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Holywizard:
Should I tell u what happened?
The guy was direct with ur ex. He quoted an amount of money for sex and ur ex couldn't hold herself. She might probably be into coded hookup as well. I know few working class ladies doing such.
I once had quickie, with another person's girlfriend at a hotel where I lodged few years ago. She was lodged with her so called man at the same hotel. We met at the hotel bar and our body chemistry matched. I was in my room when she chatted me up that I should open my door that she was coming. Na so we take run quickie and her man didn't know.
The truth is that ladies are always having one nonsense imaginary crushes on new faces most especially if they think that he has money or also good looking

As crazy as this is ..you are very correct about Dem ladies...
They just something else man ..
Their reasoning diff from men

hotwax:
My lovely girlfriend is a sweet woman who always give me sense of assurance. She is very decent, caring and respectful. She is so firm that it took 4 months before we could talk about romance or trying it out.

She is well known in my family circle. I base in Lagos, she stays with her parents in ibadan, but she usually come around when my family members are having a gathering. She will cook for us, do the chores. Everyone grew found of her. My siblings do even ask of her. “Where is Anu? Take care of the lady ooo”. My mom who hardly get along with our girlfriends always ask about her. All these made me to be sure that’s the woman I was going to marry. After all, my people already knew her and they are getting along well. No complain from any angle

The Problem

Late October 2021, I informed her that I would be attending a ceremony in ibadan where stays. She was exited, she even told me she missed me, the kisses, sxx etc. She can’t wait to see me again. I was excited too.
I texted her the hotel address when I got to Ibadan.

She came, we hug, and she started kissing me, but we later calmed down afterall we are just seeing and we still have the whole night. So no rushing. She told me she saw domino pizza opposite the hotel that she is hungry for it. And this is where the devil came in.
She took some cash and prepared to go and buy the piza. She was walking out towards my hotel room door, so I stood to accompany her to the door, more importantly help her with the door. She opened the door before I got there, but I was behind her. A guy also came out from a room not directly opposite mine, (I actually knew when the guy checked in. He was dragging his trawl on the room walkway, so I guess he was a new guest).

As my babe came out, the guy was coming out of his room giving my babe seductive look. Immediately he saw there was a guy behind her, he quickly looked away. He went out of the hotel via the walkway, my babe also followed him because they were coincidentally going towards the same direction.

Truth be told, I never suspected anything. I was even mocking the guy in my mind, my girlfriend is the last person you want to mess with.
She came back with the pizza, sat on the bed, munch while she was busy pressing her phone. I suspected something must have crop up with the way she was busy chatting on whatsapp. She gave me no attention. So I joined her on the bed. With sad face she asked if I have tissue, I asked what happened, she said her period just came now. I said the bathroom has a tissue paper. She went in spent minutes in the bath, came out of the bath, to pick another pant in her bag. (She came with clothes, because she want to spend few days with me). She went back to the bathroom wash, did some other stuff.

She joined me on the bed, put my hand on her padded private. She used tissue paper as sanitary pad. She said sorry, I Bleep up. I said no she shouldn’t feel sorry. Her menstruation is my joy. Afterall you are not here because of sex. We have a lot to talk about tonite. So relax lets enjoy the night. She then told me she can’t spend the night. She has to go on the same day, before evening. She gave me reason that when her menstrual cramp starts she always boil water and other things. Hotel is not the right place for it. I agreed. 6pm, she packed and started going, I was busy on my laptop fixing my office assignments. I stood to see her off. She insisted that I should continue. No need. But I insisted, as I saw her off to the door, she insisted again, go and do your work na. I will take a bike just at the entrance, I don’t know what happened, I just agreed saw her walk out the walkway, I banged my door and continue my work on the laptop.

Then few seconds later, even if she wanted to get a bike, she will still be waiting outside for one, I remembered that the plate I used for lunch still has some leftover food and if not discarded will constitute foul stench in my room. So I picked up this plate to try and place it outside my door so housekeepers could pick it up.

I opened my room door, bend down to drop the plate at my door foot, I noticed someone standing at the door indirectly opposite mine. The person was knocking gently and calling on mobile too. I guess the person is trying to call the occupant of the room. But he/she was being careful not to knock the door loudly. I always mind my business, I said to myself, why do I care, this is a hotel. So I attempted to close my door. But then, something occurred to me, the person is a female and she wore white shirt, exactly like my babe. Out of curiosity, I looked back what I saw made me sick for days. The memory keep hitting my heart like dagger.

