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Boogyman557:
Holly Gram

am ATTRACTIVE but 2much SMOKING of WEED don make my LIPS BLACK


Even d MAMA CHINELO dat sells the WEED even save my number as HELL FIRE..



WTF MAN

Jackanda1:
I understand that good looks definately have advantages, but this thread will only discuss the disadvantages.

I am also aware that been less attractive has drawbacks. The fact that I am discussing the problems of beautiful people doesn't mean ugly people don't have problems. Let's focus on one aspect today.
I have a relative who is very handsome. We grew up, lived and schooled together (nursery-university). We are very close. The points in this thread are from observation.

For some reasons let me add: He was diagnose with anxiety and depression. He had low self esteem and was mostly a loner.

1.People are mostly insecured and intimidated by good looks. So they tend to react defensively against, subdue and humiliate you.

Its the same thing when people know you have a first class grade. You'll hear all sorts of degrading comments. Insecure people people will do anything to put u down, if you've got something they don't have.

2. Most people think life is easy for you,you're getting away with things and you don't have difficulties. So they deliberately decide to treat you with disdain. They think they are bringing about justice.

3. People stereotype you to be arrogant, proud, vain, stuck up, opportunist,mean,dumb etc anything you do or say, people find a way to relate it to the judgement they already have about you.

Thats why people say things like ' Does he have a good character' when discussing about gudlooking ppl.

4. Good looks +shyness is a curse. People don't expect you to be shy. You quietness &social inhibition could be interpretate to mean pride and arrogance.

5.Having a conversation with most people is like acting a poorly scripted movie. It seems people don't know how to act normal around you.

6. People are not free around you. They don't play or joke with you like everyone else. So youre mostly isolated

7. Since people donot expect you to have difficulties. They may be unsympathetic towards your problems,mock you behind your back and even use your trouble against you.

8. You are expected to be confidence, charismatic, have leadership skills, Rich and have a good life. Inability to meet up can cause metal breakdown.

9. You become the center of attention. Topic of discussion and gossip. Your business becomes everyone's business.

10. Even if you are in the right side of an argument. People will side against you.
It seems odd siding you.

11. Fine girls play over hard to get. Most average looking girls are intimidated and see themselves below your league

12. You can't joke or play around with people. They hinge on every word you say and may interpretate it to mean mockery or catty put downs.

13. Uneccesary aggression from fellow gender. Jealousy?

14. People think u are shallow, dumb, incapable etc. If a good looking person were to contest for election, most people won't vote for him. You're never taken seriously.

15. Everyone seems to easily believe anything bad about you and are willing to unite against a common enemy- you.

16. Most people donnot offer you help because they think you have it all.

17.You cannot talk about the problems of attractive people, no matter how badly it affects you.

18. Is it true people pay you complements often?
Why should they? So that your head will grow bigger that it's already is?

19. If your boss is intimidated by your looks, you might not get that job , no matter the qualification.

20.There are people who judge you negatively but not to point of butting head with you.

So they decide in their mind: ' I won't pay any attention to anything he says', I won't give him any validation or pay him any complements etc.
This gives them since of victory over you.
You might notice they make a big deal of ignoring everything you do or say

21. People make a big deal about your looks even more you do.

22. If you recently grew into your looks, you find most of your friends ghosting you.

23. Because of this problems, you can be forced into isolation

24. You are mostly ignored in a social group. Nobody speaks to you. You'll feel like a goat among lions.

25. People feel they need to compete and win against you. You might notice them unneccesarily showing off what they have that you don't have.

26. Most people act like they have gotten a life time achievement when they embarass, insult and put you down. They seem so happy and fulfilled. Pathetic

27. Most girls who like you but are intimidated by your looks act very aggresive to get your attention. This is usually counterproductive.

28. Since pple think everyone is kind to you, they decide to be the special ones that will make your life miserable.

29. Saying no to a request, cancelling an apointment can take a toll on people's emotions. They feel you are rejecting them or you are proud.

30. I don't know for fine girls, but fine boys tend to reject favors from people becos it makes you feel indebted to them. It also make u seems weak or like a woman. Even lalasticlala and seun can attest to it.

31. You are afraid of loosing your looks since its the only thing people value about you.

TolaniLuv:
Loud it!

This post is 80% accurate.

Same for women and men. I know many women who have to deal with this everyday.

Unnecessary competition with you when you don’t even care about them.

The most crazy part is girls will think you have a lot women in your life. So, they always give you cold attitude at work .

Jealousy is sometimes you can avoid that your friend will constantly tell you to keep away from their gf or wives like you care about the insecurity.

