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Backlaw406:
Oga shut up jo, all I did was asking a question since yourself didn't clarify your input wether it support the topic or oppose it in the first place.

I wouldn't have told you to shut up if you have answered my simple question without insulting me first

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

Gospel2Day:
She raised valid points.
Please, let's stop this hostility we mete out to our females.
I know they have their faults and excesses, but we males are not without our own faults and foibles too.
My question is If you employ a maid, visit prostitutes and employ extra lessons teacher for your kids, calculate how much you will be spending monthly as their salaries.
Do those three jobs that people engage in to make ends meet deserve remuneration?
If you pay your wife the same amount you pay your maid and the lesson teacher and the oloshos you sin with every month, will you still accuse your wife of bringing NOTHING to the table?
You want a woman to do the duties of a maid, a lesson teacher and a mistress who helps you quench your urge to merge with the opposite sex and who carries your babies, often with the risks of dying during childbirth FOR FREE, non gratis, simply because she is a wife.
But you will gladly pay for such services as long as those who render such services are not legally married to you.
What every woman needs to bring to the table is her readiness to keep and manage your home businesses, to cook, clean, carry your babies, care for your babies and copulate with you and be your companion.
She can then secure a job or you help her to set up a small business that frees her to perform her homely duties well.
Pressuring your wife to work from 7 am to 7 pm like you do will expose your home front and your children to serious societal ills and social dysfunctions.
I know a lady that used to be abandoned by parents and granny. A lesbian neighbour began to have lesbian sex with her EVERYDAY from age 5 till when she turned 15, when they moved away from the place.
So, let's STOP harrasing our females. They're our grannies, mothers, wives, sisters, cousins, nieces and daughters.
We should rather love, care for them and protect them. But we should not spoil them by always granting their entitlement mentality.
The simple solution is: LEAVE WOMEN ALONE UNTIL YOU HAVE ENOUGH TO CATER FOR THEM AND THEIR CHILDREN.
No man who cannot control himself, who always needs to fornicate with women to quench his urge for sex should complain when the women demand that he provides for their financial needs.
Shalom.

Magnoliaa:
Oh, wowwwww. You don't mean it. In this modern age? Are you kidding me?? So you're now a proponent and a supporter of the 'modern age'? The same 'modern age' that is destroying women. To be very fuking honest, I don't know WHY you patriarchal kings are angry with this post o. I don't. Have y'all looked in the mirror and checked yourselves? You keep condemning the OP as someone from a bygone era, meanwhile y'all are carrying around thoughts from the 18th century.

How can y'all in this modern age too believe that the vagina gets slackened from sex or that the breasts sag from fôndling? How can y'all still believe that having a phallus qualifies you for a leadership role? And you have the temerity to be calling the OP backward.

Wait, you don't want a traditional woman again? I don't get. You want a finances-contributing traditional woman, ba? I See.

What is WRONG with her mentality?? She's literally rephrasing what y'all have been chanting, fgs! A woman is a nurturer, a woman is a helpmeet, a woman is an incubator, a woman is a multiplier, etc., etc. As a man, do you not believe that you're supposed to be the head, carrying the whole family and all that? Abi ki lo n shey eyin boys yi na?

Magnoliaa:
Okay. Take it up with the Op. Or yeah, whatever works for her. How did that enter my mention?

Gospel2Day:
You're right.
This generation is NOT raising responsible, and reasonable males.
It should be instilled in our male children that they are to bear the financial burden of the family they will head and lead as fathers.
Sadly, all they fill their heads with growing up is exploiting and abusing females sexually and emotionally. They date girls for years and later dump them. They impregnate females and abandon them to nurse and raise the kids by themselves.
We have a disaster of irresponsible and irrational males/men on our hands in this generation.
God help us.
Shalom.

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.
@ op, you are right. It is the basic. I help you call it family 101. Those that are castigating you respond from the nature of their needs.

toujurs:
These spoilt boys bangs them with no mercy, and dispose the next day. I'm really scared to even give birth to a girl, it's like women especially in Nigeria, don't have worth, Not all, but most don't have self worth.

