Polynek:
If at all the story is true
I suggest you meet your sister and rub mind with her and also tell your family members about the man's intention.
There response will determine your next move.
Handle it with wisdom so dat ur sister won't see you as a betrayal
Wishing you all the best

For her to be confused on issues like this, show she is a betrayal...why on earth will she comes up here to tell us she is confused...this is the right time for her to make things work between her sister and her husband...this gender never seem to amaze me

JONNYSPUTE:
.... Please can you just stop embarrassing yourself ?
You are not wiser than everybody here.

When did I say I was wiser than everyone?

ASHAAAAAAAAAWOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

HUUUUSBAAAAAAAND SNAAAAAATCHEEEEEEEEEEEEER

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

Bloody backstaper hypocrite all this while you have been eyeing him I told your sister but she did not believe me. You are one of the reasons they separated and why the man is unwilling to return. But mind you there's is always a pay day husband snatcher

Thunder kill u for there.

Alaganature09:


For her to be confused on issues like this, show she is a betrayal...why on earth will she comes up here to tell us she is confused...this is the right time for her to make things work between her sister and her husband...this gender never seem to amaze me

don't mind the bloody husband snatcher

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Keep the story to yourself..next time learn to address an issue maturely not spewing nonsense..or did you not read what you said..

Why say she's responsible for her sister's marriage failure?you spoke in a very immature way and you are here talking about me being immature..
Pls she needs mature advice not your kind who are too quick to conclude negatively..

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

You are nothing but a betrayal.

infogenius:


U're 30 and surprisingly with lack of sense. Accept his proposal at ur own risk. It's obvious u're the most likely reason y his marriage to ur sister failed.
Better look for ur own husband and leave ur sister's husband alone.

Oh!
She lacks common sense for real.

Even a 16 yr old would know better.

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

Even if you agree your family will never agree. It's a thing of shame to marry the divorced husband of your blood sister.

Am sure your the reason why he separated from your sIster at first, now both of you are cooking up plans to get married abi?

I hope ur the last girl cus he will dump u for you younger sister and will continue till he finishes you useless village girls

Even the catfish I ate last night get Sense pass you

If you try it they will say you are a witch and they will put the blame of the problem he has with your sister on you

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Talk na little boy..no be only mouth you get it anything else..
You think you get word for mouth huh?abeg get yourself out of my mention..

yes I agree, am a little boy, a little boy with the ability to see wrong and condemn it. how am I even sure you are not a bot. from page 1 to page 13, only you tackling everybody.it shows the rate of moral decadens in the society.

OP said she's 30.

2022 might just christened Redpill to the world.

chatinent:
Sometimes, it is best people avoided relationships with the exes of any of their fam members.


His being nice is not a reason! Anyone can become nice to get what they want. A responsible man wouldn't marry one sister, leave her and start wanting her sibling.

It looks like payback.
Would your sis ever understand you are genuine? Wouldn't she think you were the one who pulled the strings behind the scenes of her marriage failure?


Don't let age give you a reason to do what you'll never like if it were you. There are many men!

mature contribution indeed

infogenius:


U're 30 and surprisingly with lack of sense. Accept his proposal at ur own risk. It's obvious u're the most likely reason y his marriage to ur sister failed.
Better look for ur own husband and leave ur sister's husband alone.

I for talk say whether I no dey naija again, the first few comments sounds like people from overseas.
This is a typical Nigerian response to this kind question.

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Now your long talk makes no sense..when has it become a crime to ask for advice?
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You that is sensible, don't you think that you are more immature for posting such a stupid comment? I can see that you are the devil that supports her, now go ahead and sponsor their marriage, make thunder from heaven fire the both of you. Nonsense.

Samuelriano1:


yes I agree, am a little boy, a little boy with the ability to see wrong and condemn it. how am I even sure you are not a bot. from page 1 to page 13, only you tackling everybody.it shows the rate of moral decadens in the society.

Yeah?

Your thought is wicked, how could u ever thought of having an affair with a man that separated from ur sister, let alone thinking of getting married to him? You better take away that devilish thought from ur mind, they are not even divorced, and even if they are, must u marry a man dat divorced ur sister? Is he d only man in dis Niger? U better kill that thought, before u cause enemity between u and your sister...

I just need one honest answer, have people done it?quote author=NovesaTillie post=109582111]Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal? [/quote]

how can ur sister's husband wish to marry you and he is not yet divorced and even though he is,
isnt that a dirty game?

YorubaKing:

Ok?

PoliteActivist:
Consult your sister and listen carefully as to the reason why the relationship had to end, why she couldn't stay. Such things tend to repeat

This is wat u need.

He may act the same way with you.

If you make such decision you are a great betrayer to your family and humanity

PoliteActivist:
Consult your sister and listen carefully as to the reason why the relationship had to end, why she couldn't stay. Such things tend to repeat

A very wise response.

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Then that shows you ain't sensible tho..
Grow up married man and stop coming here to show the world how half witted you are..

The way you were bashed and dragged today is just giving me joy

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

You must be a cursed person to get yourself entangled in such a mess. If you are sensible you shouldn't get closer to such a man. Except you are the reason why they are separated

PoliteActivist:


Yes, I'm comming up with the scenarios because you are so emphatic. Unless you know the full story, don't be so emphatic. Some sisters stopped being sisters long ago - mortal enemies.

U are not reading and it doesn’t matter the number of scenarios you come with it ..

...There is no scenario where it’s appropriate for a woman to marry
her sister’s husband while she’s still alive and the family is trying to reconcile them....including revenge...

If revenge were the case..she won’t come to ask if it’s okay...her hatred and vindictiveness would be her drive or motivation


She herself knows in her heart something is wrong here....that’s why she’s asking and looking for reasons why she should do it...
She even mentioned she’s 30, being one one reasons...she just desperate and looking out for selfish herself

Alaganature09:


For her to be confused on issues like this, show she is a betrayal...why on earth will she comes up here to tell us she is confused...this is the right time for her to make things work between her sister and her husband...this gender never seem to amaze me

Actually u are correct bro, maybe she needs pples advice b4 she ll decide her next step.
Remember age is not on her side again
So don't blame her entirely

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Then that shows you ain't sensible tho..
Grow up married man and stop coming here to show the world how half witted you are..

Will you just shut that gullible mouth of yours already!

Haakeem:
They way you were bashed and draged today is just giving me joy

Exactly and I gave each one a response so smash your head baby boy..