Together with some sprinkles of Agbor thunder in a mix

longetivity:
Na Ogun go kill ur ex

ednut1:
his family if he cant take care of them. Being raised by a wicked toxic mother is bad for the kids

If I had not seen an aunt starve her niece and nephew I would have been comfortable with the arrangement.

She may not necessarily be a bad mother to her kids no matter how toxic you may think she is.


On no account will I ever agree to a child being taken care of by anyone outside either of their parents. The only exception should be if they are orphans.

U wanna deal wt her calmly, oga. Dese days dat pple move abt wt aggressions,pouring acids,hot oil...even stabbing n assassinating deir fellow being. Beware of a frustrated woman.
Arrest her n let her face d wrath of law.

Kobojunkie:
Did you get a divorce from her or is she still legally your wife?

Have you at least been funding the upkeep for your other two children? Or did you reason that since the woman ran away with them,they are no longer yours?

The questions above are useless....you do not read where he said the woman blocked him everywhere?
Do you want him to care for the kids in the spirit?


Any woman,I repeat any woman that leave me when am down can never come back to my house ever..... Even Pope cannot reconcile us.



What nonsense..

Wawelexy:


OK cool, but u need to divorce your wife legally before u have the full right to go into relationship with someone else....

That’s not what the law said....the law said u must divorce before you legally marry another...

Nobody not even the Supreme Court can stop a man or woman from dating someone else while they are still married....

These two people are separated...
What the ex wife is doing is illegal...
She can’t be harassing another woman because the person is dating the man U left.
She can be arrested.

The worst she can do is sue the man for bigamy and that’s when the man marries his pregnant girlfriend without divorcing the first wife.....

U till then, she should fvck off..

A man that's broke cos he lost his means of livelihood is in no position to involve the police cos these things require money. Even the children you want him to fight for, does he have the means to train them alone at that time? The man was already in a hole, it would be unwise for him to keep digging

Kobojunkie:
What the woman did amounts to kidnapping and if the man had really wanted access to his kids, all he had to do was report her action to the police and she would eventually be forced to return them.

Question should instead be, did the Op really want access to his kids or is he just here to tell us a story of what happened.

longetivity:
Na Ogun go kill ur ex

mbami!!

joeking2222:

Babe, u no fit dey read at all ni? He said na hm SISTER'S HUSBAND help am get back to business, not his ex wife brother. Make una dey try read well before commenting!!!

How them the take make am thru school I don't know....the ex wife family that locked the guy man out and stood behind the daughter.



You cannot eat it cake and have it.



Olosho.

Yeye dey smell

obembet:


I don't like one side of the story.

Let hear you wife side.. Some men are wicked

Take her to court.
The court would command her to stay away from the newgirlfriend.
Unless she desire to go to jail.

vickydevoka:

For ur mind abi. For south south n south east once de return ur bride price it's over

I hope women are reading these things so they can learn how to use the law against you intentionally ignorant lot.

Yinkakolawole:
Take ur girlfriend and move far away from her nah, When u re not dumbed.

Is that easy to relocate to far away, did you think of him having business around or working somewhere closeby?


That woman nah just pure witch,

@OP, arrest her and make her pay for making life a hell for your GF.

I'm not supporting the actions of his ex but more details is required sha

What do you think I should do?

Marry both of them since she’s making herself available.

Wawelexy:
Sorry o, which of the brother in-law helped you? Ur ex bro in-law or the new girl?

Kindly increase the volume of this question.

LilMissFavvy:
It is o. So he wants to take the fruits of his ex wife's family and feed a new wife? Maddoo . That wife should wake up and teach them a lesson. He is supposed to forgive her as long as he benefitted from his ex family. I know the wife did badly by leaving her matrimonial home, but shes back to take her place.

His sister's husband helped him. Not his wife's brother. He answered that question. Check.

DMerciful:
A man that's broke cos he lost his means of livelihood is in no position to involve the police cos these things require money. Even the children you want him to fight for, does he have the means to train them alone at that time? The man was already in a hole, it would be unwise for him to keep digging

Why hasn't this man who now claims to no longer be broke sought to have his children returned to him since then?

Nothing stops him from reporting his still legal wife for kidnapping if he really desires access to his kids that is.

If you are in Nigeria deal with her the normal way.

Unique357:
My wife left me when I lost everything. She took our two children with her and has blocked me everywhere. I couldn't reach her to speak with my children. I have tried reaching her parents to no avail.

But now that things are going well for me, my brother in law lifted me and I am back to business and I have a girlfriend we are getting married next year march by God's grace.

Now my ex is back in the picture making life difficult for my girlfriend. She is blackmailing her and bombarding her with nasty messages to the extend of humiliating her in public, calling her all sorts of names like husband snatcher etc. I am angry with her because she has left me when I needed her the most and this girlfriend stood by me with my poor conditions and now she wants to play victim and putting the blame on my girl.

I want to arrest her and let her rot in jail but on the other side I don't want to do it for the sake of our children who are 10 years and 7 years. I want to deal with her in a calm way because there are children involved . What do you think I should do?

obinna58:

Wife disappeared
In-law appeared



That's incredible, sure say na the same blood, maybe na ehm dey give her momentum.

inlaw could be his own siblings wife or husband na. Abi is the word inlaw only for your spouse's siblings?

