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Re: How Do I Make This Girl Stop Feeling Intimidated by Nobody: 9:39pm On Jan 24, 2022
Jeon:

you told!!

THEY ARE LIKE ALICE IN THE WONDERLAND cheesy


so I'm curious...
what is your birthday month?
don't be mad cry



MY HANDS NO DY OOH...

THEY SAID YOU SHOULD NOT LOVE ANY SOUL AT ALL APART FROM UR MOM AND SISTERS - UR DAD AND BROTHERS cheesy

I am unfortunate enough not to have a mum to cuddle at a very young age, my dad also has refused to produce female children, just pump males down before his demise (died before my mum) so what will I now love if I don't love women.

I am born on the 31st of may.

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Re: How Do I Make This Girl Stop Feeling Intimidated by Jeon(f): 9:46pm On Jan 24, 2022
AdeOri99:


I am unfortunate enough not to have a mum to cuddle at a very young age,
so sorry cry and be very strong and think less about it.. it is not easy to lose one parent.. SO SORRY.



i am born on the 31st of may.

I have cleaned the curiosity cheesy no wonder you said you are MANIPULATIVE.

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Re: How Do I Make This Girl Stop Feeling Intimidated by Nobody: 9:50pm On Jan 24, 2022
Jeon:

so sorry cry and be very strong and think less about it.. it is not easy to lose one parent.. SO SORRY.





I have cleaned the curiosity cheesy no wonder you said you are MANIPULATIVE.

No longer think about my parent.

Yes, I am manipulative, my career requires it, and I don't take advantage of people, just that if you are feeling intelligent enough to use me. I WILL SIMPLY TURN THE TABLE AND MADE YOU A FOOL OF YOURSELF.
Re: How Do I Make This Girl Stop Feeling Intimidated by Jeon(f): 9:54pm On Jan 24, 2022
AdeOri99:


no longer think about my parent.
OK

Yes, I am manipulative, my career requires it, and I don't take advantage of people, just that if you are feeling intelligent enough to use me. I WILL SIMPLY TURN THE TABLE AND MADE YOU A FOOL OF YOURSELF.

THAT WAS WHY I ASKED YOU FRom THE START.

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Re: How Do I Make This Girl Stop Feeling Intimidated by Volksguys1985: 10:08pm On Jan 24, 2022
How old is op? E be like juvenile in love o
Re: How Do I Make This Girl Stop Feeling Intimidated by Nobody: 4:58am On Jan 25, 2022
I knw the reason u are interested in that Girl. grin
OP. U be strong niqqa
when the ball is on ur side. Strike it hard smiley

my advice : pls dnt take my advice serious, same way ur siqnature said. grin


iflew wink
Re: How Do I Make This Girl Stop Feeling Intimidated by Dreytonisback(m): 8:22am On Jan 25, 2022
You never nack her
If she don collect ur gbola in full and use hand rub your gbola well well , she go get confidence pass u sef

Lights up my kpoli in peace

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Re: How Do I Make This Girl Stop Feeling Intimidated by na2016: 7:45pm On Jan 27, 2022
AdeOri99:


I mean I like a girl that can always challenge me not one that will always agree to anything I said "It's Super Boring

Not that she isn't intelligent enough to do so, but she is shying away.

OP: From your description of this babe here, if you like your life, u better keep her. Or do you prefer the slay mamas that will be challenging your sanity? Except if your definition of challenge is different from what I understand oo. I feel, if a lady asks you critical questions each time to help you make a better decision, that is different from someone saying "challenging". Challenging will always end in problems bro

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Re: How Do I Make This Girl Stop Feeling Intimidated by Nobody: 7:45pm On Jan 27, 2022
No long stories.m just create friendship with her. Be playful .. let there be flow.. na you go create am o. And thank me later.
Re: How Do I Make This Girl Stop Feeling Intimidated by KushLyon358: 7:46pm On Jan 27, 2022
I hardly help people broadcast but I think the forum is great
Aladdin153: The forum looks good
Re: How Do I Make This Girl Stop Feeling Intimidated by princeemmma(m): 7:48pm On Jan 27, 2022
then try soft hard method now
Re: How Do I Make This Girl Stop Feeling Intimidated by SeriouslySense(m): 7:48pm On Jan 27, 2022
grin grin, People are different, for instance, I love boring people, i don't actually need anyone to challenge me, because i am already challenging myself, and My mind always challenges me already, don't need another noise, since my head is like another universe grin grin grin

Since i have a universe in my head, what others call boring are actually interesting to me. She may not be un-intelligent, maybe she is distracted by her own little world., who knows.

B
na2016:


OP: From your description of this babe here, if you like your life, u better keep her. Or you prefer the slay mamas that will be challenging your sanity?

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Re: How Do I Make This Girl Stop Feeling Intimidated by naija4life247: 7:49pm On Jan 27, 2022
helinues:
How can we help gan gan

The lazy youth is jut confused
Re: How Do I Make This Girl Stop Feeling Intimidated by Newboss(m): 7:54pm On Jan 27, 2022
This one is definitely being manipulated.

This is how men sell all they have to please a girl. Don't do that to yourself.

Just keep fûcking her. Don't try to fix her. The toto is all that matters bro.

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Re: How Do I Make This Girl Stop Feeling Intimidated by SeriouslySense(m): 7:57pm On Jan 27, 2022
Newboss:
This one is definitely being manipulated.

