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Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by Nobody: 2:48am On Feb 16, 2022
I rejoice with you Brother , you are a Conqueror .. please show us way . I am a rope Access Technician .. and I have some desire in the Marine sector. Please where can I message you ? Thanks. Foundationveritas@gmail.com is my email.
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by SilvanusII(m): 2:54am On Feb 16, 2022
Ehen. I had just asked on ur previous post sef. Your head dey dia
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by mployer(m): 3:16am On Feb 16, 2022
It might not be just the 'personal relationship'. He is probably too good at his job with great potentials that the MD wouldn't risk loosing him.

Again, the MD may have gotten several such reports about his boss. He knows both of them, he made the decision he feel is best for him.

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Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by gare(f): 3:43am On Feb 16, 2022
WillyWonda1:
https://www.nairaland.com/6983980/gave-boss-shocker-life


Sequel to my previous post about my boss and I.
It was a dramatic day for me yesterday. While everyone was enjoying Valentine's day celebration, I was summoned to a panel to explain my reasons for having to yell at my superior at work and not reporting to HR just like everyone has been suggesting on the comment section.
So I honoured the panel while a member of the board of directors was invited to hear from both parties.
My boss was emphasizing on the fact that I don't do the duties assigned to me, which is a BIG FAT LIE. Basically, he didn't have any cogent reason for his negative actions towards me. It was just pure hatred. I was then asked to talk, then I told the panel that since I was posted to his department, I've been getting negative vibes from him for no reason. I endured the whole hatred for 2 years and 3months under him without any retaliation.
Luckily, the MD had been briefed about the whole thing.
Now, i need you all to understand that I have a personal relationship with the MD.
So while the panel was ongoing, the MD called on zoom and interfered in the meeting. After hearing from both of us, he gladly ordered that my now EX BOSS be transferred to our portharcourt branch while someone else takes over with immediate effect.
Before I decided to yell at him, I had already made up my mind for whatever the outcome would be cos I had been pushed to the wall. Then the promotion even worsened the whole issue to the point that he couldn't hold the hatred other than to show it to me.
During pep talk this morning, y'all needed to see the look on his face. It was obvious he wanted me out, but to God be the glory, reverse is the case.

The MD later called me personally to admonish me about taking laws into my hands. I apologized and the whole thing ended.

I'm sorry for the long talk, but that's how it all played out.
Thank you all for your comments and suggestions. God bless us all.

Now you are talking, your personal relationship with your MD made you react the way you did, had similar situation at the initial stage of my career, that will be a gist for another day, let me enjoy my breakfast
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by bepositive11: 3:44am On Feb 16, 2022
Penguin2:
Congratulations my man.

I’d rather die on my feet than live on my knees.

I read some comments by some p*ssy ass niggurs on your previous post blaming you for standing up to your irrational hating boss, and I couldn’t but laugh at their cowardice.

One guy even quoted the law of power. But he forgot that of the Laws states that you should “know when to strike”.

Apparently, as an Alphamale, you struck at the right time and things ended in your Favour.

If had done what you did, you still would be under the supervision of a hateful soul for God knows how long.

I think even the elements of nature knows that you did nothing to the man and that’s why they worked in your favour.

I will leave you with a piece of advice… For the next one year or even two years, make sure no one hears you sneeze in that office. Make sure this victory doesn’t get into your head (“In Victory, Know When to Stop”) . Or you might finally chop the stick. From now on, be seen but never heard; only do the duties assigned to you.

Good luck as I wish you more promotions.

So called alpha males are the weakest with over blown egos

Instead of blowing up in anger, the guy should have confronted his boss directly and calmly

Anger bursts don't show strength. It shows inability to control oneself. It's a sign of weakness

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Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by Olumaeme: 4:07am On Feb 16, 2022
You are very lucky that you have a personal relationship with your MD if not you will have been a gunner.

Also, you don't allow the behaviour of the other person dictates your emotions, I know for a fact that, people will push you to the wall but in that kind of a professional environment, you don't yell or shout.

