Premiumwriter:
wetin this one De talk?

Your father is the sole reason why most of you are alive, went to school and actually become what you are today.

We've all seen many kids, once they lose their father that automatically means an end to their school except an uncle steps in.

Recieving hugs from mummy counts but getting those cloths, money for toys, hospital bills, school fees and everything else counts more from fathers

My mother and maternal family are the reason I'm alive... Don't assume all of us were raised by a father...

In your father's workplace, where there not women? Or your father worked with only men? And the millions of female teachers, doctors, lawmakers, nurses, politicians... They are all unmarried and childless?

Women are equally working alongside their husbands... Respect their hustles... There are women working in building construction sites, making palm oil, in factories, even driving trailers... They are labouring ceaselessly to support their husbands, send their children to schools and feed their families...

If all your mother did was stay home, then that's her... But even at that, she deserves your respect... For dividing the workload, could your father be the provider if he had to be a housewife? Or because your mother didn't bag or complain, you do not realise how tiring her duties were? Your father did...

Sometimes, it depends on who showed more concern abt our faring. Let me be blunt here. To me, my father fall my hand. It was my mum who did all most the caring. From my opinion, some men are the cause. If treat ur children well, when the grow up, they will treat u well too. Although, there some women who are very good at turning the heart of their children against their father for selfish reasons.

PUSSYHOE:






Na him get romance section o

Make e go find work do, not to dey pour saliva everywhere on top woman matter

Datboredberry:
And the women who are working? They aren't married? Or in your father's workplace, it's only men and ghosts...?

What ever sacrifice your father made for you, other children's mothers are making them...

Btw, mothers discipline their children too... If you mean cautioning and scolding... But if you're referring to the men who brutalise their children with whips and canes...

Most fathers aren't abusive... But the vast majority in Africa are distant... Because they believe so much in respect and masculinity, they cause a divide between themselves and their children...

"And the women who are working? They aren't married? Or in your father's workplace, it's only men and ghosts...?"
In most homes, the man is the bread winner, while the mother stays at home to take care of the kids. In cases where the roles are reversed, the kid tends to bond more with the father than the mother.
"What ever sacrifice your father made for you, other children's mothers are making them..."
Based on the statistics, you are f*cking lying! The number of women that die on their jobs, is like piss in the ocean compared to the number of men that die on their jobs.

Datboredberry:
My mother and maternal family are the reason I'm alive... Don't assume all of us were raised by a father...

In your father's workplace, where there not women? Or your father worked with only men? And the millions of female teachers, doctors, lawmakers, nurses, politicians... They are all unmarried and childless?

Women are equally working alongside their husbands... Respect their hustles... There are women working in building construction sites, making palm oil, in factories, even driving trailers... They are labouring ceaselessly to support their husbands, send their children to schools and feed their families...

If all your mother did was stay home, then that's her... But even at that, she deserves your respect... For dividing the workload, could your father be the provider if he had to be a housewife? Or because your mother didn't bag or complain, you do not realise how tiring her duties were? Your father did...

Lolz for every woman working, there are 20 more sitting down at home.

And should we talk about their selfishness in contributing to the home they Soo much 'love'?

I mean the "my money is my money while your money is our money" geng.

Certainly it's not the men who don't 'love' their kids that keeps all his money to himself.

Most women work not to serve the family but for their self.

Tmberwolf1:

Are you purposely trying to be ridiculous? Society doesn't celebrate mothers?

This is my point genius...

Society is made up of family units... Society isn't a place or thing, it's many people... In other words, a collective group of people... Meaning, if society celebrates mothers, it's the millions of children who prefer their mothers... Are you to criticize them for their opinion? You aren't in the position to choose for others who's a better parent... Make yours and leave...

A man is always seen as unfit to raise kids, even though statistically speaking, single fathers make better parents than single mothers,

Are you high on sh**? What single fathers? Compare to single mothers, how many fathers are out there taking care if their children alone? Most single fathers are widowers... And most of these men REMARRY... Unlike single mothers who usually remain single...

Also statistically speaking, women are two times more likely than men to abuse children!

And fathers are therefore ten times more likely to sexually moleste the children... What's your definition of abuse? You just said that fathers are the disciplinarians, aren't they abusing the children? Or using leather belts and whips is a better opinion than the mother's scolding?

The law court almost always sides with the mother even though it is a documented fact that a child raised without a father is more likely to join gangs, do drugs, grow up in poverty, female children are 7 times more likely to become pregnant as teenagers without a father.... [quote] False stats again to suit your stupid argument...

