Hello everyone. I've been a member of this great forum since 2020 during the lockdown. My post might be lengthy but please I need genuine Advice.

I'm a nice guy, smart, light skinned, tall and handsome. I'm a graduate in Architecture from AAU. I used to be a very good guy (I love to give nd help people in the little way I can), I'm also an introvert but all of a sudden I have changed. Well I don't smoke or drink but I'm a chronic and hardened womanizer. I still wonder how I was able to avoid girls back in my Uni. days despite been good looking, My roommates back then tried to get me a girlfriend but I was always running away.

My womanizing all started 2018. From 2018 till today (4 years now) I have 72 body count. If I lie May Almighty God strike me dead. I know the names of all the girls I've slept with, where and when we had sex. It all started 2018 when I obeyed the clarion call (nysc). The categories of guys I mingled with really changed me, since then it has been history. I can sleep with 5 different girls in a month, the moment we have sex like 3 times I will jst ghost you. You won't look attractive to me again.

I've never slept with married women, But I've slept with 2 single mothers, while the rest are all single ladies, 5 girls has done abortion for me, I've never treated Gonorrhea, STD or any form of sexual infections and diseases, I've never slept with fat girls, I don't care if the girls I've slept with are into runs or hook-up but I've never visited a brothel in my Life.

Anytime I go to places like church, Bank, Justrite, GB, shoprite e.t.c. I must toast a girl, collect her contact and you know the rest. My New year resolutions was to learn how to save money and retreat to my old good and decent self. Since Jan 1st, so far so good, I've been staying strong and observing my new year resolutions until the devil strike again .

On Monday earlier this week, I received a call from a female friend in Lagos (I've once had sex with her when I visited Lagos 2019), she said she wanted to attend a wedding here in Delta state, so she begged if I could accommodate her and her cousin sister, that she would be coming on Friday {yesterday}. "My thoughts was nothing will happen since she coming with her cousin sis" so I told her to come. Afterall I will leave both of them to sleep in my room while I sleep on the couch in my sitting room becus I live in a room and palour self contain. It well furnished and AC.

As at 10:30pm We were all watching TV, her cousin sis was feeling dizzy so she went to the room to sleep {mind you, i was also expecting her to fellow her cousin sis to the room immediately, but she was still watching TV}

She started saying I forget about her bla bla bla....Before we knew it we had sex on the couch in my sitting room....Omo I just dey vex. As in...I dey Para gan!!, I broke my resolution !! She's leaving tomorrow and I know they're chances we're gonna have sex today when she's back from the wedding . Pls is there anything like New Year, New Me?? I really don't understand. It's not working for me.

Please Nairalanders Help me. I dying slowly oo , I doubt If i would clock 30 yrs old with the way I'm womanizing, Last year I was looking so thin and dry, not that I don't have food to eat or money to spend but it was because of too much sex. I can't give account on how I spend my money becus of womanizing. GOD is really merciful, sometimes I think maybe it's because my hands are open (seriously I help people alot both men & women) that's why he always give me a second chance to change.

You're free to call me names or insult me. But I'm not lying and I seriously need help. Please how do I stop womanizing?

NOTE I earlier stated I live in a room and palour self contain. Here is my sitting room and that's my bedroom over there, that's the babe phone charging on my couch where I had sex with her Last night.

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Pussy was made and designed for smashing, you're doing what is right and what will eventually land you in heaven.

Stop living in regrets for doing what is right.. you'll be a great failure if you stopped smashing does lovely pusssies coming your way. The only thing you should be afraid of is STDs , but I believe you drill with condom.


You can make a new year resolution about anything, but it's so irrational and height of stupidity for a man to make a new year resolution not to Bleep pussy or womanize again, when you know that by default men were to womanize, stopping to womanize and fuckiing is a grievous sin that may land you in hell .

May you be forgiven for this gross ignorant.

Mattew 5:30; And if your right hand causes you to stumble, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to go into hell.

My dear, cut the mamba and I assure, you will be fine.

