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Re: My Husband Flogs Me by Sterope(f): 9:24am On Jan 31, 2022
What will you when your wife flogs you with belts and canes in front of your children?

YinkaOlusesi:
what message are you trying to pass to her, she should packed out from her husband house

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Re: My Husband Flogs Me by Foundwealth001: 9:24am On Jan 31, 2022
This is called an evil pattern.
Your daddy must have flogged your mummy,
Same goes for your wife beater husband, his father must have flogged his mummy mercilessly.
For a solution, you need to see a clinical psychologist for debriefing.
No short cut,you need to be debriefed.
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by Awoleesu(m): 9:26am On Jan 31, 2022
mrksquare:



Gbam. You have said it all. God punish that man wey go flog my sister. If I no remove e two teeth make e no say I no be typical Ijaw man.

You write from the point of a fragile emotion.
Have you considered that the man may be stronger than you in combat?



Moral of the text:

War is never a solution in civil matters.
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by GIdiata(m): 9:26am On Jan 31, 2022
Datboredberry:
Did your father treat your mother this way for you to think that the Op leaving is a wrong, impulsive decision? undecided

I'm not trying to be rude, but perhaps you had a rough childhood for you to reason this way Except your being sarcastic

the highlighted makes no sense.
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by solofresh(m): 9:26am On Jan 31, 2022
SmileDance:
so what do you want us to do? We should come and flog him for you? Congratulations, just know when your kids grow up they will also flog their wives since you allow yourself to be flogged.
Meaning she cannot unflog what has been floged Lol
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by Exceed15: 9:26am On Jan 31, 2022
It will shock you what you would discover when you hear from the man. If you quickly jump into husband/wife isssue, I sorry for you.
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by Nobody: 9:27am On Jan 31, 2022
Mariangeles:


So, you mean she should stay there and keep enduring being flogged? A place where she doesn't feel safe?

Come! Them use marriage swear for some of una? Se won fi s'epe fun yin ni?

Husband house my foot!
husband house your foot, are you not going to get married atall?
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by babadee1(m): 9:27am On Jan 31, 2022
sazzyyarns:
My husband flogs me with cane and belt whenever we have an altercation. We are not newly weds and by now we should have understood each other.

He never apologizes when we reconcile instead he says i should stop doing things that provoke him (which doesnt include me going physical, so its not even in self defence). At this point im really just frustrated!!!
He flogs me in the presence of the kids, sometimes he flogs them and then flogs me too.

How can this be possible?
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by alizma: 9:27am On Jan 31, 2022
dacblogger:
Quick question... Is he from Abia state?
Meanwhile, do you have brothers? If you do, let them gather and give him joint beating that will reset his head. sad
Before they give him joint beating, they should arrange her feeding money and keep one side first because that lady doesn't sound like someone who is working.
Some men act this way when they observe the woman depends solely on them. A working class woman will know what to do. Even look at her write up, do you see her taken a particular decision and looking for advise? No. She just want us to know what is happening in her house
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by Karemarealty288(m): 9:28am On Jan 31, 2022
dacblogger:

It's only abia state men that flogs their wives...the truth hurts you know...
I know this cos I'm married to an abia state man angry

So cos you are married to a deranged man doesn't mean all men from Abia are same. Why not leave your marriage and seek better union in your area of birth where men are saints.
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by twilliamx(m): 9:28am On Jan 31, 2022
sazzyyarns:
My husband flogs me with cane and belt whenever we have an altercation. We are not newly weds and by now we should have understood each other.

He never apologizes when we reconcile instead he says i should stop doing things that provoke him (which doesnt include me going physical, so its not even in self defence). At this point im really just frustrated!!!
He flogs me in the presence of the kids, sometimes he flogs them and then flogs me too.

Get some people to beat the hell out of him....He is a weak fellow...

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Re: My Husband Flogs Me by obowunmi(m): 9:29am On Jan 31, 2022
sazzyyarns:
My husband flogs me with cane and belt whenever we have an altercation. We are not newly weds and by now we should have understood each other.

He never apologizes when we reconcile instead he says i should stop doing things that provoke him (which doesnt include me going physical, so its not even in self defence). At this point im really just frustrated!!!
He flogs me in the presence of the kids, sometimes he flogs them and then flogs me too.

Stay there until he KILLS you. At least you will go to heaven with your MRS title.
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by hotwax: 9:29am On Jan 31, 2022
You deserve the beating.

