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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by FriendsAndFans(m): 11:18am On Jan 26, 2022
RaisedByWolves:
She is short and has a demonic character. The bitch old as Bleep too... Old as Bleep 35 years old short demonic character..Lord have mercy

Hahahah be like say she don show you shege grin
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by flange: 11:25am On Jan 26, 2022
Time
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Christian07(m): 11:28am On Jan 26, 2022
ironheart:
She told me her phone was bad, while she traveled to another stake for hook-up, blocked me on WhatsApp and was busy posting her hook-up escapades on her WhatsApp status. The muuumu didn't know i saved my second line on her phone.

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by EBEk101(m): 11:28am On Jan 26, 2022
Distance plus her saying she needs a man that can do house chores and wouldn’t complain and she hates cooking cuz it’s stressful
Like what the Bleep all the beauty of the babe just disappear

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Testimony1988(m): 11:33am On Jan 26, 2022
The main reason could be her character.
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by pocohantas(f): 11:33am On Jan 26, 2022
KayCee92:



Who told u she is single cheesy grin

Nigerian guys always know the marital status of their EXes. It is a talent. cheesy

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by jimmyolasun: 11:34am On Jan 26, 2022
nedekid:

Ok. If you say so.
But as I said the Ac was on and so the windows closed.
The only window opened was in the toilet.
So all the beans, edikaikong, iru, chilli, efo, rice well famented in her tommy and extruded as shit had a very overwhelming aroma in my room.
Not her fault? Guess so.
But if she had told me she was pressed, I would have switched of the Ac, opened the windows for her to do her thing. It wount have been a shocker to me.
The turnoff was the shock.

I feel you baba. Imagining fine girl wey person go dey reason say she no go dey shit or her fart go dey smell like deodorant. I don imagine how you go dey think how you go lick her from head to toe then you getting that kind shocker. Swears she go just ugly for person front . Because naa shiiit person go dey look if you dey see her

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Etuagievin(m): 11:35am On Jan 26, 2022
playapayaski:
Like you said, FEELING.
Love is not real, it's just a temporal feeling, like hate, happiness, sexual urges etc.. influenced by hormones..

Those quoting me talking about finding love someday n spending forever or whatever with the person.
Wake up
1. There is no forever, we all are going to die today or tomorrow
2. For the religious people, God loved n created the world including Lucifer, hell n all? His feelings never changed when Lucifer disobeyed, she he made hellfire? Oh it's just punishment for disobedience yes, but for ETERNITY?
LIKE I SAID, MY OWN OPINION, MY THOUGHTS. OH AND UNCONDITIONAL LOVE OF A MOTHER YET WE SEE ABANDONED DAY(S) OLD BABIES EVERYDAY? UNCONDITIONAL LOVE BUT YOU WANT TO MAKE EXCUSES FOR THE MOTHER NOW, BUT ITS SUPPOSED TO BE UNCONDITIONAL.
NO FEELING IS REAL ENOUGH TO BE CLOSE TO PERMANENT, MY OPINION.
Drop the EMOTIONS n think, reason with the BRAIN, GOD GAVE US FOR A REASON.
PEACE
. How do you feel when you lost a loved one, is that feeling not real? How do you feel when you see someone who's qualities/attributes appeal to you, aren't you fond of such one and wish to be closer to him? What if that person to a large extent continues to do what you like won't you show love to that one? Love like a plant need to be nurtured , otherwise it may fade. Love exist. But like other qualities It
needs your constant watering to grow

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Krexpah(m): 11:40am On Jan 26, 2022
Wen she won use billing kill me

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Ellexy: 11:45am On Jan 26, 2022
RaisedByWolves:
She is short and has a demonic character. The bitch old as Bleep too... Old as Bleep 35 years old short demonic character..Lord have mercy
Wetin be this grin grin grin
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Christian07(m): 11:45am On Jan 26, 2022
sukkot:
she started using mmkpiri mmiri

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Unrated900(m): 11:45am On Jan 26, 2022
Michelle70:
na Gods work.
My account was blocked till April, I had to open a new account but decide to catch cruise as a lady.
But being a lady isn't easy, despite the insults you'll receive daily, they will still not let ur email rest with over 20 DM's daily

Them no get Job
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Hassanmaye(m): 11:47am On Jan 26, 2022
CaptalnMitch:
She was as broke as a church rat but I loved her anyways.
Until I came to my senses and asked mbyself, "if I was broke and unemployed, would she love me"? That question killed my love for her.

No love for broke girls, go and get a fuking job
Hahahahhahah association of feminists will hate you for this, how dare you want to propose the ending of milking men dry?

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by nedekid: 11:47am On Jan 26, 2022
jimmyolasun:


I feel you baba. Imagining fine girl wey person go dey reason say she no go dey shit or her fart go dey smell like deodorant. I don imagine how you go dey think how you go lick her from head to toe then you getting that kind shocker. Swears she go just ugly for person front . Because naa shiiit person go dey look if you dey see her
You understand wella grin
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by badboyTee(m): 11:49am On Jan 26, 2022
She doesn't love me back grin

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Brownshoe: 11:50am On Jan 26, 2022
Dliquidmetal:
The feelings weren't reciprocal,so I gradually detached myself. I don't care how strong the feeling is, once I figure she doesn't feel the same way I move the Bleep on.
take

Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by PotatoSalad(m): 11:54am On Jan 26, 2022
ahnie:
His nasty altitude and frequent usage of negative words
Are you 12? undecided
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Chulluko(m): 12:09pm On Jan 26, 2022
Your doing well
Premiumwriter:
love is lust + caring.