I couldn't read this epistle... Nice crib...

Brighton1:
Hello everyone. I've been a member of this great forum since 2020 during the lockdown. My post might be lengthy but please I need genuine Advice.

I'm a nice guy, smart, light skinned, tall and handsome. I'm a graduate in Architecture from AAU. I used to be a very good guy (I love to give nd help people in the little way I can), I'm also an introvert but all of a sudden I have changed. Well I don't smoke or drink but I'm a chronic and hardened womanizer. I still wonder how I was able to avoid girls back in my Uni. days despite been good looking, My roommates back then tried to get me a girlfriend but I was always running away.

My womanizing all started 2018. From 2018 till today (4 years now) I have 72 body count. If I lie May Almighty God strike me dead. I know the names of all the girls I've slept with, where and when we had sex. It all started 2018 when I obeyed the clarion call (nysc). The categories of guys I mingled with really changed me, since then it has been history. I can sleep with 5 different girls in a month, the moment we have sex like 3 times I will jst ghost you. You won't look attractive to me again.

I've never slept with married women, But I've slept with 2 single mothers, while the rest are all single ladies, 5 girls has done abortion for me, I've never treated Gonorrhea, STD or any form of sexual infections and diseases, I've never slept with fat girls, I don't care if the girls I've slept with are into runs or hook-up but I've never visited a brothel in my Life.

Anytime I go to places like church, Bank, Justrite, GB, shoprite e.t.c. I must toast a girl, collect her contact and you know the rest. My New year resolutions was to learn how to save money and retreat to my old good and decent self. Since Jan 1st, so far so good, I've been staying strong and observing my new year resolutions until the devil strike again .

On Monday earlier this week, I received a call from a female friend in Lagos (I've once had sex with her when I visited Lagos 2019), she said she wanted to attend a wedding here in Delta state, so she begged if I could accommodate her and her cousin sister, that she would be coming on Friday {yesterday}. "My thoughts was nothing will happen since she coming with her cousin sis" so I told her to come. Afterall I will leave both of them to sleep in my room while I sleep on the couch in my sitting room becus I live in a room and palour self contain. It well furnished and AC.

As at 10:30pm We were all watching TV, her cousin sis was feeling dizzy so she went to the room to sleep {mind you, i was also expecting her to fellow her cousin sis to the room immediately, but she was still watching TV}

She started saying I forget about her bla bla bla....Before we knew it we had sex on the couch in my sitting room....Omo I just dey vex. As in...I dey Para gan!!, I broke my resolution !! She's leaving tomorrow and I know they're chances we're gonna have sex today when she's back from the wedding . Pls is there anything like New Year, New Me?? I really don't understand. It's not working for me.

Please Nairalanders Help me. I dying slowly oo , I doubt If i would clock 30 yrs old with the way I'm womanizing, Last year I was looking so thin and dry, not that I don't have food to eat or money to spend but it was because of too much sex. I can't give account on how I spend my money becus of womanizing. GOD is really merciful, sometimes I think maybe it's because my hands are open (seriously I help people alot both men & women) that's why he always give me a second chance to change.

You're free to call me names or insult me. But I'm not lying and I seriously need help. Please how do I stop womanizing?

NOTE I earlier stated I live in a room and palour self contain. Here is my sitting room and that's my bedroom over there, that's the babe phone charging on my couch where I had sex with her Last night.

First & foremost if your story is true or not, you need to surrender totally to Christ is not by going to church ,
Secondly you asked the holy spirit to guide & do away with anything that would make you go back , everything comes from the mind ,you just have to make up your mind ,I pray God will help you in all ramifications.

hmmm

Animegirl:
Mattew 5:30; And if your right hand causes you to stumble, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to go into hell.

My dear, cut the mamba and I assure, you will be fine.

Exactly! Preach! Cut the mamba!

Datboredberry:
I couldn't read this epistle... Nice crib...

See this very foolish boy with hairy balls o. Because the guy said that he's a nice guy and a cheerful giver you're now complementing his apartment. You think you can ever scam him?