I know of a young girl right now. His boyfriend (not Fiance or Husband ordinary boyfriend ni ooo) always beat her up.

She always go back to him. She told her friend that its because his dick is big, thats why she could not leave him. That day I stop pitying wives under beating.

When you were dating, you knew the guy is violent. But due to your stupidity or inability to calculate the future because of sex or money, you could not make the right decision.

After marriage, you will now flood the social media with pictures of your bleeding faces...

I saw FU to all of you. You made your decision...live with it and stop disturbing us
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by Exceed15: 9:30am On Jan 31, 2022
Datboredberry:
Don't be stupid and partial... What could a grown human being to to warrant such? undecided

You're trying to justify the man's actions... Ask yourself, if it were his boss who had offended him... Would he react like this? undecided

Most of you men are cowards who can't challenge a fellow man but you prefer to act like rabid dogs when there's an altercation with a woman...

Calm down jare before u kill yourself with hypertension. How true is this story? We're you there? If the woman had slapped her husband before would u know? I don't support domestic violence from any quarter but let's not be too quick to judge abeg
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by matm: 9:31am On Jan 31, 2022
For doing nothing he flogs you.
If ur insults is d reason,why not act maturely, control ur tongue and save ur family.
When u are telling a man dt he is useless and shld die in his house,what do u expect?
This most women are guilty of.
No matter what,stop cursing and insulting ur husband.
Handle issues maturely for ur own good
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by Obiorahpcfg: 9:31am On Jan 31, 2022
U be mumu
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by Nobody: 9:32am On Jan 31, 2022
Na here we go see our NAIRALAND LADIES grin grin


See them. grin. . if na other topic. They no go come up. grin


Nw wey dey don flog their female gender sas them dey display their behaviour cry
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bunch of weaklings grin (in fernandezisback voice) grin
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by OBTOREPA(m): 9:36am On Jan 31, 2022
sazzyyarns:
My husband flogs me with cane and belt whenever we have an altercation. We are not newly weds and by now we should have understood each other.

He never apologizes when we reconcile instead he says i should stop doing things that provoke him (which doesnt include me going physical, so its not even in self defence). At this point im really just frustrated!!!
He flogs me in the presence of the kids, sometimes he flogs them and then flogs me too.
Your husband is not a born again.
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by gmacnoms(m): 9:38am On Jan 31, 2022
Nonexisting:
What kind of alterations? What do you normally do to warrant such. Don't come here with half baked information. angry
No matter what she does, that behaviour is barbaric and stupid. I am sure you do same or suffer from same

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Re: My Husband Flogs Me by Ibrahim3307(m): 9:38am On Jan 31, 2022
SmellySperm:
He flogs you with cane? Is he a classroom teacher?
a bedroom teacher and a class teacher
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by LINTUNE(m): 9:38am On Jan 31, 2022
Datboredberry:
Are you daft our you couldn't comprehend the simple sentences I had written.. who's praising the white men? undecided

Folks like you love to play the victim card, 'Africans are being exploited blah blah blah'... You forget that your argument makes it seem as though Africans are retārds who can't think for themselves and therefore, easily manipulated by those who you present as being 'smarter'... undecided

Slavery and colonialism has ended... Yet the average black man thinks highly of a white man then his fellow black man... That's my point...

I'm not referring to domestic abuse... neither did I argue that it's an African thing...

But Africans are the group of people who believe more in jungle justice than others... Yet, we would never treat a foreigner harshly which means these severe punishments are for our countrymen only... undecided

Would any Nigerian set a white man on fire for stealing? Or use a koboko on he/her?
why u so rude and sassy, you can't make a point without insults?....you made a valid point but you just clouded it with insolence and bitterness, perhaps for African men...be calming down........why u see the whites behaving gently towards women these days is because of the law, bring that white man to a lawless society like naija,I bet you, you will understand their true nature and how mean they can be towards women.
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by luckydion(m): 9:39am On Jan 31, 2022
SmellySperm:
He flogs you with cane? Is he a classroom teacher?

Oga madam.....

Tell us what exactly you always do to warrant that kind of beating or flogging with cane.
At least, you didn't say u married an animal, so your husband is human being

If a human being behave as an animal, what is expected? a man is not God, some time, patience, endurance, & love will run out of him because of animalistic behaviour.
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by tempex88(m): 9:39am On Jan 31, 2022
Just let is know how much he has flogged you in the marriage, give us his address or a street where he will always pass, we will flog him for x2 of whatever flogging he has done to you. We would have reported him for domestic violence but we wont want him to rot in jail cause of the children. After we flog him on your behalf, you can walk out of the marriage (Separation) till he signs a formal agreement never to flog you again.
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by Lexusgs430: 9:40am On Jan 31, 2022
sazzyyarns:
My husband flogs me with cane and belt whenever we have an altercation. We are not newly weds and by now we should have understood each other.

