₦airaland Forum

advanceDNA:
The west has the highest rate of divorce and infidelity is the greatest cause....
...

So Your point that Nigerians are stuck on infidelity is fallacy and trash..
there’s no where in the world infidelity is taken lightly ....

Look around you... prostitution is so common in Nigeria... right from secondary to university and even working class girls... all becos of greed....u find girls without decent source of living using phones of 900k... is that how life works ......

And u are here telling me men are hard on Nigeria women... Nigerian women don’t respect themselves..... they sell themselves short and expect to be respected becos they have a vagina .... I’m sorry.. u are just being an asslicker... and that me not being hard on you..

Nigerian women don't respect themselves, they sell themselves cheap.



Who are the people these Nigerian women are selling themselves to? Animals abi Aliens Is it not same men


Men are more promiscuous than women, take it to bank.



Nigerian men that will use half of their wealth to squander on girls just to have a taste



Nollywood male actors are always broke, begging for money when they fall sick but the same Nollywood Actresses are buying mansions, driving latest cars and going on expensive vacations around the world, who is bankrolling them? Lions and Aliens abi




Bros, the level of infidelity in the west is far higher than in Nigeria, Nigeria is in fact a learner, so lets stop demonizing Nigerian women, they didn't kill anybody oh.



Imagine if it was Nigerian women that are heading Boko Haram, ah, Naija men for don kill every girl they see on the street finish and tag her a Boko Haram member.



We Naija men too de demonize our women when they fall for some sexual gimmicks initiated by we men, haba na.

franchasng:
Everyone expects faithfulness from their partner oh yes you are 100 percent correct, but how many people get faithful partners, especially during dating abi courting? Less than 10%



Men have broke women's heart so much that today, many ladies no longer rely on one relationship to avoid ending up like one friend or Aunt or sister or niece or neighbor she once heard about.



As for sex, developed world don't take sex as serious as Nigerians take it. They give and receive sex freely without much ado to it. I speak from experience not hearsay.



Sex this or cheating this and that is the least problem in developed countries.



Married couples even invite 3rd party to join for a party, something many Nigerian married couple will never dare. Forget movies, these things are real.



Nigeria is still stuck on sexual fidelity while the world advances, only East Africans have evolved beyond that level of sexual primitive we have in Nigeria. Even Ghana have evolved sexually more than Nigeria.



Nigerian men are too judgmental towards Nigerian women. What a white woman would do and a Nigerian man will ignore, if a Nigerian woman does same, a Nigerian man may kill her for it.




We Nigerian men are too bad when it comes to sex escapades than Nigerian women, the only difference is that Nigerian women overlook and easily forgive our badness making us act like we are hollier than them.



No be man lodged in that hotel and saw the girl came with her boyfriend and still used whatever tactics he got to lure the girl into his bed? Yet nobody is condemning the guy too.




See, this life is short, no over think am, no over worry yourself about issues like this, just focus on being happy, living your dream life and acquiring money, simple. These things are what makes the world sweet and lively bro

Lol... Na you type this thing abi eye dey pain me?

candygist:
Nairaland had really thought me a lot about Nigerian ladies. Thanks to Nairaland, I know how to treat Nigeria ladies. When I read this things on Nairaland and I compare it with real life situation on how this ladies behaved I can never be a victim….. I dey hustle to marry white woman and raise family with them. Nigeria women will kill you before your time. I even prefer to date girls from other African countries than to be with a Nigerian lady. God forbid evil

Talk true.
You are looking for someone to bail you from poverty.
There is nothing wrong with that but you don't need hate and lies to justify your decision.

... and she feigned emergency menses just to fvck another man. This babe is badass. Even placed your hands on her padded kpekus just to make you believe she's dripping blood when in real sense it was orgasm juice she's feeling for the other man that she blocked with tissue.

May she continue to see her menses every day of her life.

nenyewrites:
Lol... Na you type this thing abi eye dey pain me?

Na my sister use my moniker oh

hotwax:
I have been thinking about this bad thought...its getting real

Pls stop such thoughts. Thank God you termed it bad. Terrible things do happen to good people and you re no exemption. Just move on . Better days ahead.

