Tired2022
You problem comes from toxic masculinity. There's a part of your brain that demean women most especially normal day to day lady as not up to your standard. That part of your brain every lady you meet or see who doesn't conform with your (standard you set in your brain) as not-too-good for you.

You need to start re-programming your brain to see normal street lady as the real thing and the prostitute as the bad ones.

But to break the cycle. You need a girlfriend. To get one I would advice to start initiating conversation with ladies in everywhere you go. Bus, road, reception anywhere. And always do follow up.

You can also try fasting to spiritual distance yourself from that act.

Baba419:
I feel you bro, battling the same

I think I can help you

Having sex with prostitutes makes you and them one. It’s deeper than you think. A prostitute is always having sex with numerous men, and for that, you’ll do same with numerous prostitutes unending.

My guy enjoy your life no time to check time


Some will die without smoking
Just like your case
Some will die without money that's why we have thieves

Abeg dey Banga dey go

Tomorrow nor sure for Us

I would suggest you stay away from alcohol for a start, get a family member, relative or friend to stay with you.
Then you can start getting yourself involved in extra activities that would take your mind off sex e.g committing yourself to God’s work.

Maxymilliano:
Deliverance

na wetin i cary for mind ooo

Tired2022:


I live in alone in a 2 bedroom apartment. I never bring prostitutes home. Everything must happen in the hotel. I live a very secluded life.

Seek divine intervention

Just quit your way and get married. But before that be sure you are diseases free.

Lmao � dude you are so WILD u get mild o I will never fvvck a wh0re without protection. Never!

Simran94:

Marriage doesn’t stop Sex addiction, in fact it makes it worse because he might end up raping his wife one day from how he pointed out that no woman is safe around him because he can’t control his urges.

it can if he is married to a sex addict like himself, the no woman is safe around him is a phrase which even him can control

you can't overcome the habit by your self will bro you really need help and it starts with sincererity now that you're fully aware you need help, I'll advice you walk up to a real man of God and tell him your plight let him pray for you and subject yourself to the ordinance of God, flee from all the dirty spots try to saturate your heart by purging it with With word of God, control what you watch, what you hear and what you think, all this things have a way of sending a wrong signal to your soul Ave thereby corrupting your heart.

HAhaha...
You are not ready to stop yet. When you are ready, you will stop. You don't need people's advice to know whats good for you. Did anybody advice you to start with the habit? As long as you keep thinking the solution is outside of you, you will keep going on the rampage.
Don't worry, sooner or later nature will answer your call, and you will have to dance to the music you have composed.

The best advice for you is to get married to one of the prostitutes.

Then STD for don kill u nah....
How come u never mention contacting any STD......
Fuvcking 35 prostitutes without protection



Haba........I no say ur story is fake, but it get as hin be...

Henon:

Punctuations are very important in English language.

but you understood the grammar here

Tired2022:
I'm a scientist, so I know I'm clearly addicted. I just had to create this account to stay anonymous because what I'm about to spill is so shameful to me. Even worse, is that I don't know what the end will be because I lack total control of my third leg.

Alright guys, my dick is my only problem right now. In fact I feel so depressed and traumatised.

I have everything going well for me, I make enough money to buy just anything moderate. I have not been to the hospital for over a decade because the need never arised.

So what's my problem? I can't answer that question because I'm so confused. I know I'm addicted to prostitutes and I haven’t been able to tame this dick of mine.

I'm a very shy guy, I find it hard to socialize with men not to talk off the opposite sex. So, I started with masturbation which lasted over a decade. Then I started making good money, I felt masturbation wasn't what I want, that I had to stop it.

I started visiting prostitutes. Its over 5yrs now, and all I want is to Bleep them all. Yeah, that's how I feel. Bleep all the women, yet I can't even approach one. So, I go for the easy way, prostitutes!

My biggest problem right now, isn't that I'm so addicted to prostitutes or spending money (over 70k every month), but I have had 35 prostitutes without protection. I'm so mad right now because I just bleeped a public toilet without protection. It's the only reason I decided to share this with you all. I'm sufferingggg...............

