountable body count are like 3rd/4th/5th hand commodities previously abused by its different owners and so must be thoroughly checked before making payment.

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Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by Bantu10: 6:04am On Dec 23, 2021
Majority of Nigerian ladies do not have wombs again due to series of abortions and ritual ish from Yahoo boys.

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Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by Keji1012(m): 6:06am On Dec 23, 2021
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No be today

Who Impregnated Aisha Buhari (your daddy’s wife)?

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Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by depure(m): 6:07am On Dec 23, 2021
It's never a general thing, not all men.
Any man that has such plan is not serious... The marriage will not hold.
It's stressing for the woman to they push belle up and down ..
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by bablon20(m): 6:08am On Dec 23, 2021
Fecundity test.
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by FamilyAdviser: 6:09am On Dec 23, 2021
In those days, women have pride, they don't misbehave or live a wayward life of immorality as witness today.

Also there was nothing like abortion , so this days Young men fears that the women of this generation maynot be fertil due to excess abortion hence the results in getting their girlfriend pregnant before marriage.

I did the same anyway though from another direction...

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Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by Godbless3(m): 6:10am On Dec 23, 2021
Because most of this olosho done countless abortion after sleeping with men they can never marry raw, take multiple pills after sex and that may have negative effect to their womb.
So if you want to avoid the story that touch such as your mother, father, grandparent being a witch, you just test the car and be sure of the engine.

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Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by idanone(m): 6:10am On Dec 23, 2021
Brocode1:
I've noticed a certain trend and I'm in need of explanation. Why do most men these days impregnate women before marrying them? During our days it used to be an abomination but nowadays it seems it's so rampant. I need honest contributions to this thread. Thank you.
i guess it is good but not right in the sight of God (christian)

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Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by LalaSnakeLala(m): 6:11am On Dec 23, 2021
To know you're not marrying a transgender.
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by RightToReject(m): 6:13am On Dec 23, 2021
The act of equating vices like callousness and perfidiousness, from the majority from both genders, as cleverness/wokeness is the cause. I, however, don't see a man from strong ethical leanings subjecting a conscientious woman, who has an altruistic interest in him to the debasing act, but he will definitely not hesitate to subject one from weak ethical leanings to such if she happens to be the only available option and provided that he is established.

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Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by LalaSnakeLala(m): 6:13am On Dec 23, 2021
jubrilELsudan:
BECAUSE WOMEN THESE DAYS DON'T HAVE WOMBS ANYMORE DUE TO SERIES OF ABORTIONS BECAUSE OF THEIR ASHAWORY.

9 OUT OF 10 NIGERIAN GIRLS/WOMEN ARE A CONFIRMED ASHAWO.
I've learned a new word today. 'Ashawory' grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by Godbless3(m): 6:14am On Dec 23, 2021
depure:
It's never a general thing, not all men.
Any man that has such plan is not serious... The marriage will not hold.
It's stressing for the woman to they push belle up and down ..


One day, you will come here to cry that your wife can't concieve becaure ur mother/father have lock her womb with juju not knowing its because of excesive abortion and taking pills after raw sex to kill the semen from men.

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Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by dettolgel: 6:17am On Dec 23, 2021
Brocode1:
I've noticed a certain trend and I'm in need of explanation. Why do most men these days impregnate women before marrying them? During our days it used to be an abomination but nowadays it seems it's so rampant. I need honest contributions to this thread. Thank you.

It was abomination back then, because back then you can easily marry another one if the first one is childless without anyone raising eyebrow.

But now more especially amongst Christians people frown upon it and couple with the financial implications and the chances that some of these girls have done several unsafe abortions, men are not willing to take chances ooh.
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by treatise: 6:18am On Dec 23, 2021
Brocode1:
I've noticed a certain trend and I'm in need of explanation. Why do most men these days impregnate women before marrying them? During our days it used to be an abomination but nowadays it seems it's so rampant. I need honest contributions to this thread. Thank you.

It's been there for decades, ask Nigerians from the east of the Niger

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Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by treatise: 6:19am On Dec 23, 2021
Keji1012:


Who Impregnated Aisha Buhari (your daddy’s wife)?

It's was done by proxy grin
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by Brocode1: 6:19am On Dec 23, 2021
Slurity:
This your observation is peculiar to the Igbos more, it not common among Hausa and Yorubas
It is very common among yorubas and igbos. Rarely in hausas

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Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by ednut1(m): 6:22am On Dec 23, 2021
Fertility issues cost money ( millions) . People want to be sure first before committing. And with the rate of abortions and dead sperm today its for both parties good.