This is how men sell all they have to please a girl. Don't do that to yourself.

Just keep fûcking her. Don't try to fix her. The toto is all that matters bro.
Re: How Do I Make This Girl Stop Feeling Intimidated by SeriouslySense(m): 7:58pm On Jan 27, 2022
I just love reading comments, i can imagine, every character in a micro universe. cheesy cheesy
Re: How Do I Make This Girl Stop Feeling Intimidated by SeriouslySense(m): 7:59pm On Jan 27, 2022
Dreytonisback:
You never nack her
If she don collect ur gbola in full and use hand rub your gbola well well , she go get confidence pass u sef

Lights up my kpoli in peace
Re: How Do I Make This Girl Stop Feeling Intimidated by padi94(m): 7:59pm On Jan 27, 2022
When them say leave small children Una no go gree
Re: How Do I Make This Girl Stop Feeling Intimidated by SeriouslySense(m): 8:01pm On Jan 27, 2022
Aha, makes more sense, you are classified as a gemini, an air sign, who wants to know a little bit of everything.

Watch your motives, make sure you know why you are doing what you do, and watch her motives, are both of you trying to dominate each other, She seems to have some reservations about you, or she seems very independent and A strong personality, although she may seem dull, but it may not be what we think.

AdeOri99:


I am unfortunate enough not to have a mum to cuddle at a very young age, my dad also has refused to produce female children, just pump males down before his demise (died before my mum) so what will I now love if I don't love women.

I am born on the 31st of may.

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Re: How Do I Make This Girl Stop Feeling Intimidated by MyExpression(m): 8:05pm On Jan 27, 2022
AdeOri99:


I mean I like a girl that can always challenge me not one that will always agree to anything I said "It's Super Boring

Not that she isn't intelligent enough to do so, but she is shying away.

We both know she doesn't align with you intellectually. The conversations that fires you up, is not found on her lips.

You'll never feel at the top of your game.

Ideological difference.

Build her up...if she doesn't submit to your guidance,let her go. Forever is a long time to be with who you're not joyful with.

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Re: How Do I Make This Girl Stop Feeling Intimidated by Nobody: 8:06pm On Jan 27, 2022
AdeOri99:
So I got this girl that I like, but I am having a hard time talking to her without making her feel timid. She even try as much as she could to hide her feelings from me, but it is hard not to notice.

We currently distance apart, so I don't get to see her physically, but even when we are seeing physically she had to put a lot of effort to respond to me. As an effort on my part, I had to soften up, invoke emotions and show her the weak side of me, which she appreciates and responds in like manner, she can even speak to me very confidently then, but when I begin to drift back to my normal self (not that I am not emotional, but trust me, emotions rob you of your productivity so I use it sparingly, most time I kill it). She begins to withdraw again.

Me, I like her very much, because she isn't demanding (I don't need to be checking up on her every time, and she can take care of herself also, she is even enterprising and her parent are rich, so she don't lack money) but I don't like it that she is not very confident while talking to me, whereas, she is the jovial type.

Mind you, I soften up a great deal to make her comfortable with me, which works until I get serious again. I can't remain soft because it will affect my productivity. I need other methods.

You are looking for ways to stop her from being herself?

Hopefully you don't come back in future with stories like "My wife doesn't talk at home. She is too boring"

It is very glaring before you now that you are dating someone who is very reserved. If you can't live with such personality you have enough time and opportunity to exit the relationship now.

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Re: How Do I Make This Girl Stop Feeling Intimidated by Farid24224(m): 8:06pm On Jan 27, 2022
OP my advice for you is that you should be kiafu with 9ja maggots... undecided
Re: How Do I Make This Girl Stop Feeling Intimidated by SeriouslySense(m): 8:07pm On Jan 27, 2022
That reserved personality may be an earth bound woman, who is very practical, but he is a very communicative person, probably.


I was thinking maybe he wants to feel secured, or he does not trust her, trust is built with time, being an intelligent man, he tries to pry into her person and wants to know more.

Being a fast thinker, who does a lot, and tends to lose focus, he needs, someone probably, who can compliment, when he loses focus.

She may also be herself and also a mirror.

Beloved03:


You are looking for ways to stop her from being herself?

Hopefully you don't come back in future with stories like "My wife doesn't talk at home. She is too boring"

It is very glaring before you now that you are dating someone who is very reserved. If you can't live with such personality you have enough time and opportunity to exit the relationship now.
Re: How Do I Make This Girl Stop Feeling Intimidated by SeriouslySense(m): 8:09pm On Jan 27, 2022
grin grin
Farid24224:
OP my advice for you is that you should be kiafu with 9ja maggots... undecided
Re: How Do I Make This Girl Stop Feeling Intimidated by iTearHerToto: 8:12pm On Jan 27, 2022
AdeOri99:


I mean I like a girl that can always challenge me not one that will always agree to anything I said "It's Super Boring

Not that she isn't intelligent enough to do so, but she is shying away.
Smash her first. She'll loosen up smiley
Re: How Do I Make This Girl Stop Feeling Intimidated by Munzy14(m): 8:15pm On Jan 27, 2022
Dreytonisback:
You never nack her
If she don collect ur gbola in full and use hand rub your gbola well well , she go get confidence pass u sef

Lights up my kpoli in peace
Smh...truth though...

Eye go don open.

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