Paxxcarl:
But please don’t bring problem to the table
Women are fond of that

Magnoliaa:
At least this proves how reality plays out.

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.






In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

Tiana06:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G9YKnXR4AGc

rickleye:
I'll be frank and not coy. You must be the dumbest woman on this forum.
However, my senses are also telling me that the nonsense you dropped is just to seek out attention.

You have no idea what feminist means - equal opportunity for male and female. To them there are no male only roles and female only roles in society. What a man can do , I can do better - My response - You CAN"T.

" we are not created to provide but to process " No feminist says this. This is where you lose your diatribe.
Then you quote the bible and mention Eve. Like she is the best example out there. Her husband gave her detailed instructions of what to do and not to do. Yet she couldn't keep and relay simple instructions.

You not subscribing women to bring anything is what makes women, illiterates - not being sent to school. if all they do is sit down at home waiting to be impregnated , or given money to make food , turn a house to a home.

I do not and will not be involved with a lady who doesn't think she can do more with her life than what you mentioned. She is to be a "helpmate" an assistant. Both contributing with their skills to the success of the union.

I can buy groceries and cook so why do I need you to process.
I can adopt a child or get one through surrogacy, so why do I need you to process.
I can stage a house and buy homely stuff, so why do I need you to process .
When I get frustrated, I will go see a therapist, so lady why do i need you to process?

I do more than " bring the money" and when I decide to settle down - She better do more than "process"

Anyways, If you want to escalate your backward thinking to a voice call , I may be available.

rickleye:
I'll be frank and not coy. You must be the dumbest woman on this forum.
However, my senses are also telling me that the nonsense you dropped is just to seek out attention.

You have no idea what feminist means - equal opportunity for male and female. To them there are no male only roles and female only roles in society. What a man can do , I can do better - My response - You CAN"T.

" we are not created to provide but to process " No feminist says this. This is where you lose your diatribe.
Then you quote the bible and mention Eve. Like she is the best example out there. Her husband gave her detailed instructions of what to do and not to do. Yet she couldn't keep and relay simple instructions.

You not subscribing women to bring anything is what makes women, illiterates - not being sent to school. if all they do is sit down at home waiting to be impregnated , or given money to make food , turn a house to a home.

I do not and will not be involved with a lady who doesn't think she can do more with her life than what you mentioned. She is to be a "helpmate" an assistant. Both contributing with their skills to the success of the union.

I can buy groceries and cook so why do I need you to process.
I can adopt a child or get one through surrogacy, so why do I need you to process.
I can stage a house and buy homely stuff, so why do I need you to process .
When I get frustrated, I will go see a therapist, so lady why do i need you to process?

I do more than " bring the money" and when I decide to settle down - She better do more than "process"

Anyways, If you want to escalate your backward thinking to a voice call , I may be available.

Nyascobar1414:
No virgin, no marriage....
Simple!

Magnoliaa:
If you drag feminists here, you'll hear* it from me. She didn't call herself a feminist, I said she's not a feminist and she hasn't disagreed with me.

Abeg, abeg, as the public relations office of Feminism Nigeria Chapter, on this one ooo, this topic and poster - I am saying it has nothing to do with feminism.

She's a true traditional woman that wants a traditional man like y'all. Na your person. Hold am.

rickleye:
I'll be frank and not coy. You must be the dumbest woman on this forum.
However, my senses are also telling me that the nonsense you dropped is just to seek out attention.

You have no idea what feminist means - equal opportunity for male and female. To them there are no male only roles and female only roles in society. What a man can do , I can do better - My response - You CAN"T.

" we are not created to provide but to process " No feminist says this. This is where you lose your diatribe.
Then you quote the bible and mention Eve. Like she is the best example out there. Her husband gave her detailed instructions of what to do and not to do. Yet she couldn't keep and relay simple instructions.

You not subscribing women to bring anything is what makes women, illiterates - not being sent to school. if all they do is sit down at home waiting to be impregnated , or given money to make food , turn a house to a home.

I do not and will not be involved with a lady who doesn't think she can do more with her life than what you mentioned. She is to be a "helpmate" an assistant. Both contributing with their skills to the success of the union.