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Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by Tallpanther(m): 4:27am On Feb 16, 2022
WillyWonda1:

Thanks a bunch. I appreciate your concern
u suppose send small rubbers ma use celebrate for u bro?? Ma send details??
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by cl0r0x: 4:29am On Feb 16, 2022
Let me try yelling at my boss too this morning angry angry tongue
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by Joxxie(m): 4:32am On Feb 16, 2022
Thats Great OP I love those procedures
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by dingbang(m): 4:34am On Feb 16, 2022
deepwater:
Na onto say u been know MD before na im give u mind para for your oga....

No be say u be strong man, ur MD allowed u to stay because of someone else he respects and not you. No go dey feel your self....

Your organisation has a policy for grievance management and report channel. Next time try to use that instead of barking like an animal in the office.

But don't forget, that your boss has seen your post here already...
are you the boss? Una too dey conclude sef..and even if he has, he doesnt give a flying fvck.

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Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by phemmyfour: 4:48am On Feb 16, 2022
WillyWonda1:
https://www.nairaland.com/6983980/gave-boss-shocker-life


Sequel to my previous post about my boss and I.
It was a dramatic day for me yesterday. While everyone was enjoying Valentine's day celebration, I was summoned to a panel to explain my reasons for having to yell at my superior at work and not reporting to HR just like everyone has been suggesting on the comment section.
So I honoured the panel while a member of the board of directors was invited to hear from both parties.
My boss was emphasizing on the fact that I don't do the duties assigned to me, which is a BIG FAT LIE. Basically, he didn't have any cogent reason for his negative actions towards me. It was just pure hatred. I was then asked to talk, then I told the panel that since I was posted to his department, I've been getting negative vibes from him for no reason. I endured the whole hatred for 2 years and 3months under him without any retaliation.
Luckily, the MD had been briefed about the whole thing.
Now, i need you all to understand that I have a personal relationship with the MD.
So while the panel was ongoing, the MD called on zoom and interfered in the meeting. After hearing from both of us, he gladly ordered that my now EX BOSS be transferred to our portharcourt branch while someone else takes over with immediate effect.
Before I decided to yell at him, I had already made up my mind for whatever the outcome would be cos I had been pushed to the wall. Then the promotion even worsened the whole issue to the point that he couldn't hold the hatred other than to show it to me.
During pep talk this morning, y'all needed to see the look on his face. It was obvious he wanted me out, but to God be the glory, reverse is the case.

The MD later called me personally to admonish me about taking laws into my hands. I apologized and the whole thing ended.

I'm sorry for the long talk, but that's how it all played out.
Thank you all for your comments and suggestions. God bless us all.
Don't yell at people at work, next time you might not be lucky with another MD
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by Omobada(m): 4:54am On Feb 16, 2022
chigoziri2403:
To be candid, your personal relationship with the MD was what saved you

In a work place , there are processes to report an erring superior

You might not be lucky next time,if your next boss also have a personal relationship with the MD.
Don't mind ÓP he himself is a bad person. Definitely he's using his close relationship with the MD to demean/disrespect his boss in a way hence his so called hatred from his boss.

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Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by Godmademan(m): 5:08am On Feb 16, 2022
Congratulations.... But I think you've been better off with a transfer than him. The nigga might have alliances/friends in your branch who will do his bidding thereby continuing from where he stopped. A transfer for you would've meant a fresh start for you. A clean slate to build healthy relationships again.
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by usagee36: 5:16am On Feb 16, 2022
I have never worked for anyone in my life, so I won't know what it felt like. Good luck to you Mr.
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by Tapout(m): 5:18am On Feb 16, 2022
Now, i need you all to understand that I have a personal relationship with the MD.

