Continue my boy..... As for me, I don get one pikin already...I go soon shoot another make Allah bless it.....you choose ur own path

I pity African men who are being brainwashed into marriage in this generation. These African men are not aware that many changes has occurred in our African culture.

Why the marriages of our forefathers lasted was because they married true African women (Women with zero western influence).

Why it's counterproductive for an African man to marry in this era is that what we now have are westernized-african women. The global dominance of Western culture robbed us of our true African women...they women that our forefathers married.

Since changes has occurred in our culture due to Western influence. For we to stay abreast we have to change with the times. The time that we are in doesn't call for marriage because it's not favourable to the African man.

That's one of the reasons why there is low rate of marriage amount African American in the US. They were African men taken to the Western world to abide by Western laws and behaviors. Their women fully Westernized. They are facing Western invasion to their culture same with what we African men are facing in Africa.

Don't succumb to any pressure to marry. Those pressurizing you are under the same Western bondage. You can make babies but don't marry. Marriage was great in the past but unfavorable in this era.

timicutiee:
I can relate with the trauma you live with that led you making this decision. The only help you can render for yourself in order to have peace; talk to someone older, wiser than you, or a therapist.
Life happens to everyone and how we handle it matters. You have handled it the best way you think is right but you are only suppressing a pain that would lead to depression. Always remember, life is beautiful no matter which roof you find yourself and a gender isn't the source of pain.

And your happiness...

Two motherfuckrers

obowunmi:


Hope you heal from the pains of your childhood. Love is a beautiful thing.

Of course love is a beautiful thing. The question is, is marriage a beautiful thing for most married people? Let married people respond

as long as you're happy, its fine

Bmaster:



Me too!
BuT the issue with me its a medical one,i am a sickler,so i have concluded in my mind that i will never get married,but NEVER will i tell my mother,lest she starts seeing me as being useless.



Peace OUT!

Go and look for AA to mary jor stop being a nicom

kansoboy:


I hope so, because as for me having Ur own family means a lot which include wife some timeto take care of the child...

Most women are bad(our mothers inclusive), but they are most time necessary evil and offcause we see our mothers as the best, but our fathers will say otherwise if u bother to ask.

Is only a simp or weakling father(our fathers/men) that will be complaining so much about what d wife did.

Bross marry and have Ur child/children, then have the deaf ear of Buhari and strong heart of Buhari toward Ur wife and u will see Ur self live long in Ur marriage

Guy who told the secret..?

kansoboy:


Chief I am not a kid, what ever I say here, is from xperience....
Before I got married, I used to get angry with my elder brother and cousins how their wives do complain and what they are doing is not good to the wife...the reply my brother's always give me back then is : shut up, u are not married and don't understand women.

I later got married in 2013 and was trying to be a good man, d wife then was acting all type of crazy..when I complained to my elder brothers, the reply they gave me: be a good man and these women will kill u in marriage.


Now I man up and returned the girl back to her father's house, ended the marriage and dirvoced her.

3 Ur later, I remarried, but this time with bold mined, after marriage, my new wife started acting up , I did not complain to any person, I just went to the market, bought Cain, and d next time she started her craze, I used Cain to flog rubbish out of her head and told her this house I make d rules, and if u do not want it..I will return u back to Ur father's house.

This is 3 years now and 2 kids, since that day till today, she is mindful of her behaviour and she also know I do not give a bleep of her emotional manipulations

lol I wonder how shocked she would be when you comot cane for am.
I think in marriage , how one lays the bed is how he lie in it.
Also , I really appreciate how you responded without insult. It shows the kind of personality u possessed..

The fact that you're still talking about it shows that you believe it, but you're afraid of it, which aids in the development of your alpha male defensive mechanism. Oga, you are not the first. Monks and priests have been doing this for a long time, and they have done it so naturally. I'm curious as to why you're making such a racket. You're not about to set a new record; instead, you're just fooling yourself. Speak with a therapist right now!

Newboss:


There is no relationship between marriage and love. Marriage is a mediaeval social construct. It has outlived its usefulness.