Anigreat:



Pussy was made and designed for smashing, you're doing what is right and what will eventually land you in heaven.

Stop living in regrets for doing what is right.. you'll be a great failure if you stopped smashing does lovely pusssies coming your way. The only thing you should be afraid of is STDs , but I believe you drill with condom.


You can make a new year resolution about anything, but it's so irrational and height of stupidity for a man to make a new year resolution not to Bleep pussy or womanize again, when you know that by default men were to womanize, stopping to womanize and fuckiing is a grievous sin that may land you in hell .

May you be forgiven for this gross ignorant.

Anytime I read your nonsense comment, I do wonder if you're a real human being that is so normal or you have a little cracked on your brain.

@op you see alcohol drinking, smoking, womanizing, gambling and masturbating, if you're addicted to any of them listed above. It's only God that can intervene and deliver you. Well, you need to delete all those girls contact from your phone and stay away from those friends of yours.

Me I still dey battle with drinking and gambling, I don't think i can change expect Jesus come down from heaven and deliver me.

Something must kill a man jare!!

Anigreat:



Pussy was made and designed for smashing, you're doing what is right and what will eventually land you in heaven.

Stop living in regrets for doing what is right.. you'll be a great failure if you stopped smashing does lovely pusssies coming your way. The only thing you should be afraid of is STDs , but I believe you drill with condom.


You can make a new year resolution about anything, but it's so irrational and height of stupidity for a man to make a new year resolution not to Bleep pussy or womanize again, when you know that by default men were to womanize, stopping to womanize and fuckiing is a grievous sin that may land you in hell .

May you be forgiven for this gross ignorant.

Bro you might not understand what I'm going through.

The day I knew my Life is finished. There was a time, like around July last year. I was seriously sick, I was having severe pains all over my body, I had malaria, I couldn't even move my body.
There was this girl that came to check up on me. Despite been sick I was still trying to make advances towards her.
Instead for the daughter of Jezebel to advice me to stop and encourage me to get well first, rather she was asking me how do I want it, you know you're sick before I knew it she don dey moan like possessed cat wey them send from coven.

Infact I would've died that day, I treated the malaria for over a month. But yet I didn't learn my lessons.

Ur story sounds like me before 2017...I f**ked whomever I liked so long as she ain't married or in a brothel or raped,kept counts,smash thrice and moved on,no heartbreaks,no infections etc, it's a crazy life but it helps you av total control of ur future relationships cos nothing u haven't seen and it's hard for a lady to play you but truly truly I say into you; one good girl is worth a thousand bi***es. It's good u wanna change but don't freight cos u will fail more times in ur quest to conquer womanising but once u start rejecting some opportunities to smash a hoe,you are on the right path...btw you are doing well.

Anigreat:



Pussy was made and designed for smashing, you're doing what is right and what will eventually land you in heaven.

Stop living in regrets for doing what is right.. you'll be a great failure if you stopped smashing does lovely pusssies coming your way. The only thing you should be afraid of is STDs , but I believe you drill with condom.


You can make a new year resolution about anything, but it's so irrational and height of stupidity for a man to make a new year resolution not to Bleep pussy or womanize again, when you know that by default men were to womanize, stopping to womanize and fuckiing is a grievous sin that may land you in hell .

May you be forgiven for this gross ignorant.

I'm certain that if op was a woman, you won't write this rubbish. If it was a lady that made this post you people will critizice, condemn, attack and call her all sort of demeaning and degrading names.

Nonsense!!

Typical example of brolosho

Na Infections and smelly pussy i de fear

Pussy come I smash

And move

Get married fast,its the only solution in sight. Look for a reserved,prayerful and churchy lady to marry, she will help your sexually possessed life.If your type marry a loose lady like yourself then it will be like from frying pan to fire

Mehn this is beyond local man logistics

Bros op e no easy.. My guy been dey run that shit but now e Don change.. No worry.. You try as you Don only knack one.. Nah small small you go live the lifestyle...