Lol. This is actually why you're off the hook oga. Leave long talk.
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by Smilesvilles21: 5:21am On Feb 16, 2022
I have gone through this kind of frustration before, so I know how it feels, but am so happy God vindicated you. Congrats, may victory continue to be yours.
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by cescky(m): 5:29am On Feb 16, 2022
WillyWonda1:
https://www.nairaland.com/6983980/gave-boss-shocker-life


Sequel to my previous post about my boss and I.
It was a dramatic day for me yesterday. While everyone was enjoying Valentine's day celebration, I was summoned to a panel to explain my reasons for having to yell at my superior at work and not reporting to HR just like everyone has been suggesting on the comment section.
So I honoured the panel while a member of the board of directors was invited to hear from both parties.
My boss was emphasizing on the fact that I don't do the duties assigned to me, which is a BIG FAT LIE. Basically, he didn't have any cogent reason for his negative actions towards me. It was just pure hatred. I was then asked to talk, then I told the panel that since I was posted to his department, I've been getting negative vibes from him for no reason. I endured the whole hatred for 2 years and 3months under him without any retaliation.
Luckily, the MD had been briefed about the whole thing.
Now, i need you all to understand that I have a personal relationship with the MD.
So while the panel was ongoing, the MD called on zoom and interfered in the meeting. After hearing from both of us, he gladly ordered that my now EX BOSS be transferred to our portharcourt branch while someone else takes over with immediate effect.
Before I decided to yell at him, I had already made up my mind for whatever the outcome would be cos I had been pushed to the wall. Then the promotion even worsened the whole issue to the point that he couldn't hold the hatred other than to show it to me.
During pep talk this morning, y'all needed to see the look on his face. It was obvious he wanted me out, but to God be the glory, reverse is the case.

The MD later called me personally to admonish me about taking laws into my hands. I apologized and the whole thing ended.

I'm sorry for the long talk, but that's how it all played out.
Thank you all for your comments and suggestions. God bless us all.

I didn't see your first story... But i was surprised you said "bad vibes"... Am not doubting you, trust me am also sensitive and can easily sense bad vibes.. But how do you explain that to a panel.. Next time, trap, or give physical instances to reiterate that your superior purely hated you, ie take mental notes of everything negative he does around you.

Glad it worked out for you, and Evidently you were proved right, if the panel and your Md believed you.. It means they had seen traits of the hatred from the guy from time to time, and traits of your hard work too. Congratulations
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by Pipefitter: 5:38am On Feb 16, 2022
Jibivu:
Mmk

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Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by Nobody: 5:39am On Feb 16, 2022
I no fit kill myself for this job when no fit buy me GLK at the end of the year. I always say this out this in front of my superiors, make them know say I no send the job talk less of their office hatred. Make God bless my hustle the more, govt work is trash especially when you don't have the intention to steal money
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by emmanuelbrown26: 5:40am On Feb 16, 2022
WillyWonda1:
https://www.nairaland.com/6983980/gave-boss-shocker-life


Sequel to my previous post about my boss and I.
It was a dramatic day for me yesterday. While everyone was enjoying Valentine's day celebration, I was summoned to a panel to explain my reasons for having to yell at my superior at work and not reporting to HR just like everyone has been suggesting on the comment section.
So I honoured the panel while a member of the board of directors was invited to hear from both parties.
My boss was emphasizing on the fact that I don't do the duties assigned to me, which is a BIG FAT LIE. Basically, he didn't have any cogent reason for his negative actions towards me. It was just pure hatred. I was then asked to talk, then I told the panel that since I was posted to his department, I've been getting negative vibes from him for no reason. I endured the whole hatred for 2 years and 3months under him without any retaliation.
Luckily, the MD had been briefed about the whole thing.
Now, i need you all to understand that I have a personal relationship with the MD.
So while the panel was ongoing, the MD called on zoom and interfered in the meeting. After hearing from both of us, he gladly ordered that my now EX BOSS be transferred to our portharcourt branch while someone else takes over with immediate effect.
Before I decided to yell at him, I had already made up my mind for whatever the outcome would be cos I had been pushed to the wall. Then the promotion even worsened the whole issue to the point that he couldn't hold the hatred other than to show it to me.
During pep talk this morning, y'all needed to see the look on his face. It was obvious he wanted me out, but to God be the glory, reverse is the case.