Most of you are confusing romance, friendship and marriage. Those are completely different things.

If you need people that care for you, they're called friends.

If you need people to fûck and romance, they're called romantic partners.

If you need people to that will give you problem, they're called spouses

Guy, you will be very good at teaching..

seanwilliam:
lol I wonder how shocked she would be when you comot cane for am.
I think in marriage , how one lays the bed is how he lie in it.
Also , I really appreciate how you responded without insult. It shows the kind of personality u possessed..

We are all here to learn...
The truth is, many men really wish to love their women/wives with all their heart, but women will just see it as weak man at take u for granted....

Offcause if I use hand beat my wife I fit injure her and she will be the first to call me woman beater..but using Cain taught her that she is a child and will be treated like a child if she don't behave, sure she did not believe it....at the end of the whole drama , her pain was much on the fact I was using Cain to flog her as if she is a child.d Cain part pained her much, much as I expected and that brought peace for me

AlphaMale666:
I'm 30 years old now and frankly speaking, I know I'm never gonna get married!

Even my father sent me a Whatsapp message some weeks ago with a bold text saying "never get married my boy!" " you're my son, and I'll never lie to you". He's living a miserable life with the stupid witch he put in his house. But nobody forced him to get married! So he's getting the taste of his own medicine!

Even if he didn't tell me any of this, I already knew my destiny. I knew I was born to die single and nobody will take this wonderful single life away from me!

Wait the witch must be ur mom or wat ? Or did ur dad marry another woman ..may be that is the one , he is calling witch lol

Well just bang a gal raw and get her pregnant ..infact trick her and train d kid and stay fufilled to being tied on one pussy

isaiah4life:
It is not good for a man to be alone. Oga, go and marry. Stop using events around to justify your singlehoodness.

Marriage is good. Forget cynics.

It's never a must to get married! He has his life to live. Being married or single Is. A choice and those that whichever direction in life should be respected!

AlphaMale666:
I'm 30 years old now and frankly speaking, I know I'm never gonna get married!

Even my father sent me a Whatsapp message some weeks ago with a bold text saying "never get married my boy!" " you're my son, and I'll never lie to you". He's living a miserable life with the stupid witch he put in his house. But nobody forced him to get married! So he's getting the taste of his own medicine!

Even if he didn't tell me any of this, I already knew my destiny. I knew I was born to die single and nobody will take this wonderful single life away from me!

.............He's living a miserable life with the stupid witch he put in his house. But nobody forced him to get married!


I hope the "stupid witch" is not the person I am thinking about?

Can she with all the labour she went through for you be described as "stupid witch"?

Stargurl20:
Why are you now telling us?. Na your life. Live it the way u deem fit. Just stop disturbing us or do u want us to convince u?

Exactly what i thought

The werey wants us to say something convincing to him

AlphaMale666:
I'm 30 years old now and frankly speaking, I know I'm never gonna get married!

Even my father sent me a Whatsapp message some weeks ago with a bold text saying "never get married my boy!" " you're my son, and I'll never lie to you". He's living a miserable life with the stupid witch he put in his house. But nobody forced him to get married! So he's getting the taste of his own medicine!

Even if he didn't tell me any of this, I already knew my destiny. I knew I was born to die single and nobody will take this wonderful single life away from me!

how can a son of witch/bitc*h get marry, so you will go and plug someone daughter eys out?

segcymoor:


Guy who told the secret..?

Kansoboy and Segcymoor


The two of you haf crase finish

ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
how can a son of witch/bitc*h get marry, so you will go and plug someone daughter eys out?

Wetin consign the mama inside the matter now??
the way you people insult people’s parents on this forum is irritating

It's your choice.

It means you won't have heir on Earth, not our concern

kansoboy:



Lol..bross I am talking from xperience...

Kids issue is understood and is controllable.

Women are the issue and to handle them, do what u know is right, and ignore the rant of the woman..if she don rant finish she will still fine way to bring back peace, ignore her peace move too..