Atleast, 80% of the children in Nigeria are raised by a father and mother, it makes me wonder why nearly every Nigerian man is a potential ritualist, kidnapper, cannibal, rapist, terrorist, meth smoker, drug pusher, etc... And the women are mostly prostitutes?

Ask yourself another question, where are the fathers of these so-called children raised by their mothers alone who are liable to join gangs, do drugs, blah blah blah?

When a court gives custody, it's because the parent awarded is examined and deeded fit to raise the children... And usually, gender comes into play... Because women are feminine, they are preferable...

And the fathers, nothing stops them from being in the lives of their children... Except most choose to runaway like cowardly degenerates who can't handle their responsibilities... Blame the woman?


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With all these things known as documented facts, the law court still sides with the mother, even when the child doesn't want to be with her.
Like I said, no one likes the narc, and in almost all situations of parenting fathers are the disciplinarians.

Stop spewing sh**... Most fathers aren't pyschos with whips... The reason children prefer their mothers is because of how close they are to them... Even little kids who've never been spanked... How many fathers know how to change the diapers of their children? How to mix their food, the right temp and texture? How many fathers know the name of their creche teachers?

Being distant as a father is considered a masculine trait... That's the point...

Even after the mother beats the child, the child would cry, wipe it's tears and still choose the mother...

It's not about discipline... But availability... And emotional support

Datboredberry:
This is my point genius...

Society is made up of family units... Society isn't a place or thing, it's many people... In other words, a collective group of people... Meaning, if society celebrates mothers, it's the millions of children who prefer their mothers... Are you to criticize them for their opinion? You aren't in the position to choose for others who's a better parent... Make yours and leave...

Are you high on sh**? What single fathers? Compare to single mothers, how many fathers are out there taking care if their children alone? Most single fathers are widowers... And most of these men REMARRY... Unlike single mothers who usually remain single...

And fathers are therefore ten times more likely to sexually moleste the children... What's your definition of abuse? You just said that fathers are the disciplinarians, aren't they abusing the children? Or using leather belts and whips is a better opinion than the mother's scolding?

I can't do this anymore, I'm stating empirical facts, you are arguing purely based off emotions.

accolades to all women in the country, right from our ancestor (adam)

Premiumwriter:


Lolz for every woman working, there are 20 more sitting down at home.

And should we talk about their selfishness in contributing to the home they Soo much 'love'?

I mean the "my money is my money while your money is our money" geng.

Certainly it's not the men who don't 'love' their kids that keeps all his money to himself.

Most women work not to serve the family but for their self.

Again, most newly married women act selfishly... But mothers mostly love their children more that their husbands and themselves... Isn't that why everyone avoids single mothers?

A middle-aged woman does her part... Even if it's being a petty trader, running along the road risking their lives, women are still making an effort... Don't forget that these women are uneducated... And with jobs that require intensive manpower, men are more qualified...

As for the younger women, aren't they working in banks? And the hospitals? The Universities? Your stats is off! You mean, in the typical workplace, there are 200 men and 20 women?

Even in Nigeria, a cultural, conservative third country, the employment gap between men and women is nearly closed...

Again, if your mother does this... Sure...

But the women frying akara and zobo, the tailors and hairdressers, the mechanic... Most use their meagre earnings to keep the family... They are the housewives remember, do they give the money to the man who's never gone to the market?

No present day man can cater to the welfare of his family, give them a comfortable life, in Nigeria especially without financial support... No minimum wage can do such... and most men are unemployed... So their chicken change after working menial jobs definitely ain't the only reason their children feed...

Don't try to massage your ego... Most married men work with their wives...

Tmberwolf1:

I can't do this anymore, I'm stating empirical facts, you are arguing purely based off emotions.

What facts? From your head? Back your facts with proof... Stop throwing tantrums

Tmberwolf1:

"And the women who are working? They aren't married? Or in your father's workplace, it's only men and ghosts...?"
In most homes, the man is the bread winner, while the mother stays at home to take care of the kids. In cases where the roles are reversed, the kid tends to bond more with the father than the mother.

because the father is performing the roles a typical woman would... And that's my point which your proven... It's not about gender... But the available parent, which is usually the mother...

"What ever sacrifice your father made for you, other children's mothers are making them..."
Based on the statistics, you are f*cking lying! The number of women that die on their jobs, is like piss in the ocean compared to the number of men that die on their jobs.

And the average number of men who die while working?

Since the vast majority of men don't die, how about you mention another sacrifice most can actually relate to?

Datboredberry:


Again, most newly married women act selfishly... But mothers mostly love their children more that their husbands and themselves... Isn't that why everyone avoids single mothers?