Holywizard:
oga she is into hookup, believe it or not!!!
If actually she wanted to have a one night stand just for the experience, she would have just exchanged contacts with the guy, book an appointment with him for next time. Believe me, the guy called a huge amount of money she couldn't let go of.
I know some big guys that would ask another person's girlfriends how much it would cost them to sleep with them if the ladies are proving stubborn

It thrills me deeply when I read/hear stories of men killed because they had affairs with other men's wives.

Brutal stabbings/stripped and strangled, thrilling indeed

franchasng:
Nigerian women don't respect themselves, they sell themselves cheap.



Who are the people these Nigerian women are selling themselves to? Animals abi Aliens Is it not same men


Men are more promiscuous than women, take it to bank.



Nigerian men that will use half of their wealth to squander on girls just to have a taste



Nollywood male actors are always broke, begging for money when they fall sick but the same Nollywood Actresses are buying mansions, driving latest cars and going on expensive vacations around the world, who is bankrolling them? Lions and Aliens abi




Bros, the level of infidelity in the west is far higher than in Nigeria, Nigeria is in fact a learner, so lets stop demonizing Nigerian women, they didn't kill anybody oh.



Imagine if it was Nigerian women that are heading Boko Haram, ah, Naija men for don kill every girl they see on the street finish and tag her a Boko Haram member.



We Naija men too de demonize our women when they fall for some sexual gimmicks initiated by we men, haba na.

What’s your point exactly... are trying not to blame men for women’s waywardness....everybody has their decision to make...

A woman advertises her self on the streets and online and men get entitled to buy her body....

Yet you want others to assume it’s okay because men like them patronize these wayward women??

Nigga .... I give up on you....

You're just learning bro

Nat404:
A chick that I broke up with some time ago told her parents about me and that she wants me back. So her dad called me today to come to their house.

I have not decided whether to take the babe back or not yet.

Guys don't usually break up with girls, because we already know the hassle of getting a girl in the first place, it's too much unnecessary work.
If you broke up with her, i trust that you had a very good reason, trust your instincts my guy.

Make d parle no worry, u already made up your mind, too much talk talk will just confuse you bro.

Have an abundance mindset my guy, ON TO THE NEXT ONE!

Bobmarie:
Stop talking rubbish or your sisters no go see man marry. Make your mama just unborn you sef. Ode


Mumu

Who is this fool ?

Jay5mie:





Thank God for nairaland o, woman no fit use my head again.

Everyday new wahala

But guys, stop taking women seriously, they are not worth it.

Bleep olosho and move on

flokii:
This one loud o..

See format she used on the Op to spend quality time with the other guy next door. That girl has no shame atal.

girls from that side are known for shamelessly prostituting themselves abi na lie? Ediyot

EzegeNdiigbo:
Someone should summarize for us joor

This is definitely why you need the Lord's help.

Nice fiction story

BlaqJosh:
Hmmmm, This is un _ *believable*,
your babe won fvck another client inside the same hotel, now imagine what she will be doing at your back.
but you supposed dey happy that it ended if not for your wedding day her ex alone go full one canopy dey order your rice and beer any how...

Hahahaha

Holywizard:
Should I tell u what happened?
The guy was direct with ur ex. He quoted an amount of money for sex and ur ex couldn't hold herself. She might probably be into coded hookup as well. I know few working class ladies doing such.
I once had quickie, with another person's girlfriend at a hotel where I lodged few years ago. She was lodged with her so called man at the same hotel. We met at the hotel bar and our body chemistry matched. I was in my room when she chatted me up that I should open my door that she was coming. Na so we take run quickie and her man didn't know.
The truth is that ladies are always having one nonsense imaginary crushes on new faces most especially if they think that he has money or also good looking

One day after a heavy rain this lady started disturbing to let meet in my sanctuary (I have a room somewhere in Ikeja close to my office where I use as my sanctuary) for one quick round. Guess what she told me after the quick one while we were still on the bed. She told me that her man was in her shop as she was chatting me on whatsapp, and that the guy was still there waiting as we were together. My dick quickly stood up again and I gave her another one before she departed to go meet her man..
Only a fooool trust those gender people

hotwax:
My lovely girlfriend is a sweet woman who always give me sense of assurance. She is very decent, caring and respectful. She is so firm that it took 4 months before we could talk about romance or trying it out.

