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Newguyhere:
lolzzzzzzz. Build yourself bro. Personally I still think men are the lucky ones.
At least our sexual market value can be controlled and improved through hard work and creativity.

Yes, men are the lucky ones (and also the unlucky ones, depending on if he worked on himself and be a top-dog), but most men do not know that. I have said this before, but I will repeat it with examples. Men are the ones in the top (20%), and the majority under (80%), women are in the middle. The men in the top have access to most women below, the men under have no access to women unless via oloshos ( prostitutes), rape, and soapy (masturbation)

Ned Nwoko is 62, married to a lady about 40 years younger, that's how lucky men can get. If a man is successful, he can be in the sexual market for a long time, far longer than a woman will be. A sixty-two years old woman can not get a boy of 22, unless its just a Bleep mate, which she will engage within secrecy. Also, her hypergamy will not allow her, as, by nature, women want men who are better than them in every way (taller, richer, smarter, high status, etc).

In reverse, you see how crazy women become when they can't get a good man as they turn 30, some even commit suicide lol, it's hard. Their eggs are drying up, and that is a death sentence to most. All women will enjoy the peak of attraction, with men begging for their commitment, but it has an expiry date, and if they will not snatch one before then, it goes horribly from there.

pansophist:
Yes, men are the lucky ones (and also the unlucky ones, depending on if he worked on himself and be a top-dog), but most men do not know that. I have said this before, but I will repeat it with examples. Men are the ones in the top (20%), and the majority under (80%), women are in the middle. The men in the top have access to most women below, the men under have no access to women unless via oloshos ( prostitutes), rape, and soapy (masturbation)

Ned Nwoko is 62, married to a lady about 40 years younger, that's how lucky men can get. If a man is successful, he can be in the sexual market for a long time, far longer than a woman will be. A sixty-two years old woman can not get a boy of 22, unless its just a Bleep mate, which she will engage within secrecy. Also, her hypergamy will not allow her, as, by nature, women want men who are better than them in every way (taller, richer, smarter, high status, etc).

In reverse, you see how crazy women become when they can't get a good man as they turn 30, some even commit suicide lol, it's hard. Their eggs are drying up, and that is a death sentence to most. All women will enjoy the peak of attraction, with men begging for their commitment, but it has an expiry date, and if they will not snatch one before then, it goes horribly from there.

#Word

The sad truth

pansophist:
For the female version, check the below link.

https://www.nairaland.com/4687376/theory-female-attraction

The male from natures perspective

From the day a man is born, he started out with nothing, and as a candle, it is imperative for him to nurture the little fire burning above until it grows into a furnace, that it becomes unquenchable. He must build himself in wealth, status, and reside in the upper chamber reserved for individuals that have transformed from boys to men, because the value he brings to the world is his utilities, that is, the lifestyle he has built for himself, which improves exponentially the quality of life any woman associated with him will tap from. He would enjoy waves of female attraction endlessly, and for a longer period far above his semi-centennial years, since his value is not judged solely by his looks only (being), but by his resources, utility, and ability to confer comfort to his associates (self-made). Any man, with a gripping understanding of this existential dynamic, has achieved half the percentile of the work required in establishing himself as a true male figure. 

A made-man is a respectable man, highly needed, as he has demonstrated that he is fit and capable to thrive formidably in the ever-chaning, unforgiven, and unpredictable new world. His seeds will be highly sorted after, as it is a guarantee to a quality life by whichever females bear it. Her status and social hierarchy will increase on the basis of association with him. His name will be a household name, which will directly confer honor to his descendants, ascendants, and partner. Like a snowball effect, the work of his hand will grow exponentially, magnetizing even more resources, influences and wealth as the time goes, like a tree that brings forth fruit unto perpetuity. 

He will be the go-to personality by women in their prime who are on sexual exploration, perhaps, he is at the top of the sexual hierarchy, Pareto-principle in action. In the midst of this seeming euphoria, he must be keenly aware of the structural dynamics that is ever-present and underpins his reality. He must keep his hustle top-notch, impeccably clean trails, and honor, otherwise, his reality will be the thing of the past, overtaken by contenders and underdogs, and if slacked, will be an object of mockery. He shall be a builder, a leader, and exhibit internal strength that makes him dependable. He is a builder of society and must embody the masculine energy of dominance, calmness, and pragmatism. He will be the bedrock of his associates, a burden that though is hard to carry, will be armored with the fortitude to withstand this solemn task. He will be a warrior sacrificing his life, defending his home, his family and his own. 

