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Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by Mwanamume(m): 6:10pm On Dec 27, 2021

Baba forget that babe oo,person wey d lie like this na no go area,reason wetin that babe, @Nobody yarn for here..Forgive that your babe but free am
cos, Marriage matter Dem no d run am, KALO KALO' oo

Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by seguno2: 6:11pm On Dec 27, 2021

PUSSYBBQGRILLS:
Send her to school and marry her. Simple.

Because he is her parents?
Or because of what?
Maybe after they are married she can go to uni.

Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by yemi1504: 6:12pm On Dec 27, 2021

victorian:
I know, we all wish to marry graduates. It's not a pipe dream. But assuming? she has a big shop at Balogun market selling hajia gowns and turbans, each piece worth 30k and above for a single gown, and her shop is well stocked with goods of different female accessories and shoes with bags. She dresses well, looks comfortable and clean. And speaks well.

Will u still be concerned about her certificate and say u can't marry her because she's not a graduate? Please be sincere.

Last last, if she's financially OK, you won't be complaining like this.

Everything boils down to her, having money and been financially independent. That's the truth and reality.
Money answereth all questions

Abi.

Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by fineboynl(m): 6:13pm On Dec 27, 2021

Mission aborted. I repeat "mission aborted" return back to base.

Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by ultiabaz36(m): 6:15pm On Dec 27, 2021

PUSSYBBQGRILLS:
Send her to school and marry her. Simple.

Barman, please serve this man another bottle. He deserves it

Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by souza333(m): 6:15pm On Dec 27, 2021

That really means you yourself you are not ready for the marriage yes you are disappointed in her what about taking this same situations to be you struggling to be in 500lvl in school without no help have you thinked of the struggled she go through that means you only want to marry the graduate satificate not the woman you truely Love not her qualification my brother go for her marriage is all about understanding not home breakers go for her or lose a lifetime wife and a mother.

Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by willy2000(m): 6:17pm On Dec 27, 2021

Oizee:
Please correct the one you cancelled

If you a graduate writes like this, you need to lower your standard. That girl is just perfect for you.(Wrong)
If a graduate writes like this, you need to lower your standard. That girl is just perfect for you.(Correct)
If you, a graduate, write like this, you need to lower your standard. That girl is just perfect for you.(Correct)

Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by Nobody: 6:18pm On Dec 27, 2021

God dammit this is a 2018 trend ridiculous and annoying

Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by Noblewealth(m): 6:18pm On Dec 27, 2021

When we dey pray for better woman another person dey complain of drop out..

Mister If that babe posses every good criteria for marriage, pls marry her..

Na olosho plenty for graduate..

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Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by lereinter(m): 6:19pm On Dec 27, 2021

Did she lie to you that she was a graduate or you thought she was supposed to have told you?

Maybe she didn't know you will bring up marriage to her

Because ladies don't have one bf

Ask her many things you need to know then base your marriage decision on it

It's not a must for you to marry her

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Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by brandsoncharlie: 6:19pm On Dec 27, 2021

victorian:
I know, we all wish to marry graduates. It's not a pipe dream. But assuming? she has a big shop at Balogun market selling hajia gowns and turbans, each piece worth 30k and above for a single gown, and her shop is well stocked with goods of different female accessories and shoes with bags. She dresses well, looks comfortable and clean. And speaks well.

Will u still be concerned about her certificate and say u can't marry her because she's not a graduate? Please be sincere.

Last last, if she's financially OK, you won't be complaining like this.

Everything boils down to her, having money and been financially independent. That's the truth and reality.
Money answereth all questions

This is reality not sentiment. This sentiment entitlement is just needless sympathy, your brain is not working properly, that's the advice you will give to your brother.

Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by Ayemileto(m): 6:22pm On Dec 27, 2021

2018 thread just making FP.

Na was ooo.

bestme:
Hello, nairalanders in the house, pls I need your sincere advice in this matter.

I have known this lady I really want to marry for over 2 years now. Though our friendship have been a casual one. The issue is she told me she is a graduate and then i visited her house over 2 years back I met her mom and she asked me where I came from- my tribe and if I am a graduate and told her my tribe and yes I am graduate.

She said she wants her daughter to marry a graduate because she has done her best to train her school. It was of recent we started a serious marriage relationship and I told my pastor and we both met with pastor already.

