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Ladycewhy:
Put on your thinking cap,that's if you have a brain at all and counter my points.

Did he strike a node!

toujurs:
What can you provide for your self with the level of education your parents have given to you, is it not your fellow women that scream about, how they must marry a rich man. How do you expect men to value women, when a price tag has been placed on them, become a rich man and you will have her, and you expect men to value women. You can't eat your cake and have it aunty. Its just few ladies that hustle to provide for themselves, others rely on their boyfriend or husband for support and finances to do anything.

She is still shopping for that man. The root of this outpour is, the man isn't forthcoming and the eggs are drying up. The few men that came by actually did so for a bite and have long gone - swear say there is no truth in what I wrote here!

FERNANDEZISBACK:
But do you think it's all men tho?

first reasonable comment you ever made on nairaland

Ladycewhy:
It's time we stop pretending like all is well and we like each other. It has been proven time and time again that as humans ,men have always looked at women as lesser humans to them and there has never been regard and equal respect from men.

The only thing they like about women is that they are able to tolerate, submit, obey ,take care of his offsprings, help him cum . Aside that men don't like women as fellow humans.

"help him cum"

BabbanBura:
She is still shopping for that man. The root of this outpour is, the man isn't forthcoming and the eggs are drying up. The few men that came by actually did so for a bite and have long gone - swear say there is no truth in what I wrote here!

You are very right. Most of these ladies don't have sense at all, And men don't trust them anymore. Most men now see them for pleasure purpose. And its their stupidity that caused this. How can a lady open her mouth to demand for a rich man when even her papa no get money, they demand for anything they want because they feel its their right. Whats then the essence of being sent to school, if you would end up relying on a man. Of what essence is your education. Its better the girl child stay home, while her brothers go to school then. It's really a pity for these women the damage they have caused on themselves.

nakotee:
"help him cum"

Na true na, all man want to knack, what other thing can you get, In return.

Ladycewhy:
lol.


So the anti women campaign is ok, but if women decide to accept that they are not liked ,it's toxic. Double standards never seem to end with you male folks,smh

The Anti-woman campaign on NL is wrong, I even made an article about it some years back, sad really

https/www.nairaland.com/6317707/surge-womanhate-redpills-simphood-pussy?iorg_

We really have lost intelligent women here..

Ladycewhy:
lol.


So the anti women campaign is ok, but if women decide to accept that they are not liked ,it's toxic. Double standards never seem to end with you male folks,smh

you are just bitter and frustrated, anyway i imagine you in your 80's locked in a room with out a man and a child still spitting trash that men don't like women, your brain needs to be sanitized, honestly you are half mad it takes only very smart people to discover this girl is not fully mad , your madness is growing up and we need to stop you now.

Ladycewhy:
Yes you heard me right, men don't like you, they like your biological makeup ,they may like the fact that you have a vagina , womb and breasts but as a fellow human being , they don't like you.

Let's look back at history, in the days of old, Virgin girls were a thing for sacrifices and blood gift to the gods, then came the snatching of babies frome their mothers all in the name of twins was an abomination, then there was the selling of their daughter all in the name of bride price and the only time she was allowed to return to her father's house was in a body bag.

Still in doubt if men like you as a human first?

Ok then came the widow maltreatment, then there was a concensus to mutilate the vagina of women just to keep them under control, then came the refusal to allow them go to school. Still in doubt?

Do you still doubt the anti women campaign going on in this forum and even on the streets? Have you checked the ratio of ritual killing and see that women are the most victims?Have you heard the phrase " daughters of eve, fish brain, after devil fear women?" Well I am sure you atleast get the picture .

Stop it..will you?

Very soon now, she go deactivate

TheSourcerer:
The Anti-woman campaign on NL is wrong, I even made an article about it some years back, sad really

https/www.nairaland.com/6317707/surge-womanhate-redpills-simphood-pussy?iorg_

We really have lost intelligent women here..

Good to know . But that just doesn't stop the fact that the hate train against women has never from time in memorial decrease. The internet just made it more popular hence the reason I had to go back and draw scenerios from history.

Victerica:
Very soon now, she go deactivate

Lol ,you wish. .

I'm just getting started bro.No penis wielding misogynistic specie can make me deactivate, except I am banned.

Simple fact! We men don't like women, we love what they can offer which is toto!

nakotee:
you are just bitter and frustrated, anyway i imagine you in your 80's locked in a room with out a man and a child still spitting trash that men don't like women, your brain needs to be sanitized, honestly you are half mad it takes only very smart people to discover this girl is not fully mad , your madness is growing up and we need to stop you now.