She is well known in my family circle. I base in Lagos, she stays with her parents in ibadan, but she usually come around when my family members are having a gathering. She will cook for us, do the chores. Everyone grew found of her. My siblings do even ask of her. “Where is Anu? Take care of the lady ooo”. My mom who hardly get along with our girlfriends always ask about her. All these made me to be sure that’s the woman I was going to marry. After all, my people already knew her and they are getting along well. No complain from any angle

The Problem

Late October 2021, I informed her that I would be attending a ceremony in ibadan where stays. She was exited, she even told me she missed me, the kisses, sxx etc. She can’t wait to see me again. I was excited too.
I texted her the hotel address when I got to Ibadan.

She came, we hug, and she started kissing me, but we later calmed down afterall we are just seeing and we still have the whole night. So no rushing. She told me she saw domino pizza opposite the hotel that she is hungry for it. And this is where the devil came in.
She took some cash and prepared to go and buy the piza. She was walking out towards my hotel room door, so I stood to accompany her to the door, more importantly help her with the door. She opened the door before I got there, but I was behind her. A guy also came out from a room not directly opposite mine, (I actually knew when the guy checked in. He was dragging his trawl on the room walkway, so I guess he was a new guest).

As my babe came out, the guy was coming out of his room giving my babe seductive look. Immediately he saw there was a guy behind her, he quickly looked away. He went out of the hotel via the walkway, my babe also followed him because they were coincidentally going towards the same direction.

Truth be told, I never suspected anything. I was even mocking the guy in my mind, my girlfriend is the last person you want to mess with.
She came back with the pizza, sat on the bed, munch while she was busy pressing her phone. I suspected something must have crop up with the way she was busy chatting on whatsapp. She gave me no attention. So I joined her on the bed. With sad face she asked if I have tissue, I asked what happened, she said her period just came now. I said the bathroom has a tissue paper. She went in spent minutes in the bath, came out of the bath, to pick another pant in her bag. (She came with clothes, because she want to spend few days with me). She went back to the bathroom wash, did some other stuff.

She joined me on the bed, put my hand on her padded private. She used tissue paper as sanitary pad. She said sorry, I Bleep up. I said no she shouldn’t feel sorry. Her menstruation is my joy. Afterall you are not here because of sex. We have a lot to talk about tonite. So relax lets enjoy the night. She then told me she can’t spend the night. She has to go on the same day, before evening. She gave me reason that when her menstrual cramp starts she always boil water and other things. Hotel is not the right place for it. I agreed. 6pm, she packed and started going, I was busy on my laptop fixing my office assignments. I stood to see her off. She insisted that I should continue. No need. But I insisted, as I saw her off to the door, she insisted again, go and do your work na. I will take a bike just at the entrance, I don’t know what happened, I just agreed saw her walk out the walkway, I banged my door and continue my work on the laptop.

Then few seconds later, even if she wanted to get a bike, she will still be waiting outside for one, I remembered that the plate I used for lunch still has some leftover food and if not discarded will constitute foul stench in my room. So I picked up this plate to try and place it outside my door so housekeepers could pick it up.

I opened my room door, bend down to drop the plate at my door foot, I noticed someone standing at the door indirectly opposite mine. The person was knocking gently and calling on mobile too. I guess the person is trying to call the occupant of the room. But he/she was being careful not to knock the door loudly. I always mind my business, I said to myself, why do I care, this is a hotel. So I attempted to close my door. But then, something occurred to me, the person is a female and she wore white shirt, exactly like my babe. Out of curiosity, I looked back what I saw made me sick for days. The memory keep hitting my heart like dagger.

