| Re: The Will That Calmed My Friend by Prettiepearlz(f): 10:18pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
This seems like a ROK TV or Africa Magic story line but can we talk about the OP's entitlement?  He reeks of so much entitlement! He is a bad friend if the story is real. Looks like one of those encouraging the so called friend in the useless lifestyle he has been living. Just imagine the gibberish he has been typing to defend nonsense. OP is more concerned with how a girl could have been given his 'friend's inheritance'. Not for once did you say your friend's behaviour is unacceptable, not for once did you tell us how your friend plans to turn his life around. Oga will you rid yourself of that silly mentality, is your friend the only child of his father that he was expecting to inherit all? If you ask me , your friend got his inheritance while his father was alive. Only him alone don chop expulsion from two private universities! Were they paying with leaves or paper? And you come here to defend nonsense! His inheritance my foot. Common! Go and sit down jare. 5 Likes |
| Re: The Will That Calmed My Friend by ednut1(m): 10:19pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Make he no go kill hin sister. 3 Likes |
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| Re: The Will That Calmed My Friend by Goldbw122(m): 10:19pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
That is a life lesson, so let him learn and start from the foundation and get his own blessings and change his ways , because that path does not pay |
| Re: The Will That Calmed My Friend by delpee(f): 10:20pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Very wise dad indeed! Truly concerned about his son's truancy.
@OP
Tell your friend to sit up and neet his dad's conditions promptly. It will do him a world of good.
If you're the affected guy, learn from all that has been said here. This is 2022. Your being first son is irrelevant if you don't live up to the title by being responsible and reliable. 1 Like |
| Re: The Will That Calmed My Friend by humberjade: 10:20pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Wise father...he knew his wife will break and let the son into the business without fulfilling the terms of the will. My only fear now is the protection of the lady in charge...if truly the elder brother is into cultism, i fear for her life 2 Likes |
| Re: The Will That Calmed My Friend by DaInferno(m): 10:23pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
bigpicture001:
...My friend whose dad passed on two months ago and who was so sure he will henceforth become a big boy got the shock of his life when his dad's will was read to them by his father's lawyer...
In the will his dad gave him Nothing which was unusual especially being the eldest son and coming from the Igbo tribe.. his father owns two filling station, a big and very busy half-warehouse store where he sells dangote cement wholesale, three commercial houses , a sign supermarket,3 pieces of land also one SUV and two small cars.
We suspect, it may be connected to his visibly wayward lifestyle, he has twice been sent packing from two different private University in the south east over tuancy and suspected cultism....more shocking is the late father handing over the day to day running of the firm to his oldest daughter "not his wife"
The said girl is just 24 years old but graduated as second best in the dept of economic then..his father even helped her secure a lecturing job 5months before his demise..he stated that his wife will only be an important signitory for transaction worth a million and above.
He added a clause that his son can join the management of the firms and estate only when he graduates from any University with at least a pass and record less than 7police cases before he turns 28..
Even at that he can eventually take over the firm after joining management for minimum 4years...
Abeg oo. is this. Dead man not wicked... Allowing a girl lead the house when her mum is still alive.. although she is older than the guy.. sh is the first child I see a man putting his house/affairs in check and you call him wicked? U no well 1 Like |
| Re: The Will That Calmed My Friend by Bignuell(m): 10:23pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Wise man. If one choose to be useless don't bring it into the family financial dealings. I believe his old man would be in his grave smiling from ear to ear that he made the best decision in his lifetime. You sef as na your guy, you go tell am make him change him ways, wetin you sef want make we tell am, feed his ego as the first son. So he wants his rghtful inheritance as the first son but dem don pursue am for two schools, if that is the case, man still has a long way to go. This kind of matter sef no neee further discussion  4 Likes |
| Re: The Will That Calmed My Friend by Olam09(m): 10:26pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
bigpicture001:
...My friend whose dad passed on two months ago and who was so sure he will henceforth become a big boy got the shock of his life when his dad's will was read to them by his father's lawyer...
In the will his dad gave him Nothing which was unusual especially being the eldest son and coming from the Igbo tribe.. his father owns two filling station, a big and very busy half-warehouse store where he sells dangote cement wholesale, three commercial houses , a sign supermarket,3 pieces of land also one SUV and two small cars.