Go and tell that to your misogynistic ancestors.

I will benefit you of some of the attention you seek. Deliberating with women on an intellectual level always leads to nothing especially with modern day women and feminists.

I will do this because of one or two readers.

Ladycewhy:
Highlights;

1)Eve caused the downfall of man and blamed adam her husband.
2)women are disloyal and opportunistic
3)women only value men for their power , attention and power.
4)Blame the current ritual killings in Nigeria on female promiscuity, myopic tendency and greediness
5) Children prefer their mothers to their fathers.
6)men have the highest number of prisoners, school dropouts ,shorter life expectancy
7)men were the ones that went to wage wars in the past
8 )women as a gender are still existing due to the benevolence of men ,women should be grateful to men.


Dear women,as I was saying;
1) These men believe ,they would still be in the garden of Eden chilling if our predecessor eve had not ruined things for Adam. Hence daughters of eve.But if I recall correctly and my Bible knowledge is still sharp eve blamed the serpent and not Adam ,but hey it won't be sweet if he doesn't add Maggi to twist and spice it up a little bit.

Go check that post again. I missed the word "God" in that sentence... But since you want to capitalize on that lets go.

1. If Eve wasn't myopic in that fictional tale, why didn't she resists the serpent's temptations? She knew everything about the tree of knowledge and good and evil but yet still turned the garden upside down. Who was oppressing Eve at that time?

2. Eve already knew that she has fallen yet she brought her husband to the equation. Why did she lured her husband? Weren't they supposed to look at for each other?

Since it's a fictional tale no need pressing further.

Ladycewhy:
2)He claims men are the ideal lovers who's only duty is to pay bills and lift his feet up meanwhile this modern woman ,goes to the same work(regardless if she earns lower or not) faces the same work related stress as the man , come back home ,takes care of the children ,the house and her husband as well.

No debate about that, men are the ideal lovers.

Are you talking about the modern wife? Like seriously? When the rate of divorce is on the increase. When marriage is on the decline. When the birth rate is falling gradually.

Do you even know that a surveyed was carried out and 1 in 3 women preferred to be stay at home mum. In fact, women are checking out of the workplace to become stay at home mum because they have now seen that the workspace is not sugar and honey. Men catered for them and their offsprings because the nature of the workplace doesn't align perfectly with womanly nature.

By the way, many career wives has nannnies who takes care of the house. And most of these households are being majorly sponsored by the husbands with the women just contributing meagre sums plus boring sex.

Lets not talk about the attitudes of these career women towards their husbands and children. Because once a woman has sensed that she is on the same level with her husband or slightly higher respect towards her husband dwindles. Ditto for care towards their children.

Ladycewhy:
4)He claims male circumcision is still a thing but is not strong on stopping it either,but hey let's just throw that in for the sake of argument.If you want the next generation of boys to be moving around with no cap and their penlses looking like one eyed snakes , your call, you can start the movement.

Rather than you women complain about your lapses, why not become as innovative as men and beat men to their game. Yet, day in or out, you all depend on men for everything except for the air you breath.

You mentioned FGM without stating its cultural benefits to the females (of course I did). I mentioned MC while stating its cultural benefits. What you're really targeting in FGM is the severe pains associated with it and same with MC. Both have their underlying cultural benefits but you were myopic to see only FGM as a crime against womanhood.

Right now, FGM is on the low and MC still in vogue...every eyes can see what's happening right now in regards to female promiscuity.

Women and children want freedom but cannot control themselves.

Ladycewhy:
In this present day, he says if women are used for ritual , then blame it on their promiscuity,greed and myopic tendencies but if men and children are used let's just blame something else ,like "the heart of man".

Hey miss, don't shift blame here. I dealt with you on the same level you presented your arguments. You were so concerned about virgin sacrifices, female trafficking and female ritual killings, and I stated that men and children were victims too.

Now, concerning the recent ritual killings in Nigeria involving men, women and children, of which females seems to be the highest victims according to the media, is a result of female greediness, promiscuity and myopic tendency: I gladly reiterate it and will do it again.

Has females not be warned many times about it? Coupled alongside the poor security condition of Nigeria, these women has been warned several times to always be cautious at all times. Nobody even gives men such advice on a steady, but yet men are still careful. Men are blamed too if they aren't cautious!

Ladycewhy:
5) Women change their surnames,battle hormones, give men offspring to carry their legacy to the generation,change her identity,sometimes religion, sometimes drop her dreams and aspiration to meet his needs, but for some reason marriage doesn't favour men. Because they are burdened with paying bills. One then has to wonder how widows and single mothers raised their children alone if paying bills is such a weight of the world for men.