It was my woman, I didn’t know she saw me and became frozen looking at me praying I do not look back. But I looked back and saw her. She was shaking with her mouth widely opened. Then while the looking competition was on, the door opened and the guy opened the door waiting for her to come inside, when she didn’t go inside, the guy must have noticed she is looking at someone on the walkway, the guy also came out to see who she was looking at, he saw me and quickly closed and jammed his door.

Then I jammed my door too. She stood on the walkway for 10minutes. Then she started banging on my door. Calling my line. I didn’t answer. She sent text and also whatsapp.

“Its not what you think. I can explain. Something came up. Please open…I need to discuss something with you. I will not leave if you don’t open”. She did all that for like 20minutes. Then she left. That was the end of our 1+year relationship. She too did not bother to call or text after that day.

The whole thing felt like sharp scorpion sting to me. I never believe what I saw. Anything relationship started irritating me. I don’t think I can go into relationship again. These people are quick to call men dogs, but they are public toilet. I prefer to be dog than be where everyone dump their sper_m.

Honestly man this story is pathetic and heart breaking. But please man up and don't make any irrational decision against women or any decision at all,we still have good ladies. Peace

Lol another bad day at the office. Why people demand lofty expectations from fellow humans despite the knowledge of the limitations of the human condition and the frailties of mortality begs the question! Being human means expecting the worse from your kind and that should be the standard! I have never trusted any a human being in my life knowing and understanding the absolute power of economics! The laws of demand and supply are trite! For every demand for randy whores is a correlating supply of potential bitches! Uncouth I know right but still the truth

Women are metaphorically like snails, they have preference for cold and clement weather! When it is too sunny or stormy they are in a haste for the next available umbra or shelter! Human dignity is an economic variable, it varies with the price and worth of the bargain! Man or woman, trust no one not even your loyal and steadfast shadow! Appearances can be deceiving they say , then why trust a gender so adept and skillful in the mastery of the art of keeping up appearances! Trust a woman with your barn at the risk of your own poverty! Sorry but no condolences bro, you got served and OGs know better than idling around after the party is over !

advanceDNA:
The west has the highest rate of divorce and infidelity is the greatest cause....
...

So Your point that Nigerians are stuck on infidelity is fallacy and trash..
there’s no where in the world infidelity is taken lightly ....

Look around you... prostitution is so common in Nigeria... right from secondary to university and even working class girls... all becos of greed....u find girls without decent source of living using phones of 900k... is that how life works ......

And u are here telling me men are hard on Nigeria women... Nigerian women don’t respect themselves..... they sell themselves short and expect to be respected becos they have a vagina .... I’m sorry.. u are just being an asslicker... and that’s me not being hard on you..

I agree that white people have higher rate of divorce due to infidelity.
Does it now make sense to use the same sexually promiscuous white women as standard?

Some people who have never left Nigerian shores are even planning to marry white women
because they supposedly have a higher fidelity standard. What a delusion!

No society tolerates and even encourage promiscuity as the whites. It is all about whims.

ChiefDenis:
Guys don't usually break up with girls, because we already know the hassle of getting a girl in the first place, it's too much unnecessary work.
If you broke up with her, i trust that you had a very good reason, trust your instincts my guy.

Make d parle no worry, u already made up your mind, too much talk talk will just confuse you bro.

Have an abundance mindset my guy, ON TO THE NEXT ONE!

When her mom began to ask about me through my sister, I knew something was going on.

Her mother told my sister that her daughter really loves me.

slimjohn2k5:
You would HV listened to her side of the story.

Then process it for sometime before letting her go

Na there is simphood go start. Never listen to a girls side of the story immediately. Vent your anger as much as you can before calming to listen. So that they know you will never be taken for a fool should they decide to fool you.

Make I laugh. Only a simp would take this kind of girl seriously as a 'girlfriend', because trust me, the signs are there that she is not a seriousness material.

By the way, this is exactly the kind of girl that would insist at knife-point that her husband must never cheat on her, else....

Look, any wife that is fanatical about you as a full-blooded African man not cheating on her is a hoe. I mean it. Don't EVER accept such rabid rubbish from any woman.

