FalseProphet1:
9 Don't marry a girl with a high body count.

I saw one topic on the front page where one guy was saying if she's good marry her.

If he made this statement in the 90s and early 2000s I wouldn't have bothered.

But in this era of Yahoo boys and rituals, it's very dangerous. As a Prophet, I've seen a lot, the womb of a woman is a seed that brings life, wealth...etc. many evil people in search of quick riches are after it and the only way to access it is through sex, which they can pay anything to the girl just to have their way to access it.

Many decent girls who fell prey to this evil people in the past and got married later in the future...after marrying a successful young man the financial life of the man became useless.

Further spiritual investigation showed that at a point of her life she dated or had a one night stand with this evil people who used her womb to transfer her glory to himself, so if you join yourself to such girl through marriage, everything you've laboured for will automatically go to the person that used her leaving you wretched and frustrated.

10. Don't marry a stingy girl If you've officially dated a girl for 3 months, and you can't point out one material thing she has given you aside sex, don't marry her.

Many guys believe it's their responsibility to cater for their girlfriends, I'm not against taking care of someone you claim to love, what I'm against is when she's not reciprocating your gestures or using sex as payment for what you're doing for her.

If your girlfriend cannot spend her hard earned money on you and you go ahead to marry her and become broke later on in your marriage, you're doomed cos she'll starve you to death, don't marry such girl.

11 Don't marry a girl who acts cold towards your family.

I once dated a girl who told me clearly that if we get married, my people won't visit her house. This is a house I'm paying the rent for, she referred to as her house.

Girls such as this will ruin you, don't over look red flags in the name of love.

If she dislikes your sister, brother, parents, just let her be for your own good.

12. Don't marry a girl that cheated on you with her ex or male friend.

When I see guys saying they've forgiven their girlfriend for cheating on them and are planning to marry her I laugh.

Girls don't cheat the way guys do, if a girl whom you're dating and even planning to marry cheats on you with someone she claimed to her gotten over, then know that she loves that person as much as she loves you or even more.

If you marry her, get ready to start raising his kids cos she'll definitely continue seeing him even after getting married to you.


Do this and have peace.

This I have seen.

Mummyfour:
Exactly. Or the one that spits mucus everywhere, even in the kitchen sink and tells the wife that he paid her bride price, so she must clean it .
I know a man that uses his singlets to blow mucus and would challenge his wife to wash it.
I also know a man that would never lift a finger to prepare a little meal for his children Even when the wife is seriously sick or out of the house.
He would rather give the children money to go and buy biscuit than make eba for them

peppermint7:
Fggh

Judybash93:
I only started reading the article and the first point is entirely useless. Why should anyone fear something you can't prove exists?
The rest are amazing points though... Good article

BUSHHUNTER:
Don't even marry a Nigerian girl

MALIGNANTGuest:

Are you serious?
That's Piggery in action.
If I realize such, I will gladly withdraw my sister from the marriage even b4 she considers divorce.
I have a wealthy colleague of mine who uses latrine & leaves his excreta in situ. The moment there are visitors, you'll see his wife running Helter Skelter ensuring the latrines are in shape.

In fact, his mother did same during Omugwo.
That was when we knew it was a lineage thing!
Bad habit is terrible.
Tufiakwaaaaaa.

greencard:
are you a manager??

greencard:
are you a manager??

Opeyemiextra:
These are very valid points because we have come to understand that love is not just enough to sustain a relationship. Communication, understanding and a little compromise here and there are important for the success of marriage or any relationship at all.

Goldentulip2:


TRUE. “Little compromise”

greencard:
are you a manager??

greencard:
Many people love the idea of marriage but the bad news they keep hearing is distancing them from the idea.

Some especially the redpillers may claim defiance ,but deep within they wish to settle down, but they just don't know with whom

I can't tell you who to marry, But I can advise you on whom not to marry

I- Never marry someone without the fear of God. It's dangerous.
They may fear you at your presence,maybe because of your economic power as their benefactor or because you may get upset and do them dirty if they wrong you. But don't underestimate their quick change if they finally get that which you offer them from somewhere else , then the fear of you diminished and they do what they wish . Cheat on you , blackmail you and of course divorce you.