Please, keep quiet!

Marriage benefits women more than a 100%. It female's ambition and retirement plan. If possible, men would have preferred these factors you are labelling as sufferings to enjoy 50% of what women are benefiting in marriage.

Just for jokes: Religious programs e.g Shiloh, is full of women looking up to their God for a wedding ceremony/marriage.

Loooooool.

Ladycewhy:
6) If men are the highest prisoners,does that mean men are more criminally inclined? If so just blame women. If men are the highest school drop outs maybe it's because they subscribe more to the "school na scam" slogan,chase money and you will get all the women you want. But hey ,let's blame women for that as well.

You are just talking left and right. You were the one that took up an argument and blamed men for women's deficiencies not I in my response. I never blamed women for anything in my previous post except for what their evolved nature is and the complementarity of both sexes.

What I did there was espousing the pains, challenges, and agony of men which the media never tell us about, which people never talk about, which men still bottle up and carry on with their daily activities.

Now, you can judge between men and women who has the best privilege.

Alright, you now blame men for their jail term as a result crime and school dropouts as a result of fraud. These contatenate with same reasons I blame women for ritual killings as a result of their promiscuity, greediness and myopic tendency.

Ritual killings is a crime! Fraud is a crime! Which all boils down to poor governmental policies. Same with a rise in school dropouts as schools are becoming more feminized.

Ladycewhy:
Highlights;
7) wars were started by men wanting dominance over the other and wanting territories, and women ended up being the biggest casualties of this testosterone induced wars as they were shared as spoils of war.

Women are the biggest casualties of the wars most men lost their lives, homes and properties?

You are really dumb for saying that!

Women were shared as spoils but had the opportunity to become wives of their new masters or slaves to help around. Overall, women still had the opportunity to live and reproduce, an opportunity their husbands, fathers, brothers and sons never had.

Are you somnabulating or what?

Ladycewhy:
8 ) A male nairalander once said the female gender should be totally annihilated, well I guess all women should be greatfull to you men for allowing us to stay on earth then.

Women can never be annihilated because they are a necessary prerequisite in the furthering of the human species through reproduction. That's the reason women are still with men for aeons, and as I said before, both sexes are complementary where the strength of one covers for the weakness of the other.

Men want you women to become aware of your opportunistic inclination, histrionics, entitlement mentality, emotional vituperations, complacency and develop yourselves to become accountable, loyal, responsible, gracious, modest, brave, smart, kind, submissive.

Women should know all of these and remain in their lane rather than envy men or try to gaslight men for their lapses and failures. Men aren't complaining because as leaders the burden of civilization lies on their shoulders, and women and children look up to them, no wonder civilization has the footprint and insignia of men everywhere we go.

You women should become aware of your evolved nature and try as much as possible to work with it and develop yourselves. Ditto for men. And both will return to the garden of Eden.

Men don't hate women and will never do. They are simply just upset with the way you women and the government treats them---badly and with hostility.

I love you Ladycewhy.

Have a nice day.

Ladycewhy:
women have been known to make sacrifices to keep marriages right from time. Infact even the bible put that burden on women and the society followed.


So you tell me , would you carry such a burden for someone you don't like? The answer is yes men are liked .

Men have been known to make sacrifices to build modern civilization and even protect their family and tribes right from old,and such burden have been so normalize that the phrase "man up" "grow some ballz" etc have been used to remind men of their duty and underappreciated responsibilities they have bore over the years.

So,tell me,would you put your life on the line and bear such responsibilities since life started existing for someone you don't love ?
The fact is that you're all loved,but you just don't appreciate it,and more men have decided they are no longer going to be your slaves that literally sacrifices thier life for your survival and all what they get in return is ungratefulness and disgusting complains from you lots.

You keep complaining of being marginalized,even when the government and society in general offers you everything you need to live your dreams.

What do you lots do with such privileges, freedom and opportunities ? You lots are using it to post nudes pictures on social spaces,busy canceling everyone that have a d*ck and crying being marginalized and patriarchy all day.

Bunch of Spoilt c*nts !

CaveAdullam:
I will benefit you of some of the attention you seek. Deliberating with women on an intellectual level always leads to nothing especially with modern day women and feminists.

I will do this because of one or two readers.


Go check that post again. I missed the word "God" in that sentence... But since you want to capitalize on that lets go.