It was my woman, I didn’t know she saw me and became frozen looking at me praying I do not look back. But I looked back and saw her. She was shaking with her mouth widely opened. Then while the looking competition was on, the door opened and the guy opened the door waiting for her to come inside, when she didn’t go inside, the guy must have noticed she is looking at someone on the walkway, the guy also came out to see who she was looking at, he saw me and quickly closed and jammed his door.

Then I jammed my door too. She stood on the walkway for 10minutes. Then she started banging on my door. Calling my line. I didn’t answer. She sent text and also whatsapp.

“Its not what you think. I can explain. Something came up. Please open…I need to discuss something with you. I will not leave if you don’t open”. She did all that for like 20minutes. Then she left. That was the end of our 1+year relationship. She too did not bother to call or text after that day.

The whole thing felt like sharp scorpion sting to me. I never believe what I saw. Anything relationship started irritating me. I don’t think I can go into relationship again. These people are quick to call men dogs, but they are public toilet. I prefer to be dog than be where everyone dump their sper_m.

Omo, everybody go chop breakfast las las. Apologies for catching cruise with your case OP. Nevertheless, even though you might feel sad know that God saved you from future/greater heartbreak and disappointment. I bet she's in the bosom of that her new lover enjoying herself while you're beating yourself up and feeling sad.

KarinaLove:
Are you married?

Why are you having sex when you are not married?

Don't you know you are Fornicating and committing a very big and terrible SIN Mr Man!!!

Well, I think that's pay back for your sins.

Bye

If that is really you in your DP, I can see why you are defending her! Birds of a feather! Shior!

HOELOESHOO

EzegeNdiigbo:
Someone should summarize for us joor

Eastcoastboy:
See TBT we guys are worst oh! But from how most men were built, men don't cheat to build bond or something if a girl really cheats on you just know she does not love you. If she do she's respect you.

Girls cheat on people that they find attractive or see something together with. Except if she's a love peddler and no one want's that for a wife or gf. Whilst a man can just run things to quench urge and not give a hoot about the girl .

That's it.


Men are worst than women when it comes to sexual badness. Na men de invent sexual badness that women copy or follow.



Sometimes women just want to have that feeling of being with a mystery man or a bold, fascinating strange man, you cant blame them, its natural.



Even men, a man maybe married to a lady that's sweet and hot like mama iwota and a time will come, he wont have the urge to fvck that his wife but when he sees another averagely cute girl that his wife is even finer than, he would feel like devouring her.



These things are natural phenomena that no human can control 100 % all the time.




Men aren't hollier than women when it comes to sex escapades bro

Yoighaman:
Playing along and dumping her two weeks to the wedding without any reason wouldn't have been a bad idea, but then you reacted instinctively, not bad too.

Evil lives in you

Amotolongbo:
Oh sorry!

Za zu
Your wife traveled to the town of “ozus” to meet “kolu” where dem dem scratch card
E don zeh.

But sincerely bizza bizza
Your gf didn’t show love at all
Is she mad or something?

Yes na
The girl wan reap am na

oglalasioux:
I'll dash 5k to anyone who can rightly guess where the girl slept that night.

In the client room nextdoor, she can't possibly loss both ways

lessons here:
never get involved in any long distance rltnshp with any lady u intend to marry.but if u do,let it be very short so u,two get married immediately!u then start living together!
secondly,hotels isnt where u take u future partner to!u dont av any good reason for doing so!BETTER LUCK NEXT TIME!!

Segilola has been ____________ in Ibadan!

Nyascobar1414:
Went through her profile..
I saw.. My God is merciful to me...
I saw...I'm for business...

You gad a feature of a farm tool...
.. Yea you a hoe... Just deciphered you.
At least make those mercies God give to you count...
Make him proud and stop doing hookup for christ sake...

Saw the same thing too bro. Don't know how a certain farm tool attributes her business to God SMH.

hotwax:
My lovely girlfriend is a sweet woman who always give me sense of assurance. She is very decent, caring and respectful. She is so firm that it took 4 months before we could talk about romance or trying it out.

She is well known in my family circle. I base in Lagos, she stays with her parents in ibadan, but she usually come around when my family members are having a gathering. She will cook for us, do the chores. Everyone grew found of her. My siblings do even ask of her. “Where is Anu? Take care of the lady ooo”. My mom who hardly get along with our girlfriends always ask about her. All these made me to be sure that’s the woman I was going to marry. After all, my people already knew her and they are getting along well. No complain from any angle

The Problem

Late October 2021, I informed her that I would be attending a ceremony in ibadan where stays. She was exited, she even told me she missed me, the kisses, sxx etc. She can’t wait to see me again. I was excited too.
I texted her the hotel address when I got to Ibadan.