His sexuality will be a double-edged sword. For a male that has passed through the phase of transforming himself from a boy to a man, with a strong sense of purpose, ambition, and wealth to reflect it, is ideal, and a hallmark of masculinity. His attractiveness will stay much longer, because he works for it, and not naturally given to him like women. A man at the top of the hierarchy will know. He will always be the early birds for top deals and negotiations. His words will be respected, it is his bond. Being advertised to potential mates will be a quotidian experience, exclusive invitations to high-end beanfeast patronized by dignitaries, life can not be better than this.  

In reverse, a male that refuses to transform himself from a boy to a man, will be at the bottom and completely invisible to society at large for he brings forth no value to the table. He will be an object of caricature to females and starved of companionship that is freely given to a made-man. Perhaps, he was a victim of not having a strong male guardian to walk him through the path of masculinity. Women know what they have to do, but men have to figure out what they have to do, though, only a few make it to the top without the guidance of a father that has walked through that path empirically.

Very insightful

pansophist:
For the female version, check the below link.

https://www.nairaland.com/4687376/theory-female-attraction

The male from natures perspective

From the day a man is born, he started out with nothing, and as a candle, it is imperative for him to nurture the little fire burning above until it grows into a furnace, that it becomes unquenchable. He must build himself in wealth, status, and reside in the upper chamber reserved for individuals that have transformed from boys to men, because the value he brings to the world is his utilities, that is, the lifestyle he has built for himself, which improves exponentially the quality of life any woman associated with him will tap from. He would enjoy waves of female attraction endlessly, and for a longer period far above his semi-centennial years, since his value is not judged solely by his looks only (being), but by his resources, utility, and ability to confer comfort to his associates (self-made). Any man, with a gripping understanding of this existential dynamic, has achieved half the percentile of the work required in establishing himself as a true male figure. 

A made-man is a respectable man, highly needed, as he has demonstrated that he is fit and capable to thrive formidably in the ever-chaning, unforgiven, and unpredictable new world. His seeds will be highly sorted after, as it is a guarantee to a quality life by whichever females bear it. Her status and social hierarchy will increase on the basis of association with him. His name will be a household name, which will directly confer honor to his descendants, ascendants, and partner. Like a snowball effect, the work of his hand will grow exponentially, magnetizing even more resources, influences and wealth as the time goes, like a tree that brings forth fruit unto perpetuity. 

He will be the go-to personality by women in their prime who are on sexual exploration, perhaps, he is at the top of the sexual hierarchy, Pareto-principle in action. In the midst of this seeming euphoria, he must be keenly aware of the structural dynamics that is ever-present and underpins his reality. He must keep his hustle top-notch, impeccably clean trails, and honor, otherwise, his reality will be the thing of the past, overtaken by contenders and underdogs, and if slacked, will be an object of mockery. He shall be a builder, a leader, and exhibit internal strength that makes him dependable. He is a builder of society and must embody the masculine energy of dominance, calmness, and pragmatism. He will be the bedrock of his associates, a burden that though is hard to carry, will be armored with the fortitude to withstand this solemn task. He will be a warrior sacrificing his life, defending his home, his family and his own. 

His sexuality will be a double-edged sword. For a male that has passed through the phase of transforming himself from a boy to a man, with a strong sense of purpose, ambition, and wealth to reflect it, is ideal, and a hallmark of masculinity. His attractiveness will stay much longer, because he works for it, and not naturally given to him like women. A man at the top of the hierarchy will know. He will always be the early birds for top deals and negotiations. His words will be respected, it is his bond. Being advertised to potential mates will be a quotidian experience, exclusive invitations to high-end beanfeast patronized by dignitaries, life can not be better than this.  

In reverse, a male that refuses to transform himself from a boy to a man, will be at the bottom and completely invisible to society at large for he brings forth no value to the table. He will be an object of caricature to females and starved of companionship that is freely given to a made-man. Perhaps, he was a victim of not having a strong male guardian to walk him through the path of masculinity. Women know what they have to do, but men have to figure out what they have to do, though, only a few make it to the top without the guidance of a father that has walked through that path empirically.

This is priceless sir. God bless u and ur brain

pansophist:
How is it painful to read? what is painful here?

Lol the guy can't take the bitter pill

in summary its all about seeking for validation from females

Check this out bro https://www.nairaland.com/6623371/real-man-myth

pansophist:
For the female version, check the below link.

https://www.nairaland.com/4687376/theory-female-attraction

The male from natures perspective

From the day a man is born, he started out with nothing, and as a candle, it is imperative for him to nurture the little fire burning above until it grows into a furnace, that it becomes unquenchable. He must build himself in wealth, status, and reside in the upper chamber reserved for individuals that have transformed from boys to men, because the value he brings to the world is his utilities, that is, the lifestyle he has built for himself, which improves exponentially the quality of life any woman associated with him will tap from. He would enjoy waves of female attraction endlessly, and for a longer period far above his semi-centennial years, since his value is not judged solely by his looks only (being), but by his resources, utility, and ability to confer comfort to his associates (self-made). Any man, with a gripping understanding of this existential dynamic, has achieved half the percentile of the work required in establishing himself as a true male figure. 