A middle-aged woman does her part... Even if it's being a petty trader, running along the road risking their lives, women are still making an effort... Don't forget that these women are uneducated... And with jobs that require intensive manpower, men are more qualified...

As for the younger women, aren't they working in banks? And the hospitals? The Universities? Your stats is off! You mean, in the typical workplace, there are 200 men and 20 women?

Even in Nigeria, a cultural, conservative third country, the employment gap between men and women is nearly closed...

Again, if your mother does this... Sure...

But the women frying akara and zobo, the tailors and hairdressers, the mechanic... Most use their meagre earnings to keep the family... They are the housewives remember, do they give the money to the man who's never gone to the market?

No present day man can cater to the welfare of his family, give them a comfortable life, in Nigeria especially without financial support... No minimum wage can do such... and most men are unemployed... So their chicken change after working menial jobs definitely ain't the only reason their children feed...

Don't try to massage your ego... Most married men work with their wives...

if you are trying to rub this on me, you're wasting your time.

Everywhere and Nigeria in particular, the man contributes 90% of the family upkeep.

Most working women contribute nothing to the family and worst still, they still expect the man to give to them from his earnings.

Women contribute virtually nothing to keep the home going as far as finances is concerned.

Stop De whine my nipples

Premiumwriter:
if you are trying to rub this on me, you're wasting your time.

Everywhere and Nigeria in particular, the man contributes 90% of the family upkeep.

Most working women contribute nothing to the family and worst still, they still expect the man to give to them from his earnings.

Women contribute virtually nothing to keep the home going as far as finances is concerned.

Stop De whine my nipples

Says the unmarried man on Nairaland... You didn't raise up decent points, you're just being a bit**...

Give the average married Nigerian man, who lives below the poverty line, the sole responsibility of financial supporting the family 90% and he would jump into a lagoon!

But on the internet, men are all suddenly Obi Cuban? In your mind, they are so comfortable, they can afford to marry a woman who's contributing nada...?

Bro, you're whining your own nipples...

Datboredberry:


Says the unmarried man on Nairaland... You didn't raise up decent points, you're just being a bit**...

Give the average married Nigerian man, who lives below the poverty line, the sole responsibility of financial supporting the family 90% and he would jump into a lagoon!

But on the internet, men are all suddenly Obi Cuban? In your mind, they are so comfortable, they can afford to marry a woman who's contributing nada...?

Bro, you're whining your own nipples...

Nigerian men living below poverty lines are the worst because their wives earn little to nothing.

That's why you actually see them jumping into the lagoon

Daddy is important
Mummy is important

Tmberwolf1:

Imagine the nonsense I just read! Do you think it's easy to slave away for hours on end just to make sure your family is comfortable? Do you know how many men lay down their very lives just to secure the future of their families? People grow distant from their fathers, not because of the nonsense you wrote, but because the disciplinarian is usually less liked and most men are the disciplinarians in parenting.

The way God will BLESS YOU brother...

Premiumwriter:
wetin this one De talk?

Your father is the sole reason why most of you are alive, went to school and actually become what you are today.

We've all seen many kids, once they lose their father that automatically means an end to their school except an uncle steps in.

Recieving hugs from mummy counts but getting those cloths, money for toys, hospital bills, school fees and everything else counts more from fathers

TELL THESE PEOPLE PLS!!

Premiumwriter:
My father lost his life last year while hustling for our Christmas holiday.

Worst still, he never slept in the house for over a month while paying the bill, a day to his coming back, he was shot.

Of course, he sometimes spend weeks or months out of the house. When he returns we see him happy to come back home but he often seem like a stranger to us.

But deep down, we knew where all the food, book, school fees, house rent and Christmas clothes money was coming from.

Respect to the men who lay down their lives every day for children who one day may still hate him, no love is greater than that.

Even God says "no love is greater than this: that a man lays down his life for his friends"

BTW he was a marine police officer

I am so sorry for your father brother, damn!! That man sacrificed ALL!

PUSSYHOE:






Na him get romance section o

This is funny brother, come on, its not like that

TRP IS GOLDEN!!

Premiumwriter:
lolz.

This one say women no De abandon kids.

Women bond chemically with their kids. When they gave birth, their body releases a chemical called oxytocin (I think) which help them love their kids.

Fathers on the other hand choose to love their kids.

Reason why it's easier for them to kill or be killed for their kids.

This is totally new information.

freshkpomo:

I don't want to be bias o, the society to some extent did not lie... I have seen so many men run away with another woman and abandon their first wife and children,but it's rare to see woman do same.. the last one that happened in my hood some years ago, the woman died of high blood pressure....