Thanks ops! But, Fine boy with no money face this problem everyday so u have to hustle harder you won’t notice all this. You won’t need a boss or need ugly or insecure boss or weak women. Make money and let them catch up with your shadow same goes to all women going through this.

Klass99:
Hmm......interesting. So, how would you rather girls/women act around you?

Klass99:
Abeg share, my ears are itching for gist.

Uncle96:
They probably dont sound real but they are ..

I've been drugged by a girl who found me attractive but I don't like her , she did it so I can make love to her , I put myself together, left her house and went home..

Got over 5 women who ended being so obsessed, those who fought thier friends did, those who did jazz did , those who almost committed suicide in my name did all because I wanted a breakup .

Constant stalking and bugging . 16-25 daily missed calls for weeks using new numbers after blocking random ones. There was a day a particular girl used over 15 phone numbers to call me after blocking hers.

Rape allegations because I wanted break ups, this and that .. omoo

Sleeknigga:
bros I faced this problem at a point in my life I heard to wear worn out clothes to damp my looks bcus ppl always side talk that am showing off, bt now I no care I no send anybody I go flex make dem e pain dem

Uncle96:
They probably dont sound real but they are ..

I've been drugged by a girl who found me attractive but I don't like her , she did it so I can make love to her , I put myself together, left her house and went home..

Got over 5 women who ended being so obsessed, those who fought thier friends did, those who did jazz did , those who almost committed suicide in my name did all because I wanted a breakup .

Constant stalking and bugging . 16-25 daily missed calls for weeks using new numbers after blocking random ones. There was a day a particular girl used over 15 phone numbers to call me after blocking hers.

Rape allegations because I wanted break ups, this and that .. omoo

syntekelite:
Thats the problem with good looks if u aint got the humility to handle it, things like what you just said will be normal to you..but aint notin special in banging a yahoo boy's spiritual f**k toy,for you to think its special , u aint that fine. real good looking men run from the opposite sex after some level of maturity and wisdom.. e get reason...

Steve0979:
Wahala dey o!everybody na fine boys n girls on dis tread now.na who com ugly?

syntekelite:
Lol.. just use 2face as a point in case....then u will grab my meaning..

jaxxy:
That’s a kinda fair list except for saga. He only has a nice body. Lol

victooman:
l know what am saying, even the ones with the so called self esteem still have that hidden pride, they dont know how to handle the attention and most a times feel as if they are doing u a favor by relating with you.
if you are good looking and down to earth, l mean your actions and inactions potrays humility u will make a lot of friends

Thatssobeyonce:
Big sean and bob re dark too, they were the ones i could think of then lol. The list is long

Chno:
Ogbeni small small dey lie for here

Fyie:
Aswerrr...To be fine boy plus introvert na big time curse.

U be fine boy gals go dey feel insecure around u...na to just knack go abeg.

U be fine boy na so u go dey draw unnecessary attention and hate.

U be fine boy...yo boss, neighbors, people go dey put eyes on u anytime u dey talk to any gal, thinking something dey go on between Una..

I no dey even follow pesin wife laugh or talk for long ..I dey cut my lane before dey carry plank wipe me.

Imagine say u be fine boy u no come get money...chai see finish

Jackanda1:
I understand that good looks definately have advantages, but this thread will only discuss the disadvantages.

I am also aware that been less attractive has drawbacks. The fact that I am discussing the problems of beautiful people doesn't mean ugly people don't have problems. Let's focus on one aspect today.
I have a relative who is very handsome. We grew up, lived and schooled together (nursery-university). We are very close. The points in this thread are from observation.

For some reasons let me add: He was diagnose with anxiety and depression. He had low self esteem and was mostly a loner.

1.People are mostly insecured and intimidated by good looks. So they tend to react defensively against, subdue and humiliate you.

Its the same thing when people know you have a first class grade. You'll hear all sorts of degrading comments. Insecure people people will do anything to put u down, if you've got something they don't have.

2. Most people think life is easy for you,you're getting away with things and you don't have difficulties. So they deliberately decide to treat you with disdain. They think they are bringing about justice.

3. People stereotype you to be arrogant, proud, vain, stuck up, opportunist,mean,dumb etc anything you do or say, people find a way to relate it to the judgement they already have about you.

Thats why people say things like ' Does he have a good character' when discussing about gudlooking ppl.

So they decide in their mind: ' I won't pay any attention to anything he says', I won't give him any validation or pay him any complements etc.
This gives them since of victory over you.
You might notice they make a

31. You are afraid of loosing your looks since its the only thing people value about you.