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Hope you get the drill #trp

Smartb0y:
To start with,to each his own.
Based on behaviourial temperaments,an extrovert might find it hard sticking to the chosen principle because they love expressing themselves.

Know your temperament and stick with the principle that doesn't seem like a headache to you.

In a country like Nigeria where honest women are just too hard to find,do you think you can get someone serious using the cold approach.

These are the kind of questions you need to ask yourself, it'll guide you on how to go about things.

Ubunja gave an apt description about how things play out when you go with the cold approach.
Surely, you'll invest one way or the order be it your precious time of which when she decides to flip on you, you'll get angry.
Be it your money, you'll end up simping.

Some might deny that they don't invest one way or the other when they use the cold approach but it's lie.
They're are simply living in denial.

That moment when you see someone/something that you like but you're unable to attain it,of course you'll feel some kind of dissatisfaction and disappointment.
It's like treating someone like a celebrity and from where the ugly vaginarian stands, you're simply a fan, hence why the outrageous complains from guys saying girls have entitlement mentality.

Where do you think it all originated from,cold approach is responsible.

Someone mentioned that cold approach is a thing of the past, I totally agree
We are in different times but men don't want to adjust, they're still doing things that pedestalize these vaginarians.

Gone are the days when you sponsor a woman, you're guaranteed a wife/ a good house wife.

Anyone that tells/shame you that you're a sissy for valuing yourself and your time over a woman is a pussy worshipping simp who doesn't know their worth. Separate yourself from people with such mentality.

Have fun but never do it at your own detriment.

One chemist grabbed my ex girlfriend after I broke up with her ,he's been spending on the girls education and upkeep for 4 years. Guess what she told me yesterday...? " I'M NOT GOING TO MARRY THAT GUY COZ I DON'T WANT TO GIVE BIRTH TO CHILDREN THAT WILL NOT THINK ABOUT THEIR FUTURE & THAT NOT ALL MEN DESERVES HER "
I was like

Yeah, keep putting in the work #trp

Going broke is part of the process but staying broke is not. Keep your head up.

Redpill

It is what it is.

TRP

Reality check. Rely on no one. #trp

Aaron12:
Alaye, which one is warm approaches

Warm approaches is a friend (male or female) or family recommending you to a girl. The game is already 20% tilted to your favour, you only need to finish it off.

TRP

Stay focused

That’s what leads to oneitis.

TRP

I’m not a rape apologist, but men most time are subjected to injustice .

Case of greenwood, I’m sure y’all can see how every woman stands in support of the said gf, even some men are in support too, if reversed was the case, only handful numbers of ( logical )people will support him.

richkal:
I can bet it with my left ball that this conversation doesn't last up to 5 seconds this approach is too shallow. No Lady will give you her details with this kind of weak approach unless you are Wizkid, Davido, Burns boy etc. The approach has No substance cos you don Ooze Confidence ( yes, you bailed too quick).

Let me ask you something, Is this the reason why you said you will never approach ladies again? With this kind of weak frame, you are still going to fail if you receive green light from any lady, because YOUR LIVER WILL FAIL YOU when you want approach due to inexperience.

Please don't say that though I don't want to cold approach anymore but the 2 girls I approached last, I just went "hello, what's up", after replying I just go can I have your number. While they typing that's when I ask for name to know what to save it with (I'm never saving a number with Nickname anymore) though it never last though but I got the numbers.

Charlieluvboy:
Hello guys.
I met a gal dec last year but didn't communicate with her till today, i called her this morning and i had to introduce myself, later in the evening gave her a call again, while talking with her, she said she's busy and would call me back when done, which she never did, i wanted to call her back but restricted myself from doing that so i wouldn't be a simp. How do i go about this?

Forget her, she's not interested.

Winnerly:
Your story is very similar to those of us in the field.

Comrade i assure you, even if she gives you that number, that’s not the end of it. You will call and she won’t pick up, and won’t return your call. That’s their first strategy to break your frame.

Then you will call again, and feel lucky when she picks. Then the whole placing her on a pedestal thing begins because unconsciously, you’re happy it’s a real number she gave you and won’t wanna screw

Like the bitch I had an encounter with.
I called after 3 days of collecting number. She didn't pick I felt because it was late. I dropped hi on her WhatsApp, she replied after 3 days. I fvcked up though because I sent her a message after 3 days instead of 6. It worked tho becos she replied immediately. I asked her why she didn't pick my call she's telling me because I didn't ask her. Like really? I should ask you before I can call. Like I ask you on WhatsApp you reply me after 3-5 days if I can call or not? This girls have guts. I told her it was supposed to be I call her, she picks her call and I introduce myself (since I didn't give her my number) boom! Matter solved. She said boom! That's not how she does her thing. See what these simps has caused for men that still has sense and penis with urges. I forgot about her Sha. She's pretty though but not that attractive. No breast, flat ass.

luminouz:
She didn't like him enough. If she did, she would give her number out

It’s not always soo clear cut lol.

What if she’s in a relationship

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Ketapu:
My reply
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Respect too bro. Followed you since last year and look forward to your posts because I’m also heavy on cold approaching.

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Karlifate:
Prophecy about to come to pass.

https://www.nairaland.com/6960332/cristiano-ronaldo-confesses-georgina-rodriguez

Interesting times ahead

ubunja:
wise move. Workplace hookups can be fun and very convenient. And can also happen easily cause in today's society we actually spend more waking hours with our workmates than family (kinda shocking when you realize it),, but the downside of workplace romance is that when things go sour, work will suddenly become unbearable when you've to spend whole days with this person. I've had a few workplace shenanigans in Southy, but it was mostly while I was working expendable jobs I wouldn't mind walking away from if things went.... south.