I can buy groceries and cook so why do I need you to process.
I can adopt a child or get one through surrogacy, so why do I need you to process.
I can stage a house and buy homely stuff, so why do I need you to process .
When I get frustrated, I will go see a therapist, so lady why do i need you to process?

I do more than " bring the money" and when I decide to settle down - She better do more than "process"

Anyways, If you want to escalate your backward thinking to a voice call , I may be available.

Princess80:
thanks dear

nomenclature:
Not "your childred" its "our childred"

Workch:
dude, you are not wise.
God doesn't exist, don't push that your nonsense relgious narratives on me. Grow up.

If Nigeria lady tidy you, you will stop saying all these nonsense

Magnoliaa:
Oh, also, an interesting point I'm also noting. Now this got nothing to do with the OP. I've said it.

I believe you had to clarify that you are not a feminist because women stating their opinions has been associated with feminism. So, you wanna get to talk and be loud and set standards and oppose men but without the label of feminism. That's all right. You can choose want you want to be, just that it is undeniable that you've CHERRYPICKED some traditional standards you want to stick to.

You want to have a voice and you want to have dreams and goals, but you still believe in some traditional ideas about women, aiit? 'Cause if you were fully a traditional woman, you would have rejected education, and women running for political posts, and you'll be completely silent at all times; in real life, and you wouldn't even have a social media account.

It's not only you. Other people cherrypick too. Even alfa mails pick the best parts of conservatism and traditionalism that suits them and discard the rest, so I'm really wondering why people make it out to be some unforgivable crime when feminists (or even religious people) cherrypick. Everybody cherrypicks, and I DO too. Maybe not necessarily about the cores of the ideals we individually subscribe to.

But I'm really just wondering, and it's certainly interesting how everybody else doesn't seem to follow the stipulations of their beliefs/ideologies to a T, but start tearing and pulling their hairs out when feminists act in ways lesser than their expectations and start calling them 'hypocrites.'

If you know that you're not a spear-throwing, tree-jumping, deer-killing, hut-living, using-stone-to-create-fire Kalahari bushman, quote me to yarn rubbish because I said I cherrypick - as a feminist.

Gospel2Day:
The Bible says *The fool has said in his heart that there is no God. "
If you don't believe God exists, you should not believe in morality too. Who told you what Nigerian girls did to you is bad or evil?
By whose authority did you come to that conclusion?
What if the Nigerian girls who did you something also do not believe in God and so feel that doing men evil is no big deal, it's just a game?
If you assert that God doesn't exist, then you lose the moral high ground to term anything or anyone as bad or evil.
You these kids on Nairaland need serious deliverance from demonic possession and deception.
Repent of your foolish atheism and receive Jesus into your empty and dark heart which has become the hideouts of foul spirits and fiendish entities.
Shalom.

rickleye:
I'll be frank and not coy. You must be the dumbest woman on this forum.
However, my senses are also telling me that the nonsense you dropped is just to seek out attention.

You have no idea what feminist means - equal opportunity for male and female. To them there are no male only roles and female only roles in society. What a man can do , I can do better - My response - You CAN"T.

" we are not created to provide but to process " No feminist says this. This is where you lose your diatribe.
Then you quote the bible and mention Eve. Like she is the best example out there. Her husband gave her detailed instructions of what to do and not to do. Yet she couldn't keep and relay simple instructions.

You not subscribing women to bring anything is what makes women, illiterates - not being sent to school. if all they do is sit down at home waiting to be impregnated , or given money to make food , turn a house to a home.

I do not and will not be involved with a lady who doesn't think she can do more with her life than what you mentioned. She is to be a "helpmate" an assistant. Both contributing with their skills to the success of the union.

I can buy groceries and cook so why do I need you to process.
I can adopt a child or get one through surrogacy, so why do I need you to process.
I can stage a house and buy homely stuff, so why do I need you to process .
When I get frustrated, I will go see a therapist, so lady why do i need you to process?

I do more than " bring the money" and when I decide to settle down - She better do more than "process"

Anyways, If you want to escalate your backward thinking to a voice call , I may be available.

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.