Deal with it this way: do not allow yourself to suffer more because of someone who doesn't even care about you anymore. There are men out there who would cherish you. Maybe you aren't good enough, too much or just enough but that's okay. Cry a little but also see through those tears.
I have been there but I didn't allow myself to stay down. Eat, sleep and move. Work on yourself and you will attract the man of your dream.
You've got time but it's not to brood.

Don't worry, let us meet I will solve your problem, because I get big cassava

My Dear, Eat o! Don’t go and kill yourself over anyone. If it didn’t work out just move on. The right man for you will come, he will be loyal and appreciate you. Just keep being who you are and never change because of heartbreak. The problem we are having in relationships is the good people changing to bad people all because they changed and they wants to pay back.

Eriokanmi:
Same moniker who posted the story. The aim was to make people like you come here to believe a story that never existed. Check both monikers. They were registered today.

But some register newly to post their issues, alot don't use their main monikers

One can easily judge your man based on your narrative but saying you can't sleep, eat or do anything because 5 months relationship is highly unfortunate. There must be part of you that might have scared your man away, if he has moved on I will equally advise you to do same but to be candid. You have to look inward at yourself and discover your weakness ensure you work on it before moving into a new relationship because most often we think people around us were bad or treating us inhumanly. But most time we are the real reason our relationships hit the deadrock.
My thought pls don't crucify me

dyingheart:
we dated for five months. i showed him so much love and care. all he did was complain it wasn't enough, he wanted to date someone else. we're not talking anymore. i miss him like mad. i can't sleep, i can't eat, i can't do anything. it's like my heart has been broken into a thousand pieces. i can't breathe anymore. someone talk to me


****abeg, the man in question is not a Nairalander. cheating was from his part. i was very faithful to him.

When you pick up that your heart that has been broken into thousand pieces then you will sleep and eat. If you refuse to pick it up, you will not sleep and eat. When you are hungry you will be quick to pick it up.

redstaarx:


So you're the guy in question? This is getting interesting

Script is getting interesting

Something's are not just meant to be, rest.

Lol move on girl he no deserve you you will find someone better

Odunharry:
Na wah o.. Person go just register then create thread sharp sharp to trend. Biko wetin be ur old moniker

please how do I create thread sef

Give me your phone number, lemme mend your broken heart

mardis:



But some register newly to post their issues, alot don't use their main monikers

Hmmm. What a coincidence. Hard to believe

Bola146:

wetin dey open your teeth, your fellow female dey complain of heartbreak you open teeth like roasted ram, nah wah for you o..

hopefullyanon:


I have this 30 days rule for getting over people i got attached to. I delete their numbers, pictures or any thing that can remind me of them for 30 days... Its really hard in the first two weeks... Then it gets easier.

Your brain is just hooked on the person and you can train it not to. Its like a milder form of getting hooked on drugs and getting rehab.

Also, loving yourself like you would for another helps.

Its not easy, but time will be your ally.

What if she's your coursemate?.. I see her everyday. It's painful

Only time heals but can we truly heal from emotional trauma?

I think we can only move on jawe.

All you need is another person to talk to for now , even if you don't like the person just try give another person chance to come into your life. I have a feeling even if you try talk to the guy he still won't give you what you want. Don't force it

Eriokanmi:
Hmmm. What a coincidence. Hard to believe

The writing format isn't thesame. That anonymous writer writes without a single punctuation mark.

dyingheart:
we dated for five months. i showed him so much love and care. all he did was complain it wasn't enough, he wanted to date someone else. we're not talking anymore. i miss him like mad. i can't sleep, i can't eat, i can't do anything. it's like my heart has been broken into a thousand pieces. i can't breathe anymore. someone talk to me


****abeg, the man in question is not a Nairalander. cheating was from his part. i was very faithful to him.

I swear before God and man. He is gonna treat his new gf the same way he treated you. Do not be heart broken, oK. This is a Festive season, take yourself out and enjoy. Thank you.

dyingheart:
we dated for five months. i showed him so much love and care. all he did was complain it wasn't enough, he wanted to date someone else. we're not talking anymore. i miss him like mad. i can't sleep, i can't eat, i can't do anything. it's like my heart has been broken into a thousand pieces. i can't breathe anymore. someone talk to me


****abeg, the man in question is not a Nairalander. cheating was from his part. i was very faithful to him.

Do heart transplant ma.