You know your place seems there are lots of good paying jobs. The next trap here I will eat it o. I will rebel small against don't shit where you eat (laffs). But come to think of it what are your thoughts on countries that don't give a kind of housing mortgage save if you have a family (that is a wife and children). Without this one is not qualified to purchase a house. What will be the fate of redpillers there where you and I know the consequences should the woman's head spark after mortgaging the house? This is with respect to self-improvement tenents and advancement.

chukshobayo:
You know your place seems there are lots of good paying jobs. The next trap here I will eat it o. I will rebel small against don't shit where you eat (laffs). But come to think of it what are your thoughts on countries that don't give a kind of housing mortgage save if you have a family (that is a wife and children). Without this one is not qualified to purchase a house. What will be the fate of redpillers there where you and I know the consequences should the woman's head spark after mortgaging the house? This is with respect to self-improvement tenents and advancement.

There’s NHF here and you can access housing loan of up to N15M i think with very small monthly deductions from your pay. I’m assuming monthly NHF levy is already being deducted from your payroll

CaveAdullam:
DAY 27, REDPILL 2022

Be insistent on women.

No bending of rules; no turning back.

This is how respect is both gained and maintained.

But only for the competent men.

Authority: Maintain frame.

Very hard sha very hard but we will continue to make efforts to attain perfection

FRANKOSKI:
CALL HER & TELL HER HOW DISAPPOINTED YOU ARE. IF SHR START UNNECESSARY FORMING..... nigga ghost her.

Shut up

Don't call her

U

viktor88:
They said if a guy can control his dic.k most of his problems are solved. Mason Greenwood at a very young age have gotten into few trouble because of pussy.

Greenwood and Foden was dismissed from England camp and sent home they broke covid 19 rules because of Puss.y. Since then they barely invite him to the national team.

And now he's into bigger trouble because of Puss.y.

When you tell men to have sexual discipline by not bonking every woman that comes their way, whether they chose you or not, whether the environment/time is right or not, using your head, intuition over your foolish dick, they'll give you mocking replies that reveal their foolishness like: "You are not getting pusssy" "You are an incel" "I am a womanizer, (simping plates), so I understand women" "MGTOW guys are just scared of women" etc.

What these foolish dudes don't understand is that the generally accepted meme of "women are wonderful/men are evil", halo effect, women's neoteny/coyness already put men at great disadvantage in both patriarchal and gynocentric societies. So, as you build value, you are prone to being a bigger target in a society that already adjudged you as evil for just being a man and won't mind treating you with disdain as the disposable gender.

I'm on par with Zabiboy's vibe on: what is so special about a woman's pussssy that men put their lives at a great risk? Or what would they do for me that I can't do for myself, outside their smelly hole?

Well, Greenwood's case and the issues that surrounded it reveals all that has been said here. Attraction to women is natural for a man and there is nothing bad about it, but if you don't use your head over your dick on how to operate with women, you'll land, where other foolish men before you, did.

You guys have been forewarned.

chukshobayo:
Very hard sha very hard but we will continue to make efforts to attain perfection

Unless you're married,i don't see what is hard there

If you can't change the girl, change the girl

Skepticus:
U

When you tell men to have sexual discipline by not bonking every woman that comes their way, whether they chose you or not, whether the environment/time is right or not, using your head, intuition over your foolish dick, they'll give you mocking replies that reveal their foolishness like: "You are not getting pusssy" "You are an incel" "I am a womanizer, (simping plates), so I understand women" "MGTOW guys are just scared of women" etc.

What these foolish dudes don't understand is that the generally accepted meme of "women are wonderful/men are evil", halo effect, women's neoteny/coyness already put men at great disadvantage in both patriarchal and gynocentric societies. So, as you build value, you are prone to being a bigger target in a society that already adjudged you as evil for just being a man and won't mind treating you with disdain as the disposable gender.

I'm on par with Zabiboy's vibe on: what is so special about a woman's pussssy that men put their lives at a great risk? Or what would they do for me that I can't do for myself, outside their smelly hole?

Well, Greenwood's case and the issues that surrounded it reveals all that has been said here. Attraction to women is natural for a man and there is nothing bad about it, but if you don't use your head over your dick on how to operate with women, you'll land, where other foolish men before you, did.

You guys have been forewarned.

Cold approachers are on their way to your mention

Now "redpillers" have evidence Greenwood cold approached the bitch and was not "chosen" I suppose.
It's a thing to argue, it's another thing to push it beyond the confines of intelligence.

fattprince:
Like the bitch I had an encounter with.
I called after 3 days of collecting number. She didn't pick I felt because it was late. I dropped hi on her WhatsApp, she replied after 3 days. I fvcked up though because I sent her a message after 3 days instead of 6. It worked tho becos she replied immediately. I asked her why she didn't pick my call she's telling me because I didn't ask her. Like really? I should ask you before I can call. Like I ask you on WhatsApp you reply me after 3-5 days if I can call or not? This girls have guts. I told her it was supposed to be I call her, she picks her call and I introduce myself (since I didn't give her my number) boom! Matter solved. She said boom! That's not how she does her thing. See what these simps has caused for men that still has sense and penis with urges. I forgot about her Sha. She's pretty though but not that attractive. No breast, flat ass.

Lol not even surprised a bit. Basic girls walk with big egos now, they sure see themselves as mini celebs nowadays. I wouldn’t even bother dropping a WhatsApp message if it was me. Delusional beings