Let her know u don't give a bleep about her emotional manipulations.

Let her also know u are can return her back to father's house is not an issue and u will see.

Do what u know is right, and ignore her emotions and rant, if e too much..go to market and buy cain let her know u can as well treat her like a child.


My wife know, and she avoid me like when I ignore her because she know I can do any thing .

All this complain is coming when u give women too much allowance.

Bravo...you must have married to a slave

segcymoor:


Guy who told the secret..?

Lol.. I had to start thinking aback what did our fathers fo in their marriage that made it work for them, but our own is not working unfortunately, my father is late so I can't ask him


Then I realised my father will always tell us as a child: na Ur mama send u to come and talk to me?

I had to interpret those tense on my own( papa was ignoring mama then)

Let me guess you never told them about your condition?

Bmaster:
i have a girlfriend,
BuT what i don't wanna have is a wife-to-be girlfriend,
I just do NoT wish to harm anyone's feelings on the long Run,even if the person would say it "doesn't matter,our gene matches".
Reason is this[b]none of the girls who have been around me have ever witness seeing me during painful crisis,[/b]and i am sure they're around me because i'm healthy in their eyes.

advanceDNA:


Kansoboy and Segcymoor


The two of you haf crase finish

Lol

AlphaMale666:
I'm 30 years old now and frankly speaking, I know I'm never gonna get married!

Even my father sent me a Whatsapp message some weeks ago with a bold text saying "never get married my boy!" " you're my son, and I'll never lie to you". He's living a miserable life with the stupid witch he put in his house. But nobody forced him to get married! So he's getting the taste of his own medicine!

Even if he didn't tell me any of this, I already knew my destiny. I knew I was born to die single and nobody will take this wonderful single life away from me!

Ride on Bro..... infact Biblically Marriage is not meant for everybody

andysmith123:
what makes you an alphamale without a woman?.....just asking?

He said he’s not getting married....Did he say he’s not going to have a woman or women??
You are that should check if an alpha male must marry one wife and be caged with her till death do them part

kansoboy:


Chief I am not a kid, what ever I say here, is from xperience....
Before I got married, I used to get angry with my elder brother and cousins how their wives do complain and what they are doing is not good to the wife...the reply my brother's always give me back then is : shut up, u are not married and don't understand women.

I later got married in 2013 and was trying to be a good man, d wife then was acting all type of crazy..when I complained to my elder brothers, the reply they gave me: be a good man and these women will kill u in marriage.


Now I man up and returned the girl back to her father's house, ended the marriage and dirvoced her.

3 Ur later, I remarried, but this time with bold mined, after marriage, my new wife started acting up , I did not complain to any person, I just went to the market, bought Cain, and d next time she started her craze, I used Cain to flog rubbish out of her head and told her this house I make d rules, and if u do not want it..I will return u back to Ur father's house.

This is 3 years now and 2 kids, since that day till today, she is mindful of her behaviour and she also know I do not give a bleep of her emotional manipulations

Interesting story...

Uzomacharles:


And how did he disturb you?
Out of almost a thousand threads in this forum,u chose to open this thread,read it and comment that he is disturbing...
This how ur gender go around saying this guy or that guy is disturbing u...

@OP my advice to you is to "DO WHAT PLEASES YOU"....

You can still chose to adopt a son or daughter if you wish to...

YOLO

NO,he will not have the option to adopt a son or daughter that who gave birth to,he does not eat dog meat but divide it with his teeth,he will stay alone with maybe a driver and cook ,if he is lucky to be rich and in another 30 years time he will see the consequences of the decision he took but it will be too late.i cannot think of a better old age insurance policy in Africa like ones offsprings.

segcymoor:



Bravo...you must have married to a slave

My first wife was evil..but all to my fault because I was acting a responsible and good man..so when I remarried...I did not want to repeat that same first mistake of a gentle responsible man..I had to act first to take control of my home

Likewise me,
I go like born 2 very pretty gals,,and maybe a son or two.

But i no wan marry

Lmao

Dshocker:


So shall it be in Jesus name