We suspect, it may be connected to his visibly wayward lifestyle, he has twice been sent packing from two different private University in the south east over tuancy and suspected cultism....more shocking is the late father handing over the day to day running of the firm to his oldest daughter "not his wife"
The said girl is just 24 years old but graduated as second best in the dept of economic then..his father even helped her secure a lecturing job 5months before his demise..he stated that his wife will only be an important signitory for transaction worth a million and above.
He added a clause that his son can join the management of the firms and estate only when he graduates from any University with at least a pass and record less than 7police cases before he turns 28..
Even at that he can eventually take over the firm after joining management for minimum 4years...
Abeg oo. is this. Dead man not wicked... Allowing a girl lead the house when her mum is still alive.. although she is older than the guy.. sh is the first child The dead knew why he did that.. can you let a cat be in care of a fish? 4 Likes |
| Re: The Will That Calmed My Friend by Angy55(f): 10:26pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
bigpicture001:
Ok.. but why didn't he hand the bizness to his wife.. thier mother
Don't u think the achievement he listed is too much..? People change na.. what if he hasn't achieve them and his sister got married.. so her husband would be controlling their bizness..? Maybe the wife is the one spoiling the son 1 Like |
| Re: The Will That Calmed My Friend by delpee(f): 10:28pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
humberjade:
Wise father...he knew his wife will break and let the son into the business without fulfilling the terms of the will. My only fear now is the protection of the lady in charge...if truly the elder brother is into cultism, i fear for her life True but if he's wise, he'll do no such thing. He'll lose everything if he tries that. Of course, he'll be the prime suspect. The only reasonable way forward is to comply with his dad's wish. In any case, the conditions still have to be met before he can have access to the business. 1 Like |
| Re: The Will That Calmed My Friend by Mac2016(m): 10:28pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
dawnomike:
His father was a wise man... Very intelligent man he was. 2 Likes |
| Re: The Will That Calmed My Friend by Zordgrub: 10:32pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
bigpicture001:
...My friend whose dad passed on two months ago and who was so sure he will henceforth become a big boy got the shock of his life when his dad's will was read to them by his father's lawyer...
In the will his dad gave him Nothing which was unusual especially being the eldest son and coming from the Igbo tribe.. his father owns two filling station, a big and very busy half-warehouse store where he sells dangote cement wholesale, three commercial houses , a sign supermarket,3 pieces of land also one SUV and two small cars.
We suspect, it may be connected to his visibly wayward lifestyle, he has twice been sent packing from two different private University in the south east over tuancy and suspected cultism....more shocking is the late father handing over the day to day running of the firm to his oldest daughter "not his wife"
The said girl is just 24 years old but graduated as second best in the dept of economic then..his father even helped her secure a lecturing job 5months before his demise..he stated that his wife will only be an important signitory for transaction worth a million and above.
He added a clause that his son can join the management of the firms and estate only when he graduates from any University with at least a pass and record less than 7police cases before he turns 28..
Even at that he can eventually take over the firm after joining management for minimum 4years...
Abeg oo. is this. Dead man not wicked... Allowing a girl lead the house when her mum is still alive.. although she is older than the guy.. sh is the first child please explain how the man is wicked. Let's have a conversation. 2 Likes |
| Re: The Will That Calmed My Friend by MaverickA3: 10:33pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
To those calling his father a wise man; I don't think his father was wise. He had enough wealth but he failed to train his heir properly. When his daughter eventually get married, someone else son will inherit the wealth.
Also, the guy in question should forget about his father's property and get serious with his life. He should labour for his own wealth. |
| Re: The Will That Calmed My Friend by kingsceemark(m): 10:35pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Ginaz:
his late father was extremely a wise man. the son was already feeling on top of the world even before the death of his father , having thoughts of becoming a BIG BOY through his inheritance.
he would definitely ruined everything to the ground, his head is empty with no sense of how to handle the heavy responsibilities of his late father's legacy.
your friend should even be thankful his father didn't remove him totally from his will. atleast there is hope for him somewhere.
lazy son ! he wants to use his father's properties to form big boy. someone who couldn't stay in school to help his life.