She came, we hug, and she started kissing me, but we later calmed down afterall we are just seeing and we still have the whole night. So no rushing. She told me she saw domino pizza opposite the hotel that she is hungry for it. And this is where the devil came in.
She took some cash and prepared to go and buy the piza. She was walking out towards my hotel room door, so I stood to accompany her to the door, more importantly help her with the door. She opened the door before I got there, but I was behind her. A guy also came out from a room not directly opposite mine, (I actually knew when the guy checked in. He was dragging his trawl on the room walkway, so I guess he was a new guest).

As my babe came out, the guy was coming out of his room giving my babe seductive look. Immediately he saw there was a guy behind her, he quickly looked away. He went out of the hotel via the walkway, my babe also followed him because they were coincidentally going towards the same direction.

Truth be told, I never suspected anything. I was even mocking the guy in my mind, my girlfriend is the last person you want to mess with.
She came back with the pizza, sat on the bed, munch while she was busy pressing her phone. I suspected something must have crop up with the way she was busy chatting on whatsapp. She gave me no attention. So I joined her on the bed. With sad face she asked if I have tissue, I asked what happened, she said her period just came now. I said the bathroom has a tissue paper. She went in spent minutes in the bath, came out of the bath, to pick another pant in her bag. (She came with clothes, because she want to spend few days with me). She went back to the bathroom wash, did some other stuff.

She joined me on the bed, put my hand on her padded private. She used tissue paper as sanitary pad. She said sorry, I Bleep up. I said no she shouldn’t feel sorry. Her menstruation is my joy. Afterall you are not here because of sex. We have a lot to talk about tonite. So relax lets enjoy the night. She then told me she can’t spend the night. She has to go on the same day, before evening. She gave me reason that when her menstrual cramp starts she always boil water and other things. Hotel is not the right place for it. I agreed. 6pm, she packed and started going, I was busy on my laptop fixing my office assignments. I stood to see her off. She insisted that I should continue. No need. But I insisted, as I saw her off to the door, she insisted again, go and do your work na. I will take a bike just at the entrance, I don’t know what happened, I just agreed saw her walk out the walkway, I banged my door and continue my work on the laptop.

Then few seconds later, even if she wanted to get a bike, she will still be waiting outside for one, I remembered that the plate I used for lunch still has some leftover food and if not discarded will constitute foul stench in my room. So I picked up this plate to try and place it outside my door so housekeepers could pick it up.

I opened my room door, bend down to drop the plate at my door foot, I noticed someone standing at the door indirectly opposite mine. The person was knocking gently and calling on mobile too. I guess the person is trying to call the occupant of the room. But he/she was being careful not to knock the door loudly. I always mind my business, I said to myself, why do I care, this is a hotel. So I attempted to close my door. But then, something occurred to me, the person is a female and she wore white shirt, exactly like my babe. Out of curiosity, I looked back what I saw made me sick for days. The memory keep hitting my heart like dagger.

It was my woman, I didn’t know she saw me and became frozen looking at me praying I do not look back. But I looked back and saw her. She was shaking with her mouth widely opened. Then while the looking competition was on, the door opened and the guy opened the door waiting for her to come inside, when she didn’t go inside, the guy must have noticed she is looking at someone on the walkway, the guy also came out to see who she was looking at, he saw me and quickly closed and jammed his door.

Then I jammed my door too. She stood on the walkway for 10minutes. Then she started banging on my door. Calling my line. I didn’t answer. She sent text and also whatsapp.

“Its not what you think. I can explain. Something came up. Please open…I need to discuss something with you. I will not leave if you don’t open”. She did all that for like 20minutes. Then she left. That was the end of our 1+year relationship. She too did not bother to call or text after that day.

The whole thing felt like sharp scorpion sting to me. I never believe what I saw. Anything relationship started irritating me. I don’t think I can go into relationship again. These people are quick to call men dogs, but they are public toilet. I prefer to be dog than be where everyone dump their sper_m.

Wow. Sad

hotwax:
Make sure you are making the right choice.

White people are more decent...forget about Hollywood stories

You just wrote a fake story to debase Nigerian girls, to what end? Such a psychopath.

franchasng:
Everyone expects faithfulness from their partner oh yes you are 100 percent correct, but how many people get faithful partners, especially during dating abi courting? Less than 10%



Men have broke women's heart so much that today, many ladies no longer rely on one relationship to avoid ending up like one friend or Aunt or sister or niece or neighbor she once heard about.



As for sex, developed world don't take sex as serious as Nigerians take it. They give and receive sex freely without much ado to it. I speak from experience not hearsay.



