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Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by moonraker(m): 1:19am On Jan 13, 2022 |
Mercychen: The door revolves both ways. The woman as of right now, is partly to blame for what happened. There was no way the man would have won in this situation. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by moonraker(m): 1:24am On Jan 13, 2022 |
chikasnight: Ding Ding DIng. Finally! Someone with some sense. There is no bullet without the gun. There is no smoke without fire. 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by nwosu1982: 5:17am On Jan 13, 2022 |
Masturbate or get side chick to cure the konji very simple since she decided to deny you ur conjugle right. Sex is no 1 in marriage. She doesn't v any right to deny u sex for long even if u guys r having issues . But u made a mistake by beating and rapin her . Continue showing remorse , she will forgive you |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Nobody: 5:33am On Jan 13, 2022 |
dogmart: You wanted to marry a second wife and she changed, this shows she knew what she was doing all along. Everybody gets angry and capable of mischief but many comport themselves when they know there will be consequences. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Omoluabiii(m): 6:28am On Jan 13, 2022 |
Noah9: you didnt act like a man. Beg her to forgive you, thats all. Just beg for forgiveness. But next time you ask her for sex and she refuse,, You too man up, and withdrew all form of being romantic to her. But dress hot, smell good, and give her space... Then at night, sleep seperately from here, dont sleep on the same bed... Its what i ve tried tested and proven. It works like magic. Whenever i opt in for sex, and she says no. I began to dress my cutest, and put on my best... And at night i leave the bed for her, i ll go into the parlour, it took only two days, the third day, she came to lie with me in the parlour, and i was the one asking her, what happened? The rest is history.. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by fattprince(m): 7:19am On Jan 13, 2022 |
AntiMCU:That's the answer staring at us. But I guess we too woke to see it. If I'm going to marry at all I must marry 4. I'd say 3 butit wouldn't be fair asobe will be a victim of other two but four, they will take theirselves 2, 2. And yeah, I'm bold enough to tell any girl I'm dating. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Elinosweet143(f): 7:58am On Jan 13, 2022 |
No, on top say him beat her join, that my dear is bullshit jornwhite: |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by wirinet(m): 8:20am On Jan 13, 2022 |
Omoluabiii: This will only work when you are just newly married or in the honeymoon phase. After 15 years of marriage with added responsibility of multiple children, work or career pressures, increasing stress levels and extended family wahala, believe me you won't have the time or energy for such shenanigans. The basic issue is understanding each other's needs and making attempts to fulfil them. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by wirinet(m): 8:24am On Jan 13, 2022 |
Elinosweet143: Yes it's Bullshit. But it is what it is. If wicked "Konji" hits a man, he can do anything.Testosterone is an aggression hormone. Too much stored up in the blood stream is a bad thing. 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Kingcalls: 8:31am On Jan 13, 2022 |
safarigirl: U are the one that actually sounds like a child and not him...apply sense 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by descarado: 8:44am On Jan 13, 2022 |
For those of us living in diaspora even if Ghana. The golden rule is NEVER EVER FORCE YOURSELF ON A WOMAN ESPECIALLY YOUR WIFE. YOU WILL ROT IN JAIL. They have laws that work. Nigeria don't. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by wirinet(m): 8:50am On Jan 13, 2022 |
safarigirl:Why will sex not be on the table? Except there is a terminal disease like cancer, I don't understand why sex would not be on the table in a marriage. Yes there are times when sex would not be an option, but a reason why it's not an option at a particular instance must be given and duscussed with the husband. She may be seeing her period, she may be ill, she may be too tired or stressed. But to deny your husband sex for months without reason is cruel and insensitive. Obviously you have never been pregnant. There is no period during the pregnancy that a woman is medically unable to have sex. In fact her sexual appetite doubles after the first trimester. This is due to raging hormones acting up. A woman can have sex a day before giving birth. That's why I emphasize sexual compatibility before marriage. Marriage between sexually incompatible couples will not last many years before you talk of decades. So what's your own ideas of marriage? What are the roles and obligations of each partner im a marriage? Are you married? |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by wirinet(m): 8:59am On Jan 13, 2022 |
descarado:Ghana is just trying to copy western values and system. If your wife can deny you sex ad infinitum, then you can also deny her affection, protection, security and comfort. What about the children? Who will provide for the children? Even though I am a strong advocate for protection of women and children, the western world has taken it too far, by emasculating men in general. A man can't marry 2 wives, you can't commit adultery, you must provide for your wife, you must share your properties with your wife (she is not obligated to share hers), but she can refuse you sex at her discretion. Anyway in Ghana, I hear it's the woman that pays dowry. 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by yinkeys(m): 9:04am On Jan 13, 2022 |
Mercychen:You’re writing rubbish For men to get married they have to bring in so much for the relationship to exist in the first place No such thing as love exists if the guy involved isn’t useful or brings anything tangible It’s most of today’s women that are very selfish It’s mostly husbands that pay house bills and school fees |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by DeepSight(m): 9:08am On Jan 13, 2022 |
wirinet: No it generally works both ways, thats why you have prenuptial agreements. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Kingcalls: 9:09am On Jan 13, 2022 |
Digmygold: U think and talk like a child...or u are outrightly biased |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by jornwhite: 9:11am On Jan 13, 2022 |
