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Rickmann:
A girl meets a good guy 'he is just a friend' she says..then gets her heart broken by the player and has the nerve to say 'all guys are the same'.

I'm not surprised at all at your story...girls are just pain waiting to be felt..i also learnt that the hard way.

As an emotional person , I keep telling guys not to have any commitment till they ready to get married. It will save you a whole lot of pain and tears.

hotwax:
im jez fcking tired of them...

the good one you are seeing now has not revealed her modi operandi

akezn:
You are so correct, especially with your last paragraph.

Kriss216:
Post Christmas breakfast.


Like I always say, only a foolish man will expect total loyalty from a Nigerian girlfriend.

Your beloved girlfriend is our community project. No reason am.

brain54:
Just noticed the girls aren't commenting on this thread...

hotwax:
My lovely girlfriend is a sweet woman who always give me sense of assurance. She is very decent, caring and respectful. She is so firm that it took 4 months before we could talk about romance or trying it out.

She is well known in my family circle. I base in Lagos, she stays with her parents in ibadan, but she usually come around when my family members are having a gathering. She will cook for us, do the chores. Everyone grew found of her. My siblings do even ask of her. “Where is Anu? Take care of the lady ooo”. My mom who hardly get along with our girlfriends always ask about her. All these made me to be sure that’s the woman I was going to marry. After all, my people already knew her and they are getting along well. No complain from any angle

The Problem

Late October 2021, I informed her that I would be attending a ceremony in ibadan where stays. She was exited, she even told me she missed me, the kisses, sxx etc. She can’t wait to see me again. I was excited too.
I texted her the hotel address when I got to Ibadan.

She came, we hug, and she started kissing me, but we later calmed down afterall we are just seeing and we still have the whole night. So no rushing. She told me she saw domino pizza opposite the hotel that she is hungry for it. And this is where the devil came in.
She took some cash and prepared to go and buy the piza. She was walking out towards my hotel room door, so I stood to accompany her to the door, more importantly help her with the door. She opened the door before I got there, but I was behind her. A guy also came out from a room not directly opposite mine, (I actually knew when the guy checked in. He was dragging his trawl on the room walkway, so I guess he was a new guest).

As my babe came out, the guy was coming out of his room giving my babe seductive look. Immediately he saw there was a guy behind her, he quickly looked away. He went out of the hotel via the walkway, my babe also followed him because they were coincidentally going towards the same direction.

Truth be told, I never suspected anything. I was even mocking the guy in my mind, my girlfriend is the last person you want to mess with.
She came back with the pizza, sat on the bed, munch while she was busy pressing her phone. I suspected something must have crop up with the way she was busy chatting on whatsapp. She gave me no attention. So I joined her on the bed. With sad face she asked if I have tissue, I asked what happened, she said her period just came now. I said the bathroom has a tissue paper. She went in spent minutes in the bath, came out of the bath, to pick another pant in her bag. (She came with clothes, because she want to spend few days with me). She went back to the bathroom wash, did some other stuff.

She joined me on the bed, put my hand on her padded private. She used tissue paper as sanitary pad. She said sorry, I Bleep up. I said no she shouldn’t feel sorry. Her menstruation is my joy. Afterall you are not here because of sex. We have a lot to talk about tonite. So relax lets enjoy the night. She then told me she can’t spend the night. She has to go on the same day, before evening. She gave me reason that when her menstrual cramp starts she always boil water and other things. Hotel is not the right place for it. I agreed. 6pm, she packed and started going, I was busy on my laptop fixing my office assignments. I stood to see her off. She insisted that I should continue. No need. But I insisted, as I saw her off to the door, she insisted again, go and do your work na. I will take a bike just at the entrance, I don’t know what happened, I just agreed saw her walk out the walkway, I banged my door and continue my work on the laptop.

Then few seconds later, even if she wanted to get a bike, she will still be waiting outside for one, I remembered that the plate I used for lunch still has some leftover food and if not discarded will constitute foul stench in my room. So I picked up this plate to try and place it outside my door so housekeepers could pick it up.

I opened my room door, bend down to drop the plate at my door foot, I noticed someone standing at the door indirectly opposite mine. The person was knocking gently and calling on mobile too. I guess the person is trying to call the occupant of the room. But he/she was being careful not to knock the door loudly. I always mind my business, I said to myself, why do I care, this is a hotel. So I attempted to close my door. But then, something occurred to me, the person is a female and she wore white shirt, exactly like my babe. Out of curiosity, I looked back what I saw made me sick for days. The memory keep hitting my heart like dagger.

It was my woman, I didn’t know she saw me and became frozen looking at me praying I do not look back. But I looked back and saw her. She was shaking with her mouth widely opened. Then while the looking competition was on, the door opened and the guy opened the door waiting for her to come inside, when she didn’t go inside, the guy must have noticed she is looking at someone on the walkway, the guy also came out to see who she was looking at, he saw me and quickly closed and jammed his door.

Then I jammed my door too. She stood on the walkway for 10minutes. Then she started banging on my door. Calling my line. I didn’t answer. She sent text and also whatsapp.

“Its not what you think. I can explain. Something came up. Please open…I need to discuss something with you. I will not leave if you don’t open”. She did all that for like 20minutes. Then she left. That was the end of our 1+year relationship. She too did not bother to call or text after that day.

The whole thing felt like sharp scorpion sting to me. I never believe what I saw. Anything relationship started irritating me. I don’t think I can go into relationship again. These people are quick to call men dogs, but they are public toilet. I prefer to be dog than be where everyone dump their sper_m.

KarinaLove:
Are you married?

Why are you having sex when you are not married?

