Fafesot:
My uncle, who is well learned and financially bouyant got married to a lady who barely finished secondary school. At first, our family members felt indignited toward this, but when they saw he was insistence on getting married to her, they let them be. They've been married for ten years now and we do visit them.. One thing I observe about them is; they are happy and also play like small children.

Aside this, I've seen many well-educated men who decided to take less educated or non educated ladies as wife and has always yielded a happy Union. I do say this; is there something about learned men going for less educated ladies.
As for me, I can marry an illiterate. You must be educated as I am..

Let's hear your opinion and experience..

Men are dying who has time to marry an arrogant wife because she thinks she studied medicine or she is a graduate?

chatinent:
Some educated ones na see finish.

Bad boy I know what you mean

You Cant Be Two Things At The Same Time!

Every Man Likes A Woman Who Can Take Care Care Of The Children And The Home.
The ones You Called "uneducated" mostly Have The Qualities!

Chuckles,
It is like the two sides of a coin,
some uneducated women are ill-mannered while some educated women are cultured, flip the coin you get the opposite.
but so you see it is like a two sides of a coin, thank you.

FERNANDEZISBACK:

You see how daft you sounded?
I was only trying to show you how brainless you always sound when you insult women...

Why bitter when I mentioned your mom na? E dey sweet una to dey insult women on here but I asked a very direct question you are already lost..

If you say only a fool will love a Nigerian woman or marry one cos of love then your pops must be a bigger one for following your mom*@ ..you can scream as much as you want I don't care..

Next time think before you speak..he loves his own mom but quick to insult mothers here.. blockhead..

Why are you like this?

Women bashing here and there, everyday.
Is this how jobless our men have become that they have nothing else to talk about other than women matters?
Is there any day that passes without a degratory topic(s) on women being pushed to the front page?
When did men start nagging so much?
Did ya'll grow up in broken homes or what?
If you're an alpha male like you claim, why can't you take charge of your relationship or marriage and stop whining all about?
Because majority of the men i know or became acquainted with at any point in time have not given me the vibes i get from the men we have presently and in the recent past on nairaland.
This brings me to the conclusion that most of them are either jobless and unproductive bitter people or kids pretending to be men.
Nawa o

GoodHardDick:
Educated ladies are arrogant, disrespectful and full of pride. They hardly submit to a man unlike an uneducated lady who's just the opposite.

Gbam!

Animegirl:
I know poverty stricken Redpillers will condemn educated and successful women soon.

Well, they could marry because of love, others no money to afford successful and independent women (Redpillers frustration), while some men marry to control illiterate women.

Is money needed again to afford a woman who already has lots of money??
Women sef..
If we say that you lots don't even know what you want, and that all of you are the same., una go begin to see it as insult.

BobbieZion:
From the few responses u have read from the women,OP there u have your answer from their comments.

U will think they have sense from the beginning,till they speak.....

Nigerian girls are heartless...

Nigeria girls are useless all of them

men looking for easy scam, even if Dem cheat no complain

biodia:

Dear Friend reading this post right now this 11.pm modified post. I am appealing to you With all sincerity and i am on my knees pleading, please hear my cries I am in distress right now. Things have not been easy for me and my family since i lost my job, We have been drinking garri for days now. My kids are now looking so skinny and they are crying all the time, i am so frustrated right now. I beg you in the name of God please help us, no matter how little to buy food and water. We have been starving and cannot afford real food for days now. I am kneeling before you pleading to your kind heart , please help us with any amount' please. 06 28 0924 60 Gtb. I pray as you help us may you never lack anything in life.

I know this is likely a format but on the slight chance that it is actually real, why do you have kids when you have no plans of actually taking care of them?.
The world is cruel place.

100% of divorce happens between educated couples. 0% of divorce happen between educated husband - uneducated wife. The truth is, the uneducated ones don't know what their rights are so divorce is not found in their dictionary (if at all they have one). They're the real for better for worse because they practice it in totality. But an educated wife would want a divorce when your d!ck no size again. So, she'd capitalize on anything as an excuse to quit.

When someone is not bright, poor or have inadequate money to purchase education and have nothing to offer, what else!that's not to marry now and give birth for d man , what will she be waiting for is it to wake up and always eat? Nothing is adding value to her life except if she marries.

Jennyclay:
what clearly says about me uhh? Didn't you read my post? Am I a bad girl??

We're talking A you're bringing up W

Are you sure you're mentally okay?? I blame myself talking to a mentally derailed human being like you.

You seriously need help oo.... MAD MAN!!