*modified*
you are a bad friend too. for you to even think your friend's father is wicked says a lot about you. birds of the same feather fly together o. don't go and advise that your irresponsible friend to change his wayward life , be there calling his father wicked .
witches of the same coven! big boys kee una there! Hanty be calming down please, don't take it personal, E never reach fighting naw 1 Like 
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| Re: The Will That Calmed My Friend by arantess: 10:37pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
bigpicture001:
...My friend whose dad passed on two months ago and who was so sure he will henceforth become a big boy got the shock of his life when his dad's will was read to them by his father's lawyer...
In the will his dad gave him Nothing which was unusual especially being the eldest son and coming from the Igbo tribe.. his father owns two filling station, a big and very busy half-warehouse store where he sells dangote cement wholesale, three commercial houses , a sign supermarket,3 pieces of land also one SUV and two small cars.
We suspect, it may be connected to his visibly wayward lifestyle, he has twice been sent packing from two different private University in the south east over tuancy and suspected cultism....more shocking is the late father handing over the day to day running of the firm to his oldest daughter "not his wife"
The said girl is just 24 years old but graduated as second best in the dept of economic then..his father even helped her secure a lecturing job 5months before his demise..he stated that his wife will only be an important signitory for transaction worth a million and above.
He added a clause that his son can join the management of the firms and estate only when he graduates from any University with at least a pass and record less than 7police cases before he turns 28..
Even at that he can eventually take over the firm after joining management for minimum 4years...
Abeg oo. is this. Dead man not wicked... Allowing a girl lead the house when her mum is still alive.. although she is older than the guy.. sh is the first child The man try sef These days people are handing over to charity Make every person go hustle him own 3 Likes |
| Re: The Will That Calmed My Friend by Germi9: 10:38pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
bigpicture001:
...My friend whose dad passed on two months ago and who was so sure he will henceforth become a big boy got the shock of his life when his dad's will was read to them by his father's lawyer...
In the will his dad gave him Nothing which was unusual especially being the eldest son and coming from the Igbo tribe.. his father owns two filling station, a big and very busy half-warehouse store where he sells dangote cement wholesale, three commercial houses , a sign supermarket,3 pieces of land also one SUV and two small cars.
We suspect, it may be connected to his visibly wayward lifestyle, he has twice been sent packing from two different private University in the south east over tuancy and suspected cultism....more shocking is the late father handing over the day to day running of the firm to his oldest daughter "not his wife"
The said girl is just 24 years old but graduated as second best in the dept of economic then..his father even helped her secure a lecturing job 5months before his demise..he stated that his wife will only be an important signitory for transaction worth a million and above.
He added a clause that his son can join the management of the firms and estate only when he graduates from any University with at least a pass and record less than 7police cases before he turns 28..
Even at that he can eventually take over the firm after joining management for minimum 4years...
Abeg oo. is this. Dead man not wicked... Allowing a girl lead the house when her mum is still alive.. although she is older than the guy.. sh is the first child but you didn’t finish the story |
| Re: The Will That Calmed My Friend by aboyaji(m): 10:40pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
bigpicture001:
...My friend whose dad passed on two months ago and who was so sure he will henceforth become a big boy got the shock of his life when his dad's will was read to them by his father's lawyer...
In the will his dad gave him Nothing which was unusual especially being the eldest son and coming from the Igbo tribe.. his father owns two filling station, a big and very busy half-warehouse store where he sells dangote cement wholesale, three commercial houses , a sign supermarket,3 pieces of land also one SUV and two small cars.
We suspect, it may be connected to his visibly wayward lifestyle, he has twice been sent packing from two different private University in the south east over tuancy and suspected cultism....more shocking is the late father handing over the day to day running of the firm to his oldest daughter "not his wife"
The said girl is just 24 years old but graduated as second best in the dept of economic then..his father even helped her secure a lecturing job 5months before his demise..he stated that his wife will only be an important signitory for transaction worth a million and above.
He added a clause that his son can join the management of the firms and estate only when he graduates from any University with at least a pass and record less than 7police cases before he turns 28..