It Is now she told me that she did not graduate that she was unable to pay school fees, though she went up to 500level and did I.T but her parents only paid 100 and 200 level school fees. She said she has no result/certificate. I told her am honestly disappointed for hiding this from me ever since and she said it is because I have not really made my intentions know to her.

One of the reasons I like her was being a graduate and I have not dreamt of marrying a non graduate.

Pls your sincere advice.

So, did you marry lady?

Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by Sirchiboy: 6:22pm On Dec 27, 2021

bestme:
Hello, nairalanders in the house, pls I need your sincere advice in this matter.

I have known this lady I really want to marry for over 2 years now. Though our friendship have been a casual one. The issue is she told me she is a graduate and then i visited her house over 2 years back I met her mom and she asked me where I came from- my tribe and if I am a graduate and told her my tribe and yes I am graduate.

She said she wants her daughter to marry a graduate because she has done her best to train her school. It was of recent we started a serious marriage relationship and I told my pastor and we both met with pastor already.

It Is now she told me that she did not graduate that she was unable to pay school fees, though she went up to 500level and did I.T but her parents only paid 100 and 200 level school fees. She said she has no result/certificate. I told her am honestly disappointed for hiding this from me ever since and she said it is because I have not really made my intentions know to her.

One of the reasons I like her was being a graduate and I have not dreamt of marrying a non graduate.

Pls, your sincere advice.

.

Can I ask you a few questions sir?
This lady in question is she well articulated in English?
Is she civilized and behaves like a graduate?
Does she has a skill or a business?

Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by jaxxy(m): 6:24pm On Dec 27, 2021*

bestme:
Hello, nairalanders in the house, pls I need your sincere advice in this matter.

I have known this lady I really want to marry for over 2 years now. Though our friendship have been a casual one. The issue is she told me she is a graduate and then i visited her house over 2 years back I met her mom and she asked me where I came from- my tribe and if I am a graduate and told her my tribe and yes I am graduate.

She said she wants her daughter to marry a graduate because she has done her best to train her school. It was of recent we started a serious marriage relationship and I told my pastor and we both met with pastor already.

It Is now she told me that she did not graduate that she was unable to pay school fees, though she went up to 500level and did I.T but her parents only paid 100 and 200 level school fees. She said she has no result/certificate. I told her am honestly disappointed for hiding this from me ever since and she said it is because I have not really made my intentions know to her.

One of the reasons I like her was being a graduate and I have not dreamt of marrying a non graduate.

Pls your sincere advice.

Being a graduate or not doesn’t determine ur success in life I’m sure u know this. Bt what does this lady even do for a living? And how come u never noticed any signs? That means she’s probably educated enough to convince Sm1 she’s a graduate.

I have no issues with Sm1 not being a graduate as she can still become a graduate if she’s determined and pursue her studies further here or outside this country with a convenient program.

Secondly being a graduate doesn’t determine success bt being well educated.

Bt that being said I do have a problem with her lying about it. I do hope she’s not a serial liar. Also she could have opened up and even restarted her education while dating u.

If she’s doing Smtn productive with her life I won’t really mind Bt if she isn’t then I will have a serious problem with a liar and a liability. undecided

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Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by Ayemileto(m): 6:24pm On Dec 27, 2021

Sirchiboy:
.

Can I ask you a few questions sir?
This lady in question is she well articulated in English?
Is she civilized and behaves like a graduate?
Does she has a skill or a business?

Wrong Question!!!

The thread is from 2018.

You should be asking OP if he eventually married her. grin

Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by Deen100: 6:25pm On Dec 27, 2021

godfatherx:
Is it the paper certificate you want to marry?
Do you have a job for her now that requires her certificate?
What's the essence of being a graduate if you can't correctly express yourself? I read your story and I understand the "grammar", for me, that's communication, but for your "perfect" educational background requirement, the blunders are unacceptable.
If you a graduate writes like this, you need to lower your standard. That girl is just perfect for you.

God bless you sir

Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by Ihatebuhariwith(m): 6:25pm On Dec 27, 2021

I attended their wedding in 2019, so don’t stress ursef to advice him..

Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by Sirchiboy: 6:28pm On Dec 27, 2021

Ayemileto:
Wrong Question!!!

The thread is from 2018.

You should be asking OP if he eventually married her.

.
Are you married?

Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by MummyD2020(f): 6:29pm On Dec 27, 2021

Leave her na! Shuo. Since she doesnt meet the criteria and she has not been honest. What are we going to tell you now?

Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by Ayemileto(m): 6:31pm On Dec 27, 2021

Sirchiboy:
.
Are you married?

Your question should go to OP, not me. sad

Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by Starz825(m): 6:34pm On Dec 27, 2021

victorian:
I'm not available. I am taken.

Taken to which location cheesy

Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by Nobody: 6:37pm On Dec 27, 2021

godfatherx:
Is it the paper certificate you want to marry?
Do you have a job for her now that requires her certificate?
What's the essence of being a graduate if you can't correctly express yourself? I read your story and I understand the "grammar", for me, that's communication, but for your "perfect" educational background requirement, the blunders are unacceptable.
If you a graduate writes like this, you need to lower your standard. That girl is just perfect for you.

God bless you!

Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by MrNipplesLover(m): 6:37pm On Dec 27, 2021*

Na thread of 2018 them pushed come front page! angry

Who did this among the mods?!!!

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Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by MrJames007: 6:39pm On Dec 27, 2021

godfatherx:
Is it the paper certificate you want to marry?
Do you have a job for her now that requires her certificate?
What's the essence of being a graduate if you can't correctly express yourself? I read your story and I understand the "grammar", for me, that's communication, but for your "perfect" educational background requirement, the blunders are unacceptable.
If you a graduate writes like this, you need to lower your standard. That girl is just perfect for you.

Godfather, I woulda loved to give you a crate of Origin. cool

Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by Adakintroy: 6:42pm On Dec 27, 2021

Lies come to women naturally..if they winning there nothing wrong. That was why the were able to say men enslaved them for centuries. It was the lie of the century. But as long as it's working for them it's ok.

Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by Ouchbabe(f): 6:43pm On Dec 27, 2021

explosiveskull:
What kind of useless advice is this?
That she didn't open up cos of what?
What is hard in telling someone you didn't finish school?
You are a damn lier and a hypocrite if this is how you live your life in real life.

We are all entitled to our options. I gave my advice. You can as well give yours without being dramatic sir

Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by Ungodly: 6:44pm On Dec 27, 2021

PUSSYBBQGRILLS:
Send her to school and marry her. Simple.

Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by Sirchiboy: 6:44pm On Dec 27, 2021

Ayemileto:
Your question should go to OP, not me.

..
Answer me.
You personally are you married?
I have a small dilemma for you

Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by kurlz(f): 6:45pm On Dec 27, 2021

godfatherx:
Is it the paper certificate you want to marry?
Do you have a job for her now that requires her certificate?
What's the essence of being a graduate if you can't correctly express yourself? I read your story and I understand the "grammar", for me, that's communication, but for your "perfect" educational background requirement, the blunders are unacceptable.
If you a graduate writes like this, you need to lower your standard. That girl is just perfect for you.

You are wickedt grin

Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by NGArmyTerrorist: 6:47pm On Dec 27, 2021

PUSSYBBQGRILLS:
Wetin you dey grill; because I am against any one grilling Vultures, and other deadly animals for zombie's consumption .

Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by BRATISLAVA: 6:52pm On Dec 27, 2021

If men don't complain endlessly, who will? LMFAO.

More fiction from the stable of nairalamd boys. Old fiction.

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Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by Robinson155(m): 6:53pm On Dec 27, 2021

bestme:
Hello, nairalanders in the house, pls I need your sincere advice in this matter.

I have known this lady I really want to marry for over 2 years now. Though our friendship have been a casual one. The issue is she told me she is a graduate and then i visited her house over 2 years back I met her mom and she asked me where I came from- my tribe and if I am a graduate and told her my tribe and yes I am graduate.

She said she wants her daughter to marry a graduate because she has done her best to train her school. It was of recent we started a serious marriage relationship and I told my pastor and we both met with pastor already.

It Is now she told me that she did not graduate that she was unable to pay school fees, though she went up to 500level and did I.T but her parents only paid 100 and 200 level school fees. She said she has no result/certificate. I told her am honestly disappointed for hiding this from me ever since and she said it is because I have not really made my intentions know to her.

One of the reasons I like her was being a graduate and I have not dreamt of marrying a non graduate.

Pls your sincere advice.

Mumu man

God save you from graduate wahala
Marry her
You don't eat certificate
What you need is loyalty and a good wife

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