1. If Eve wasn't myopic in that fictional tale, why didn't she resists the serpent's temptations? She knew everything about the tree of knowledge and good and evil but yet still turned the garden upside down. Who was oppressing Eve at that time?

2. Eve already knew that she has fallen yet she brought her husband to the equation. Why did she lured her husband? Weren't they supposed to look at for each other?

Since it's a fictional tale no need pressing further.


No debate about that, men are the ideal lovers.

Are you talking about the modern wife? Like seriously? When the rate of divorce is on the increase. When marriage is on the decline. When the birth rate is falling gradually.

Do you even know that a surveyed was carried out and 1 in 3 women preferred to be stay at home mum. In fact, women are checking out of the workplace to become stay at home mum because they have now seen that the workspace is not sugar and honey. Men catered for them and their offsprings because the nature of the workplace doesn't align perfectly with womanly nature.

By the way, many career wives has nannnies who takes care of the house. And most of these households are being majorly sponsored by the husbands with the women just contributing meagre sums plus boring sex.

Lets not talk about the attitudes of these career women towards their husbands and children. Because once a woman has sensed that she is on the same level with her husband or slightly higher respect towards her husband dwindles. Ditto for care towards their children.


Rather than you women complain about your lapses, why not become as innovative as men and beat men to their game. Yet, day in or out, you all depend on men for everything except for the air you breath.

You mentioned FGM without stating its cultural benefits to the females (of course I did). I mentioned MC while stating its cultural benefits. What you're really targeting in FGM is the severe pains associated with it and same with MC. Both have their underlying cultural benefits but you were myopic to see only FGM as a crime against womanhood.

Right now, FGM is on the low and MC still in vogue...every eyes can see what's happening right now in regards to female promiscuity.

Women and children want freedom but cannot control themselves.



Hey miss, don't shift blame here. I dealt with you on the same level you presented your arguments. You were so concerned about virgin sacrifices, female trafficking and female ritual killings, and I stated that men and children were victims too.

Now, concerning the recent ritual killings in Nigeria involving men, women and children, of which females seems to be the highest victims according to the media, is a result of female greediness, promiscuity and myopic tendency: I gladly reiterate it and will do it again.

Has females not be warned many times about it? Coupled alongside the poor security condition of Nigeria, these women has been warned several times to always be cautious at all times. Nobody even gives men such advice on a steady, but yet men are still careful. Men are blamed too if they aren't cautious!


Please, keep quiet!

Marriage benefits women more than a 100%. It female's ambition and retirement plan. If possible, men would have preferred these factors you are labelling as sufferings to enjoy 50% of what women are benefiting in marriage.

Just for jokes: Religious programs e.g Shiloh, is full of women looking up to their God for a wedding ceremony/marriage.

Loooooool.



You are just talking left and right. You were the one that took up an argument and blamed men for women's deficiencies not I in my response. I never blamed women for anything in my previous post except for what their evolved nature is and the complementarity of both sexes.

What I did there was espousing the pains, challenges, and agony of men which the media never tell us about, which people never talk about, which men still bottle up and carry on with their daily activities.

Now, you can judge between men and women who has the best privilege.

Alright, you now blame men for their jail term as a result crime and school dropouts as a result of fraud. These contatenate with same reasons I blame women for ritual killings as a result of their promiscuity, greediness and myopic tendency.

Ritual killings is a crime! Fraud is a crime! Which all boils down to poor governmental policies. Same with a rise in school dropouts as schools are becoming more feminized.



Women are the biggest casualties of the wars most men lost their lives, homes and properties?

You are really dumb for saying that!

Women were shared as spoils but had the opportunity to become wives of their new masters or slaves to help around. Overall, women still had the opportunity to live and reproduce, an opportunity their husbands, fathers, brothers and sons never had.

Are you somnabulating or what?



Women can never be annihilated because they are a necessary prerequisite in the furthering of the human species through reproduction. That's the reason women are still with men for aeons, and as I said before, both sexes are complementary where the strength of one covers for the weakness of the other.

Men want you women to become aware of your opportunistic inclination, histrionics, entitlement mentality, emotional vituperations, complacency and develop yourselves to become accountable, loyal, responsible, gracious, modest, brave, smart, kind, submissive.

Women should know all of these and remain in their lane rather than envy men or try to gaslight men for their lapses and failures. Men aren't complaining because as leaders the burden of civilization lies on their shoulders, and women and children look up to them, no wonder civilization has the footprint and insignia of men everywhere we go.

You women should become aware of your evolved nature and try as much as possible to work with it and develop yourselves. Ditto for men. And both will return to the garden of Eden.