2 ...Never marry someone that find it hard to forgive simple fault

I had to add simple fault, because if I say just forgive, then you might take him/her for granted and be doing anyhow. , because you know they will forgive after all. But in this context, I mean , don't risk marriage with someone who hold grudges for long and don't see reason to let go , who don't forgive easily but hold on to fault. You will see this singns during courtship, but if you are blinded by love, money, figure 8 or 6 packs. Marriage go clear your eyes

3 Don't Risk marriage with some one with too many opposing beliefs to yours

By opposing beliefs, I don't mean APC Vs PDP, they are almost the same thing, I mean, don't risk marriage with an extremist of any kind, except you two are extremist. If you are pro life and they prefer abortion, don't go there. If they laugh at the death of another person who is simply not their tribe or religion but they feel happy at it. That person is not sympathetic, he/she will laugh at you one day and you will hate yourself. Only you can properly tell the contrast. Just don't risk marriage with some one with too much opposite beliefs to yours.


4 don't marry a liar
Fooooool, you will see it o, but you will laugh and say but you can lie sha . Don't worry na, marry him/her . You go hear whin. You will always know where you stand with a womanizer, you will always know where you stand with a thief, but you can never know where to place yourself with a chronic LIAR. Don't say he doesn't lie to me sha, the breakfast go reach everybody one day and you will hate it that you were one of the many wise people he/she fooled

5. Don't marry a sadist
There are some things smiling and laughter can àvert , there are some things dancing and playing can repair, there are some things , cuddling and chiding can fix , but if you end up with a sadist . There is nothing I have to say to you than the LORD is your strength

6.. don't marry a nyph if you can't cope
At first you will think it's fun and you can match the game , but when e go over you , even the gods with their might and wisdom won't be able to settle the matter

7. don't marry out of pity
She came from a poor background so she must me humble and needy , Bros that should not be the main reason you should marry her. If I don't marry her who will? Let me just pity him cos he has been disturbing me, the boy try self . Me I pity you o. She doesn't have a helper let me help her by marriage, no go marry witch o

8. if there have been several warning signs, don't be stubborn, don't marry o
You may have noticed the signs , when they are with you, or in the dream or through your father or mother or friends or neighbor or strangers..
e get why o.
Don't follow your mumu heart o. You self reason am

KarinaLove:
Never Marry A Man who has spent all his life and youth having sex and sleeping with different sexual partners.

Never marry a man who keeps sleeping around. Keeping girlfriend and having sex. Some their body count has reached 1000 before age 30

You marry any of these men, YOUR MARRIAGE WOULD END IN BITTER TEARS.

I come in peace.

Mummyfour:
my bro, if I begin to tell you real life stories here eh!! We may end up derailing the topic.
I have seen and experienced things, and also heard from other women.
Most women live in regrets that they are so ashamed to talk. But when they see who they can confide in, they usually break down and talk.So what I do basically nowadays is to advise ladies especially young ladies that are still doing googly eyes in love or infactuation

marhez43:
Men should learn how to take care and pamper their wifes.women love been pamper do it nd stop shouting women are bad

Charmingrascal:
Never marry a Benue (Idoma) lady if you are not from there.


Never marry an Ijebu (Yoruba) woman if you are not from there.


Don't make the mistake of marrying a lady without any source of income.



As a lady don't marry a proud cultist, they don't always live long even after settling down.

BigBelleControl:
Don't marry someone because you share the same date of birth, name or surname.

Icumsa45:
Babe wey I wan marry , I purposely didn't send her 1 naira for Christmas as a test. I wan see as e dey go.

nerdjared:
Nigerian girls are terrible pretenders, liars and manipulators, avoid them at all cost

marhez43:
Dont marry a lady like TONTO DIKE TIWASAVAGE marry a Godly woman.when u as a man is nt Godly u can never see a gUD GIRL

Starz825:

People stupid reach this level??

BUSHHUNTER:
Don't even marry a Nigerian girl

Mood11:
Nobody is perfect..
Just marry who you can manage with.