Real, traditional, good, genuine wife materials don't make a rabid fuss about that. Only these rebranded ashawo girls do that. That's why only simps end up marrying them.

Justkatty:
I swear it is painful considering the fact they've been together for sometime...
But some girls dey get mind shaa including the human being that saw her with someone and still went ahead inviting her.

The whole blame is on her my sister. Stop equal blaming and stylishly trying to partly defend your gender. Defending your gender is what is making these problems with your gender getting worse and more worse by the day in this part of the world. She was requested and she holds the power to agree or disagree and make the request useless altogether by not making anything happen.

hotwax:
My lovely girlfriend is a sweet woman who always give me sense of assurance. She is very decent, caring and respectful. She is so firm that it took 4 months before we could talk about romance or trying it out.

She is well known in my family circle. I base in Lagos, she stays with her parents in ibadan, but she usually come around when my family members are having a gathering. She will cook for us, do the chores. Everyone grew found of her. My siblings do even ask of her. “Where is Anu? Take care of the lady ooo”. My mom who hardly get along with our girlfriends always ask about her. All these made me to be sure that’s the woman I was going to marry. After all, my people already knew her and they are getting along well. No complain from any angle

The Problem

Late October 2021, I informed her that I would be attending a ceremony in ibadan where stays. She was exited, she even told me she missed me, the kisses, sxx etc. She can’t wait to see me again. I was excited too.
I texted her the hotel address when I got to Ibadan.

She came, we hug, and she started kissing me, but we later calmed down afterall we are just seeing and we still have the whole night. So no rushing. She told me she saw domino pizza opposite the hotel that she is hungry for it. And this is where the devil came in.
She took some cash and prepared to go and buy the piza. She was walking out towards my hotel room door, so I stood to accompany her to the door, more importantly help her with the door. She opened the door before I got there, but I was behind her. A guy also came out from a room not directly opposite mine, (I actually knew when the guy checked in. He was dragging his trawl on the room walkway, so I guess he was a new guest).

As my babe came out, the guy was coming out of his room giving my babe seductive look. Immediately he saw there was a guy behind her, he quickly looked away. He went out of the hotel via the walkway, my babe also followed him because they were coincidentally going towards the same direction.

Truth be told, I never suspected anything. I was even mocking the guy in my mind, my girlfriend is the last person you want to mess with.
She came back with the pizza, sat on the bed, munch while she was busy pressing her phone. I suspected something must have crop up with the way she was busy chatting on whatsapp. She gave me no attention. So I joined her on the bed. With sad face she asked if I have tissue, I asked what happened, she said her period just came now. I said the bathroom has a tissue paper. She went in spent minutes in the bath, came out of the bath, to pick another pant in her bag. (She came with clothes, because she want to spend few days with me). She went back to the bathroom wash, did some other stuff.

She joined me on the bed, put my hand on her padded private. She used tissue paper as sanitary pad. She said sorry, I Bleep up. I said no she shouldn’t feel sorry. Her menstruation is my joy. Afterall you are not here because of sex. We have a lot to talk about tonite. So relax lets enjoy the night. She then told me she can’t spend the night. She has to go on the same day, before evening. She gave me reason that when her menstrual cramp starts she always boil water and other things. Hotel is not the right place for it. I agreed. 6pm, she packed and started going, I was busy on my laptop fixing my office assignments. I stood to see her off. She insisted that I should continue. No need. But I insisted, as I saw her off to the door, she insisted again, go and do your work na. I will take a bike just at the entrance, I don’t know what happened, I just agreed saw her walk out the walkway, I banged my door and continue my work on the laptop.

Then few seconds later, even if she wanted to get a bike, she will still be waiting outside for one, I remembered that the plate I used for lunch still has some leftover food and if not discarded will constitute foul stench in my room. So I picked up this plate to try and place it outside my door so housekeepers could pick it up.