Men don't hate women and will never do. They are simply just upset with the way you women and the government treats them---badly and with hostility.

I love you Ladycewhy.

Have a nice day.

After all the back and forth of needless counter points ,in your summary;

Men are just upset that women no longer obey , submit, adhere to instructions.
And also men are upset with the government made up of 99% men .

[s]

Biglittlelois:
A truckload of trash.....as expected....combined with lies and whatabouism with a little dose of Kruger effect...


The earlier you dings realise feminism is not out to shortchange your way of life, the better for you all to be at peace....on a second thought, enlighten yourselves through Google with a beginners guide on the definition of feminism, then go from there[/s]

[s]The next time you want to gaslight, truth or a semblance of truth should be your watchword. Eve never blamed Adam for the apple, instead Adam blamed Eve for giving him the apple as if she forced the apple down his throat, which coincidentally is what is prevalent today, you men will never take the blame for your wrong doing, you all prefer to push it to the so called "weak" gender just to feel good with yourselves

Op made good points here that everyone has noticed, from multiple threads of insults and degradation of women, to pure hateful lies and assumptions. She took us back to the past of how it all began, from female mutilation to education denial, bride price, rights to vote and so many ills, all you could come up with is "cherry picking" as if it never existed[/s]

[s]Look around you today, you keep using the rants of women being opportunistic as if it is the time of old where women are married off to men who can provide while she makes the home, and even at that, our mamas are still hard working market women and farmers. You claim we are opportunistic, how many of you will marry a woman who isnt working or can't stand on her own today? Women everywhere, from the market place to shops and offices are doing exploits yet you come here to rant on and on, whereas you all are cheating working mothers in the process cos at the end of the day, they are made to have multiple responsibilities of taking care of the children, the home and run 9-5 jobs, while you men only run 9-5 jobs[/s]

[s]You men destroy the world from the time of old till now, from world war 1&2, the holocaust, Hiroshima, Pearl Harbour, to the corruption nuisances of Nigeria, armed robbery, cultism, kidnapping, terrorism etc. Look at what China, Russia and USA are doing today, showing and threatening each other because of ego and comparison of who has more military might than the other, you men keep destroying the world over and over again and you expect women to fight your wars for you because? If women were to rule the world today, there will be no wars, instead every nation will be keeping malice which is a good thing cos there will peace, life long peace, so get this fact into your thinking faculty today. And yet in all the nonsense you men keep doing in the world today, you don't see any female ranting and crying and wailing about it making it a gender war, instead you little men will scratch your faces in pain cos women did this and that, opening threads filled with[/s]
[s]gnashing of teeth on women, look at the redpill thread, more than one thousand pages filled with dissecting women(I can never understand the level of joblessness and excruciating pains going on there, it is an abnormal behavior cum mental disorder)like we are the cause of world problem, you men caused segregation, gender war, and tribal racism on this forum, go to politics section and see how emotionally daft you all are intellectually with your tribal wars,[/s]

[s]You guys are not logical beings, you have shown that over and over again with your consistent cries every single day, and Op is simply right in all she said, she made good points except you want to twist instances and real life issues just to suit your baseless narrative, accept these facts and move on, we are not your problem, you are your own problem, so do well to deal with your insecurities and hatred of women without dragging us into it.[/s]

The blame game again and again.

Violence is an evolved nature in men, but yet it is through this violence men has used in turning the world around. Violence is a trait that enabled men to protect their territories, resources, wives and children. It was a survival strategy against enemy tribes and wild animals. However, we are no longer in the wild and violence has decrease greatly.

By the way, intra-specie violence amongst women has also been researched on as women were violent towards other females that has males with resources. The hidden female oestrus cycle is a fact that correlates with this fact. So, you see men and women used violence as a tool for their survival.

Now what about the innovations, discoveries, inventions, science and technology etc that is prevalent as a result of men's effort? You see, this blame game always make you all blind to what's truly the reality and make you settle down for the exceptions.

Women now has greater freedom as never before, and we are still waiting for a landslide victory in many sectors that's as a result of female exclusivity. Still waiting for you all to demonstrate your ultimate independence.

"Abeg getat".

Have a nice day.

So men hate women? Lol you re just being foolish,women re women problem and not men.

CaveAdullam:
1. Women will always blame men for their lapses and failures. Social media and the advent of feminism, gender equality and inclusion has provided a leeway for women to express their independence, yet, nothing to write home about them.
Even if a woman becomes God, subtract all the men from the equation and they will run heaven to the drain. Even in the Bible fictional tale, Eve caused the fall of man and yet 'God' blamed Adam her husband.