A made-man is a respectable man, highly needed, as he has demonstrated that he is fit and capable to thrive formidably in the ever-chaning, unforgiven, and unpredictable new world. His seeds will be highly sorted after, as it is a guarantee to a quality life by whichever females bear it. Her status and social hierarchy will increase on the basis of association with him. His name will be a household name, which will directly confer honor to his descendants, ascendants, and partner. Like a snowball effect, the work of his hand will grow exponentially, magnetizing even more resources, influences and wealth as the time goes, like a tree that brings forth fruit unto perpetuity. 

He will be the go-to personality by women in their prime who are on sexual exploration, perhaps, he is at the top of the sexual hierarchy, Pareto-principle in action. In the midst of this seeming euphoria, he must be keenly aware of the structural dynamics that is ever-present and underpins his reality. He must keep his hustle top-notch, impeccably clean trails, and honor, otherwise, his reality will be the thing of the past, overtaken by contenders and underdogs, and if slacked, will be an object of mockery. He shall be a builder, a leader, and exhibit internal strength that makes him dependable. He is a builder of society and must embody the masculine energy of dominance, calmness, and pragmatism. He will be the bedrock of his associates, a burden that though is hard to carry, will be armored with the fortitude to withstand this solemn task. He will be a warrior sacrificing his life, defending his home, his family and his own. 

His sexuality will be a double-edged sword. For a male that has passed through the phase of transforming himself from a boy to a man, with a strong sense of purpose, ambition, and wealth to reflect it, is ideal, and a hallmark of masculinity. His attractiveness will stay much longer, because he works for it, and not naturally given to him like women. A man at the top of the hierarchy will know. He will always be the early birds for top deals and negotiations. His words will be respected, it is his bond. Being advertised to potential mates will be a quotidian experience, exclusive invitations to high-end beanfeast patronized by dignitaries, life can not be better than this.  

In reverse, a male that refuses to transform himself from a boy to a man, will be at the bottom and completely invisible to society at large for he brings forth no value to the table. He will be an object of caricature to females and starved of companionship that is freely given to a made-man. Perhaps, he was a victim of not having a strong male guardian to walk him through the path of masculinity. Women know what they have to do, but men have to figure out what they have to do, though, only a few make it to the top without the guidance of a father that has walked through that path empirically.

meobizy:
When I finally figured out how male attractiveness worked, I thanked the heavens I was born a man.

How

mystery22:
How

It’s not only about being tall or possessing an attractive face.

This is Raw Truth !

Most Men that hailed from nothing are developed from Female Challenges and Rejections.

You Date a woman for 2years on 5k per month income and she abandoned you for a dude on 50k per month income .....

The Aggressions from your Testosterone towards her can Pushed you to become American President .... That's If you are wise, You can Harnessed the Energies from her Ill actions towards You and Buy the entire Ikoyi anytime You remember how You are ditched...... Female has that Weapon and Nature use Females to Develop and Wreck a Man.

If Females are complaining of Male of this Generations, this is there failure decades ago to nurture the Kinda Man they want, they abandoned their Baby Males in Pursuit of economic sustainability ..... Male should also stand to the Female in raising the Homes. Male responsibilities do not finished after releasing the Spermatozoans, those little cells must be Nurtured to adulthood once one of them fertilized an egg.

For the future generations of Male to be Sane, Today's Women must be Sane if not, we shall have catastrophically insane society in the future...... Today's women will gradually become Sane as times goes on due to the rate at which Womanhood are being abused and so Cheap .... of course, Societies always respond to problems...

Thus, Nature knows how to balance the odds because Humanities always reset after Doom is Boom ....

Everybody will Normal last Last.... Male and Female better stick to their Biological Responsibilities as Nature Designed anything short is a society bedeviled with abnormalities and let the Blame Game Continue .......

meobizy:
It’s not only about being tall or possessing an attractive face.

And what was it about...

mystery22:
And what was it about...

There are many facets to being attractive as a male. Using those two qualities only is an oversimplification.

DonroxyII:
This is Raw Truth !

Most Men that hailed from nothing are developed from Female Challenges and Rejections.

You Date a woman for 2years on 5k per month income and she abandoned you for a dude on 50k per month income .....

The Aggressions from your Testosterone towards her can Pushed you to become American President .... That's If you are wise, You can Harnessed the Energies from her Ill actions towards You and Buy the entire Ikoyi anytime You remember how You are ditched...... Female has that Weapon and Nature use Females to Develop and Wreck a Man.