Scorfreyjunior:




What if she's your coursemate?.. I see her everyday. It's painful

Shoot... Had this happen to me... I wouldn't recommend but it really really helped me... Perhaps i was just lucky. I found someone else who was way out of her league and I forgot about her instantly. So much that I wondered why i was ever into her.

What i would recommend is loving yourself like you would another person. You would realised they are not all that when you meet other people. And when you love yourself, people automatically notice it and love you too... Crazy right?

I don't know much about issues of the heart and I'm learning, but this has been my experience.

redstaarx:


So you're the guy in question? This is getting interesting

Lol, na just cruise my brother
The guy intentionally created that account Immediately he saw the post, just to shock the OP

Naija girls dey get heart stupid lots incapable of loving for real. Just say you miss Im steady urgent 2/5k you dey collect from am plus maybe Im fat d1ck too yeye dey smell

A failed relationship is better than a broken marriage.
There's no hurt that time cannot heal.
Let time do it's work.
Your grief is normal.
In my case, I had to take pills to sleep when she pulled the breaks.
I learned from my mistakes.
I got better
Work in yourself.
Work on the new you.
Work on making yourself irresistible.
Don't call him
Don't curse him
Don't cuss him
Recreate yourself.
I'm a man.
When he sees you've moved on, and probably gotten better, he'll come back begging.

dyingheart:
we dated for five months. i showed him so much love and care. all he did was complain it wasn't enough, he wanted to date someone else. we're not talking anymore. i miss him like mad. i can't sleep, i can't eat, i can't do anything. it's like my heart has been broken into a thousand pieces. i can't breathe anymore. someone talk to me


****abeg, the man in question is not a Nairalander. cheating was from his part. i was very faithful to him.

Send me your number

TeddyJammy:




. . Find someone else that will love u more that u do..

Is that how easy it is to find a man?
If it's a man now, it's better; but a lady won't be the one to ask a man out now

She said she can't breath oo

dyingheart:
we dated for five months. i showed him so much love and care. all he did was complain it wasn't enough, he wanted to date someone else. we're not talking anymore. i miss him like mad. i can't sleep, i can't eat, i can't do anything. it's like my heart has been broken into a thousand pieces. i can't breathe anymore. someone talk to me


****abeg, the man in question is not a Nairalander. cheating was from his part. i was very faithful to him.

Come to me for heart mending

dyingheart:
we dated for five months. i showed him so much love and care. all he did was complain it wasn't enough, he wanted to date someone else. we're not talking anymore. i miss him like mad. i can't sleep, i can't eat, i can't do anything. it's like my heart has been broken into a thousand pieces. i can't breathe anymore. someone talk to me


****abeg, the man in question is not a Nairalander. cheating was from his part. i was very faithful to him.

pele �

Odunharry:
Na wah o.. Person go just register then create thread sharp sharp to trend. Biko wetin be ur old moniker

Even people who asks for help always create new threads and I don't know why they should be hiding their real monikers if they were legit.

dyingheart:
we dated for five months. i showed him so much love and care. all he did was complain it wasn't enough, he wanted to date someone else. we're not talking anymore. i miss him like mad. i can't sleep, i can't eat, i can't do anything. it's like my heart has been broken into a thousand pieces. i can't breathe anymore. someone talk to me


****abeg, the man in question is not a Nairalander. cheating was from his part. i was very faithful to him.

sister abeg no vex you fit keep today's food for me,abeg no eat am oo cos my own ex broke my heart and the break-up dey make me dey chop too much.