2. Not that men don't like women or vice versa but that their sexual selection strategy is conflicting. Women are opportunistic, emotional, instinctual and always goes where the bag is bigger, ladder is higher, and walls stronger: Hypergamy. While men are the ideal lovers: sacrifices and care for the women and children.

The conflict here is that men want women to reciprocate their good deeds but women are unable to do so even when the man falls low. Women always stretches their tiny necks like giraffes to something always higher and forget the good deeds of the man that once treated them with care and love.

3. Men may prefer women for their wombs, vaginas and breasts while women value men for their money, power, status and attention.

However, this conflict as a result of their sexual selection strategy hasn't stopped men and women from coexisting as there has been a whole lot of compromises along the way in order to get better. Simply put, the sexes evolved to be complementary to one another, that is, the strength of one covers for the weakness of the other.

4. You are just cherry picking nonsensical claims: bride price, ritual killings, female genital mutilation blah blah blah to justify your assertions. Of course, you are very wrong.

Female genital mutilation is now a thing of the past even though the cultural reasons behind it was to curb female libido and promiscuity. However, male circumcision is still in vogue, infant baby boys still getting severe pains as a result of sexual hygiene purposes. No two ears hear about this.

Male and female offsprings has been used for ritual killings in the past, reason because the "land must be cleanse of demons causing famine, diseases, drought"...men, women, children all benefited. If you're referring to the present ritual killings in Nigeria, then blame it on female promiscuity, myopic tendency and greediness; same way you'll blame young boys that are killed daily as a result of cultism.

5. You make mention of bride price as if there's anything men gain solely through marriage but rather pains and agony. Men diminish themselves in marriage because they want wives and children to be happy. Despite that, all they get most times is henpecking and inveighing from spouses and sometimes their children. Offsprings are of benefits to mothers and fathers. Even children still prefer their mums to their dads.

6. Men: Short life expectancy. Highest number of homeless people. Highest number of prisoners. Highest number of school dropouts. Longer jail term. Highest number of work casualties. So, what are men enjoying actually?

7. Do you know how many men from yester years has losed their lives as a result of war? If women were truly hated, they would have gone alongside with men to wage war and bring prisoners. But the love men has for women and children, women aren't conscripted, after all, they are the weaker sex.

8. You lots, women and feminists should be grateful to men, had it been possible, you lots would have gone into oblivion long time ago assuming males can reproduce on their own.

"Abeg getat".

Edited: God blamed Adam her husband.

You’re very intelligent. Believe me, no matter how solid your point is, it will never convince a stubborn woman.

Your point is the best on this thread.

Ladycewhy:
Lol ,you wish. .

I'm just getting started bro.No penis wielding misogynistic specie can make me deactivate, except I am banned.

Penis wey you like pass candy.

CaveAdullam:
1. Women will always blame men for their lapses and failures. Social media and the advent of feminism, gender equality and inclusion has provided a leeway for women to express their independence, yet, nothing to write home about them.
Even if a woman becomes God, subtract all the men from the equation and they will run heaven to the drain. Even in the Bible fictional tale, Eve caused the fall of man and yet 'God' blamed Adam her husband.

2. Not that men don't like women or vice versa but that their sexual selection strategy is conflicting. Women are opportunistic, emotional, instinctual and always goes where the bag is bigger, ladder is higher, and walls stronger: Hypergamy. While men are the ideal lovers: sacrifices and care for the women and children.

The conflict here is that men want women to reciprocate their good deeds but women are unable to do so even when the man falls low. Women always stretches their tiny necks like giraffes to something always higher and forget the good deeds of the man that once treated them with care and love.

3. Men may prefer women for their wombs, vaginas and breasts while women value men for their money, power, status and attention.

However, this conflict as a result of their sexual selection strategy hasn't stopped men and women from coexisting as there has been a whole lot of compromises along the way in order to get better. Simply put, the sexes evolved to be complementary to one another, that is, the strength of one covers for the weakness of the other.

4. You are just cherry picking nonsensical claims: bride price, ritual killings, female genital mutilation blah blah blah to justify your assertions. Of course, you are very wrong.

Female genital mutilation is now a thing of the past even though the cultural reasons behind it was to curb female libido and promiscuity. However, male circumcision is still in vogue, infant baby boys still getting severe pains as a result of sexual hygiene purposes. No two ears hear about this.