Mr OP
don't be a calm person towards ur ex wife, i don't care about your children, please use a iron hand on her by involving the police, make sure that policemen are always guarding your girlfriend whereever she goes to avoid your ex wife pouring acid on her and hiring men to kill your unborn child, up your security around your girlfriend, put security around your house, cut off every connection/communication with your ex wife before we hear that gf has died from a hit and run accident planned by your ex wife.

Unique357:
My wife left me when I lost everything. She took our two children with her and has blocked me everywhere. I couldn't reach her to speak with my children. I have tried reaching her parents to no avail.

But now that things are going well for me, my brother in law lifted me and I am back to business and I have a girlfriend we are getting married next year march by God's grace.

Now my ex is back in the picture making life difficult for my girlfriend. She is blackmailing her and bombarding her with nasty messages to the extend of humiliating her in public, calling her all sorts of names like husband snatcher etc. I am angry with her because she has left me when I needed her the most and this girlfriend stood by me with my poor conditions and now she wants to play victim and putting the blame on my girl.

I want to arrest her and let her rot in jail but on the other side I don't want to do it for the sake of our children who are 10 years and 7 years. I want to deal with her in a calm way because there are children involved . What do you think I should do?

Report her to human right and also report her to the right authority. Very simple.

Trying to get your kids at this time is trying to get their crazy mom back. It's same reason Churchill is not dragging Andre from Tonto at this time.

He will go for the kids at the fullness of time however I support the part of getting divorce sorted out asap and funding the children living cos they're victims in this whole debacle

Kobojunkie:
Why hasn't this man who now claims to no longer be broke sought to have his children returned to him since then?

Nothing stops him from reporting his still legal wife for kidnapping if he really desires access to his kids that is.

Unique357:
My wife left me when I lost everything. She took our two children with her and has blocked me everywhere. I couldn't reach her to speak with my children. I have tried reaching her parents to no avail.

But now that things are going well for me, my brother in law lifted me and I am back to business and I have a girlfriend we are getting married next year march by God's grace.

Now my ex is back in the picture making life difficult for my girlfriend. She is blackmailing her and bombarding her with nasty messages to the extend of humiliating her in public, calling her all sorts of names like husband snatcher etc. I am angry with her because she has left me when I needed her the most and this girlfriend stood by me with my poor conditions and now she wants to play victim and putting the blame on my girl.

I want to arrest her and let her rot in jail but on the other side I don't want to do it for the sake of our children who are 10 years and 7 years. I want to deal with her in a calm way because there are children involved . What do you think I should do?

Don't do anything to ur Ex. Just ignore her.

DMerciful:
1.Trying to get your kids at this time is trying to get their crazy mom back. It's same reason Churchill is not dragging Andre from Tonto at this time.

2. He will go for the kids at the fullness of time however I support the part of getting divorce sorted out asap and funding the children living cos they're victims in this whole debacle

1. That's a lie! We need to stop making these ridiculous assumptions !

2. If he seeks divorce from her first, chances are high that he will not get custody of his kids , if she has a good lawyer meaning he will for real loose access to them by the courts.

crackhaus:
Oga, your ex can't do anything...

If you want to marry your current gf, please go ahead and do the traditional rites.

Exactly but why do women run when times are tough.

No wonder you're suffering. Sense you nor get.

suffering:
Marry both of them since she’s making herself available.

Your wife is a fair weather person. You don't see her type when the weather takes a turn for the worst.

But you haven't divorced her right?

Well it is what it is.

Go ahead and quickly do traditional wedding with your girlfriend and allow you wife back into your life with your children, which means you would have two wives. One wife for good weather and the other for all-weathers.

Good luck .

The kids are young, let them be with their mom, he doesn't need custody. He needs to take care of their upkeeps and do visitation.

When they're of age, they'll decide.

He shouldn't die of stress just to drag his children, he is expecting a child and his first children as well as the unborn one need him alive.

Kobojunkie:
1. That's a lie! We need to stop making these ridiculous assumptions !

2. If he seeks divorce from her first, chances are high that he will not get custody of his kids , if she has a good lawyer meaning he will for real loose access to them by the courts.

alphaNomega:
I want to hear your wife's side of the story before I comment.

Share this link with her so she can respond

Bro you re a wise man, for this comment.

I must tell you, for this kind scenerio don't hear from the wife(she go paint the all matter against her husband).

Fear women

Bro I have exactly the same experiences with you and I am eminently to chip few valuable advise, please and please do not let come back to your house again, if you do she will finish you off finally and corner all your waelth, again she doesn't have an atom of affection for you any longer and only wants you to help her train her children, however if you think you want to keep her for the sake of her children, go ahead and keep the two of them if your culture or religion permits you, from experience the best way to humble a woman is when they are co wives

advanceDNA:


That’s not what the law said....the law said u must divorce before you legally marry another...

Nobody not even the Supreme Court can stop a man or woman from dating someone else while they are still married....

These two people are separated...
What the ex wife is doing is illegal...
She can’t be harassing another woman because the person is dating the man U left.
She can be arrested.

The worst she can do is sue the man for bigamy and that’s when the man marries his pregnant girlfriend without divorcing the first wife.....

U till then, she should fvck off..

You seem to know marital law.

vickydevoka:

Nothing like proper divorce, she should Bleep off. How is he sure he's the real father of those kids

She should fvck off you say You don't know a desperate woman can be mad? What if she does something crazy?

About the kids, he must have done DNA now