Father's dey try o, but mother have this special bond with their children and I believe it might be created during breastfeeding or something.. There is one particular tribe is South south ( I nor go mention name o) their women are the men, them like ogogoro well well and can marry ten wives they will not care for... there is another tribe in South South too I just discovered recently that their women are their men too, their own work na to service tow tow morning and night, while the wife use same tow tow to work and feed them ( nor be me talk am o, na their women dey call them out for their tribal groups every time )

Shut Up

Enigma2049:



Trash as usual. Mothers bond with their kids? Same mother's who abort them and leave them in trash bins.

I told the idi0t to just shut up.

Truvelisback:
Sometimes, it depends on who showed more concern abt our faring. Let me be blunt here. To me, my father fall my hand. It was my mum who did all most the caring. From my opinion, some men are the cause. If treat ur children well, when the grow up, they will treat u well too. Although, there some women who are very good at turning the heart of their children against their father for selfish reasons.

Thats what i'm picking off your comment.

Premiumwriter:


Lolz for every woman working, there are 20 more sitting down at home.

And should we talk about their selfishness in contributing to the home they Soo much 'love'?

I mean the "my money is my money while your money is our money" geng.

Certainly it's not the men who don't 'love' their kids that keeps all his money to himself.

Most women work not to serve the family but for their self.

Guy you keep giving bars, you totally understand this thread. Thank you man!

Did that female up there just say divorced mothers don't remarry

TheGidRedpiller:
WHY ARE ONLY THE MOTHERS GLORIFIED
Like seriously, why?!

Our fathers are the holy-beacon of a stable family, the main providers through and through, the ultimate sacrificers but yet, nobody sees them!!
Most mothers are stay at home biittches, they literally do nothing, they just wait for the man to come home and start spending all he went out through out to day to hustle and yet, society deems it fit to elevate and glorify her simply because she has a womb and a human being actually came off her, something that was also the co-doing of the father though!

At this point, i think everything just pisses me off nowadays, i will just be all by myself and start increasing in breathing pressure because all of a sudden, i'm angry!

Fathers are the major constructions of a stable earth, they sacrifice EVERYTHING FOR EVERYTHING!!
The people old enough to remember the last world war will give you a hint about the height to sacrifices men can actually make!

Still Typing...

Fatherhood is a thankless job.

Datboredberry:
Most men sacrifice for their children? Sure, but compared to the mother what extra mile do they go?

Paying the bills? Taking loans? Being deprived of sleep just to raise funds for the children's school fees? Having to hustle all day to make a little cash so the family can feed?

In most cases, both parents do this... The pressure and struggle isn't for the man alone...

Apart from this, the reason mothers are held higher is because of their active roles in the lives of their children...

Mothers are closer to their children... They take care of them, listen to their problems, go out of their way to solve them, etc...

They are the ones the school teachers know, the doctor's appointments calenders, the laundry cleaner, the cook, the parent we report the mean folks to, best friends we tell our secrets to... Our moral and emotional support...

Most men as fathers believe they should be distant... That it makes them better role models because good fathers don't reduce themselves to be shoulders for their children to cry on or be their gossip mates...

For example fathers step into the living room and the children are expected to be 'respectful' and leave... The children go off to be with the mother who welcomed them no matter how busy or tired she is..

Kudos to every good father... But paying the bills alone doesn't make you a good parent if you can't even remember you child's birthday or the name of the person the like... Or you can't prepare their favourite dishes...

Alaye STFU and get ur ass off this thread asap! Ur opinion isn't needed here.

Truvelisback:
Sometimes, it depends on who showed more concern abt our faring. Let me be blunt here. To me, my father fall my hand. It was my mum who did all most the caring. From my opinion, some men are the cause. If treat ur children well, when the grow up, they will treat u well too. Although, there some women who are very good at turning the heart of their children against their father for selfish reasons.

And there are also some foolish children.

TheGidRedpiller:
Imagine me breaking myself in half for years so you can go to school, only for you to shower your mother with gifts and more money mostly behind my back and then you forget me?!! WTF?!

Bro everything you typed is 100% correct

freshkpomo:



I believe if the father was responsible enough those kids won't be in trash cans.... If the kids are useless to the mother are they also useless to the man who owns the semen?

So what were those women doing with irresponsible men in the first place?

kwaso2:
Daddy is important
Mummy is important

Fathers are much more important than mothers.

ekitimanalways:
Fatherhood is a thankless job.

So why should motherhood be?