Male and female offsprings has been used for ritual killings in the past, reason because the "land must be cleanse of demons causing famine, diseases, drought"...men, women, children all benefited. If you're referring to the present ritual killings in Nigeria, then blame it on female promiscuity, myopic tendency and greediness; same way you'll blame young boys that are killed daily as a result of cultism.

5. You make mention of bride price as if there's anything men gain solely through marriage but rather pains and agony. Men diminish themselves in marriage because they want wives and children to be happy. Despite that, all they get most times is henpecking and inveighing from spouses and sometimes their children. Offsprings are of benefits to mothers and fathers. Even children still prefer their mums to their dads.

6. Men: Short life expectancy. Highest number of homeless people. Highest number of prisoners. Highest number of school dropouts. Longer jail term. Highest number of work casualties. So, what are men enjoying actually?

7. Do you know how many men from yester years has losed their lives as a result of war? If women were truly hated, they would have gone alongside with men to wage war and bring prisoners. But the love men has for women and children, women aren't conscripted, after all, they are the weaker sex.

8. You lots, women and feminists should be grateful to men, had it been possible, you lots would have gone into oblivion long time ago assuming males can reproduce on their own.

"Abeg getat".

Edited: God blamed Adam her husband.

regarding your point number 5 offsprings are of zero benefit to a man. As a man you gain nothing from having children. 99% of the time you will be long dead before they even get a job and are able to support you if you fell off on the way and majority of the time they won't even support you even if you were alive.
Children only love a father who provide, children love their mother whether she was able to provide for them or not. My step mother abandoned her children when my father died, they still loved her.
Women abort children, dump new born babies in gutters everyday yet everyone still believes a mother's love for her children is greatest thing in the world.

Take a look at your WhatsApp status, everybody is "hustling for my mama" nobody hustles for the papa. Listen to all the musicians, "their mothers prayed for them" no father prayed for their children.
As a man once you have children you become a slave. You work and earn 100k, you give your wife 80k for food and school fees, you send 10k your mother, and use the remaining 10k for transport.

An average married man don't have 2 good pairs of shoes whereas his wife has numerous heels and good clothes.
Abeg I don tire to type.

Walkee:
your number 5 point is wrong, offsprings are of zero benefit to a man. As a man you gain nothing from having children. 99% of the time you will be long dead before they even get a job and are able to support you if you fell off on the way and majority of the time they won't even support you even if you were alive.
Children only love a father who provide, children love their mother whether she was able to provide for them or not. My step mother abandoned her children when my father died, they still loved her.
Women abort children, dump new born babies in gutters everyday yet everyone still believes a mother's love for her children is greatest thing in the world.

Take a look at your WhatsApp status, everybody is "hustling for my mama" nobody hustles for the papa. Listen to all the musicians, "their mothers prayed for them" no father prayed for their children.
As a man once you have children you become a slave. You work and earn 100k, you give your wife 80k for food and school fees, you send 10k your mother, and use the remaining 10k for transport.

An average married man don't have 2 good pairs of shoes whereas his wife has numerous heels and good clothes.
Abeg I don tire to type.

I stated that already.

However, I said that from a genetic point of view; surviving into future generations via the gene pool is an instinctual benefits to both fathers and mothers. That's the goal of of our genes. Marriage is just to help raise quality children that can help fathers carry on with their legacies when they die.

Overall, you're on point. I agree!

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Nope go to bed baby boy and pray to your God instead of talking gibberish..

is that the good morning you'll tell your elder this morning? Ugly girl.

MrCuteking:
You’re very intelligent. Believe me, no matter how solid your point is, it will never convince a stubborn woman.

Your point is the best on this thread.

On a norms I do ignore many of these nonsensical threads because it normally reeks of dumbness by op and her likes.

I replied because many men and women are being bamboozled by the prevalent of these lies without really going down to the root. And also for the sake of some readers in search of clarifications in regards to this matter at hand. Though, there are more to it.

Thanks for your kind words.

MrCuteking:
You’re very intelligent. Believe me, no matter how solid your point is, it will never convince a stubborn woman.

Your point is the best on this thread.

On a norms I do ignore many of these nonsensical threads because it normally reeks of dumbness by the op and her likes.

I replied because many men and women are being bamboozled by the prevalence of these lies without really going down to the root. And also for the sake of some readers in search of some clarifications in regards to this matter at hand. Though, there are more to it.

Thanks for your kind words.

Ladycewhy:
Yes you heard me right, men don't like you, they like your biological makeup ,they may like the fact that you have a vagina , womb and breasts but as a fellow human being , they don't like you.