I have decided to get a girlfriend, I wish to marry next year, but I'm so ashamed, I don’t deserve any woman. Apart from the prostitutes I had without protection, I have had sex with 102 prostitutes in total. And I'm just 33yrs. Gosh! I feel so dirty!

I'm so obsessed with women, and I feel masturbation is the culprit. I fear more that I may not stop even if I have the most beautiful girl on earth by my side. I read the story of a lady who claimed her husband was obsessed with prostitutes in Canada, it shocked me so hard.

Is there anyone who has faced same predicament as mine? How did you win? No woman is safe with me, not even minors because I can't control this dick of mine.

Without alcohol, prostitutes are never attractive to me. So, I must take some alcohol to be in the mood.

Last night, on my regular routine, after drinking alcohol, I met this chubby lady. She was so sexy. I told her exclusively, I find it hard having sex without condom, that I only wanted her to give me a handjob. I pay well, so this girls know me already, it's a fight to have me in their room.

She gave me a Mouth Gig which I wasn't okay with, but I felt save to some extent. After giving me Mouth Gig for a long while, I didn't reach climax. I started mastubating, hoping to reach climax. Still it didn't happen. The lady was already like, f××k me without condom, but don’t release inside. I was contemplating in my mind, Gosh! Not again. Eventually, I reasoned, f××k it! I had her without protection and it took less than 5 minutes for me to reach climax.

This is exactly the same scenario that plays out in all my shameful adventures with these women. And I'm so feld up right now.

I can go on and on, but I don't like writing long epistles. Gosh! I have sex evey 2 days! I can't even go just 1 week without sex. Although I haven’t masturbated in the last 5 yrs, addiction to prostitutes is killing me. How do I even stop this whole sh××t? I feel suicidal.

Please note, it took me a whole lot to share my problem here. I won't take it funny with anyone who says this isn't real. I just want your honest opinion (castigation or advice), please state it. If you don't have anything to say, please and please keep your mouth shot.

I want more opinion on my predicament. Thanks!

I feel for you. There are battles that just seems bigger than one. You feel helpless in it. First though; since you don't have a girl that will feel betrayed if you don't marry her, don't get into marriage yet, as u will punish the woman with ur lifestyle.
I am sure u are very convinced it's a high risk lifestyle, especially the chance of contracting serious disease like HIV. This chance is just one encounter away.
It's good you want help. It's an achievement on the part of getting free. Never stop wanting to rid yourself off the lifestyle.
I notice with horror that it's not just the sex but also the feeling of conquering different girls that fuel you. You even keep a catalogue. You know the exact numbers. It's a serious situation you are in.
You will notice I don't have a specific solution as though I have never done prostitute or masturbated before, but I have issues with wooing and having sex with different girls. I have done 8 already this January. It drains me of my little finance, but I also feel helpless.
I enjoy it kinda...I don't feel like I am very motivated unlike you to stop yet, though I know it's my main problem.
Just keep wanting to stop and seriously want to. Consider the disease aspect and consider that if you defile a minor it might be the end of you. Continue to tell yourself why u have to stop and pray.
Something crossed my mind again. Tell a mature friend that isnt inclined to that lifestyle. Seek out good friends...male. Be intentionally about it.
Then find a good social, educational or sport activity, one that is rigorous and demanding to fill your mind with.
May God help us.

U need to give your life to Christ. With the help of the Holy spirit, you will overcome your addiction.

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chronique:

Important you mean.

Yea. I just modified the error.

You are addicted .... have sex with prostitutes at least twice a week ... for the past 5 years .... and have slept with 102 women. Mr Scientist ... is it you don't know how many weeks in a year? ... or really bad at Math? This you should really be ashamed of.

From your story bro, I could tell that your biggest problem isn't the prostitutes, but alcohol. You stated that without alcohol, they're never attractive to you. So why not try to win your battle over alcohol as you plan on getting yourself a girlfriend. My thoughts though.
In all, whatever you do, suicide should never be an option.

E b lik say this one na ashi wen dey vex say d guy call Dem public toilet���

Ulunne777:
What you dont understand is that you are the same as the "public toilet" maybe more.
With your body count,you are a public sewage pit.

