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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by bhassan20: 11:03am On Feb 19, 2022
[quote author=candidladyTemp post=110338605] sad


God iam ready to trade... Bring back aliyah and lefteye, take this pervert


You are not normal.... Are you guys cursed like em swear for una no no did someone place a spell on y'all

Why is he cursed? Merely seeing a semi-nude picture on a Smartphone can turn a guy on not to talk of seeing such a person claded in semi-nude clothes in one's vicinity.
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by nwaimoroseyaho: 11:04am On Feb 19, 2022
Tell your girlfriend to talk to her about her dressing in the house

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Amplifiedking: 11:04am On Feb 19, 2022
Help u for what nau biko
U have nurtured n the act in Ur mind already n u are almost raping her already. If not y should u have erection at the mere looking of Ur sisters body. Don't Ur sisters at home dress almost same at home
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Loreettaa: 11:04am On Feb 19, 2022
okoroemeka:
what you have to realize is that human beings are different and some men has more libido than others,I think the op is a normal healthy man that is been sexually assaulted by his cousin,I can testify about what this University girls wear at home,I simply have no option but to read the riot act to my daughter to stop going about naked in my house,what she wears at home whenever she comes back from school is far more worse than what the op is seeing,just pant called bum shorts and bra called top,what is wrong with this children nowadays,
Your own daughter sef.
It is finished.
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Nobody: 11:05am On Feb 19, 2022
Abovebest:
Cover your face with shame bro

Why will your cousin be tempting you

Imagine your blood sister giving you erection
He said she is his cousin not blood sister.
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by deolumike(m): 11:06am On Feb 19, 2022
godlessmind:



You're a bleeping pervert undecided
and you are a bumbling hypocrite!!
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by OBA117(m): 11:07am On Feb 19, 2022
Maxwell775:
My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got admitted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.

Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.

Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)

Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight trousers or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert. undecided

You have to boldly tell her to stop wearing those rubbish clothes or else you will send her away. You have be serious about it before devil uses her against you.

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by emmyw(m): 11:07am On Feb 19, 2022
Maxwell775:
My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got admitted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.

Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.

Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)

Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight trousers or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert. undecided
At 30, You Can't Control Yourself? She Is Like A Sister To You, Even If She Walks Naked, Are You Even Supposed To Have An Erection? Meeeeeh! I Am Just Tired If This Generation!! This Is Too Shameful
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Loreettaa: 11:08am On Feb 19, 2022
Kobojunkie:
I was waiting for someone like you to stupidly quote the bible. undecided

So here are two things. According to Jesus Christ, the fact that you are around by a woman who is not your wife is counted as sin against you.... Matthew 5 vs 27 - 28. By that standard, lusting after any woman you are not married to is a sin. This while you contradict by claiming it is OK for OP to lust after his cousin. See how foolish your attempt is? undecided

And the same scripture also tells you that when your body part causes you to sin, that you should cut that your body part off - not someone else's body part ooo. - Matthew 5 vs 29 - 20 undecided

Where Paul suggests you should flee temptation, he didn't say you should warn other people. Instead in this case, his suggestion to you would mean that you stop lusting in your hearts after women as this is a sin and all sin is condemned as unholy to God. undecided

Please stop quoting bible foolishly abeg! undecided
This one nor follow

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by ikorodureporta: 11:09am On Feb 19, 2022
Maxwell775:
My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got admitted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.

Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.

Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)

Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight trousers or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert. undecided

cheesy cheesy grin
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by deolumike(m): 11:10am On Feb 19, 2022
Kobojunkie:
I was waiting for someone like you to stupidly quote the bible. undecided

So here are two things. According to Jesus Christ, the fact that you are around by a woman who is not your wife is counted as sin against you.... Matthew 5 vs 27 - 28. By that standard, lusting after any woman you are not married to is a sin. This while you contradict by claiming it is OK for OP to lust after his cousin. See how foolish your attempt is? undecided

And the same scripture also tells you that when your body part causes you to sin, that you should cut that your body part off - not someone else's body part ooo. - Matthew 5 vs 29 - 20 undecided

Where Paul suggests you should flee temptation, he didn't say you should warn other people. Instead in this case, his suggestion to you would mean that you stop lusting in your hearts after women as this is a sin and all sin is condemned as unholy to God. undecided

Please stop quoting bible foolishly abeg! undecided
you're everywhere on this thread saying all sorts and attacking people. That in itself says much about you. Guys like you hide behind a facade. You probably would have done worse in the OP's position.

You don't fool anyone. Hypocrites behave like you. You're most likely one.

You can now rest.