The MD later called me personally to admonish me about taking laws into my hands. I apologized and the whole thing ended.

I'm sorry for the long talk, but that's how it all played out.
Thank you all for your comments and suggestions. God bless us all.
I don't know why I like somebody that I hv never seen before and u happens to be that one.
I like strong men that are ready to accept the responsibility of their actions. I read that your thread, after reading iti came to realize that we deserves d cheap labour in Nigeria.IImagine some simps and idiots advicing u to go back and beg your supervisor and I asked, on what ground?
A man should be a man and not an idiot all in d name of no work out their. Even though u took d laws into your hand but u hv Truely proved to them that u are working for d company not slaving with them.

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Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by aribisala0(m): 5:41am On Feb 16, 2022
Interesting story
I am sure many of us want to believe is true
Who knows?

Assuming it is

If your employer is running a business for the purpose of making money I would want to believe that the transfer decision has been contemplated prior to your mini drama.
Presumably he will be going there to add value to the company.

At the end of the day at the stadium there are those who come to play and those who come to clap. There are also those selling food drinks merchandise etc

Drama happens whether you are a Mai Chai on the street corner or Olosho on Allen All na stadium . The main thing is to know why you are at the stadum
You flatter yourself if you believe a transfer decision has been made because of your drama.
Who knows your boss might have known of the transfer and blamed you for it.

You seem like a guy who likes drama and attention
Hmm

Most of the time we have to deal with this lfe as it really is not as it should be

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Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by everythinggirly(f): 5:45am On Feb 16, 2022
Most of them are like that, very wicked set of people.
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by Valuepaints20(m): 5:47am On Feb 16, 2022
Hmm
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by Bigbayour: 5:51am On Feb 16, 2022
Oduduwa707:
I think your MD was sentimental in his approach by transferring the Fool to PH.

But, you sef na craze man... grin


His MD is a very bad Leader.

You don't take an official decision with a personal sentiment.

He should have allowed this man to be duly punished so as not to set a bad precedent that he won't be able to control in the future
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by Bigbayour: 5:53am On Feb 16, 2022
MoneyGoDrop:
What are you celebrating? You're a complete example of nepotism that is currently killing all sectors in the country. You should've told us about your "Personal relationship" with your MD from the onset because it clearly paints a clearer picture.

Most likely the MD told him to do what he did since he has explained to him before. Though MD may not have expected he will take it this far by public yelled at the Boss.

The MD is a very bad Leader. So disgusting...
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by teejay29(m): 5:56am On Feb 16, 2022
Rizmo:
So many jealous bosses at the work place.
Thank God for you OP. People are so mean to an extent that they don't mind you losing your source of livelihood. They want to be God in your life.
Is your boss a Yoruba man, because some Yoruba bosses are so wicked, they don't want their subordinates to grow. I am a Yoruba guy, i am talking from experience.

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Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by michoim(m): 6:00am On Feb 16, 2022
Congratulations!
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by Bigbayour: 6:01am On Feb 16, 2022
teejay29:
Is your boss a Yoruba man, because some Yoruba bosses are so wicked, they don't want their subordinates to grow. I am a Yoruba guy, i am talking from experience.

Shut up!!!
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by Ballack1(m): 6:05am On Feb 16, 2022
[quote author=BigBashiru post=110262175]

Under international labor law its gross misconduct. Any act of gross misconduct which after having being investigated is found true results in instant dismissal.
Both of them are guity then
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by Awoo88: 6:19am On Feb 16, 2022
U think you are off the hook? You think your reasonably relationships with you MD allows fiefdom talk domw at ur immediate boss. U go soon learn. There people who will not be happy with the way the MD handled the situation. Don't be too comfortable
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by teejay29(m): 6:21am On Feb 16, 2022
Bigbayour:


Shut up!!!
who is this one now, in this early morning
Re: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by 2kurupt(m): 6:38am On Feb 16, 2022
Fortis Fortuna Adiuvat (Fortune favours the brave)

Sometimes you've to grab the bull by the horns and forge your own part.

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