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Re: Fathers Are Always Being Cheated By Society!! Fathers Are Suffering!! (Photos) by Nobody: 12:47pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
Premiumwriter:My mother and maternal family are the reason I'm alive... Don't assume all of us were raised by a father... In your father's workplace, where there not women? Or your father worked with only men? And the millions of female teachers, doctors, lawmakers, nurses, politicians... They are all unmarried and childless? Women are equally working alongside their husbands... Respect their hustles... There are women working in building construction sites, making palm oil, in factories, even driving trailers... They are labouring ceaselessly to support their husbands, send their children to schools and feed their families... If all your mother did was stay home, then that's her... But even at that, she deserves your respect... For dividing the workload, could your father be the provider if he had to be a housewife? Or because your mother didn't bag or complain, you do not realise how tiring her duties were? Your father did... 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Fathers Are Always Being Cheated By Society!! Fathers Are Suffering!! (Photos) by Truvelisback(m): 12:52pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
Sometimes, it depends on who showed more concern abt our faring. Let me be blunt here. To me, my father fall my hand. It was my mum who did all most the caring. From my opinion, some men are the cause. If treat ur children well, when the grow up, they will treat u well too. Although, there some women who are very good at turning the heart of their children against their father for selfish reasons. 2 Likes |
Re: Fathers Are Always Being Cheated By Society!! Fathers Are Suffering!! (Photos) by Ishilove: 12:54pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
PUSSYHOE:Make e go find work do, not to dey pour saliva everywhere on top woman matter 2 Likes |
Re: Fathers Are Always Being Cheated By Society!! Fathers Are Suffering!! (Photos) by Tmberwolf1: 12:56pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
Datboredberry:"And the women who are working? They aren't married? Or in your father's workplace, it's only men and ghosts...?" In most homes, the man is the bread winner, while the mother stays at home to take care of the kids. In cases where the roles are reversed, the kid tends to bond more with the father than the mother. "What ever sacrifice your father made for you, other children's mothers are making them..." Based on the statistics, you are f*cking lying! The number of women that die on their jobs, is like piss in the ocean compared to the number of men that die on their jobs. |
Re: Fathers Are Always Being Cheated By Society!! Fathers Are Suffering!! (Photos) by Premiumwriter: 1:01pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
Datboredberry: Lolz for every woman working, there are 20 more sitting down at home. And should we talk about their selfishness in contributing to the home they Soo much 'love'? I mean the "my money is my money while your money is our money" geng. Certainly it's not the men who don't 'love' their kids that keeps all his money to himself. Most women work not to serve the family but for their self. 1 Like |
Re: Fathers Are Always Being Cheated By Society!! Fathers Are Suffering!! (Photos) by Nobody: 1:03pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
Tmberwolf1:This is my point genius... Society is made up of family units... Society isn't a place or thing, it's many people... In other words, a collective group of people... Meaning, if society celebrates mothers, it's the millions of children who prefer their mothers... Are you to criticize them for their opinion? You aren't in the position to choose for others who's a better parent... Make yours and leave... Are you high on sh**? What single fathers? Compare to single mothers, how many fathers are out there taking care if their children alone? Most single fathers are widowers... And most of these men REMARRY... Unlike single mothers who usually remain single... And fathers are therefore ten times more likely to sexually moleste the children... What's your definition of abuse? You just said that fathers are the disciplinarians, aren't they abusing the children? Or using leather belts and whips is a better opinion than the mother's scolding? The law court almost always sides with the mother even though it is a documented fact that a child raised without a father is more likely to join gangs, do drugs, grow up in poverty, female children are 7 times more likely to become pregnant as teenagers without a father.... [quote] False stats again to suit your stupid argument...Stop spewing sh**... Most fathers aren't pyschos with whips... The reason children prefer their mothers is because of how close they are to them... Even little kids who've never been spanked... How many fathers know how to change the diapers of their children? How to mix their food, the right temp and texture? How many fathers know the name of their creche teachers? Being distant as a father is considered a masculine trait... That's the point... Even after the mother beats the child, the child would cry, wipe it's tears and still choose the mother... It's not about discipline... But availability... And emotional support 3 Likes |
Re: Fathers Are Always Being Cheated By Society!! Fathers Are Suffering!! (Photos) by Tmberwolf1: 1:11pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
Datboredberry:I can't do this anymore, I'm stating empirical facts, you are arguing purely based off emotions. |
Re: Fathers Are Always Being Cheated By Society!! Fathers Are Suffering!! (Photos) by techWriter3: 1:13pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
accolades to all women in the country, right from our ancestor (adam) 1 Like |
Re: Fathers Are Always Being Cheated By Society!! Fathers Are Suffering!! (Photos) by Nobody: 1:14pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
Premiumwriter: Again, most newly married women act selfishly... But mothers mostly love their children more that their husbands and themselves... Isn't that why everyone avoids single mothers? A middle-aged woman does her part... Even if it's being a petty trader, running along the road risking their lives, women are still making an effort... Don't forget that these women are uneducated... And with jobs that require intensive manpower, men are more qualified... As for the younger women, aren't they working in banks? And the hospitals? The Universities? Your stats is off! You mean, in the typical workplace, there are 200 men and 20 women? Even in Nigeria, a cultural, conservative third country, the employment gap between men and women is nearly closed... Again, if your mother does this... Sure... But the women frying akara and zobo, the tailors and hairdressers, the mechanic... Most use their meagre earnings to keep the family... They are the housewives remember, do they give the money to the man who's never gone to the market? No present day man can cater to the welfare of his family, give them a comfortable life, in Nigeria especially without financial support... No minimum wage can do such... and most men are unemployed... So their chicken change after working menial jobs definitely ain't the only reason their children feed... Don't try to massage your ego... Most married men work with their wives... 2 Likes |