Elinosweet143: He slapped her, he was wrong buh maybe she needs the slap for a reset ... bullshit is when a woman does shakara pre marriage and stil continue to do shakara post marriage, bullshiti is when a man have to fast & pray before he can see his wife pant. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by wirinet(m): 9:14am On Jan 13, 2022 |
DeepSight:That's when prenuptial exist in the first place. Most marriages by couples smitten by the love bug don't even know what prenuptial means. It's after being stung by a selfish partner that they insist subsequent marriages must come with prenuptials. Or if one party is from a wealthy home and the parents insisting on prenuptial to protect family fortune. 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Kingcalls: 9:23am On Jan 13, 2022 |
Digmygold: If his daughter is raped, who do u think it will affect most, him or the daughter? U actually want a fellow woman like to to get raped just for u to feel good that it will affect him as a man, not considering how it will affect the main victim who is a woman....u see y I said u dont hv sense... |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Kingcalls: 9:26am On Jan 13, 2022 |
[quote author=Babastrong post=109317552][/quote] U dont hv to lay curses on that fool...just free her, she knows nothing about what she's doing... na mumu she b |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by obowunmi(m): 9:30am On Jan 13, 2022 |
wirinet: I’m getting my partner to sign a prenup. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by NoToPile: 9:34am On Jan 13, 2022 |
wisemum: The bolded is the pure fact. It's just a matter of time the marriage ends (that time may even be 20 years and after more children), it's only by divine intervention the marriage will heal. What I really can't fathom is why the violence, Is it that the character had been in the OP but perfectly hidden and a little pressure and bam its out. If he can rape his wife then he can rape any random girl out there. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Danjikanbauchi: 10:15am On Jan 13, 2022 |
lookingfly:totally agreed. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Digmygold: 10:16am On Jan 13, 2022 |
Kingcalls: You wey get sense if you followed well you for see say even the fool himself prays for his own daughters to get raped. Go back and check well. Afterwards go and pick your empty brain from the gutter where you dropped it. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Digmygold: 10:17am On Jan 13, 2022 |
Kingcalls: Same to you. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Digmygold: 10:18am On Jan 13, 2022 |
lookingfly: STFU. Bloody liar and pervert. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by DeepSight(m): 10:20am On Jan 13, 2022 |
wirinet: Haba, marriage being a lifelong affair, there is bound to be "downtime" for either or both parties quite naturally. Yes there are times when sex would not be an option, but a reason why it's not an option at a particular instance must be given and duscussed with the husband. She may be seeing her period, she may be ill, she may be too tired or stressed. But to deny your husband sex for months without reason is cruel and insensitive. This sounds way too rigid and mechanical for the nuances of sexx as I understand them to be - complete with all the "human" nature and mood swings which may be attendant thereto. The bold in the above, in particular, make it sound like you expect a wife to write a formal application for "leave" from sexxual duties, which must be presented with justifications and defended before a panel of inquiry. A woman can have sex a day before giving birth. Kai, so you are among those who are okay with the practice of banging the head of an unborn child with your prick. Yuck. So what's your own ideas of marriage? What are the roles and obligations of each partner im a marriage? Are you married? I dont know but it almost comes across as though you are designating the woman as a sexxual slave. I personally dont believe in "conjugal rights" as they are expressed in this context. There is too much nuance in sexxual matters for such a mechanical approach - and with that approach you reduce something that should be a natural chemical response to one another to a mere duty and physical chore. As far as I am concerned, even (and probably especially) within a marriage, the sexxual relations of the parties should be approached with as much gentle coaxing and seduction as was deployed prior to marriage. If not more. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by DeepSight(m): 10:27am On Jan 13, 2022 |
wirinet: What I was trying to say is that you are wrong to say that the laws in the west compel a man to share his property while a woman is not so compelled. That exists for both parties. People with a prenup are better protected as they can share as per the prenup. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by DeepSight(m): 10:32am On Jan 13, 2022 |
obowunmi: Thats the path of wisdom, even for a couple in love. Because the future is simply unknown and even feelings change and evolve into something unrecognizable. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Babastrong(m): 10:41am On Jan 13, 2022 |
[quote author=Kingcalls post=109327988] U dont hv to lay curses on that fool...just free her, she knows nothing about what she's doing... na mumu she b[ Thanks, i really appreciate] |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by ablejesus26(m): 10:57am On Jan 13, 2022 |
Bouncing2: Guy e sweet oo. It depends on how you spice it sha. Is life not sweet?? The main thing is acceptance,and being deliberate. Being intentional with the reality that once you make the decision as a man to marry,and more so become a father,there are somethings that you must sacrifice,there are somethings you can do and some you can't do. It's a new life experience that you decided to choose. When a real man decides to do something he does it well,so do everything possible to be at your best and do everything right to ensure your marriage works. If you marry woman wey ready to be wife ehnn you go know se marriage sweet Forget the few stormy moments all na process of the sweetner �� 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Elinosweet143(f): 12:22pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
I know women can be a handful, what he wants now is to get his home back in order, after her head don calm down then they can talk things through and knw why and where the problem is from that's my opinion, for any successful marriage one of the spouse must act the fool at some point jornwhite: |
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