He never apologizes when we reconcile instead he says i should stop doing things that provoke him (which doesnt include me going physical, so its not even in self defence). At this point im really just frustrated!!!
He flogs me in the presence of the kids, sometimes he flogs them and then flogs me too.


It's women like you, that encourages such idiotic behaviours....... Till he kills you, he would then marry another wife, to continue the flogging.......

Your children are already emotionally, psychologically and physically scarred and abused, and would most likely, grow up to be fellow abusers.....

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Re: My Husband Flogs Me by agent01(m): 9:42am On Jan 31, 2022
sazzyyarns:
My husband flogs me with cane and belt whenever we have an altercation. We are not newly weds and by now we should have understood each other.

He never apologizes when we reconcile instead he says i should stop doing things that provoke him (which doesnt include me going physical, so its not even in self defence). At this point im really just frustrated!!!
He flogs me in the presence of the kids, sometimes he flogs them and then flogs me too.
You better run for your life because you may die soon. I'm talking from experience. You have married the wrong person.

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Re: My Husband Flogs Me by mechanics(m): 9:45am On Jan 31, 2022
SmellySperm:
He flogs you with cane? Is he a classroom teacher?
hahhaha, maybe he's was one before.
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by mechanics(m): 9:46am On Jan 31, 2022
The best is not to do things that will make him angry, if he flogs you for no just cause, report him to his parents.
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by Slurity(m): 9:47am On Jan 31, 2022
sazzyyarns:
My husband flogs me with cane and belt whenever we have an altercation. We are not newly weds and by now we should have understood each other.

He never apologizes when we reconcile instead he says i should stop doing things that provoke him (which doesnt include me going physical, so its not even in self defence). At this point im really just frustrated!!!
He flogs me in the presence of the kids, sometimes he flogs them and then flogs me too.
stop doing whatever makes him beat you because it appears you provoke him easily too. You are supposed to be a wife and your husband your master. Treat him as your master if you want peace. I hate the fact that he beats you anyway but this post is about you and not him.
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by Semaj77(m): 9:49am On Jan 31, 2022
Datboredberry:
Don't be stupid and partial... What could a grown human being to to warrant such? undecided

You're trying to justify the man's actions... Ask yourself, if it were his boss who had offended him... Would he react like this? undecided

Most of you men are cowards who can't challenge a fellow man but you prefer to act like rabid dogs when there's an altercation with a woman...

No he's not justifying his actions but she should come out with the full story so that we can tell where each party errs.
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by SOFTENGR: 9:49am On Jan 31, 2022
sazzyyarns:
My husband flogs me with cane and belt whenever we have an altercation. We are not newly weds and by now we should have understood each other.

He never apologizes when we reconcile instead he says i should stop doing things that provoke him (which doesnt include me going physical, so its not even in self defence). At this point im really just frustrated!!!
He flogs me in the presence of the kids, sometimes he flogs them and then flogs me too.
You deserve to be flogged repeatedly until you have sense that you are no longer in a relationship.
Dem tie your nyash for there?
Mumu, wait till he kills you. Maybe by then, you will have sense.
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by sharone21(f): 9:53am On Jan 31, 2022
Madam sorry o

Your husband is a bully.... Learn to talk less and pray more/take more actions.

If the heat becomes too much such that he doesn't stop, please ' leave the kitchen' possibly with your kids. He must come and beg your family before anything else.

Do u still have feelings for him? Do u have something that can fetch u some money?
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by moneyissweet(m): 9:54am On Jan 31, 2022
Your husband is a tout and not worthy to be a father. No matter what happened,it is totally wrong for him to lay his agbero hands on you

Just leave for him for at least 6 months and see if he will not come and beg you to come back.




sazzyyarns:
My husband flogs me with cane and belt whenever we have an altercation. We are not newly weds and by now we should have understood each other.

He never apologizes when we reconcile instead he says i should stop doing things that provoke him (which doesnt include me going physical, so its not even in self defence). At this point im really just frustrated!!!
He flogs me in the presence of the kids, sometimes he flogs them and then flogs me too.

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