Re: Fathers Are Always Being Cheated By Society!! Fathers Are Suffering!! (Photos) by Nobody: 1:15pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
Tmberwolf1:What facts? From your head? Back your facts with proof... Stop throwing tantrums 3 Likes |
Re: Fathers Are Always Being Cheated By Society!! Fathers Are Suffering!! (Photos) by Nobody: 1:18pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
Tmberwolf1:because the father is performing the roles a typical woman would... And that's my point which your proven... It's not about gender... But the available parent, which is usually the mother... And the average number of men who die while working? Since the vast majority of men don't die, how about you mention another sacrifice most can actually relate to? 2 Likes |
Re: Fathers Are Always Being Cheated By Society!! Fathers Are Suffering!! (Photos) by Premiumwriter: 1:22pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
Datboredberry:if you are trying to rub this on me, you're wasting your time. Everywhere and Nigeria in particular, the man contributes 90% of the family upkeep. Most working women contribute nothing to the family and worst still, they still expect the man to give to them from his earnings. Women contribute virtually nothing to keep the home going as far as finances is concerned. Stop De whine my nipples 1 Like |
Re: Fathers Are Always Being Cheated By Society!! Fathers Are Suffering!! (Photos) by Nobody: 1:32pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
Premiumwriter: Says the unmarried man on Nairaland... You didn't raise up decent points, you're just being a bit**... Give the average married Nigerian man, who lives below the poverty line, the sole responsibility of financial supporting the family 90% and he would jump into a lagoon! But on the internet, men are all suddenly Obi Cuban? In your mind, they are so comfortable, they can afford to marry a woman who's contributing nada...? Bro, you're whining your own nipples... 3 Likes |
Re: Fathers Are Always Being Cheated By Society!! Fathers Are Suffering!! (Photos) by Premiumwriter: 1:39pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
Datboredberry:Nigerian men living below poverty lines are the worst because their wives earn little to nothing. That's why you actually see them jumping into the lagoon |
Re: Fathers Are Always Being Cheated By Society!! Fathers Are Suffering!! (Photos) by kwaso2(m): 1:45pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
Daddy is important Mummy is important 2 Likes |
Re: Fathers Are Always Being Cheated By Society!! Fathers Are Suffering!! (Photos) by TheGidRedpiller(m): 2:07pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
Tmberwolf1:The way God will BLESS YOU brother... |
Re: Fathers Are Always Being Cheated By Society!! Fathers Are Suffering!! (Photos) by TheGidRedpiller(m): 2:08pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
Premiumwriter:TELL THESE PEOPLE PLS!! |
Re: Fathers Are Always Being Cheated By Society!! Fathers Are Suffering!! (Photos) by TheGidRedpiller(m): 2:11pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
Premiumwriter:I am so sorry for your father brother, damn!! That man sacrificed ALL! |
Re: Fathers Are Always Being Cheated By Society!! Fathers Are Suffering!! (Photos) by TheGidRedpiller(m): 2:13pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
PUSSYHOE:This is funny brother, come on, its not like that TRP IS GOLDEN!! |
Re: Fathers Are Always Being Cheated By Society!! Fathers Are Suffering!! (Photos) by TheGidRedpiller(m): 2:15pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
Premiumwriter:This is totally new information. |
Re: Fathers Are Always Being Cheated By Society!! Fathers Are Suffering!! (Photos) by TheGidRedpiller(m): 2:16pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
freshkpomo:Shut Up |
Re: Fathers Are Always Being Cheated By Society!! Fathers Are Suffering!! (Photos) by TheGidRedpiller(m): 2:18pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
Enigma2049:I told the idi0t to just shut up. 1 Like |
Re: Fathers Are Always Being Cheated By Society!! Fathers Are Suffering!! (Photos) by TheGidRedpiller(m): 2:20pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
Truvelisback:Thats what i'm picking off your comment. 1 Like |
Re: Fathers Are Always Being Cheated By Society!! Fathers Are Suffering!! (Photos) by TheGidRedpiller(m): 2:24pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
Premiumwriter:Guy you keep giving bars, you totally understand this thread. Thank you man! |
Re: Fathers Are Always Being Cheated By Society!! Fathers Are Suffering!! (Photos) by TheGidRedpiller(m): 2:30pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
Did that female up there just say divorced mothers don't remarry |
Re: Fathers Are Always Being Cheated By Society!! Fathers Are Suffering!! (Photos) by ekitimanalways(m): 2:51pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
TheGidRedpiller: Fatherhood is a thankless job. |
Re: Fathers Are Always Being Cheated By Society!! Fathers Are Suffering!! (Photos) by Marvellsmart(m): 2:57pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
Datboredberry:Alaye STFU and get ur ass off this thread asap! Ur opinion isn't needed here. |
Re: Fathers Are Always Being Cheated By Society!! Fathers Are Suffering!! (Photos) by Nobody: 3:35pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
Truvelisback:And there are also some foolish children. |
Re: Fathers Are Always Being Cheated By Society!! Fathers Are Suffering!! (Photos) by DONFRANSKID(m): 3:55pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
TheGidRedpiller:Bro everything you typed is 100% correct |
Re: Fathers Are Always Being Cheated By Society!! Fathers Are Suffering!! (Photos) by Enigma2049(m): 4:51pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
freshkpomo: So what were those women doing with irresponsible men in the first place? |
Re: Fathers Are Always Being Cheated By Society!! Fathers Are Suffering!! (Photos) by Alusiizizi(m): 4:54pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
kwaso2: Fathers are much more important than mothers. |
Re: Fathers Are Always Being Cheated By Society!! Fathers Are Suffering!! (Photos) by TheGidRedpiller(m): 4:58pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
ekitimanalways:So why should motherhood be? |
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