I opened my room door, bend down to drop the plate at my door foot, I noticed someone standing at the door indirectly opposite mine. The person was knocking gently and calling on mobile too. I guess the person is trying to call the occupant of the room. But he/she was being careful not to knock the door loudly. I always mind my business, I said to myself, why do I care, this is a hotel. So I attempted to close my door. But then, something occurred to me, the person is a female and she wore white shirt, exactly like my babe. Out of curiosity, I looked back what I saw made me sick for days. The memory keep hitting my heart like dagger.

It was my woman, I didn’t know she saw me and became frozen looking at me praying I do not look back. But I looked back and saw her. She was shaking with her mouth widely opened. Then while the looking competition was on, the door opened and the guy opened the door waiting for her to come inside, when she didn’t go inside, the guy must have noticed she is looking at someone on the walkway, the guy also came out to see who she was looking at, he saw me and quickly closed and jammed his door.

Then I jammed my door too. She stood on the walkway for 10minutes. Then she started banging on my door. Calling my line. I didn’t answer. She sent text and also whatsapp.

“Its not what you think. I can explain. Something came up. Please open…I need to discuss something with you. I will not leave if you don’t open”. She did all that for like 20minutes. Then she left. That was the end of our 1+year relationship. She too did not bother to call or text after that day.

The whole thing felt like sharp scorpion sting to me. I never believe what I saw. Anything relationship started irritating me. I don’t think I can go into relationship again. These people are quick to call men dogs, but they are public toilet. I prefer to be dog than be where everyone dump their sper_m.

Long distance relationship is not a relationship am glad you had such a experience and was able to share it, these hoes aren't loyal

BlaqJosh:
Hmmmm, This is un _ *believable*,
your babe won fvck another client inside the same hotel, now imagine what she will be doing at your back.
but you supposed dey happy that it ended if not for your wedding day her ex alone go full one canopy dey order your rice and beer any how...

Hahahahahaha
You no good at all aswear!

DanteSilva:
I just told myself that if my relationship ends, I am going for a white lady, a lot of Nigerian girls are morally debased... if you think I'm lying travel to Europe or other African countries and see the high quality and standards of their women

In Europe, prostitutes pay taxes and are respected within the society as an industry of its own, but you’ll never see their men bash their women online for sexual depravity because they have sense. Theirs is so bad, it’s legal. They will never bash their own and elevate yours. But here you are bashing your mothers and sisters because of stupidity.

LOL. And Nigerian men are? I can’t even flash my green passport when I’m out of the country because of Nigerian men. . If the men of CHINA, USA, RUSSIA and some of the most successful countries in the world were like Nigerian men, the world will have nothing because you all contribute nothing to society. You are seen as some of the laziest, dumbest, evil set of men in the world who instead of working to build their country and lead their women are busy either robbing it dry politically or cutting the head of people just to Bleep women. LOL. You feel you are a class apart and deserve to marry white women. See this NIGGER.


It’s a Nigerian thing. We’re all valueless. So please shut your pie hole.

Sorry about your experience this is how women feel when you flaunt your Olosho girlfriends as well sorry o

hotwax:
Make sure you are making the right choice.

White people are more decent...forget about Hollywood stories

LOL.


Don’t be asinine.

Ur girlfriend wan enter the guy house....house of Zazu.

Ibadan girls no know shame o! Them worst o

hotwax:
My lovely girlfriend is a sweet woman who always give me sense of assurance. She is very decent, caring and respectful. She is so firm that it took 4 months before we could talk about romance or trying it out.

She is well known in my family circle. I base in Lagos, she stays with her parents in ibadan, but she usually come around when my family members are having a gathering. She will cook for us, do the chores. Everyone grew found of her. My siblings do even ask of her. “Where is Anu? Take care of the lady ooo”. My mom who hardly get along with our girlfriends always ask about her. All these made me to be sure that’s the woman I was going to marry. After all, my people already knew her and they are getting along well. No complain from any angle

The Problem

Late October 2021, I informed her that I would be attending a ceremony in ibadan where stays. She was exited, she even told me she missed me, the kisses, sxx etc. She can’t wait to see me again. I was excited too.
I texted her the hotel address when I got to Ibadan.