Why penis no get mileage metre?

Your predicament is psychological and somewhat spiritual. If you can make your kind of woman your girlfriend, your lust for prostitutes will go down a considerable bit. And also, most of these prostitutes use charms on their vaginas, so you'd always want to come back. You've been enchanted, and money hasn't really helped. If anything, money helps fuel this habit. I'm not under the illusion that you can just stop this thing easily, but we can start from somewhere.

For a start, we need to limit the amount of women with which you have sex with. Since you can't talk to a random girl, among all the prostitutes you bang, make one some sort of a pseudo- girlfriend. She has to be the one who excites you the most and you enjoy sex with. Also, make her understand you just want to keep having sex with her alone (if she's sure she's the only one you sleep with, chances are that she would treat you good). Whenever you're high, she should be your go to person. You have to make yourself understand that you can be contented with just one woman. This is not the best advice, but it is the most practicable.

Hopefully overtime you conquer your fear for women, and you find a good girl you can call your own and enjoy sex with.

Richy4:
I don't understand honestly.... because it was as if I read some contradiction....Maybe u should clear it for me....

<<<You said that you were a shy person... then I read something like this
<<<.....No woman is safe with me, not even minors because I can't control this dick of mine.....

How does that work for a shy person? because that statement for me is scary ...

That statement means that u can get any woman...bed them...Remember u are shy, u can't approach a woman, that was why u were going for prostitutes.....So what's that statement all about? because that statement is synonymous with someone that got rape mindsets and tendencies....

No one is safe with him, was just to emphasize how he can't tame his whilly.

You think it is an addiction, but in your post, you lean towards obsession.


Your problem is neither an obsession with women or an addiction to prostitutes.

Your problem is multifaceted. It looks like it stems from inferiority complex, which is simply how poorly a value you have placed on yourself.

You think no woman would fancy you so you try to get around that problem by using money to buy sex, rather than fixing your inferiority compex and wooing a woman.

Like I wrote earlier, this is issue is not obsession, but inferiority complex, which is why even with money, you still find it difficult to approach a woman of your fancy, but rather avoid admitting your poor self concept by going for prostitutes.

You need to see a psychologist.

God's greatest gift to mankind is Will. The will to choose. This is the reason the devil always target people's will. Once you lose your Will to devil he gains control over you.
OP,it is disgraceful losing your will to prostitute. You are now a slave to them because they have control over you. If you are ready and determined you can get your Will back by killing the demand of flesh through renewal of your heart by feeding on the words of God.

Tired2022:
I'm a scientist, so I know I'm clearly addicted. I just had to create this account to stay anonymous because what I'm about to spill is so shameful to me. Even worse, is that I don't know what the end will be because I lack total control of my third leg.

Alright guys, my dick is my only problem right now. In fact I feel so depressed and traumatised.

I have everything going well for me, I make enough money to buy just anything moderate. I have not been to the hospital for over a decade because the need never arised.

So what's my problem? I can't answer that question because I'm so confused. I know I'm addicted to prostitutes and I haven’t been able to tame this dick of mine.

I'm a very shy guy, I find it hard to socialize with men not to talk off the opposite sex. So, I started with masturbation which lasted over a decade. Then I started making good money, I felt masturbation wasn't what I want, that I had to stop it.

I started visiting prostitutes. Its over 5yrs now, and all I want is to Bleep them all. Yeah, that's how I feel. Bleep all the women, yet I can't even approach one. So, I go for the easy way, prostitutes!

My biggest problem right now, isn't that I'm so addicted to prostitutes or spending money (over 70k every month), but I have had 35 prostitutes without protection. I'm so mad right now because I just bleeped a public toilet without protection. It's the only reason I decided to share this with you all. I'm sufferingggg...............

I have decided to get a girlfriend, I wish to marry next year, but I'm so ashamed, I don’t deserve any woman. Apart from the prostitutes I had without protection, I have had sex with 102 prostitutes in total. And I'm just 33yrs. Gosh! I feel so dirty!