Exactly! When you are overthinking and second-guessing something as vital as marriage with someone you have been ‘dating’ for 2 years clearly shows what over-exposure can do. You are clearly the alpha in the relationship because you insistently hammered on him begging and pleading every time. You clearly don’t show the level of respect that a wife is supposed to have for her soon-to-be husband.
By the way, what man would want to deal with a foul-mouthed, defensive and aggressive woman like this? I can sense the aggression even communicating with you virtually. Wow!
Thank you for proving my point and the point of many men around here with this attitude.

Uneducated girls are more submissive than the educated ones.

Men need respect and submissive and be real,

What are the uneducated chasing? Why should they not get married on time when they have little or nothing to brag about?

wagzy37:


Exactly! When you are overthinking and second-guessing something as vital as marriage with someone you have been ‘dating’ for 2 years clearly shows what over-exposure can do. You are clearly the alpha in the relationship because you insistently hammered on him begging and pleading every time. You clearly don’t show the level of respect that a wife is supposed to have for her soon-to-be husband.
By the way, what man would want to deal with a foul-mouthed, defensive and aggressive woman like this? I can sense the aggression even communicating with you virtually. Wow!
Thank you for proving my point and the point of many men around here with this attitude.

So, because I clamored for peace to reign, I have turned to an aggressive and foul-mouthed lady??

Sir please book an appointment with a doctor in psychiatric hospital...Honestly you need help.

Don't quote me again.....Non-entity like you!!

One of the reason why educated men always marry uneducated women is because the uneducated women is like an average Hausa man. She does not really think and what so ever you tell her is the truth, but the educated one, no no no....

Animegirl:
I know poverty stricken Redpillers will condemn educated and successful women soon.

Well, they could marry because of love, others no money to afford successful and independent women(Redpillers frustration), while some men marry to control illiterate women.

Lol your comment is hilarious. So men should run away from uneducated ladies abi.

So called Successful and independent women are usually filled with pride and have been Brain washed by western world to feel entitled.

RPG2020:



Check your richest person for your town how many schools certificate he get

oya no go school...tell your kids not to go to school ....with this mentality i wonder where we will reach

Al hear to read

Because they are NFA, people with No Future Ambition, except marry and procreate and populate the world.

Jennyclay:
So, because I clamored for peace to reign, I have turned to an aggressive and foul-mouthed lady??

Sir please book an appointment with a doctor in psychiatric hospital...Honestly you need help.

Don't quote me again.....Non-entity like you!!

May I add ‘deluded’ to the list? You have been hurling insults with every response hence, my reference to you being foul-mouthed and aggressive. You’re supposed to be educated with some understanding of communication and decorum right?
P.S You don’t tell me what to do. I’m not your weak, spineless, beta fiancé. And I’m not even insulting him. Just feel sorry for y’all.

Like charges repel each other while unlike charges attract each other.

nextstep:
I wonder what of other people's uncles who have married their well-educated university sweethearts, who have also been happily married for 10 years.

And what of the uneducated families who argue and fuss every day in face me I slap you?

In other words, this survey of "I've seen..." is woefully inconclusive, as we've seen every combination of education with varying levels of marital bliss.

I know, people will jump on the "educated girls are arrogant" bandwagon, which is actually a poor reflection of the people making the point. A man may marry somebody of lower status so he can be unchallenged. Marriage should be about equals (with each having their own role to play). The lady's humility is purely a function of economic circumstance. Men too are surprisingly humble if somebody else is responsible for their economic wellbeing.

As a man, be nice to your partner, be fair, be yourself humble, and don't act as her lord. Ladies, the same applies to you. That's what makes marriages work. Not the difference in socio-economic status.

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well said.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Boys on here are scared of an educated woman cos they know she wouldn't tolerate nonsense from you..

They hate women power..you are looking for a woman you can use as you want huh.. una go cry tire..

Boys... right?


Not men....

....I ain't scared of anyone just because he or she is financially rich......

...If I get attracted to a financially rich woman....,is it to show I'm a failure



If she's also attracted to me even when I ain't as financially rich as she is...., the rest is for us to discuss.,.....we should be able to define the relationship such that we won't have to deceive ourselves.

2022 and Nairaland still basks under an intellectual ceiling.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BkbNlE_NTiU

mvem:
oya no go school...tell your kids not to go to school ....with this mentality i wonder where we will reach

School is not made for everybody

Educated ladies marries who they want, while an uneducated ones marries who want them. The difference is clear.

wagzy37:


May I add ‘deluded’ to the list? You have been hurling insults with every response hence, my reference to you being foul-mouthed and aggressive. You’re supposed to be educated with some understanding of communication and decorum right?
P.S You don’t tell me what to do. I’m not your weak, spineless, beta fiancé. And I’m not even insulting him. Just feel sorry for y’all.

oooh!! You this small boy leave me please.

I don't even know why I am wasting my time responding to you when you are a sickos and it's obvious you need to check your brain before enter market.