If Females are complaining of Male of this Generations, this is there failure decades ago to nurture the Kinda Man they want, they abandoned their Baby Males in Pursuit of economic sustainability .....

For the future generations of Male to be Sane, Today's Women must be Sane if not, we shall have catastrophically insane society in the future...... Today's women will gradually become Sane as times goes on due to the rate at which Womanhood are being abused and so Cheap .... of course, Societies always respond to problems...

Thus, Nature knows how to balance the odds because Humanities always reset after Doom is Boom ....

Everybody will Normal last Last.... Male and Female better stick to their Biological Responsibilities as Nature Designed anything short is a society bedeviled with abnormalities and let the Blame Game Continue .......

Why you get sense like this? Abi dem use sense swear for you?

AntiMCU:
With the way you framed your write-up, I don't expect marriage to be part of the equation, because I quite agree with you when you brought up the Pareto's principle.

20% or lesser of men are sleeping 80% of women if not more.

In as much as I understand the "context" you're writing from, personal motivations and environental factors come into place, not just female attention.

No jorr, 20 percent of men cannot be sleeping with 80percent of the women. It's not POSSIBLE.

pansophist:
Yes, men are the lucky ones (and also the unlucky ones, depending on if he worked on himself and be a top-dog), but most men do not know that. I have said this before, but I will repeat it with examples. Men are the ones in the top (20%), and the majority under (80%), women are in the middle. The men in the top have access to most women below, the men under have no access to women unless via oloshos ( prostitutes), rape, and soapy (masturbation)

Ned Nwoko is 62, married to a lady about 40 years younger, that's how lucky men can get. If a man is successful, he can be in the sexual market for a long time, far longer than a woman will be. A sixty-two years old woman can not get a boy of 22, unless its just a Bleep mate, which she will engage within secrecy. Also, her hypergamy will not allow her, as, by nature, women want men who are better than them in every way (taller, richer, smarter, high status, etc).

In reverse, you see how crazy women become when they can't get a good man as they turn 30, some even commit suicide lol, it's hard. Their eggs are drying up, and that is a death sentence to most. All women will enjoy the peak of attraction, with men begging for their commitment, but it has an expiry date, and if they will not snatch one before then, it goes horribly from there.

Yeah, Not all women get that charming rich prince they seek.
So eventually they settle for the fair ones (men) nearby and around.

LiquidWood:
No jorr, 20 percent of men cannot be sleeping with 80percent of the women. It's not POSSIBLE.

Believe it or not, it's the truth.

Take your celebrities for instance, how many baby mamas can you count between Davido and Bigwiz?

The funny thing is that they're content sharing him rather than being exclusive with one broke nigga.

Also, note that the keyword here is "sleeping" not "marrying": most of the 80% will still get married to men in the lower tier as the top dogs are too scarce to go around.

Know this and know peace! It's the way the world works.

Raalsalghul:
Believe it or not, it's the truth.

Take your celebrities for instance, how many baby mamas can you count between Davido and Bigwiz?

The funny thing is that they're content sharing him rather than being exclusive with one broke nigga.

Also, note that the keyword here is "sleeping" not "marrying": most of the 80% will still get married to men in the lower tier as the top dogs are too scarce to go around.

Know this and know peace! It's the way the world works.

May God furnish you abundantly. It shall be well with ya soul

LiquidWood:
No jorr, 20 percent of men cannot be sleeping with 80percent of the women. It's not POSSIBLE.

If you are not in the 20% bracket, you may never believe it. 20% men of handling 80% of women is just one men against four women. So how is that not possible? You mean you can't on your own, handle four women within a week sexually? A two weeks nko? A year? Or foursome?

I hope you don't reach that place where you realise that humans are not different from animals. That most people are not worthy to be called humans, but animals. Not animals in an insulting way, but in behaviours, instincts and motivations. And I can tell you wholeheartedly that the 20%/80% rule is a fact. Try be in the 20% and you'll never see women in the same way again.

LiquidWood:
Yeah, Not all women get that charming rich prince they seek.
So eventually they settle for the fair ones (men) nearby and around.

But at least they still get to nack Prince charming. Marrying na a different game entirely. How many men will nack the likes of Beyonce in their life? Have you seen the type of oloshos we have this days that men are even managing even with their cash ? How can an ashawo have pot belly and heavier that the man? So damn unappealing and men still pay for a nack?

Uncle Pansophist, hope you're fine?

CaveAdullam:
Uncle Pansophist, hope you're fine?

Baba, I'm good. Took a break from nl. I'm studying something very intensive, and need all the focus I can get.

pansophist:
Baba, I'm good. Took a break from nl. I'm studying something very intensive, and need all the focus I can get.

Good to hear from you.

Word