I'm so obsessed with women, and I feel masturbation is the culprit. I fear more that I may not stop even if I have the most beautiful girl on earth by my side. I read the story of a lady who claimed her husband was obsessed with prostitutes in Canada, it shocked me so hard.

Is there anyone who has faced same predicament as mine? How did you win? No woman is safe with me, not even minors because I can't control this dick of mine.

Without alcohol, prostitutes are never attractive to me. So, I must take some alcohol to be in the mood.

Last night, on my regular routine, after drinking alcohol, I met this chubby lady. She was so sexy. I told her exclusively, I find it hard having sex without condom, that I only wanted her to give me a handjob. I pay well, so this girls know me already, it's a fight to have me in their room.

She gave me a Mouth Gig which I wasn't okay with, but I felt save to some extent. After giving me Mouth Gig for a long while, I didn't reach climax. I started mastubating, hoping to reach climax. Still it didn't happen. The lady was already like, f××k me without condom, but don’t release inside. I was contemplating in my mind, Gosh! Not again. Eventually, I reasoned, f××k it! I had her without protection and it took less than 5 minutes for me to reach climax.

This is exactly the same scenario that plays out in all my shameful adventures with these women. And I'm so feld up right now.

I can go on and on, but I don't like writing long epistles. Gosh! I have sex evey 2 days! I can't even go just 1 week without sex. Although I haven’t masturbated in the last 5 yrs, addiction to prostitutes is killing me. How do I even stop this whole sh××t? I feel suicidal.

Please note, it took me a whole lot to share my problem here. I won't take it funny with anyone who says this isn't real. I just want your honest opinion (castigation or advice), please state it. If you don't have anything to say, please and please keep your mouth shot.

I want more opinion on my predicament. Thanks!

bro i greet you thank god you realize yourself
the dicck is not the problem but the brain ,if the brains dnt think it u wont go there bro try as must to control your brain just as you do to masturbation.
the good thing is that you are getting married its another life entirely
i like the fact that u use the words I just bleeped a public toilet without protection
it tells you how horrible it its and the diseases in it
bro its a new life a new level
marry your wife,draw closer to god and be the father of your unborn kids
i greet you bro
life is sweet dnt let some sexual disease hold you down bro
i hail

RPG2020:



where in Europe people dress from club to work

dude ask your friends oh! The wide life in here is beyond Africa cruise I'm saying based on what i have seen and my friends testimonies too Africa is still a learner to crazy wild lifestyle,infant we are just in kindergarten level oh!

Carchoice:
Having sex with prostitutes makes you and them one. It’s deeper than you think. A prostitute is always having sex with numerous men, and for that, you’ll do same with numerous prostitutes unending. The crave is now on the both sides. To break it down for you, whatever dwells inside a prostitute is now dwelling in you.

Solution? If you are a Christian, start fasting. Start with 7 days, increase it to 14 days. 6am to 2pm. Do this every month.

Sexual urge is like an appetite, it needs sex and also needs food to grow out of control. When you fast, you starve it.

When fasting avoid viewing seductive photos, porn, don’t entertain sexually active women. Rid your phone and WhatsApp of all the prostitutes you patronized. Don’t block but delete them. Occupy your mind with God and he’ll clean it from all sexual immoralities.

Try all these and give God the glory. I got saved.

Tired2022 you should take this guy's advice... He has your same experience. There was a thread he complained about being unable to say no to sex

1. Make it a matter of Prayer to God. Check type of friend you keep, because kind of friend you keep determine which direction to take in life.

2.Like someone says: "If your environment will not allow you to reach your definite purpose in life, change it". If where you live is the problem, change it.
Do not high on anything, such as alcohol, drug as these thing make improper behaviour/ habit appealing. Above all God will help you to break free.

heniford2:
dude ask your friends oh! The wide life in here is beyond Africa cruise I'm saying based on what i have seen and my friends testimonies too Africa is still a learner to crazy wild lifestyle,infant we are just in kindergarten level oh!

You must be living in East London or south east London

cococandy:


Not you calling prostitutes public toilet . The cognitive dissonance that it takes consider yourself better than people who are doing the same things you’re. Lmfao

Prostitutes are less of human than anybody, if you can sell your body for money, you're useless.