Erotic love which we are discussing here is comes when a partner lust after the opposite sex in the initial stage and then grow to actually care about the person mostly due to attachment which is due to time spent together.

When a man and woman meet, they first lust after each other. They are consumed with this passionate desire for each other.

As they spend more time together, they form attachment, start wanting to spend even more time together, forming more attachments.

It is this attachment stage that makes people want to stay through troubles or run away if the attachment is not strong enough.

The lust stage of love can easily be created in the lab by stimulating the right side of the brain. But building the attachment part takes time.

So, if a man is lusting after a woman, he's only in the first stage of love. Given sufficient time, they will start developing attachments as they find the qualities they like.

If the time and quality are not enough, the lust burns out and they fall out of the mirage.

Which bring us back to this topic: what made you fall out of the initial stage of love you had for someone before developing attachments?
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Hassan88(m): 12:11pm On Jan 26, 2022
LIES
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Wawelexy(m): 12:16pm On Jan 26, 2022
FairlyUSEDpussy:


Ahhhhh.....
Fear God lol.......
Remember u used to be woman........did U turn man overnight?? undecided

Bursted!!!

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Lordofalmajiri(f): 12:19pm On Jan 26, 2022
She joined the olosho gang cool cool. And I hate olosho with passion. angry angry
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by petite626: 12:20pm On Jan 26, 2022
shyness.....................

the guy is so shy that he cant even communicate well except when he is chatting.

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by ukaface(f): 12:20pm On Jan 26, 2022
Great0ne1:

Ode! He is not gay, but practising self love, which is the greatest and most important love. You have to look after the body God gave you. That includes getting rid of negative energies and females that has no value
you're a nincompoop.

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Lordofalmajiri(f): 12:22pm On Jan 26, 2022
CaptalnMitch:
She was as broke as a church rat but I loved her anyways.
Until I came to my senses and asked myself, "if I was broke and unemployed, would she love me"? That question killed my love for her.

No love for broke girls, go and get a fuking job
Ogwuego , what about the prostitutes you patronize?? So you don't pay them abi.. and Abuja olosho no dey charge less than 20k
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Brownshoe: 12:23pm On Jan 26, 2022
ahnie:
His nasty altitude and frequent usage of negative words
like fvckkin too much?

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by segcymoor(m): 12:24pm On Jan 26, 2022
Premiumwriter:
love is lust + caring.

Erotic love which we are discussing here is comes when a partner lust after the opposite sex in the initial stage and then grow to actually care about the person mostly due to attachment which is due to time spent together.

When a man and woman meet, they first lust after each other. They are consumed with this passionate desire for each other.

As they spend more time together, they form attachment, start wanting to spend even more time together, forming more attachments.

It is this attachment stage that makes people want to stay through troubles or run away if the attachment is not strong enough.

The lust stage of love can easily be created in the lab by stimulating the right side of the brain. But building the attachment part takes time.

So, if a man is lusting after a woman, he's only in the first stage of love. Given sufficient time, they will start developing attachments as they find the qualities they like.

If the time and quality are not enough, the lust burns out and they fall out of the mirage.

Which bring us back to this topic: what made you fall out of the initial stage of love you had for someone before developing attachments?


Teacher...
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by KayCee92(m): 12:31pm On Jan 26, 2022
pocohantas:


Nigerian guys always know the marital status of their EXes. It is a talent. cheesy

grin grin
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by merits(m): 12:34pm On Jan 26, 2022
When she refuse to reciprocate.

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by merits(m): 12:35pm On Jan 26, 2022
When she did not reciprocate.

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Hassanmaye(m): 12:37pm On Jan 26, 2022
Michelle70:
She told me, "I see u as my younger brother"
Hahahahhahah
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Hassanmaye(m): 12:38pm On Jan 26, 2022
HopeNeverDies:
Damnn!!! I loved her then..

Not until she faked her kidnap.. Omohhh the matter long sotey Her dad brought policemen to our school... she and her elder sister planned it..,

That was in 100lvl days thou...
Fear that gender

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Viridis(m): 12:38pm On Jan 26, 2022
playapayaski:
Like you said, FEELING.
Love is not real, it's just a temporal feeling, like hate, happiness, sexual urges etc.. influenced by hormones..

Those quoting me talking about finding love someday n spending forever or whatever with the person.
Wake up
1. There is no forever, we all are going to die today or tomorrow
2. For the religious people, God loved n created the world including Lucifer, hell n all? His feelings never changed when Lucifer disobeyed, she he made hellfire? Oh it's just punishment for disobedience yes, but for ETERNITY?
LIKE I SAID, MY OWN OPINION, MY THOUGHTS. OH AND UNCONDITIONAL LOVE OF A MOTHER YET WE SEE ABANDONED DAY(S) OLD BABIES EVERYDAY? UNCONDITIONAL LOVE BUT YOU WANT TO MAKE EXCUSES FOR THE MOTHER NOW, BUT ITS SUPPOSED TO BE UNCONDITIONAL.
NO FEELING IS REAL ENOUGH TO BE CLOSE TO PERMANENT, MY OPINION.
Drop the EMOTIONS n think, reason with the BRAIN, GOD GAVE US FOR A REASON.
PEACE
Bro wisdom no go kill you you must be a direct defendant of Solomon

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