Let's look back at history, in the days of old, Virgin girls were a thing for sacrifices and blood gift to the gods, then came the snatching of babies frome their mothers all in the name of twins was an abomination, then there was the selling of their daughter all in the name of bride price and the only time she was allowed to return to her father's house was in a body bag.

Still in doubt if men like you as a human first?

Ok then came the widow maltreatment, then there was a concensus to mutilate the vagina of women just to keep them under control, then came the refusal to allow them go to school. Still in doubt?

Do you still doubt the anti women campaign going on in this forum and even on the streets? Have you checked the ratio of ritual killing and see that women are the most victims?Have you heard the phrase " daughters of eve, fish brain, after devil fear women?" Well I am sure you atleast get the picture .

while you made some excellent point, there are a lot of flaws in your arguments, I totally agree that woman have not been treated fairly in the past but things are definitely improving and not admitting that is a deceit

You mentioned that virgin are used as sacrifice, while that’s true for Nigerian culture in some cultures men are there prime human sacrifice, the Aztecs for example. But This as almost been eradicated in today society.


Snatching of babes is a weak point too as we both know this twins gender does not matter, unless your argument is that the father of the twins does not feel the pain of losing his twins to sacrifice? And if that’s your argument, then are you saving men are unable to care for anyone but themselves?

Bride price is a cultural thing which is paid by the woman in some cultures, while I agree that people should be allowed to leave any unsatisfactory union(which is a thing today), this is not a testimony to woman hatred it’s mostly a cultural thing as woman are seen as a thing of value and the groom should pay for having such a privilege of getting it..


Mutilation of vagina is absolute garbage as men get circumcised too.

About the school thing, it stems from the belief that girls are married off to her husband and whatever investment on her will be reaped by her new family and not the parents, but people are now realizing that this thought process is wrong and it’s mostly ladies that take care of their aged parents not necessarily the men.


And all this issue of equality stems from the role society led out for us, not generally an individual or genetic problem as you want us to believe. It’s just like saying men hate men because man send men to war to die. And I hope you don’t think your dad hates you just because of gender, and looking around and seeing a lot of happy family is also a testament that men love women, Infact our whole life is dedicated to showing this love.

While I don’t want to take anything away from woman struggle and abuse in the hands of men, I think “hate” is a strong word to describe how all men feels towards woman, i for one love woman and envy them sometimes.

Ladycewhy:
After all the back and forth of needless counter points ,in your summary;

Men are just upset that women no longer obey , submit, adhere to instructions.
And also men are upset with the government made up of 99% men . :-

At least the counter points made your pvssy drips. Hahahaha!

For the third paragraph, an intelligent person will know the difference between rules and their exceptions. And it is these exceptions---the few men in power and government compared to the majority of men among the masses you all normally draw your points from.

Rules count, not the exceptions. At least from there, solutions can be proffered.

Have a nice day.

Bon voyage!

Ladycewhy:
So you tolerate women because they are "help mates ", and not fellow humans?

Lol seems u re good with words

Ladycewhy:
Yes you heard me right, men don't like you, they like your biological makeup ,they may like the fact that you have a vagina , womb and breasts but as a fellow human being , they don't like you.

Let's look back at history, in the days of old, Virgin girls were a thing for sacrifices and blood gift to the gods, then came the snatching of babies frome their mothers all in the name of twins was an abomination, then there was the selling of their daughter all in the name of bride price and the only time she was allowed to return to her father's house was in a body bag.

Still in doubt if men like you as a human first?

Ok then came the widow maltreatment, then there was a concensus to mutilate the vagina of women just to keep them under control, then came the refusal to allow them go to school. Still in doubt?

Do you still doubt the anti women campaign going on in this forum and even on the streets? Have you checked the ratio of ritual killing and see that women are the most victims?Have you heard the phrase " daughters of eve, fish brain, after devil fear women?" Well I am sure you atleast get the picture .

Yeah, some of them is true and wrong, like the olden days mutilation and so. But aside the love women have for there children and in some cases siblings, they have hardly done anything to make themselves likeable. How many of you ladies can leave your kids in the hands of another female relative and be confident they will be treated right, when you are not there ? Truth is 90% of women has no love for any human not directly related to them by blood.

Ladycewhy:
Most men dont like women.


I have personally heard a married man say " after devil fear women" and it struck me hard. If he feels that way about women in general ,then one would want to wonder why he is even married to a woman in the first place.

He has had a terrible experience with women.

Ladycewhy:
Translation; you tolerate women , because you need them, prolly because of their biological makeup ( breast , vagina and womb) right?

Have you bothered to find out why did is so ?