All the best...

Iyaebe:
Get married fast,its the only solution in sight. Look for a reserved,prayerful and churchy lady to marry, she will help your sexually possessed life.If your type marry a loose lady like yourself then it will be like from frying pan to fire

I can't even keep a serious relationship sef talkless of marriage. If I'm not around and you tell me my Girlfriend came to look for me. I will ask you "which of them? please describe her?“

I wish I could

If you ask her out(enter a relationship) with her), then technically you didn't break your new year resolution that much abi she is not girlfriend material

Brighton1:
I can't even keep a serious relationship sef talkless of marriage. If I'm not around and you tell me my Girlfriend came to look for me. I will ask you "which of them? please describe her?“

I wish I could

It's all in your mindset, take a decision and stand by it,you can decide to start been churchy,it helps a lot.Go to church and listen to preachings, it purifies your soul,your battle isn't beyond you,but be ready to fight it.Don't just sit down to take decisions without practically working towards it.

you need a female councilor

Addiction is always difficult to get rid off. You can't do this alone nigga, without the help of holy spirit. You will keep on falling, because the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak. Can't you get yourself more busier than before with something reasonable. An idle hand is the devil's workshop.

For me I will say you need to first and foremost decide in your mind you really want to stop it, you can kick a woman out even if her body is so alluring and she is offering it to you, self control comes into play, the decision to change is where the journey begins, you have to think through and through and decide, in this life the moment you are being successful or look good women won't stop coming to you, you attract them naturally, self control matters, you control your d! ck, it shouldn't control you.

Anigreat:



Pussy was made and designed for smashing, you're doing what is right and what will eventually land you in heaven.

Stop living in regrets for doing what is right.. you'll be a great failure if you stopped smashing does lovely pusssies coming your way. The only thing you should be afraid of is STDs , but I believe you drill with condom.


You can make a new year resolution about anything, but it's so irrational and height of stupidity for a man to make a new year resolution not to Bleep pussy or womanize again, when you know that by default men were to womanize, stopping to womanize and fuckiing is a grievous sin that may land you in hell .

May you be forgiven for this gross ignorant.

may God pls bless you for this inconvinent truth,I was even expecting him to say that he fvcked the cousin as well,don't have self pity you are in the prime of bachelor hood,when I was like you I fvck not less than 4-5 girls a week,I once fainted a day a fvcked 3 different girls, nothing is wrong with you,just make sure you spend what you can afford to lose on women and stay safe from STDs,you are even careful and lucky to aviod STDs,I contracted STD more than ten times during my wild years and a fractured penis that landed me in the hospital,it was a miracle when I wanted to marry to be free from AIDS,hmmmm!no be small tension waiting for that result,my op don't pity yourself, pvssy is designed and meant to be fvcked, and so shall it be.

It's not easy to deal with addictions, especially womanizing.

I suggest you:
1. Attend a catholic church, confess your sins and pray to God for forgiveness

2. Don't invite any female friends to your house again, if you do, you will be tempted to have sex with her.

3. Focus more on your job. You're an architect and I know how constructive you job is.

I believe you will over this addiction.

You gave the devil the chance, though new year resolution is hard to keep and maintain if you're not determined. Next time,if you don't wanna be a bad friend, you can pay for their accomodation in a hotel for two days since they came for wedding or you leave the house for them and stay with a male friend.That thing you wanna stop is where your temptation will always come from. Pick up your pieces and move,do not go back to that old life

You need help, just good to a bible believing church they will pray for you and help you

You're addicted to sex and you need professional help. My married friend was like you whilst single and has carried this irresponsibility into marriage.

He sleeps with different women every single day. I pity his family honestly. Never has time for them, forever in a hotel after work amd weekends. Seek help now before it's too late.

72 body counts? Dang. Do try and reveal this to your future wife before marriage, so somebody's daughter will know what she's getting herself into and that she's about to marry a community dic. In the meantime, learn some self-control and go for deliverance.