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Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by treatise: 6:22am On Dec 23, 2021
Gkemz:
Because Nigerian girls due to their uncountable body count are like 3rd/4th/5th hand commodities previously abused by its different owners and so must be thoroughly checked before making payment.

It's because both sexes are guilty of something ; they've seen it all and not want to take chances. Put differently, they've explored well well grin

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Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by vickydevoka(m): 6:25am On Dec 23, 2021
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Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by mayo47(m): 6:28am On Dec 23, 2021
Statistics from your personal life perspective.....Or How did you arrive at the data?

fineboynl:
Thank God you said things have changed.

So that answers the question.

The reasons is because things have changed.

Does days people married before 16/18 for female and male 20/22. and in most case virgins.

But today 30 years on girl is still moving around unmarried with several body count and abortion.

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Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by bluefilm: 6:28am On Dec 23, 2021
Brocode1:
I've noticed a certain trend and I'm in need of explanation. Why do most men these days impregnate women before marrying them? During our days it used to be an abomination but nowadays it seems it's so rampant. I need honest contributions to this thread. Thank you.

During your days?

Are you that old or what?

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Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by Richie77: 6:30am On Dec 23, 2021
Actually, ladies are battlin many things this days from fibroids to blocked falloppian tubes etc. If not careful, after marriage, u will spend millions before before a child can come out.

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Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by MrFly(m): 6:30am On Dec 23, 2021
To ascertain if it is 2nd, 3rd or 4th grade. Who get time to dey run from one hospital to another
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by mctons: 6:31am On Dec 23, 2021
The rate of slay queens is on the rise. It is plausible to slay them on bed on arrival to confirm fertility biko
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by Richie77: 6:31am On Dec 23, 2021
Actually, ladies are battling many things this days from fibroids to blocked falloppian tubes etc. If not careful, after marriage, u will spend millions k before a child can come out of the Union.

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Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by jimtemi1: 6:32am On Dec 23, 2021
Immoralities of most girls are too much, if they didn't get pregnant before marriage how would u know that there womb still intact? With most of them running after yahoo boy.. Is better u make sure they get pregnant or else u go die on top fasting n prayers looking onto God were as those olosho's know what they have done with there youthful age
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by Judd007: 6:33am On Dec 23, 2021
To know if they are shooting blanks.
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by Oddfinder: 6:35am On Dec 23, 2021
Brocode1:


This still doesn't justify the act. It's a disgrace to the parents
How is it a disgrace oga.? U de call pikin disgrace.
Shouldn't they be happy its a double blessing?

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Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by Wiifesnatcher(m): 6:36am On Dec 23, 2021
maxtop:
These are the reasons :

1. You need to sample that kitten very well so that your case wont be that of Tonto and Churchill
2. You need to see you are potent and viable so that you wont father a bastard
3. You need to oversee your offspring wont be like Bobrisky
4. You need to understand as a man you take care of 3 people at a time so that your case wont be like those Yoruba actress


the most irrational post have ever come across, stop using your parent standard to judge others



why should a lady even agreed to that except maybe the guy have passed the introduction stage. sincerely the rate infertility is growing among ladies these days beg for such circumstances
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by Munzy14(m): 6:38am On Dec 23, 2021
Brocode1:
I've noticed a certain trend and I'm in need of explanation. Why do most men these days impregnate women before marrying them? During our days it used to be an abomination but nowadays it seems it's so rampant. I need honest contributions to this thread. Thank you.
It started in your days, but wasn't as common as it is now...

Times and things have evolved..We have a generation where some ladies Will do anything to get a cell phone, bone straight and bone curve hairs cheesy, to feel among.

We are also in the era yahoo boys use some as toys to do gang bangs lipsrsealed


Desperate times calls for desperate measures.

We still have the cool headed clean ladies, they are as pure as they come...If we meet those ones, na straight to her papa house...Plenty women here and there, few wives/mothers.

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Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by KingEfelefu: 6:39am On Dec 23, 2021
Infertility
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by Wiifesnatcher(m): 6:40am On Dec 23, 2021
mayo47:
Statistics from your personal life perspective.....Or How did you arrive at the data?




fineboynl is right many unmarried ladies lately are 30years above, unfortunately they've passed the trend to the younger ones with the mentality of not marrying hustling guys



many of them end up being a gf to series of guys and still end up in the home of these hustling guys they once rejected because hustle don pull through



na why I dey reason guys that hustle hard to make it but end up with a lady that's not part of their hustling, how she go value and identify with your value

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