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Judgesledge(m): 11:11am On Feb 19, 2022
What's with this cousin sister, cousin brother, cousin is cousin and sister is sister, won't be surprised if I come across cousin aunty one of these days
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Originalsly: 11:11am On Feb 19, 2022
Bro... you have intentions and be trying to find an excuse for having sex with her... it's not my fault. You start by trying to make us believe she is not a close relative ... my cousin's sister ... isn't she your cousin? Do you have sisters? ... do they have banging bodies?... do younever have erection watching them? Bro ... something is wrong with you ... your nieces will be in trouble. You need to tell your mother your cousin can't stay ... it is not healthy.... she will figure it out.
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by 77up(m): 11:11am On Feb 19, 2022
candidladyTemp:


Do iknow you undecided

Please stay outta my mention please
Do you need to know him before he can comment? You people should just stop these annoying hypocrite in the name of yeye feminist on this platform, it's getting boring already undecided


Op by every means ,don't be tempted. I won't be surprised if that skinny is even doing that intentional. Don't ever underestimate what that gender can do all to get cucumber satisfaction.

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by ikorodureporta: 11:12am On Feb 19, 2022
emmyw:
At 30, You Can't Control Yourself? She Is Like A Sister To You, Even If She Walks Naked, Are You Even Supposed To Have An Erection? Meeeeeh! I Am Just Tired If This Generation!! This Is Too Shameful
Shameful what? Haven't you seen people marrying their cousins?
That's what temptations can lead to...

As long as she isn't from your parents, you can loose control if care is not taken

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by naija4life247: 11:12am On Feb 19, 2022
candidladyTemp:
sad


God iam ready to trade... Bring back aliyah and lefteye, take this pervert


You are not normal.... Are you guys cursed like em swear for una no no did someone place a spell on y'all


Biblically, he can marry his Cousin and fucck her forever and have many children through her.

Leviticus 18:1-30 lists whom you can marry and whom you cannot.

So, keep your dirty mouth shut.

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Dmores: 11:13am On Feb 19, 2022
You need to work on yourself bro, at least something should be telling you that it's an abomination unless your conscience is far dead,i have a cousin sister that once lived with me too,she too always wear mini skirt, infact she do dress up in my presence and she's well endowed, though atimes i felt like having sex with her but i always have it at the back of my mind that its an abomination and it's no go area though your cousin is at fault too,she shouldn't be dressing anyhow in your presence,ladies has turn the society to something else,if they tell you to always dress decent its because of stuff like this, God knows men are easily moved to erection because their private is outside that's why he warned us to dress decent.may God help us

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by BabaIbo: 11:13am On Feb 19, 2022
candidladyTemp:
sad


God iam ready to trade... Bring back aliyah and lefteye, take this pervert


You are not normal.... Are you guys cursed like em swear for una no no did someone place a spell on y'all





Keep sh*t with this your s*lly tr*sh you post everytime.

People are wired differently, he brought it up here to seek for help because he cares and also have self respect/dignity.

What about those that won't even bring it up here and proceed with their feelings?

People like you make other people shy away from seeking for help whenever they need one.

Fu*king d*rty c*nt of a g*rl.
D*ck s*cker forming hard girl, idi*t!


@OP, please on no condition should you give in to that temptation.
If it is coincidental OR normal way and not pre-planned, it will be better if you caution her on her dressing which may help in reducing the temptation, than proceeding with that thought her dressing is generating.
Or you can get her like 3 or more full/cover non-tight house-cloth as gift, with that act, her sense will tell her where you are driving at.



Again, what if it is a deliberate action? If it is, she will continuously take steps that will put you at risk of falling.
In this case, the safest act will be getting her another apartment entirely because one day you may burst into each other in situation where one of you is stark naked and with the already formulated thought, aborting the mission at that she will be difficult.

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by eedriyz(m): 11:14am On Feb 19, 2022
Maxwell775:

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Your mind is really dirty. And it's not worth it. Don't even dare!
See her as what she really is, "your sister." Take that "cousin" part out of it, it seemed to be confusing you.

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Abovebest(m): 11:14am On Feb 19, 2022
Miroslavv:

He said she is his cousin not blood sister.
I used the word 'imagine'

He should see her as his blood sister
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by obanioluorun: 11:15am On Feb 19, 2022
Maxwell775:
As in.. Before she started living with me, I use to wear boxers when I'm home alone But now I dare not except I wanna disgrace myself.