Sex this or cheating this and that is the least problem in developed countries.



Married couples even invite 3rd party to join for a party, something many Nigerian married couple will never dare. Forget movies, these things are real.



Nigeria is still stuck on sexual fidelity while the world advances, only East Africans have evolved beyond that level of sexual primitive we have in Nigeria. Even Ghana have evolved sexually more than Nigeria.



Nigerian men are too judgmental towards Nigerian women. What a white woman would do and a Nigerian man will ignore, if a Nigerian woman does same, a Nigerian man may kill her for it.




We Nigerian men are too bad when it comes to sex escapades than Nigerian women, the only difference is that Nigerian women overlook and easily forgive our badness making us act like we are hollier than them.



No be man lodged in that hotel and saw the girl came with her boyfriend and still used whatever tactics he got to lure the girl into his bed? Yet nobody is condemning the guy too.




See, this life is short, no over think am, no over worry yourself about issues like this, just focus on being happy, living your dream life and acquiring money, simple. These things are what makes the world sweet and lively bro

The west has the highest rate of divorce and infidelity is the greatest cause....
...

So Your point that Nigerians are stuck on infidelity is fallacy and trash..
there’s no where in the world infidelity is taken lightly ....

Look around you... prostitution is so common in Nigeria... right from secondary to university and even working class girls... all becos of greed....u find girls without decent source of living using phones of 900k... is that how life works ......

And u are here telling me men are hard on Nigeria women... Nigerian women don’t respect themselves..... they sell themselves short and expect to be respected becos they have a vagina .... I’m sorry.. u are just being an asslicker... and that’s me not being hard on you..

Nat404:
Bad boy:-)

I just dey tell baba as e be, make he no dey waste him potential, before this year end he suppose don spin like 4 plates.

I pity guys that don't know they're the prize wasting their time with one opiato, when dey suppose get 3-5 on bench, ready to tap in anytime.

!!DEMON TIME!!

Goodnigga:
No reason am, it is like the other guy is either richer , looks more complete: height, finesse, etc. Anyways, your babe has been banging while she is in Ibadan and you in Lagos. Secondly, it took you 4 months to lay her, she must have probably seen you as a nice guy. You must have probably over-woo her and spent on her so much or be a weak man that begs for the relationship to last. Because, this shows she has never respected you to try such thing in the same hotel you came to lodge and refuse to call back the second day. As a Goodnigga that I am, no think am, learn from it. There will always be bad girls as well as good ones. However, be streetwise and screen girls before dating them next time. Man and woman are created to be together, so I believe you will meet a good one soon. Don't give up women, rather give up on the bad ones.

One love.

OP acted so nice to her and she got tired of it. Sometimes, you have to be mean to girls. Very mean.

OP also was playing baby love with her and so, she felt that he is just a wussy.

flokii:
This one loud o..

See format she used on the Op to spend quality time with the other guy next door. That girl has no shame atal.

She saw Op as a techie Simp... " go back and continue ur work"
Before I got married, any girl that play the monthly period game get dismissed immediately.....with no option of parole or explanation cos I know more often than not- it's scam
I DNT get to meet with girlfriend(s) often so u must HV calculated ur flow bf agreeing to meet up....
Now Baba don cool down dey look wifey and children faces

Holywizard:
Should I tell u what happened?
The guy was direct with ur ex. He quoted an amount of money for sex and ur ex couldn't hold herself. She might probably be into coded hookup as well. I know few working class ladies doing such.
I once had quickie, with another person's girlfriend at a hotel where I lodged few years ago. She was lodged with her so called man at the same hotel. We met at the hotel bar and our body chemistry matched. I was in my room when she chatted me up that I should open my door that she was coming. Na so we take run quickie and her man didn't know.
The truth is that ladies are always having one nonsense imaginary crushes on new faces most especially if they think that he has money or also good looking

Kai. And somebody's son will be thinking that he has seen a wife material.

onojaford:
That's because the new guy was upfront with her. He directly demanded sex for certain amount and because of desperation for some money, she was overwhelmed. I mean, I try such with women. The highest thing you can get is a yes or no. And good enough, 80 out of 100 girls would agree. 10 will blush at your boldness. 5 will ignore you, while only 5 will rebuke you with violence.

I know this...But with the story OP narrated, it will be a magic for the switching...

Kriss216:
Post-Christmas breakfast.


Like I always say, only a foolish man will expect total loyalty from a Nigerian girlfriend.

Your beloved girlfriend is our community project. No reason am.