She came, we hug, and she started kissing me, but we later calmed down afterall we are just seeing and we still have the whole night. So no rushing. She told me she saw domino pizza opposite the hotel that she is hungry for it. And this is where the devil came in.
She took some cash and prepared to go and buy the piza. She was walking out towards my hotel room door, so I stood to accompany her to the door, more importantly help her with the door. She opened the door before I got there, but I was behind her. A guy also came out from a room not directly opposite mine, (I actually knew when the guy checked in. He was dragging his trawl on the room walkway, so I guess he was a new guest).

As my babe came out, the guy was coming out of his room giving my babe seductive look. Immediately he saw there was a guy behind her, he quickly looked away. He went out of the hotel via the walkway, my babe also followed him because they were coincidentally going towards the same direction.

Truth be told, I never suspected anything. I was even mocking the guy in my mind, my girlfriend is the last person you want to mess with.
She came back with the pizza, sat on the bed, munch while she was busy pressing her phone. I suspected something must have crop up with the way she was busy chatting on whatsapp. She gave me no attention. So I joined her on the bed. With sad face she asked if I have tissue, I asked what happened, she said her period just came now. I said the bathroom has a tissue paper. She went in spent minutes in the bath, came out of the bath, to pick another pant in her bag. (She came with clothes, because she want to spend few days with me). She went back to the bathroom wash, did some other stuff.

She joined me on the bed, put my hand on her padded private. She used tissue paper as sanitary pad. She said sorry, I Bleep up. I said no she shouldn’t feel sorry. Her menstruation is my joy. Afterall you are not here because of sex. We have a lot to talk about tonite. So relax lets enjoy the night. She then told me she can’t spend the night. She has to go on the same day, before evening. She gave me reason that when her menstrual cramp starts she always boil water and other things. Hotel is not the right place for it. I agreed. 6pm, she packed and started going, I was busy on my laptop fixing my office assignments. I stood to see her off. She insisted that I should continue. No need. But I insisted, as I saw her off to the door, she insisted again, go and do your work na. I will take a bike just at the entrance, I don’t know what happened, I just agreed saw her walk out the walkway, I banged my door and continue my work on the laptop.

Then few seconds later, even if she wanted to get a bike, she will still be waiting outside for one, I remembered that the plate I used for lunch still has some leftover food and if not discarded will constitute foul stench in my room. So I picked up this plate to try and place it outside my door so housekeepers could pick it up.

I opened my room door, bend down to drop the plate at my door foot, I noticed someone standing at the door indirectly opposite mine. The person was knocking gently and calling on mobile too. I guess the person is trying to call the occupant of the room. But he/she was being careful not to knock the door loudly. I always mind my business, I said to myself, why do I care, this is a hotel. So I attempted to close my door. But then, something occurred to me, the person is a female and she wore white shirt, exactly like my babe. Out of curiosity, I looked back what I saw made me sick for days. The memory keep hitting my heart like dagger.

It was my woman, I didn’t know she saw me and became frozen looking at me praying I do not look back. But I looked back and saw her. She was shaking with her mouth widely opened. Then while the looking competition was on, the door opened and the guy opened the door waiting for her to come inside, when she didn’t go inside, the guy must have noticed she is looking at someone on the walkway, the guy also came out to see who she was looking at, he saw me and quickly closed and jammed his door.

Then I jammed my door too. She stood on the walkway for 10minutes. Then she started banging on my door. Calling my line. I didn’t answer. She sent text and also whatsapp.

“Its not what you think. I can explain. Something came up. Please open…I need to discuss something with you. I will not leave if you don’t open”. She did all that for like 20minutes. Then she left. That was the end of our 1+year relationship. She too did not bother to call or text after that day.

The whole thing felt like sharp scorpion sting to me. I never believe what I saw. Anything relationship started irritating me. I don’t think I can go into relationship again. These people are quick to call men dogs, but they are public toilet. I prefer to be dog than be where everyone dump their sper_m.

Swear to me in the name of God that all you've written is true..