My erection fit tear my boxers. So I do put on jeans or joggers when I'm home with her.
truly the world is truly coming to an end, just look at yourself, are you saying
your cousin sister, same blood like your own daughter giving you dirty erection even with her complete unclothedness, God forbid, sorry to say that you lack self discipline and control and no sense in your thinking.,

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by mybiz234: 11:15am On Feb 19, 2022
Stedygrowth:
Op, what you're going through is normal. The response you're experiencing is completely biological in nature, remember, you have not met her before. She, being your cousin's sister, does not in any way, stop from being a woman she is. The problem here is that, there is no conditioning between you two that establish the fact that you guys are sisters, as such, there is a clear prediction that if you have opportunity, you will make love to her.
Based on the above submission, I will suggest you help her find a place to stay. Even if she changes the way she dresses from now on, it will not still change anything, because you have been conditioned already. Until you will not rest. So, to be on the safe side, find a place for her as quickly as possible.
This does not require discipline, it require removing or staying away from the source of the stimulus. If you keep staying, you will do it one day.
candidladyTemp, read this comment. It will show you the truth about yourself

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by bhassan20: 11:16am On Feb 19, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Exactly! undecided

Nobody Nobody born with these abilities from birth. Instead these are all learn our minds to understand the boundaries that ought to exist. Same way we train the minds to know that eating other humans is unacceptable behaviour is the same way we train it to know not to objectify them or make intimacy gadgets of them. The mind in turn controls the body and it's every urges. undecided

There is nothing normal about a grown man or woman getting an erection for a woman/man he/she is not directly involved with... unless the man/woman is sick either mentally or physically. undecided

Great bro/sir, You will make a great counsellor.

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by ironbody045: 11:16am On Feb 19, 2022
Maxwell775:
My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got admitted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.

Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.

Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)

Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight trousers or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert. undecided

You just have to sit her down and explain things to her. Don't tell her the erection part. Just advice her that you can have visitors that won't long the way she dresses and also, you don't like it too. I'm sure she will make corrections.
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Unrated900(m): 11:17am On Feb 19, 2022
Maxwell775:
As in.. Before she started living with me, I use to wear boxers when I'm home alone But now I dare not except I wanna disgrace myself.

My erection fit tear my boxers. So I do put on jeans or joggers when I'm home with her.




You self na rubbish person
Thank God death sentence to rapist
Useless boy
Instead of you to go double your hustle
You are there looking at a small girl who would put you in problem and play you back like maguire of man United
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by kkins25(m): 11:19am On Feb 19, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Exactly! undecided
There is nothing normal about a grown man or woman getting an erection for a woman/man he/she is not directly involved with... unless the man/woman is sick either mentally or physically. undecided
LOL. just like how one man said, "kissing on first date is sick. until the wife reminded him that they actually kissed on the first date"
men!
Any way sha, my question is- before that lets get rid of the apostle paul archetype for now-
Surely, What drives a man to a woman?

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by snoopz: 11:20am On Feb 19, 2022
Clapping ass with coke bottle shape? If she no leave your house I fit bet say you go bang her soon
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by remitarich(f): 11:21am On Feb 19, 2022
when it arose, abeg tell it to calm down that the lady its pointing at is ur sister and it can penetrate.....
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Loreettaa: 11:21am On Feb 19, 2022
olisaEze:
You’ve got a problem and it’s not your cousin’s dress sense, it’s ur own mind!

From the get-go it appears u don’t think of her as a sister, if not, whats with all the excuses about mini skirts & bum shorts. Abi Oga, if ur mom wears bum shorts for ur dad, will ur pr*ck still stand??

Abeg getat joor with ur corrupt mind!
Instead of looking out for a girl that trusts u as her big bros, ure already set on taking advantage of her naivety! Fricking scum!! angry






Buh wait first.... u say the body na coke bottle ni, which side ur house dey first?? angry

My friend, don’t look at me that way, she’s wrong for you and right for others. I am others!! cool grin
grin grin

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by ikorodureporta: 11:24am On Feb 19, 2022
You can't be lodging ashawo without shinning her one day cheesy just go hold family meeting for her head....
Apart from that, she's already placed you in a bad & dangerous position, even if she starts dressing well, that feelings will never go away...until you smash that thing cheesy cheesy

Just relocate, dash her the house cheesy

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Aloof: 11:24am On Feb 19, 2022
Maxwell775:
My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got admitted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.

Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.

Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)

Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight trousers or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert. undecided

I wish I'm in your shoes, I would fvuck the hell out of her and heaven will not fall, see description bikonu grin
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Jayjobs: 11:26am On Feb 19, 2022
A first cousin only shares one set of grandparents with you. They are not directly related to you and nor are they directly related to your siblings or your parents. That's not incest.

afadi2410:
She is your blood for crying out loud,that will be incest!

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