Don't you know you are Fornicating and committing a very big and terrible SIN Mr Man!!!

Well, I think that's pay back for your sins.

Bye

KarinaLove:
Are you married?

Why are you having sex when you are not married?

Don't you know you are Fornicating and committing a very big and terrible SIN Mr Man!!!

Well, I think that's pay back for your sins.

Bye

Duchessree:
Wow.. I don't even know what to say
Sorry sha

KarinaLove:
Are you married?

Why are you having sex when you are not married?

Don't you know you are Fornicating and committing a very big and terrible SIN Mr Man!!!

Well, I think that's pay back for your sins.

Bye

CeokRicchezza:
I'm not surprised bro but take heart. Nigerian girls cannot be trusted.

Trust me I have seen where young and unmarried lads will Bleep married women in their matrimonial homes, some street away or in an hotel. You think that God-fearing lady you trust does not have someone disturbing her for sex. She will do it, clean mouth like nothing happened.

If it's possible, get someone that you'll insert your sperm into, you'll pay her to raise your child for the nine months, she'll put to bed, take care for 9 to a year and pay her off so you can be a single father without worrying about infidelity.

KarinaLove:
Are you married?

Why are you having sex when you are not married?

Don't you know you are Fornicating and committing a very big and terrible SIN Mr Man!!!

Well, I think that's pay back for your sins.

Bye

hotwax:
i dont think she is into hookup. She just wanted to have a fling..one night stand...most ladies do..even the decent and faithful ones...

one guy will just come from nowhere and he will bang them...

I never saw any sign of infidelity in her...

I didnt disvirgin her, but she was well kept...I dont want to reveal everything

inumidun2010:
Guys dey PARA oooooo... U never see GUYS wey dey chase PREGNANT WOMEN... Inside life, OJU TIRI.....

EbukaHades10:
Just gently read what you wrote again and then you will realize that

Nyascobar1414:
Went through her profile..
I saw.. My God is merciful to me...
I saw...I'm for business...

You gad a feature of a farm tool...
.. Yea you a hoe... Just deciphered you.
At least make those mercies God give to you count...
Make him proud and stop doing hookup for christ sake...

hotwax:
trying to cover for her gender...mother of dogs

if you are the one in your dp, then you are sexually overused...u don over sex self

fabiano09:
What is this one saying ? If you need to be lashed abeg talk and stop all this childish talk

KarinaLove:
JUST LOOK AT THEM. ASSOCIATION OF H*RNY PERVERTS. To think you all even went as far as checking my profile says alot about you PERVERTS.

It's even more sad how you Perverts draw conclusions on people you don't even know. So sad. Talk about characteristics of a Pervert.

I feel sad for you all. The truth is truly bitter!!!

KarinaLove:
JUST LOOK AT THEM. ASSOCIATION OF H*RNY PERVERTS. To think you all even went as far as checking my profile says alot about you PERVERTS.

It's even more sad how you Perverts draw conclusions on people you don't even know. So sad. Talk about characteristics of a Pervert.

I feel sad for you all. The truth is truly bitter!!!

hotwax:
She joined me on the bed, put my hand on her padded private. She used tissue paper as sanitary pad. She said sorry, I Bleep up. I said no she shouldn’t feel sorry. Her menstruation is my joy. Afterall you are not here because of sex. We have a lot to talk about tonite. So relax lets enjoy the night. She then told me she can’t spend the night. She has to go on the same day, before evening. She gave me reason that when her menstrual cramp starts she always boil water and other things. Hotel is not the right place for it. I agreed. 6pm, she packed and started going, I was busy on my laptop fixing my office assignments. I stood to see her off. She insisted that I should continue. No need. But I insisted, as I saw her off to the door, she insisted again, go and do your work na. I will take a bike just at the entrance, I don’t know what happened, I just agreed saw her walk out the walkway, I banged my door and continue my work on the laptop.

Then few seconds later, even if she wanted to get a bike, she will still be waiting outside for one, I remembered that the plate I used for lunch still has some leftover food and if not discarded will constitute foul stench in my room. So I picked up this plate to try and place it outside my door so housekeepers could pick it up.

I opened my room door, bend down to drop the plate at my door foot, I noticed someone standing at the door indirectly opposite mine. The person was knocking gently and calling on mobile too. I guess the person is trying to call the occupant of the room. But he/she was being careful not to knock the door loudly. I always mind my business, I said to myself, why do I care, this is a hotel. So I attempted to close my door. But then, something occurred to me, the person is a female and she wore white shirt, exactly like my babe. Out of curiosity, I looked back what I saw made me sick for days. The memory keep hitting my heart like dagger.

It was my woman, I didn’t know she saw me and became frozen looking at me praying I do not look back. But I looked back and saw her. She was shaking with her mouth widely opened. Then while the looking competition was on, the door opened and the guy opened the door waiting for her to come inside, when she didn’t go inside, the guy must have noticed she is looking at someone on the walkway, the guy also came out to see who she was looking at, he saw me and quickly closed and jammed his door.

Then I jammed my door too. She stood on the walkway for 10minutes. Then she started banging on my door. Calling my line. I didn’t answer. She sent text and also whatsapp.

“Its not what you think. I can explain. Something came up. Please open…I need to discuss something with you. I will not leave if you don’t open”. She did all that for like 20minutes. Then she left. That was the end of our 1+year relationship. She too did not bother to call or text after that day.

The whole thing felt like sharp scorpion sting to me. I never believe what I saw. Anything relationship started irritating me. I don’t think I can go into relationship again. These people are quick to call men dogs, but they are public toilet. I prefer to be dog than be where everyone dump their sper_m.