Even at that he can eventually take over the firm after joining management for minimum 4years...
Abeg oo. is this. Dead man not wicked... Allowing a girl lead the house when her mum is still alive.. although she is older than the guy.. sh is the first child "THE WILL THAT CALMED MY WAYWARD SELF". 2 Likes |
| Re: The Will That Calmed My Friend by meeky247: 10:42pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
OP is silently waiting for his share. Eh shock am tooo. If the man made the mistake of leaving his wealth to the cultist OP for don hammer. The man is too wise for ur type. Education is the best thing that ever happened to a black man. 2 Likes |
| Re: The Will That Calmed My Friend by Oppy2k2: 10:49pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
In my son voice........... it is you
You are d wayworld son 3 Likes |
| Re: The Will That Calmed My Friend by chukwukadibia20: 10:49pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Hahahahahah
[white author=Ginaz post=109634606]his late father was extremely a wise man. the son was already feeling on top of the world even before the death of his father , having thoughts of becoming a BIG BOY through his inheritance.
he would definitely ruined everything to the ground, his head is empty with no sense of how to handle the heavy responsibilities of his late father's legacy.
your friend should even be thankful his father didn't remove him totally from his will. atleast there is hope for him somewhere.
lazy son ! he wants to use his father's properties to form big boy. someone who couldn't stay in school to help his life.
*modified*
you are a bad friend too. for you to even think your friend's father is wicked says a lot about you. birds of the same feather fly together o. don't go and advise that your irresponsible friend to change his wayward life , be there calling his father wicked .
witches of the same coven! big boys kee una there! [/quote] |
| Re: The Will That Calmed My Friend by remi4ever(m): 10:50pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
O.p for saying the Late father is wicked. You're senseless and the second problem of that family. After your irresponsible friend of course.. 3 Likes |
| Re: The Will That Calmed My Friend by RPG2020(m): 10:51pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Ginaz:
his late father was extremely a wise man. the son was already feeling on top of the world even before the death of his father , having thoughts of becoming a BIG BOY through his inheritance.
he would definitely ruined everything to the ground, his head is empty with no sense of how to handle the heavy responsibilities of his late father's legacy.
your friend should even be thankful his father didn't remove him totally from his will. atleast there is hope for him somewhere.
lazy son ! he wants to use his father's properties to form big boy. someone who couldn't stay in school to help his life.
*modified*
you are a bad friend too. for you to even think your friend's father is wicked says a lot about you. birds of the same feather fly together o. don't go and advise that your irresponsible friend to change his wayward life , be there calling his father wicked .
witches of the same coven! big boys kee una there! Stupid boys them want to chill with the Big girls  1 Like |
| Re: The Will That Calmed My Friend by Mcslize: 10:53pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
bigpicture001:
Ok.. but why didn't he hand the bizness to his wife.. thier mother
Don't u think the achievement he listed is too much..? People change na.. what if he hasn't achieve them and his sister got married.. so her husband would be controlling their bizness..? Na wa for you sef. Does the wife have the academic qualifications and expertise to run a financial firm? Didn't you say the girl studied economics? It is the same thing we are experiencing in this country. Instead of giving a post to a qualify person, they will rather give it to someone that doesn't have the expertise and qualification. 2 Likes |
| Re: The Will That Calmed My Friend by TheGift: 10:54pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
The Man is a wiseman. It would have been a mistake to hand over stuff to the son on a platter. Let Him work for it.
As per the sister running the business, why not? Her Mum is on Her way out. Can she handle the stress of running the business? Can she come up with fresh ideas? At least She still has a say on major transactions.
I wish the young Woman all the best, and pray the prodigal son will come back to His senses., 1 Like |
| Re: The Will That Calmed My Friend by Poleski: 10:57pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
bigpicture001:
...My friend whose dad passed on two months ago and who was so sure he will henceforth become a big boy got the shock of his life when his dad's will was read to them by his father's lawyer...
In the will his dad gave him Nothing which was unusual especially being the eldest son and coming from the Igbo tribe.. his father owns two filling station, a big and very busy half-warehouse store where he sells dangote cement wholesale, three commercial houses , a sign supermarket,3 pieces of land also one SUV and two small cars.