This is not peculiar to Nigerian Babe. Ladies and unfaithfulness are inseparable truly.

yemi1504:
Saw the same thing too bro. Don't know how a certain farm tool attributes her business to God SMH.

reality must surely come...
Let her continue!

Double0h7:
Great script... I like the part where you didn't recognize the woman who just left your room

Lmao

nenyewrites:
You just wrote a fake story to debase Nigerian girls, to what end? Such a psychopath.

What’s your point exactly?? That Nigerian girls are not capable of such..... unless you ddnt go to a university.... these things are normal.... the wives people marry at home are prostitutess or retired prostitutess......
the level of greed is too much....even the married ones..

Bankalert:
This story get k-leg. Women are usually smarter than this. But this shii is all shades of dumb dumb. Either a fairy tale or.... It happened inside his head.

As in eh, someone opposite his room. The girl could not wait until its dark or tell the other guy to be on the look out or something. She just left room and started knocking on another. Either the op is a pathetic liar or his ex girlfriend is a slowpoke.

Eastcoastboy:
Virgin or no virgin oh! Most times the virgins are the deadliest slf because they will do you dirty whenever you mess up. People wey just nack and are new to it. F'up nd see then your neighbor would ve getting some piece of cunt whenever you're away.

rubbish

franchasng:
That's it.


Men are worst than women when it comes to sexual badness. Na men de invent sexual badness that women copy or follow.



Sometimes women just want to have that feeling of being with a mystery man or a bold, fascinating strange man, you cant blame them, its natural.



Even men, a man maybe married to a lady that's sweet and hot like mama iwota and a time will come, he wont have the urge to fvck that his wife but when he sees another averagely cute girl that his wife is even finer than, he would feel like devouring her.



These things are natural phenomena that no human can control 100 % all the time.




Men aren't hollier than women when it comes to sex escapades bro

You're still not getting it. Most men just do it for fun but trust me if a woman cheats just know whenever you f'up she's running to that nig' whereas men are just there doing it for fun it's like playing ludo to them.

candygist:
Nairaland had really thought me a lot about Nigerian ladies. Thanks to Nairaland, I know how to treat Nigeria ladies. When I read this things on Nairaland and I compare it with real life situation on how this ladies behaved I can never be a victim….. I dey hustle to marry white woman and raise family with them. Nigeria women will kill you before your time. I even prefer to date girls from other African countries than to be with a Nigerian lady. God forbid evil

Stop talking rubbish or your sisters no go see man marry. Make your mama just unborn you sef because she too as a Nigeria lady is evil, she no deserve love.
White people don’t want your nigger genes in their families. Save your children the hate and abuse they will receive at extended family gatherings because they are niggers.

Ode

Nyascobar1414:
reality must surely come...
Let her continue!

Abi.

ChiefDenis:
I just dey tell baba as e be, make he no dey waste him potential, before this year end he suppose don spin like 4 plates.

I pity guys that don't know they're the prize wasting their time with one opiato, when dey suppose get 3-5 on bench, ready to tap in anytime.

!!DEMON TIME!!

A chick that I broke up with some time ago told her parents about me and that she wants me back. So her dad called me today to come to their house.

I have not decided whether to take the babe back or not yet.

This is how it should be. You are the price. Let her fight for it.

DanteSilva:
I just told myself that if my relationship ends, I am going for a white lady, a lot of Nigerian girls are morally debased...

If you are well-traveled, you would not be spewing this trash.
Which country do people in relationship don't cheat?
Even where there is penalty of death, it still happens.

If the white women you are worshipping are so great, why is their divorce rate 40 to 70%
despite the fact that most of their men are not rabid misogynist.

if you think I'm lying travel to Europe or other African countries and see the high quality and standards of their women

Clearly explain what you mean by high quality and standards.
Is it that your white goddess don't sleep around?
Or that they mostly do it for free?

I would understand your position if you are looking for a white woman to save you from poverty.

Emmajn1:
rubbish

I sha no send your papa

Holywizard:
Should I tell u what happened?
The guy was direct with ur ex. He quoted an amount of money for sex and ur ex couldn't hold herself. She might probably be into coded hookup as well. I know few working class ladies doing such.
I once had quickie, with another person's girlfriend at a hotel where I lodged few years ago. She was lodged with her so called man at the same hotel. We met at the hotel bar and our body chemistry matched. I was in my room when she chatted me up that I should open my door that she was coming. Na so we take run quickie and her man didn't know.
The truth is that ladies are always having one nonsense imaginary crushes on new faces most especially if they think that he has money or also good looking

You want OP to commit suicide...


Quickie how do you guys enjoy that and remain satisfied?

To me it is like an appetizer.. Before the main main