sazzyyarns:
My husband flogs me with cane and belt whenever we have an altercation.We are not newly weds and by now we should have understood each other.
He never apologizes when we reconcile instead he says i should stop doing things that provoke him(which doesnt include me going physical,so its not even in self defence).At this point im really just frustrated!!!
He flogs me in the presence of the kids,sometimes he flogs them and then flogs me too

Datboredberry:
I don't expect people who were once enslaved to chain themselves after they've gained their freedom...

Africans are the worse... We hate ourselves and treat our fellow Africans like subhumans... But if it's a white person... I wonder if they would be flogged also for misbehaving in our countries...

fortuneerondu:


Oga the white man you praise so much is worse. Stop talking with a slave mentality. Stop idolising the white man. Africans don't hate ourselves, we've just been socialised the wrong ways to believe the wrong things plus our leaders and living conditions are really tough plus we're easily being exploited on all fronts by everyone so these things make us do things that are not who we are. You should read up on domestic violence cases in other countries then maybe your mind might open up to the fact that Africans are better off.

Datboredberry:
Are you daft our you couldn't comprehend the simple sentences I had written.. who's praising the white men?

Folks like you love to play the victim card, 'Africans are being exploited blah blah blah... You forget that your argument makes it seem as though Africans are retārds who can't think for themselves and therefore, easily manipulated by those who you present as being 'smarter'...

Slavery and colonialism has ended... Yet the average black man thinks highly of a white man then his fellow black man... That's my point...

I'm not referring to domestic abuse... neither did I argue that it's an African thing...

But Africans are the group of people who believe more in jungle justice than others... Yet, we would never treat a foreigner harshly which means these severe punishments are for our countrymen only...

Would any Nigerian set a white man on fire for stealing? Or use a koboko on he/her?

better keep quiet before they tell you this "YOU HAVE BEEN BRAINWASHED BY THE WHITES"

Jeon:


SUPERB!!!

better keep quiet before they tell you this "YOU HAVE BEEN BRAINWASHED BY THE WHITES"

Datboredberry:
Their arguments that whites have 'programmed' we Africans to hate ourselves... It makes me respect the Whites more...

Imagine being so intelligent, you can manipulate billions of people to be stupid...

MCKitchen:
As I know no body is above discipline, but adult taking up weapon and batter the other is not a good thing. I think you need to call a family meeting first.

Can't you give an advice and leave quoting rubbish. Misbehave for public na beta koboko you go recieve. Since u r above discipline.

sazzyyarns:
My husband flogs me with cane and belt whenever we have an altercation.We are not newly weds and by now we should have understood each other.
He never apologizes when we reconcile instead he says i should stop doing things that provoke him(which doesnt include me going physical,so its not even in self defence).At this point im really just frustrated!!!
He flogs me in the presence of the kids,sometimes he flogs them and then flogs me too

Datboredberry:
When you live in as third world country, this is the result- believing that misdemeanours should be corrected with 'beta koboko'...

Africans and their backwardness... After slavery, there's nothing we love more than we good whipping...

Mom007:

Without mincing words, I will only say 2 words to you... LEAVE HIM!

Datboredberry:
Don't be stupid and partial... What could a grown human being to to warrant such?

You're trying to justify the man's actions... Ask yourself, if it were his boss who had offended him... Would he react like this?

Most of you men are cowards who can't challenge a fellow man but you prefer to act like rabid dogs when there's an altercation with a woman...

sazzyyarns:
My husband flogs me with cane and belt whenever we have an altercation.We are not newly weds and by now we should have understood each other.
He never apologizes when we reconcile instead he says i should stop doing things that provoke him(which doesnt include me going physical,so its not even in self defence).At this point im really just frustrated!!!
He flogs me in the presence of the kids,sometimes he flogs them and then flogs me too

sazzyyarns:
My husband flogs me with cane and belt whenever we have an altercation.We are not newly weds and by now we should have understood each other.
He never apologizes when we reconcile instead he says i should stop doing things that provoke him(which doesnt include me going physical,so its not even in self defence).At this point im really just frustrated!!!
He flogs me in the presence of the kids,sometimes he flogs them and then flogs me too

sazzyyarns:
My husband flogs me with cane and belt whenever we have an altercation.We are not newly weds and by now we should have understood each other.
He never apologizes when we reconcile instead he says i should stop doing things that provoke him(which doesnt include me going physical,so its not even in self defence).At this point im really just frustrated!!!
He flogs me in the presence of the kids,sometimes he flogs them and then flogs me too

sazzyyarns:
My husband flogs me with cane and belt whenever we have an altercation.We are not newly weds and by now we should have understood each other.
He never apologizes when we reconcile instead he says i should stop doing things that provoke him(which doesnt include me going physical,so its not even in self defence).At this point im really just frustrated!!!
He flogs me in the presence of the kids,sometimes he flogs them and then flogs me too

brosom:
Marriage dey oo

Datboredberry:
Don't be stupid and partial... What could a grown human being to to warrant such?

You're trying to justify the man's actions... Ask yourself, if it were his boss who had offended him... Would he react like this?

Most of you men are cowards who can't challenge a fellow man but you prefer to act like rabid dogs when there's an altercation with a woman...

Datboredberry:
Maybe... But that's a usually argument...

The Op is plain stupid... So are the men who would defend the abusive husband...

sazzyyarns:
My husband flogs me with cane and belt whenever we have an altercation.We are not newly weds and by now we should have understood each other.
He never apologizes when we reconcile instead he says i should stop doing things that provoke him(which doesnt include me going physical,so its not even in self defence).At this point im really just frustrated!!!
He flogs me in the presence of the kids,sometimes he flogs them and then flogs me too

sazzyyarns:
My husband flogs me with cane and belt whenever we have an altercation.We are not newly weds and by now we should have understood each other.
He never apologizes when we reconcile instead he says i should stop doing things that provoke him(which doesnt include me going physical,so its not even in self defence).At this point im really just frustrated!!!
He flogs me in the presence of the kids,sometimes he flogs them and then flogs me too

Datboredberry:
Are you daft our you couldn't comprehend the simple sentences I had written.. who's praising the white men?

Folks like you love to play the victim card, 'Africans are being exploited blah blah blah'... You forget that your argument makes it seem as though Africans are retārds who can't think for themselves and therefore, easily manipulated by those who you present as being 'smarter'...

Slavery and colonialism has ended... Yet the average black man thinks highly of a white man then his fellow black man... That's my point...

I'm not referring to domestic abuse... neither did I argue that it's an African thing...

But Africans are the group of people who believe more in jungle justice than others... Yet, we would never treat a foreigner harshly which means these severe punishments are for our countrymen only...

Would any Nigerian set a white man on fire for stealing? Or use a koboko on he/her?

sazzyyarns:
My husband flogs me with cane and belt whenever we have an altercation.We are not newly weds and by now we should have understood each other.
He never apologizes when we reconcile instead he says i should stop doing things that provoke him(which doesnt include me going physical,so its not even in self defence).At this point im really just frustrated!!!
He flogs me in the presence of the kids,sometimes he flogs them and then flogs me too

SmileDance:
the OP is a primary school pupil lol

YinkaOlusesi:
what message are you trying to pass to her, she should packed out from her husband house

YinkaOlusesi:
what message are you trying to pass to her, she should packed out from her husband house