We suspect, it may be connected to his visibly wayward lifestyle, he has twice been sent packing from two different private University in the south east over tuancy and suspected cultism....more shocking is the late father handing over the day to day running of the firm to his oldest daughter "not his wife"
The said girl is just 24 years old but graduated as second best in the dept of economic then..his father even helped her secure a lecturing job 5months before his demise..he stated that his wife will only be an important signitory for transaction worth a million and above.
He added a clause that his son can join the management of the firms and estate only when he graduates from any University with at least a pass and record less than 7police cases before he turns 28..
Even at that he can eventually take over the firm after joining management for minimum 4years...
Abeg oo. is this. Dead man not wicked... Allowing a girl lead the house when her mum is still alive.. although she is older than the guy.. sh is the first child If you have a problem with the will, then you're part of your friend's problem.
No sensible father would hand a useless child any wealth to manage. You've got a deadbeat friend.
The conditions his father placed in the will for your friend are the last chance his late father has in death to change him for good.
Your dumb friend should either change his stupid lifestyle or lose his father's wealth forever! 2 Likes |
| Re: The Will That Calmed My Friend by Victorcwu(m): 10:58pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
The op is a right hand man of the man's wayward son. They have calculated how big they will be Once the old man dies.
That's why the op thinks he is a wicked man. Op is not different from his friend. 2 Likes |
| Re: The Will That Calmed My Friend by SoapQueen(f): 10:58pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
bigpicture001:
...My friend whose dad passed on two months ago and who was so sure he will henceforth become a big boy got the shock of his life when his dad's will was read to them by his father's lawyer...
In the will his dad gave him Nothing which was unusual especially being the eldest son and coming from the Igbo tribe.. his father owns two filling station, a big and very busy half-warehouse store where he sells dangote cement wholesale, three commercial houses , a sign supermarket,3 pieces of land also one SUV and two small cars.
We suspect, it may be connected to his visibly wayward lifestyle, he has twice been sent packing from two different private University in the south east over tuancy and suspected cultism....more shocking is the late father handing over the day to day running of the firm to his oldest daughter "not his wife"
The said girl is just 24 years old but graduated as second best in the dept of economic then..his father even helped her secure a lecturing job 5months before his demise..he stated that his wife will only be an important signitory for transaction worth a million and above.
He added a clause that his son can join the management of the firms and estate only when he graduates from any University with at least a pass and record less than 7police cases before he turns 28..
Even at that he can eventually take over the firm after joining management for minimum 4years...
Abeg oo. is this. Dead man not wicked... Allowing a girl lead the house when her mum is still alive.. although she is older than the guy.. sh is the first child May God bless this father in his afterlife. Amen. 2 Likes |
| Re: The Will That Calmed My Friend by phorget(m): 10:59pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Your friend deserve the worst, if I'm his father I will totally disown him. 1 Like |
| Re: The Will That Calmed My Friend by andyanders: 11:04pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Ginaz:
his late father was extremely a wise man. the son was already feeling on top of the world even before the death of his father , having thoughts of becoming a BIG BOY through his inheritance.
he would definitely ruined everything to the ground, his head is empty with no sense of how to handle the heavy responsibilities of his late father's legacy.
your friend should even be thankful his father didn't remove him totally from his will. atleast there is hope for him somewhere.
lazy son ! he wants to use his father's properties to form big boy. someone who couldn't stay in school to help his life.
*modified*
you are a bad friend too. for you to even think your friend's father is wicked says a lot about you. birds of the same feather fly together o. don't go and advise that your irresponsible friend to change his wayward life , be there calling his father wicked .
witches of the same coven! big boys kee..! On point. Op, is equally a very bad guy. |
| Re: The Will That Calmed My Friend by Benbelor(m): 11:05pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
A wise man I stan
I am the number one hater of any person with an entitlement mentality in this world.
Spits!! 3 Likes |
| Re: The Will That Calmed My Friend by HonestFriend: 11:07pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Igbo family... I see d elder sister dieing before her time, but God forbid..
People from that region worship inheritance and also believe that the male child expecially first son owns everything..
I will advice d elder sister to trend with caution. 2 Likes |
