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Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Eddygourdo(m): 6:16pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
merieam16:true. However if there was still leverage to mend fences. Why wasn't or shouldn't that be explored to the maximum. She sounds pained to lose the marriage. That's why I made my submission. Divorce is terminal and must be made when all else has failed to bring forth resolution |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Nobody: 6:18pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
Difficult to believe right? Well, that is my story. I've got nothing to gain by fabricating stories or lies. Let us just learn and mind the people we call friends. quote author=nedekid post=109192954] It might be real. But in all honesty I doubt. That last part of going abroad made it seem like a nollywood script. [/quote] 1 Like |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by nedekid: 6:35pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
7COLOURS: Wow. Thanks for the advice. 1 Like |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Nigeriadondie: 6:37pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
Optimistic4life:Pls try to reconcile with him. It is not green on the other side 1 Like |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Nobody: 7:18pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
kokanepyramid: Women sha. Marriage Dey fear me these days. I’d rather not get married than get divorced.imagine the emotional pain he went through for those months they were apart |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by ThothHermes: 7:24pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
efficiencie:Unfortunately it's what happen to people that ignore God and His word. The ways of God are immutable. |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Angeldemon: 7:25pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK: you women can deceive eachother!!!! which merriment. |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by BigBashiru: 7:27pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
2loadedguy: how old was she when you married her? I am getting married but I am not agreeing to monogamy and I tell that to every girl I meet.... |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Vinesee: 7:35pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
WHAT CAUSED THE BREAK UP IN THE MARRIAGE? WHY DIDN'T U NIP THE BUD IN THE HEAD ? WHAT DID U DO TO MAKE HIM SEEK DIVORCE? I won't comment further until I know about these |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by HajiaNotu: 7:40pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
If theres no emotional or physical abuse: I will advise you go back to your husbands house because its not easy for single mothers out there.. |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 8:12pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
Angeldemon:So you don't Know..big man like you.. |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by sayso: 8:13pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
What are you thinking? Under 10yrs kids. You think here is US? You will see wee,the kids will break you. Without a father always around,you will break. Who takes care of your inner needs when the storm is around? You should have managed till the kids get to 18-19yrs ,then bolt. I can see lots of pride in you and your kids will suffer for your lack of prudence. |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by sooperrescue(m): 8:34pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
You are seeking advice from the people but what does the bible says, a woman is bound to the husband AS long as he is alive, if he is alive and she went to marry another, she has committed adultery against her husband. Settle quickly with your husband while there's still time unless you want to be a divorced woman and an adultress. The only group of people that God takes care of are the fatherless, the orphan and the widow and the stranger. You are not in any of these groups and so where do you fit in? God hates divorce and ensure that you are not doing anything that God hates. If you found yourself cheating on him, repent and sin no more |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by madone: 8:46pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
chilan:many ladies end up living for their children forgetting that they have a life. If she is still young she should get married and.live life to.the full |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by tunjilana: 9:23pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
2loadedguy: The issue is not the marriage, but the mindset of the woman involved...I can never marry a woman who believes her money is hers and mine is ours, neither can I marry a woman who believes she shouldnt be involved in domestic chores simply cos some people are saying she shouldnt...The only valid excuse is when she is genuinely not chanced and that will be compensated by the amount of money she will be able to contribute to home running, which will easily make it easy for you guys to pay for domestic help....she needs counseling before she crashes her marriage due to a bad mindset and selfishness |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by dozies: 9:34pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
Why don't you people ask what led to the divorce. Divorce should be the last option. Marriage demands alot of sacrifice to make it work from both husband and wife. Let go of your egos and make peace. Life as a single mom or dad is not easy ooo. What endless merriment are you talking of? Why don't you be plain and say endless shagging!! But you will realised that you will become a public toilet where every dick and Harry wants to deposit his juice. Make peace now! |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by PenSniper: 10:32pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
od501: The thing is that it's usually difficult for most moms to leave their children behind for fear of maltreatment. Secondly, it may be very difficult for the father to adequately take care of the children. Raising children alone by one parent comes at a price which may be costly with the man especially if he hasn't a good relative like his mother to handle them. |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by VicM6: 10:37pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
Optimistic4life:Na wetin we dey talk bdat o, u don go do pass ur power nd the poor man don ready to japa.....there must be a reason ur husband would serve u a divorce letter...definitely, u have given him a very tough time.....Well, for ur question, Life out side for singles self na die then talkless of mother of 3....anyway, we have a different path to life so u might get lucky even more than when you were with him....just keep ur kids close, draw them nearer nd enjoy the tinz life would throw to u...... but i think finding peace with ur hubby would be perfect for the sake of ur kids unless u want it to end in a tragic way. |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by od501: 11:18pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
PenSniper: Let the man in question decide. We can be making decisions for him. They should talk |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Nobody: 11:20pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
Quality20: Where you keep the man if I may ask you? |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by calcal: 1:30am On Jan 09, 2022 |
OP, Your eyes go soon clear, respect your husband, you said NO! with 3 small children, you see pepper, those married men outside there go blow your punna very well for peanut. and @50 it will get worse, homeless waiting for you if you are not careful. This is from life experience. Optimistic4life: 2 Likes |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by prettysassygirl(f): 3:50am On Jan 09, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK:Jesus has business everywhere |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by prettysassygirl(f): 3:57am On Jan 09, 2022 |
lomprico:Well I beg to disagree, Yes I know divorce is bad for children,I am a product of a divorced home and it happened when I was very young but I and my siblings turned out fine. If the parent that is with the children is strong , responsible and dedicated to the children ,the children would turn out fine too. |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by freedomchild: 4:00am On Jan 09, 2022 |
greggng:I can relate |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 4:02am On Jan 09, 2022 |
prettysassygirl:Ok.. |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by lomprico(m): 7:33am On Jan 09, 2022 |
prettysassygirl: It's someone else that will have to pass that judgement. Divorce 'always' have effect on children. You might not even know you have the problem. |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by MrSly(m): 2:13pm On Jan 09, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK:What is wrong in what the OP said? He made the most sense here. |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 2:15pm On Jan 09, 2022 |
MrSly:Ok |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Nobody: 4:55pm On Jan 09, 2022 |
Optimistic4life: You didn't inform us if you truly want the divorce, if you want to eventually throw everything away and end the family. Let's start from there and what exactly led to the separation. Your happiness and ability to move on depends largely on the type of person you are and how willing you're ready to adapt to changes. |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Signum(f): 8:21pm On Jan 09, 2022 |
topboss: Oga be calming down and stop pouring ur frustrations anywhere. Or you have issues comprehending write-ups? When I say "make ur marriages work", I wasn't saying it's after divorce. I mean ladies should make their marriages work, divorce is not the best option. Mind you I am not the OP oo. |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Optimistic4life(f): 1:39pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
obiekunie01:It's what I am doing currently 1 Like |
Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Optimistic4life(f): 1:40pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
madone: Is it That easy? 1 Like |
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